People do really confuse me on this site sometimes.
Yesterday someone was looking to meet. We have spoken before so I messaged to see if they were busy and wanted to arrange something. Then I start being left on read and next thing a veri pops up from a webcam meet they had just done.
Yes I got binned off for a video wank 
Someone else messaged me. Chatted for a bit, asked for some pictures and added me as a friend. Said they wanted to get to know me better.
This morning I'm blocked
I know it's a rant and I apologise but I really just don't understand it sometimes no matter what angle I try and see it from.
It really does just seem like very few people are on here for the genuine reason, and I think that is so thing you need to accept if you want to take this site seriously
Anyways, morning all! |
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Maybe they don’t like the REME 🤣
But reading what you have said you were speaking to someone and then messaged ti see if they wanted to meet. They didn’t respond but had a cam veri
There are times where sometimes the chat or messages can go on too long and people then doubt there’s ever an intention to meet and all the other person wants is chat.
I think and feel that both sides have to be honest and upfront about whether they want to meet, just want chat, maybe just fun or have lost interest |
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OP - with respect, I would look at the way you are verifying people are actually who they say they are.
It sounds to me as if you have actually been chatting to guys who were pretending they were female - basically you have just been wank bait for them. |
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"Maybe they don’t like the REME 🤣
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Oh God there's always one 
To be fair a lot of people do say they aren't looking to meet which is fair.
But then don't say you are and then go quiet when someone actually offers it you, that's just weird
And yeah I think someone did just want a wank bank but they have been on here a long time and verified so would have liked to think they were genuine |
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"People do really confuse me on this site sometimes.
Yesterday someone was looking to meet. We have spoken before so I messaged to see if they were busy and wanted to arrange something. Then I start being left on read and next thing a veri pops up from a webcam meet they had just done.
Yes I got binned off for a video wank
Someone else messaged me. Chatted for a bit, asked for some pictures and added me as a friend. Said they wanted to get to know me better.
This morning I'm blocked
I know it's a rant and I apologise but I really just don't understand it sometimes no matter what angle I try and see it from.
It really does just seem like very few people are on here for the genuine reason, and I think that is so thing you need to accept if you want to take this site seriously
Anyways, morning all! "
The first person maybe couldn't be arsed to get ready for a physical meet and opted for the ease of webcamming.
The second maybe didn't like your face.
Who knows? 🤷🏾♂️ |
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"People do really confuse me on this site sometimes.
Yesterday someone was looking to meet. We have spoken before so I messaged to see if they were busy and wanted to arrange something. Then I start being left on read and next thing a veri pops up from a webcam meet they had just done.
Yes I got binned off for a video wank
Someone else messaged me. Chatted for a bit, asked for some pictures and added me as a friend. Said they wanted to get to know me better.
This morning I'm blocked
I know it's a rant and I apologise but I really just don't understand it sometimes no matter what angle I try and see it from.
It really does just seem like very few people are on here for the genuine reason, and I think that is so thing you need to accept if you want to take this site seriously
Anyways, morning all!
The first person maybe couldn't be arsed to get ready for a physical meet and opted for the ease of webcamming.
The second maybe didn't like your face.
Who knows? 🤷🏾♂️"
Nobody knows. And probably never will lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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I totally get where you’re coming from and can relate to that too.
I blocked someone who I had a meet with. More a social with a little fumble and a kiss. We left agreeing we would meet a week later for some bedroom fun. All seemed good and the chat continued except a few days later a cam veri appeared on her profile. Now I’m not one to worry about things like that or even people seeing others on here. What rang alarm bells to me was that when I asked whether she found it fun she denied any cam sessions and tried to tell me the cam was this site verifying she was a woman…. I don’t like deceit so after a few more messages and messages that just seemed wrong I said my goodbyes and blocked her.
There’s a lot of people on here who have no intention to meet
There’s a lot who want to meet a few people
There’s a lot who just want one fwb
But there’s a lot who tell lies. And those for me are the worst kind. |
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"Maybe they don’t like the REME 🤣
Oh God there's always one
To be fair a lot of people do say they aren't looking to meet which is fair.
But then don't say you are and then go quiet when someone actually offers it you, that's just weird
And yeah I think someone did just want a wank bank but they have been on here a long time and verified so would have liked to think they were genuine "
They might want to meet but why should they meet you just because you offered? 
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"People do really confuse me on this site sometimes.
Yesterday someone was looking to meet. We have spoken before so I messaged to see if they were busy and wanted to arrange something. Then I start being left on read and next thing a veri pops up from a webcam meet they had just done.
Yes I got binned off for a video wank
Someone else messaged me. Chatted for a bit, asked for some pictures and added me as a friend. Said they wanted to get to know me better.
This morning I'm blocked
I know it's a rant and I apologise but I really just don't understand it sometimes no matter what angle I try and see it from.
It really does just seem like very few people are on here for the genuine reason, and I think that is so thing you need to accept if you want to take this site seriously
Anyways, morning all! "
What's the genuine reason to be on here? |
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"People do really confuse me on this site sometimes.
Yesterday someone was looking to meet. We have spoken before so I messaged to see if they were busy and wanted to arrange something. Then I start being left on read and next thing a veri pops up from a webcam meet they had just done.
Yes I got binned off for a video wank
Someone else messaged me. Chatted for a bit, asked for some pictures and added me as a friend. Said they wanted to get to know me better.
This morning I'm blocked
I know it's a rant and I apologise but I really just don't understand it sometimes no matter what angle I try and see it from.
It really does just seem like very few people are on here for the genuine reason, and I think that is so thing you need to accept if you want to take this site seriously
Anyways, morning all!
What's the genuine reason to be on here? "
Get to know people and hopefully lead to whatever both parties are actually looking for
Which if that is to share pictures to use as a wank bank then so be it, just be honest about it |
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The first one wanted a meet but not necessarily with you. They decided cam would do as they didn’t have someone lined up who they wanted to meet. job done.
The second took a closer look at you decided not interested.
I don’t see how this is confusing. |
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"The first one wanted a meet but not necessarily with you. They decided cam would do as they didn’t have someone lined up who they wanted to meet. job done.
The second took a closer look at you decided not interested.
I don’t see how this is confusing. "
It's just irritating when someone is messaging you saying they like your profile and photos and then the next day they block you.
Surely you can see how that is confusing? |
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"The first one wanted a meet but not necessarily with you. They decided cam would do as they didn’t have someone lined up who they wanted to meet. job done.
The second took a closer look at you decided not interested.
I don’t see how this is confusing.
It's just irritating when someone is messaging you saying they like your profile and photos and then the next day they block you.
Surely you can see how that is confusing? "
Not really I'd just assume they were bored and got the entertainment they were looking for, went off me for some reason or something in our interaction put them off.
Annoying maybe confusing not so much |
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To be fair there's quite a few we've chatted to recently seem to get off over the idea of meeting/swinging but actually don't have the gonads to actually go through with it.
Or, their profile says they're looking for X or into Y and when you speak it's suddenly "no we don't do that".... hmmm. But you advertise you do!?! |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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Confusing or more frustrating?
It’s more frustrating for me. If you’ve been chatting they should have the decency to message to say they’ve changed their mind or even just they don’t want to chat any more. But not everyone understands that.
Manners cost nothing.
I’m afraid you just need to get used to it, accept it happens and move on. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 25 weeks ago
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"The first one wanted a meet but not necessarily with you. They decided cam would do as they didn’t have someone lined up who they wanted to meet. job done.
The second took a closer look at you decided not interested.
I don’t see how this is confusing.
It's just irritating when someone is messaging you saying they like your profile and photos and then the next day they block you.
Surely you can see how that is confusing? "
There's lots of profiles I've engaged with over the years where the profiles look interesting and the photos good.
Chat commences.
Then something puts me off. Either something said or inferred.
So I move on.
Sometimes I also block if I feel it necessary because if I'd given a full explanation as to why, I can guarantee it would have either resulted in abuse or a block from their end.
These are encounters with strangers on the Internet. The more you have, the more often it will happen. Sometimes it's them and sometimes it's you.
It's really not worth stressing about. There are plenty of people to contact, plenty that if you're actually a good match, they'll look to meet and a constant turnover of profiles.
Every day is a new day. |
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"The first one wanted a meet but not necessarily with you. They decided cam would do as they didn’t have someone lined up who they wanted to meet. job done.
The second took a closer look at you decided not interested.
I don’t see how this is confusing.
It's just irritating when someone is messaging you saying they like your profile and photos and then the next day they block you.
Surely you can see how that is confusing? "
Irritating if you let strangers on the internet be that important to you. But not confusing at all. You can only go on what others do not what they think. |
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