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🤔😜 YES or NO 🤔😜
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By *hillout OP Man 29 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Please state YES or NO if a meet (social or otherwise) has come about from someone having messaged you first.
NO in my case
Over to you 😁 |
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By *.hrisMan 29 weeks ago
Bath |
Yes, the only meets (on old profile) were from people messaging me first. |
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Yes |
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By *hillout OP Man 29 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Seems I'm clearly in the minority camp so far 😅 |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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No women message?!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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Yes - in all my cases |
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By *hillout OP Man 29 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Nope  "
I feel your pain brother
Give it time. You've not been here long. I'm sure that'll change 😁 |
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By *hillout OP Man 29 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
29:9 in favour of YES so far |
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I think it’s a lot easier for couples with a bi partner you can literally put a status up of what you’re looking for and women reply but single men are competing with 1000s of other single men |
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By *hillout OP Man 29 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I think it’s a lot easier for couples with a bi partner you can literally put a status up of what you’re looking for and women reply but single men are competing with 1000s of other single men "
So is it a YES or NO from your end? |
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Yes.
Not that it really matters. Someone has to message first …. |
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Thinking about it;
It nearly happened - she didn't turn up.
Does that count?  |
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By *ripfillMan 29 weeks ago
Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant |
Yes … |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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Yes, but pre turning 50, lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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Yes. |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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No |
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Yes but only on one occasion when we posted a meet at ours, it was late in the evening and very unexpected inbox followed by her being at our a hour later   |
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No
It’s very rare I get messaged first, and if I do it usually a forum message lol |
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YES
But it's more likely to be me messaging first tbh. |
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By *ltrMan 29 weeks ago
sheffield |
Yes social then fun |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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Yes. |
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Yes.
And I've had sent messages and they have turned into meets/socials. It hasn't happened very often |
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Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeees!! |
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By *ucka39Man 29 weeks ago
Newcastle |
Yes, when I joined then it just continued |
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Yes it has happened.
Hoping it will happen again soon with someone who messaged recently, very unexpectedly 🤞 |
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Yes. And currently sat in Starbucks waiting for her to give me the green light that she is 'ready'. |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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Yes |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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Yes |
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By *hillout OP Man 29 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
67:17 in favour of YES thus far.
More lopsided than I expected... |
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Yes - but it’s been several years! |
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By *hillout OP Man 29 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Hmmm...I wonder what is it I've been doing wrong all these years?🤷♂️ |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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Yes |
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By *hillout OP Man 29 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
78:17 for YES. Even more lopsided. |
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We have boobs on our profile - of course yes 😛 |
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By *hillout OP Man 29 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Nope. 😭"
I feel your pain too 😉 |
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By *hillout OP Man 29 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Current count 83:19 in favour of YES. Lots of happy, lucky people 😁 |
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Yes .. I never message first lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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Yes |
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Unbelievably, it’s about to happen |
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By *reya73Woman 29 weeks ago
Whitley Bay |
Oh wait I read it as me having messaged first.
Yes and yes.. Both |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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Nooo |
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YES.
Pretty much all of my meets. |
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Yes
But never the other way round - I've never yet met anyone that I messaged first. |
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By *hillout OP Man 29 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Yes. Plenty of times. "
No surprise with a profile like yours 😁 |
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Yeah we misunderstood and deleted |
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"YES. Pretty much all of my meets. "
Mine too. |
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By *odgerMan 29 weeks ago
Coventry(ish)London |
Yes...only had a few women contact me first but the result has always been good |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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Not yet… |
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By *hillout OP Man 29 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Current count 110:28 in favour of YES. |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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Yes to socials and meets |
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"Current count 110:28 in favour of YES."
I'm in that NO count. And looking through, it appears to have a Yes, I need to be female, a couple, or have a 6 pack. So..I'm off to the gym 😂 |
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yes and inbox is open wink wink |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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Yes….even though we have no pictures on our profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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Yep |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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Yes |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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Do people send messages lol |
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By *hillout OP Man 29 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Final count is 121:34 in favour of YES.
I'm actually surprised at the number of yes answers. Now feel as if I've been missing out on something here
It would be a welcome change being chased as opposed to always doing the chasing...ah well.
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