I've been on fab for years as part of a couple. Now I'm here as a single (wow jezzzz it's a totally different game as a single  ) anyway.... what's other single ladies preferences when hooking up with couples?
I do love hotels, but don't want to share a room all night, suppose I could set the rules for them to leave afterwards, I choose not to accommodate, my home is my private place & definitely not for fab, feel a bit funny in their house and the nearest club is a 2 hour return trip.... what's everyone else doing?
Hotel is probably my favourite option |
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By *hilloutMan 25 weeks ago
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"I've been on fab for years as part of a couple. Now I'm here as a single (wow jezzzz it's a totally different game as a single ) anyway.... what's other single ladies preferences when hooking up with couples?
I do love hotels, but don't want to share a room all night, suppose I could set the rules for them to leave afterwards, I choose not to accommodate, my home is my private place & definitely not for fab, feel a bit funny in their house and the nearest club is a 2 hour return trip.... what's everyone else doing?
Hotel is probably my favourite option "
It seems you've answered your own question Op. The hotel seems the best choice based on your post.
Surely an occasional 2 hour round-trip would be worth it for the right people?
Would you be less comfortable in being in someone else's home if you'd met them before and established some familiarity? |
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"Totally get how you feel. An option could be an AirBnb, look for those with 2 rooms, sometimes they can be priced similar to a hotel room and you can sleep separately."
Yes, I do like Airbnb, good shout |
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I never stay the whole night unless I know the people in question very well but even then- I do love my own space. I usually am the guest at their hotel room so i leave when I’ve had enough (I’m of a certain age and can’t spend the whole night shagging, haha) of if I’m getting the room I would state that I’d like to retire at a certain time. |
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I have a singles profile too and agree it's very different to this one.
When we've met with women of we've booked a hotel we don't do sleepovers so they'd leave whenever they wanted to, if they'd booked we'd leave too.
We wouldn't invite anyone to put home but have been to others.
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You could pick a club you could stay over at.
My wife and I often visit Club F which doubles aa a hotel up in Stanley, North East England. There's a few ladies like yourself who travel down from Scotland. In fact we have quite a few scottish members.
Eitherway, they'll join the fun then when they've had enough head off back to their own rooms and space.
Not that I'm dropping hints for you to come or anything |
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"You could pick a club you could stay over at.
My wife and I often visit Club F which doubles aa a hotel up in Stanley, North East England. There's a few ladies like yourself who travel down from Scotland. In fact we have quite a few scottish members.
Eitherway, they'll join the fun then when they've had enough head off back to their own rooms and space.
Not that I'm dropping hints for you to come or anything "
I've been a couple of times, a long time ago. That's definitely an option |
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I feel you’ve answered your own question Buttercup, although as others have said, an Airbnb could also be a great option.
Either will be far cleaner, more comfortable, and more private than a swinger club with their sweaty, gaffer-taped judo mats……  |
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"I feel you’ve answered your own question Buttercup, although as others have said, an Airbnb could also be a great option.
Either will be far cleaner, more comfortable, and more private than a swinger club with their sweaty, gaffer-taped judo mats…… "
Hate those mats its nasty |
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"I feel you’ve answered your own question Buttercup, although as others have said, an Airbnb could also be a great option.
Either will be far cleaner, more comfortable, and more private than a swinger club with their sweaty, gaffer-taped judo mats……
Hate those mats its nasty "
They're not worth a 2 hour drive for sure |
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By *host63Man 25 weeks ago
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Have you considered just not participating in the lifestyle with that many restrictions? It's all a compromise isn't it?
As for the hotel option will you be paying for this room yourself? If so you can tell the person to leave. If they pay its theor room so you have to leave. Pretty straightforward.
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Clubs are my choice. I like to see if there’s attraction there, I feel no pressure and safe, and can make a night of it regardless what happens.
You could always use the hotel for the play then stay alone for the night. X |
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I've used day use hotel rooms so there's a time limit. If going to their hotel room I just let them know that I will be leaving at a certain time. I don't have anyone back to mine and never will. Thankfully there are clubs much closer to me than to you! |
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