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By *_Mr.K_x OP Man 13 weeks ago
Somewhere between Hades and Narnia |
Just a quick question really...
I find it difficult to cum with just a BJ... it hadn't happened for the longest time (and only occasionally) I dunno why... whether I'm in my head or get impatient etc.. but either I'm stubborn or what...
But it's only happened a handful of times and the most recent whilst I was driving (very hot)
Although, I have no issues at all when it's the other way round when I'm giving oral... I tend to be able to do it quite easily and frequently but whilst I know orgasms aren't the be all and end all when it comes to sex (I've enjoyed times where endless fun has been had) there is a certain cathartic release that occurs when someone else is in complete control and manages to push all the right buttons.
Does this happen to anyone else? |
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"Just a quick question really...
I find it difficult to cum with just a BJ... it hadn't happened for the longest time (and only occasionally) I dunno why... whether I'm in my head or get impatient etc.. but either I'm stubborn or what...
But it's only happened a handful of times and the most recent whilst I was driving (very hot)
Although, I have no issues at all when it's the other way round when I'm giving oral... I tend to be able to do it quite easily and frequently but whilst I know orgasms aren't the be all and end all when it comes to sex (I've enjoyed times where endless fun has been had) there is a certain cathartic release that occurs when someone else is in complete control and manages to push all the right buttons.
Does this happen to anyone else?"
I’ve never cum when receiving oral without having to finish myself off |
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By *_Mr.K_x OP Man 13 weeks ago
Somewhere between Hades and Narnia |
"You had a bj whilst driving your car?
I did, yes
I don’t get. Why is putting other people at risk just to get your rocks off somehow cool? "
Most of the time, we were parked up.. it began whilst driving but then after a minute, I pulled up somewhere safe as it required a bit of concentration |
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"I’ve never cum through oral and I just don’t know why because I love it 😩
Maybe they just haven’t done what I needed or I’ve held back without realising I just don’t know 🥺"
Ooo now there’s a challenge  |
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"Not yet .
I take ages to cum and always think the other person must get bored 🫣sucking my dick "
I'm definitely not saying the silly thing some people say of "you haven't met the right person", because some people simply don't cum from oral (or other stimulation) and that's perfectly normal - but I wanted to address the 'giver getting bored' comment ... just an fyi some people **love** giving bjs and the idea of being able to pleasure a partner for a loooonng time in that way is exciting. It's about the journey not the destination 😎 |
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"I’ve never cum through oral and I just don’t know why because I love it 😩
Maybe they just haven’t done what I needed or I’ve held back without realising I just don’t know 🥺
Ooo now there’s a challenge "
If I had a pound for every time a lady has said that to me I would have £3 now 😂 |
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"I’ve never cum through oral and I just don’t know why because I love it 😩
Maybe they just haven’t done what I needed or I’ve held back without realising I just don’t know 🥺
Ooo now there’s a challenge
If I had a pound for every time a lady has said that to me I would have £3 now 😂"
I’d of made £50 though  |
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"I’ve never cum through oral and I just don’t know why because I love it 😩
Maybe they just haven’t done what I needed or I’ve held back without realising I just don’t know 🥺
Ooo now there’s a challenge
If I had a pound for every time a lady has said that to me I would have £3 now 😂
I’d of made £50 though "
Let’s join forces then   |
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I have, but not very often. Maybe three women have done it.
Perhaps it’s because receiving it feels so good that I don’t want it to stop, so there’s a part of my brain holding back? Whatever the reason, oral without an orgasm still feels fantastic. |
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By *vaRose43Woman 13 weeks ago
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"Not yet .
I take ages to cum and always think the other person must get bored 🫣sucking my dick
I'm definitely not saying the silly thing some people say of "you haven't met the right person", because some people simply don't cum from oral (or other stimulation) and that's perfectly normal - but I wanted to address the 'giver getting bored' comment ... just an fyi some people **love** giving bjs and the idea of being able to pleasure a partner for a loooonng time in that way is exciting. It's about the journey not the destination 😎"
Absolutely this. As long as everyone is enjoying themselves then there is no getting bored at all |
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By *_Mr.K_x OP Man 13 weeks ago
Somewhere between Hades and Narnia |
"Not yet .
I take ages to cum and always think the other person must get bored 🫣sucking my dick
I'm definitely not saying the silly thing some people say of "you haven't met the right person", because some people simply don't cum from oral (or other stimulation) and that's perfectly normal - but I wanted to address the 'giver getting bored' comment ... just an fyi some people **love** giving bjs and the idea of being able to pleasure a partner for a loooonng time in that way is exciting. It's about the journey not the destination 😎
Absolutely this. As long as everyone is enjoying themselves then there is no getting bored at all "
I never said it was boring, my dear x I'd very much be welcoming of you to try 😈 |
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By *cott14Man 13 weeks ago
Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton |
"Not yet .
I take ages to cum and always think the other person must get bored 🫣sucking my dick
I'm definitely not saying the silly thing some people say of "you haven't met the right person", because some people simply don't cum from oral (or other stimulation) and that's perfectly normal - but I wanted to address the 'giver getting bored' comment ... just an fyi some people **love** giving bjs and the idea of being able to pleasure a partner for a loooonng time in that way is exciting. It's about the journey not the destination 😎"
Yep , I get it . I love giving long , sensual oral , it’s one of my biggest turn ons .
It’s never about the Cumming , it’s about about the foreplay and teasing 😈 |
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Many times.
Though if I do or how quick mostly depends on who was doing it and how. I don't know what one of my ex's used to do but she was always wanting to swallow that first load and usually got it to. |
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I'm seeing a common trend here. Us men find it hard to cum wi oral. Me included but on one occasion only they 69 I had one partner make me cum TWICE 30 secs apart!!!!
Completely unexpected. I suppose it is a mix of to he other person and them reassuring you they are ok and to stop wondering are they tired. Bored. Sore. Etc. Trust the other person. Get fully into it
And yes I still find it near impossible to cum thru iral. Just my experiences... |
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The best blow job I've had I remember for the oddest of reasons
It's the only head I've ever had that made me cum without the use of hands or any face fucking
Anyway, the odd thing is as I was sat in a post cum haze, it flashed up on the TV that MJ had moonwalked for the last time
So, the best oral I ever had was 25th June 2009 |
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By *hilloutMan 13 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
A nice sloppy blow job will have me erupting, though I can normally control when I'll want it to happen😁
It's also the perfect way to quickly get a repeat rise out of me😈 |
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"Just a quick question really...
I find it difficult to cum with just a BJ... it hadn't happened for the longest time (and only occasionally) I dunno why... whether I'm in my head or get impatient etc.. but either I'm stubborn or what...
But it's only happened a handful of times and the most recent whilst I was driving (very hot)
Although, I have no issues at all when it's the other way round when I'm giving oral... I tend to be able to do it quite easily and frequently but whilst I know orgasms aren't the be all and end all when it comes to sex (I've enjoyed times where endless fun has been had) there is a certain cathartic release that occurs when someone else is in complete control and manages to push all the right buttons.
Does this happen to anyone else?"
Honestly, I'd almost challenge a girl to that
I find it damn hard to go off from oral alone, if a girl CAN do it.i'm damn Impressed.. |
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By *_Mr.K_x OP Man 13 weeks ago
Somewhere between Hades and Narnia |
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Honestly, I'd almost challenge a girl to that
I find it damn hard to go off from oral alone, if a girl CAN do it.i'm damn Impressed.."
Weirdly, this is kinda how it began. We got talking about stuff we'd like to do and my stubbornness came up... she said she'd give it her best effort and my word, she delivered and then some.
If anyone else fancies the challenge, my inbox is always open 😉 |
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It’s usually down to bad technique in my experience.
Every woman who has made me cum through oral has used the same technique.
I guess it’s the same with men giving oral to women although some women can be self conscious about a guy being down there so can’t relax. |
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A few people can make me cum through oral, but the majority cannot make me cum.
Basically most people are too rough and give your cock and balls a right pounding with there hand as they are sucking on your cock which become painful after a while or they densensitise your cock end.
Those who go carefully and gently with putting some thought into it rather than get it over as quick as possible are the ones who succede. |
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"Just a quick question really...
I find it difficult to cum with just a BJ... it hadn't happened for the longest time (and only occasionally) I dunno why... whether I'm in my head or get impatient etc.. but either I'm stubborn or what...
But it's only happened a handful of times and the most recent whilst I was driving (very hot)
Although, I have no issues at all when it's the other way round when I'm giving oral... I tend to be able to do it quite easily and frequently but whilst I know orgasms aren't the be all and end all when it comes to sex (I've enjoyed times where endless fun has been had) there is a certain cathartic release that occurs when someone else is in complete control and manages to push all the right buttons.
Does this happen to anyone else?"
Never through oral
And I've had girls who can deepthroat etc and all that jazz but I've never got close during oral |
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Slowly slowly and I’m ready to erupt.
The times when I’m not feeling it is when someone is going all in trying to work it hard.
I just guide them to slowing it down and I get there much quicker 🥵
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By *_Mr.K_x OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"I’m can from oral
I also like a challenge from anyone who say they can’t 😈
I think you're inbox is about to explode.
🏃🏼♀️➡️runs to close inbox 😁"
My inbox is also open x 😉 |
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"I’ve never cum through oral and I just don’t know why because I love it 😩
Maybe they just haven’t done what I needed or I’ve held back without realising I just don’t know 🥺
Ooo now there’s a challenge "
You n I the,same |
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"Just a quick question really...
I find it difficult to cum with just a BJ... it hadn't happened for the longest time (and only occasionally) I dunno why... whether I'm in my head or get impatient etc.. but either I'm stubborn or what...
But it's only happened a handful of times and the most recent whilst I was driving (very hot)
Although, I have no issues at all when it's the other way round when I'm giving oral... I tend to be able to do it quite easily and frequently but whilst I know orgasms aren't the be all and end all when it comes to sex (I've enjoyed times where endless fun has been had) there is a certain cathartic release that occurs when someone else is in complete control and manages to push all the right buttons.
Does this happen to anyone else?"
Same here, I have to be really excited to cum from a BJ |
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By *C44Man 13 weeks ago
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Very quickly for me which is a real shame 😂 everything else takes longer but a bj will finish me pretty quick. Being with someone who knows that and knows how to edge orally for a long time has in the past turned me in to literal jelly |
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Honestly, I'd almost challenge a girl to that
I find it damn hard to go off from oral alone, if a girl CAN do it.i'm damn Impressed..
Weirdly, this is kinda how it began. We got talking about stuff we'd like to do and my stubbornness came up... she said she'd give it her best effort and my word, she delivered and then some.
If anyone else fancies the challenge, my inbox is always open 😉"
Hah, if only. xD
Not sure I've encountered a girl that's managed that yet.
Tried and got close, though. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"I take ages to cum and always think the other person must get bored 🫣sucking my dick "
Same. Although i can sometimes cum from oral if its on the beach or while im driving. Must be the angle, or "not thinking" that finally lets it happen.
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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I am one of the ones who never has cum from oral alone. I would love to experience the feeling one day.
I am not a guy who cums fast anyway, so when a woman is doing it, most of the time she becomes bored and we move on to something else.
Shame though, as I would love to one day. Maybe it is the pressure, Mayne too old to break the dreadlock? |
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"Just a quick question really...
I find it difficult to cum with just a BJ... it hadn't happened for the longest time (and only occasionally) I dunno why... whether I'm in my head or get impatient etc.. but either I'm stubborn or what...
But it's only happened a handful of times and the most recent whilst I was driving (very hot)
Although, I have no issues at all when it's the other way round when I'm giving oral... I tend to be able to do it quite easily and frequently but whilst I know orgasms aren't the be all and end
all when it comes to sex (I've enjoyed times where endless fun has been had) there is a certain cathartic release that occurs when someone else is in complete control and manages to push all the right buttons.
Does this happen to anyone else?"
No I’ve never came from oral. Not really fussed on it to be honest. Bores me lol
Nothing beats some clit play and a good pounding lol |
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I rarely orgasm from oral with a man and I'm all for it happening. I don't seem to have had that problem with a woman though.
On the flip side, I haven't had oral sex with a man who hasn't or can't cum while receiving oral. 🤔 |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"I rarely orgasm from oral with a man and I'm all for it happening. I don't seem to have had that problem with a woman though.
On the flip side, I haven't had oral sex with a man who hasn't or can't cum while receiving oral. 🤔"
Do women do it better or is it a mental thing?
Wow, you must be amazing if a guy never failed to cum! wow! |
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We both come hard and enjoy oral she loves the challenge of making me come keeping me so close and making it last , I love to be between her thighs feeling her body tense as she gets closer to orgasm snd then the involuntary spasms as she cumsx something that she can’t hide.
I am very surprised to hear of men who don’t give their wives oral it’s a major part of our sex play |
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By *eilde HoarWoman 12 weeks ago
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I never used to cum from oral, until an amazing guy walked Into my life, now it's my favourite way to orgasm.
Funnily enough he was the same, so we are happily being peas in the same pod.
I always say never say never, you just haven't met the right person yet  |
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"Not yet .
I take ages to cum and always think the other person must get bored 🫣sucking my dick
I'm definitely not saying the silly thing some people say of "you haven't met the right person", because some people simply don't cum from oral (or other stimulation) and that's perfectly normal - but I wanted to address the 'giver getting bored' comment ... just an fyi some people **love** giving bjs and the idea of being able to pleasure a partner for a loooonng time in that way is exciting. It's about the journey not the destination 😎"
Someone kept me on the edge for over half an hour once never experienced anything like it was unreal |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"My own research suggests about 95% cum fine through oral, the others had to wank furoiusly while I teabagged them.. "
wow! Can I make it slightly higher than 95%? |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"My own research suggests about 95% cum fine through oral, the others had to wank furoiusly while I teabagged them.. "
Sorry but I think you need to do more research!! Haha |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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If you know you never cum from oral then tell the person giving you head. Nothing worse than doing it for ages waiting for that pay off not knowing it won't happen. Time can be spent on other things. |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"If you know you never cum from oral then tell the person giving you head. Nothing worse than doing it for ages waiting for that pay off not knowing it won't happen. Time can be spent on other things. "
very true it's only polite
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"I reckon all these straight guys in here that can’t cum from oral have received some pretty poor head. "
Do you honestly think that every man has to be able to cum from a blow job and if he can't it's because he's never had a great one?
And I've received plenty of head from men (dressed as women) and women and I can honestly say there is generally no difference in skill level but for some reason I'd say the best ones I've received is from women. |
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"If you know you never cum from oral then tell the person giving you head. Nothing worse than doing it for ages waiting for that pay off not knowing it won't happen. Time can be spent on other things. "
I state it in my profile, and I do tell a new play partner it’s rare for me to cum from a bj. 2017 was the last time I did….  |
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"Maybe get to a club where there are several gloryholes and keep moving along, to sample the different techniques and abilities. "
Lmao! Which clubs do you go to, where there’s more than one woman to choose from in a club gloryhole? |
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I find it incredibly difficult to cum from just a BJ.
So I end up saying this to everyone who performs it on me. However there is one woman who managed it. I told her I wouldn’t cum as she was eager to get down to it after making her cum. Well it started off as normal with absolutely no signs of an orgasm then suddenly that feeling started to build and build before long I had cum in her mouth. She had done nothing different to the others except firm her tongue up rigid.
God I wish I still was in contact with her. Great body and great tits |
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Have similar issues and it can be any number of things
Brain being in the right spot, the right kind of stimulation (physical and mental), hand motion, suction, rhythm and even angle can be an issue.
But with the right partner this can just mean lots of fun experimenting. |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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"You had a bj whilst driving your car?
We’ve all done it 
We definately all haven’t."
Ive had BJs from quite a few different while ive been driving.
I never cum though, but a lot of women do it. |
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