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How do you find people on fab?
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By *rishb26 OP Man 25 weeks ago
kilkenny area |
Hey everyone, curious to know how do you guys find people on here? I usually go through the most fab’d pictures and videos, but I’m curious do people have preferences or ways they prefer finding people? |
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By *ir tootMan 25 weeks ago
Burton-on-Trent |
"I prefer showing up to clubs and meeting people there.
Though there's some lovely people in the forums and I've been happy to meet some of them at the group socials 💜"
That's probably how I'm gonna meet people, most of the people near burton seem inactive. |
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"Who’s near is tough for me being from a rural area. So I’m jealous to say the least! Haha"
I live in the middle of the arse end of nowhere; believe me, I feel you on that. :P
As for the forum interactions, I just kinda participate in whatever topics interest me. I enjoy doing the forum games and have made quite a few friends from them. |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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My method has been forums mainly.
Socials also, but only more recently. Previously I was the mushroom at the dark corner of the room. Scared.
Never used search feature here to find a list of people. Couldn’t bring myself to do it. Not engaging or entertaining enough, and certainly not going do use the two worded approaches. I have Decorum and self respect.
Albeit, I think that I might be in the process of change confidence wise.
Chad Thundercock |
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By *eliWoman 25 weeks ago
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I don't find them because I'm never actively looking if that makes sense?
I like friendships first. Where we're both equally as engaged with each other, asking questions, learning. And then sometimes they take a different direction and I find myself thinking about them undressed. Kissing them. I think I'm a bit weird though.  |
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By *ir tootMan 25 weeks ago
Burton-on-Trent |
"My method has been forums mainly.
Socials also, but only more recently. Previously I was the mushroom at the dark corner of the room. Scared.
Never used search feature here to find a list of people. Couldn’t bring myself to do it. Not engaging or entertaining enough, and certainly not going do use the two worded approaches. I have Decorum and self respect.
Albeit, I think that I might be in the process of change confidence wise.
Chad Thundercock "
Same here on the confidence part I've improved so much, now if only I could put some effort into my bio and pics! |
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By *rishb26 OP Man 25 weeks ago
kilkenny area |
"I don't find them because I'm never actively looking if that makes sense?
I like friendships first. Where we're both equally as engaged with each other, asking questions, learning. And then sometimes they take a different direction and I find myself thinking about them undressed. Kissing them. I think I'm a bit weird though. "
Definitely the most natural way for sure. I haven’t got the chance to meet many on here, still trying to naturally meet like you said. Replied in forum without a quote there a few times lol |
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"I don't find them because I'm never actively looking if that makes sense?
I like friendships first. Where we're both equally as engaged with each other, asking questions, learning. And then sometimes they take a different direction and I find myself thinking about them undressed. Kissing them. I think I'm a bit weird though. "
Meli… This is so real |
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I’ve got chatting to a lot of people through the Lounge.
I also keep an eye on the event threads and meets when I’m going to one. I usually create a meet so others can find me too.
I have various saved searches I look through regularly. |
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"Thank you chad thundercock! Fantastic name."
I've just read the meaning of The Kakapo. Made me chuckle.
Speaking of that, why don't you move from rural Ireland to the great London and South East?
I don't have to look for Fabbers. They cum to me from right across London and the "Home Counties". |
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I don’t really look for them OP. I like to make friends through the forum and organised socials and go from there. Fab really can be a great social place for like minded people. In my experience. ♥️ |
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Mixture but I use who’s near, check new pics, see who looked at me. See who fabbed my pics etc. my first meet came about because I sent her a wink…
More recently, I’ve met women at group socials and arranged a one to one social at a later date and go from there. |
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"Hey everyone, curious to know how do you guys find people on here? I usually go through the most fab’d pictures and videos, but I’m curious do people have preferences or ways they prefer finding people?"
I never go looking, they come to me! |
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Side note - I’ve noticed that since fab updated the “local updates” feature I seem to get significantly less messages. It’s flawed because many many people don’t put “men” in the looking for field, due to reasons of discretion.
So they’ve made it harder to now find people in passing
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"Hey everyone, curious to know how do you guys find people on here? I usually go through the most fab’d pictures and videos, but I’m curious do people have preferences or ways they prefer finding people?
I never go looking, they come to me!"
Lol |
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"Hey everyone, curious to know how do you guys find people on here? I usually go through the most fab’d pictures and videos, but I’m curious do people have preferences or ways they prefer finding people?"
They find me  |
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By *HUSH-Man 25 weeks ago
London |
Some via the forum and a few from replies to my messages.
Others have found me and usually fabbed or winked. One in particular I’d like to get to know more as we’ve had some back and forth on the forums but her filters currently don’t allow men to message her.
*curses them filters
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People find me lol. I never message first, rarely if I do and even then it's been only to compliment someone, there was a forum user (no longer around these parts or changed their name) who had a brilliant username and profile, that was an exception to my "not messaging first" |
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By *eah BabyCouple 25 weeks ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"Hey everyone, curious to know how do you guys find people on here? I usually go through the most fab’d pictures and videos, but I’m curious do people have preferences or ways they prefer finding people?"
I wouldn’t have thought this would be a successful way as surely those people will have a zillion messages in their inbox 
We are lazy fabbers these days, kind of right place at the right time if someone messages that takes our fancy, planning is not our strong point anymore |
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