"If you or your sexual partner don't orgasm/cum whilst having sex....
Do you feel like it was a waste of time or are you still satisfied? "
Usually only happens to me but as long as She's satisfied then it's all good |
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Sometimes I like an evening of denial for me and worship for them.
I'm very easily stimulated. If I don't cum it's because that's a conscious choice.
Sometimes I know that something in their headspace is blocking them from reaching that peak. And while it's hard to process sometimes that that isn't a failing on my part, I do know it isn't.
Generally though, I prefer to be able to have that happy post orgasmic headspace together 💜 |
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I think with lots of foreplay it will add to it.
For me it’s about the mind being heightened, everything out of the window but the there and then.
I don’t think it’s ever happened where both haven’t been in the state of pure bliss and not both climaxed.
I’m hoping it never happens either 🫣 |
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It’s only happened a couple of times and I wasn’t bothered at all. Yes, an orgasm is great but I enjoy every other bit of sex just as much. My partner at the time didn’t see it that way and thought I wasn’t turned on enough. |
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I've had very enjoyable sex but not had any orgasms, and it didn't bother me. He climax and that was horny.
So it wasn't a waste of my time.
I've also had an orgasm and the sex wasn't brilliant. I was just very horny and needed fucking. I left frustrated and not satisfied.
I went home and had a play. If felt those sort of meets are a waste of my time, with the prep/travel/time together  |
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By *ez669Man 25 weeks ago
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Its happened a few times to me when the partner involved has had 2 to 3 orgasms
Initially i find it frustrating but never show it, i find if i give it 5 to 10 mins amd go again ill reach my goal on the 2nd attempt |
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By *hilloutMan 25 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
It's not just crossing the finish line but the journey that's enjoyable😁
Sometimes I don't finish, especially if the temperature is too hot🥵
Can't recall the last time a partner didn't get off during sex😈 |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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It depends how long you are in a relationship, as the male of the couple over all we will always cum in a session.
Not always the female.
When we have sex in the morning before work I will always cum, if she doesn't ill come back and finish off the job at lunch time.
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I don't think it's a question of feeling bad but more of an awareness of satisfying your partner. |
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The anti-dep meds I'm on make it really really difficult for me to cum, and getting there can even be almost painful. I am trying to taper myself off the meds now though, so hopefully will regain better control over my body's responses there.
I do feel that I've failed if I'm unable to bring my bedmate(s) to a happy conclusion some way or other. |
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A couple of threesomes I’ve not had an orgasm but I’ve loved giving attention to two ladies. Sometimes when the focus is not solely on each other it’s easier - plenty of stimulation and enjoyed it thoroughly…🥵 |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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I ask them why they couldn’t make me orgasm.
We then can come up with a plan of action. Maybe watch a few instructional videos and I’ll light some Yankee candles to get her in the mood to try again. |
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"If you or your sexual partner don't orgasm/cum whilst having sex....
Are you meant to cum?
Is she meant to orgasm?
Is it not just about burning calories?"
I think of it more as my only form of cardio 💜 |
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"If you or your sexual partner don't orgasm/cum whilst having sex....
Do you feel like it was a waste of time or are you still satisfied? "
Hang on, women can cum too?? Where’s this important information been….?
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By *kryanMan 25 weeks ago
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I like to meke them come as much as possible but i have on a few times not been able to cum, my question is can a lass fake squirting, all of my sexual seshions have always involved squirting and i dont normally come until after |
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Quite amusing how many off the men on the thread claim the women cum everytime some even multiple times.. How little they know  ..
Sometimes I only feel like making my husband cum I'm still satisfied tho as I have done what I wanted to do. For me satisfaction comes from making others happy so regardless of if I cum I always feel satisfied.. X |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"If you or your sexual partner don't orgasm/cum whilst having sex....
Are you meant to cum?
Is she meant to orgasm?
Is it not just about burning calories?
I think of it more as my only form of cardio 💜"
My pacemaker wouldn't cope  |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"If you or your sexual partner don't orgasm/cum whilst having sex....
Do you feel like it was a waste of time or are you still satisfied?
Hang on, women can cum too?? Where’s this important information been….?
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Narrator - Woody opens “Book of Sex!” And begins to read the contents.
Page 1 - Foreplay … skim reads
Page 2 - The Clit …. …. …. Looks for the page but seems to be missing as he can’t find it
Page 3 - The ladies Orgasm … Woody decides to return back to that one.
Page 4 - The BlowJob … Ahhh, tribally the juicy stuff!! He sits down gets himself comfortable and pours himself a stiff one….
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