I worked in a team where a woman hugged everyone and it became a nice team thing.
I've left that team but bumped into an ex teammie (heterosexual man, proud grandad etc) and he gave me a lovely hug! I am reminded and miss it!
We should all hug a lot more! |
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Not in the slightest.
I’m affectionate in a relationship or in the heat of the moment. But I don’t hug friends or family unless there’s a really good reason. And then it’s more of an awkward arm pat. |
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I can be really affectionate when in a relationship and give a hug often.
I love recieving a hug from someone who I've chatted too for a while and we finally meet. they make me smile, a lot and can give me flutters if I know that sex is very likely to happen
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Yes!!! Hugging just fills up my love tank big time as long as it's not a wet limp hug. If you're gonna hug me, then hug me properly, two arms,big squeeze, rest there for a moment or two, maybe a little back rub and then release. I seriously need more hugs in my life x |
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"Yes!!! Hugging just fills up my love tank big time as long as it's not a wet limp hug. If you're gonna hug me, then hug me properly, two arms,big squeeze, rest there for a moment or two, maybe a little back rub and then release. I seriously need more hugs in my life x"
No bum squeeze?  |
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Yes, if I like you.
Strangers no.
I worked with a man who had to hug everyone. It was very awkward.
Holding hands and being generally tactile also but with people I like. I can’t even sleep in the same bed without a leave them alone.  |
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"Yes!!! Hugging just fills up my love tank big time as long as it's not a wet limp hug. If you're gonna hug me, then hug me properly, two arms,big squeeze, rest there for a moment or two, maybe a little back rub and then release. I seriously need more hugs in my life x
No bum squeeze? "
Definitely depends who's doing the hugging and squeezing |
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Only with certain people, those I care for. And only if they're OK with it too. I've got an awful lot of ND family and friends, and many of them have an invisible 2 foot barrier around themselves.
With lovers I'm very tactile and affectionate until it's time to go to sleep. Touch me at your peril when I'm trying to sleep. |
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"Love a hug
No one loves a hug with me tho"
Sounds odd but I find a hug more intimate than sex.. I can generally have sex with lots of women I don't like and vice versa but I'm.not sure I can fake a hug and I know I'd tell if someone hugged me without really wanting too. |
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By *eliWoman 25 weeks ago
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I don't know. I'm quite tactile and love hugs from those I'm close to. But I hate being hugged when I'm sad (sensory overload). I don't really like hugs from work colleagues unless I'm close to them. I hate limp hugs, I like to be held. I'm a fussy hugger. |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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I never used to be with anyone outside my family but it's something I've become more used to doing. I'm not sure what triggered more of that openness to hug but it's nice to hug and be hugged  |
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