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"Today 9/10
Yesterday was more like 4/10
I’m glad things have improved since yesterday! What has put a smile on your face today? "
a day off from being a parent, went to my local mens shed which is always guaranteed to bring my mood back up, and managing to get £23 knocked off my broadband bill for the next 2 years |
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"Today 9/10
Yesterday was more like 4/10
I’m glad things have improved since yesterday! What has put a smile on your face today? a day off from being a parent, went to my local mens shed which is always guaranteed to bring my mood back up, and managing to get £23 knocked off my broadband bill for the next 2 years"
Happy for you!! |
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"Today 9/10
Yesterday was more like 4/10
I’m glad things have improved since yesterday! What has put a smile on your face today? a day off from being a parent, went to my local mens shed which is always guaranteed to bring my mood back up, and managing to get £23 knocked off my broadband bill for the next 2 years
Happy for you!!"
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Today was mostly 8/ 10 then I got some news earlier ( nothing drastic, very silly in the grand scheme of things ) that has sent it in reverse so Currently around a 4/5... but bollocks... like chumbawumba once said... I get knocked down but I get up again ..lol |
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"Today was mostly 8/ 10 then I got some news earlier ( nothing drastic, very silly in the grand scheme of things ) that has sent it in reverse so Currently around a 4/5... but bollocks... like chumbawumba once said... I get knocked down but I get up again ..lol "
Anything that takes you from an 8 to a 4/5 is not silly at all! I like your mindset about recovering from a setback  |
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"5/10.
Today has been a mixed bag of the wonderful and not-so-wonderful. Such is life.
What can we do to help you end the day on a 10? "
I'd like a forum choir to sing me a rendition of "Suddenly Seymour" from The Little Shop of Horrors, please  |
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"Today was mostly 8/ 10 then I got some news earlier ( nothing drastic, very silly in the grand scheme of things ) that has sent it in reverse so Currently around a 4/5... but bollocks... like chumbawumba once said... I get knocked down but I get up again ..lol
Anything that takes you from an 8 to a 4/5 is not silly at all! I like your mindset about recovering from a setback "
Well gotta have that mindset I'd rather not end up at 0 lol |
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"Today was mostly 8/ 10 then I got some news earlier ( nothing drastic, very silly in the grand scheme of things ) that has sent it in reverse so Currently around a 4/5... but bollocks... like chumbawumba once said... I get knocked down but I get up again ..lol
Anything that takes you from an 8 to a 4/5 is not silly at all! I like your mindset about recovering from a setback "
Well gotta have that mindset I'd rather not end up at 0 lol xx |
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"Today was mostly 8/ 10 then I got some news earlier ( nothing drastic, very silly in the grand scheme of things ) that has sent it in reverse so Currently around a 4/5... but bollocks... like chumbawumba once said... I get knocked down but I get up again ..lol
Anything that takes you from an 8 to a 4/5 is not silly at all! I like your mindset about recovering from a setback
Well gotta have that mindset I'd rather not end up at 0 lol xx"
I appreciate the kisses at the end 🤣 |
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"5/10.
Today has been a mixed bag of the wonderful and not-so-wonderful. Such is life.
What can we do to help you end the day on a 10?
I'd like a forum choir to sing me a rendition of "Suddenly Seymour" from The Little Shop of Horrors, please "
Ffs you’re asking us for too much now Nell  |
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"Today was mostly 8/ 10 then I got some news earlier ( nothing drastic, very silly in the grand scheme of things ) that has sent it in reverse so Currently around a 4/5... but bollocks... like chumbawumba once said... I get knocked down but I get up again ..lol
Anything that takes you from an 8 to a 4/5 is not silly at all! I like your mindset about recovering from a setback
Well gotta have that mindset I'd rather not end up at 0 lol xx
I appreciate the kisses at the end 🤣"
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I rarely add anything to these sorts of thread, but today I will.
I'm feeling that today was a good day.
Had an amazing sleep, woke up and smiled at the world. Looked in the mirror, and went, embrace the reflection. Quickly put clothes on. Fast forward, work was good, lovely messages, happy vibes, new pictures on fab (they aren't the best, but I look ok), have beautiful friends and family.
Definitely good vibes.🤗
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"5/10.
Today has been a mixed bag of the wonderful and not-so-wonderful. Such is life.
What can we do to help you end the day on a 10?
I'd like a forum choir to sing me a rendition of "Suddenly Seymour" from The Little Shop of Horrors, please
Ffs you’re asking us for too much now Nell "
Fair enough. I'll settle for all of you being your usual wonderful selves while I peruse the Lounge in appreciation. |
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"How is everyone feeling today from a 0 to a 10?
How can things be improved and made better for you?
Lets all get together and support one another
This is your safe space!"
Pretty low numbers.. Have a health condition that urgently needs medication g but meds won't be available until 2025 and the alternative not available until mid August... So need cheering up a lot |
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"5/10.
Today has been a mixed bag of the wonderful and not-so-wonderful. Such is life.
What can we do to help you end the day on a 10?
I'd like a forum choir to sing me a rendition of "Suddenly Seymour" from The Little Shop of Horrors, please
Ffs you’re asking us for too much now Nell
Fair enough. I'll settle for all of you being your usual wonderful selves while I peruse the Lounge in appreciation."
You don't need no makeupppp, you don't have to pretenddddd 🎶🎶
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"5/10.
Today has been a mixed bag of the wonderful and not-so-wonderful. Such is life.
What can we do to help you end the day on a 10?
I'd like a forum choir to sing me a rendition of "Suddenly Seymour" from The Little Shop of Horrors, please
Ffs you’re asking us for too much now Nell
Fair enough. I'll settle for all of you being your usual wonderful selves while I peruse the Lounge in appreciation.
You don't need no makeupppp, you don't have to pretenddddd 🎶🎶
😂😂"
8/10 |
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By *aizyWoman 22 weeks ago
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"5/10.
Today has been a mixed bag of the wonderful and not-so-wonderful. Such is life.
What can we do to help you end the day on a 10?
I'd like a forum choir to sing me a rendition of "Suddenly Seymour" from The Little Shop of Horrors, please
Ffs you’re asking us for too much now Nell
Fair enough. I'll settle for all of you being your usual wonderful selves while I peruse the Lounge in appreciation."
Don't give up so easily Nell, I want to hear this rendition too! |
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"5/10.
Today has been a mixed bag of the wonderful and not-so-wonderful. Such is life.
What can we do to help you end the day on a 10?
I'd like a forum choir to sing me a rendition of "Suddenly Seymour" from The Little Shop of Horrors, please
Ffs you’re asking us for too much now Nell
Fair enough. I'll settle for all of you being your usual wonderful selves while I peruse the Lounge in appreciation.
You don't need no makeupppp, you don't have to pretenddddd 🎶🎶
😂😂
8/10"
Tough crowd 🙄 |
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"How is everyone feeling today from a 0 to a 10?
How can things be improved and made better for you?
Lets all get together and support one another
This is your safe space!
Pretty low numbers.. Have a health condition that urgently needs medication g but meds won't be available until 2025 and the alternative not available until mid August... So need cheering up a lot"
I’m sorry to hear this. How can we cheer you up? |
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"I rarely add anything to these sorts of thread, but today I will.
I'm feeling that today was a good day.
Had an amazing sleep, woke up and smiled at the world. Looked in the mirror, and went, embrace the reflection. Quickly put clothes on. Fast forward, work was good, lovely messages, happy vibes, new pictures on fab (they aren't the best, but I look ok), have beautiful friends and family.
Definitely good vibes.🤗
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Good vibessss!! I’m glad to hear it. Your new pics are great LLB |
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"5/10.
Today has been a mixed bag of the wonderful and not-so-wonderful. Such is life.
What can we do to help you end the day on a 10?
I'd like a forum choir to sing me a rendition of "Suddenly Seymour" from The Little Shop of Horrors, please
Ffs you’re asking us for too much now Nell
Fair enough. I'll settle for all of you being your usual wonderful selves while I peruse the Lounge in appreciation.
Don't give up so easily Nell, I want to hear this rendition too!"
Oh, OK!
The Cheer Up Daizy and Nell Choir will be holding auditions this evening |
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On a personal head in the sand level I feel good solid 8.
When I look at anything involving news or current affairs that drops significantly so for the remainder of the day I shall be concentrating on titties |
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"On a personal head in the sand level I feel good solid 8.
When I look at anything involving news or current affairs that drops significantly so for the remainder of the day I shall be concentrating on titties"
Good job its Tuesday! #titsout  |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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I woke at 5am, cried myself back to sleep at 6.30am.
The day has improved, but it's defo not been a great day
I'm doing some riverside volunteering tomorrow which will definitely pick me up 💕💕
... so in summary probably a 4-5, but rising xx |
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"I woke at 5am, cried myself back to sleep at 6.30am.
The day has improved, but it's defo not been a great day
I'm doing some riverside volunteering tomorrow which will definitely pick me up 💕💕
... so in summary probably a 4-5, but rising xx"
Sounds like you need a HUGE DarkSoverign special hug. The volunteering sounds like a lot of fun! |
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"Today 9/10
Yesterday was more like 4/10
I’m glad things have improved since yesterday! What has put a smile on your face today? a day off from being a parent, went to my local mens shed which is always guaranteed to bring my mood back up, and managing to get £23 knocked off my broadband bill for the next 2 years"
Today was a good day…. |
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By *eliWoman 22 weeks ago
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9.5/10; thank you for asking OP.
I had a brilliant night away and now I'm feeling a bit... like I need an early night and a hot chocolate so took off .5. Kind of like a drop but hard to explain. |
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Aside from being totally exhausted from a physically difficult day in the heat yesterday, not getting enough sleep last night and getting home to find Yodel had delivered someone else's parcel to me instead of my £75 item, I'm doing pretty good.
My feet are really painful though, so I might have another terrible sleep tonight, and I have to deal with Yodel customer services tomorrow before going into London to the theatre.
Still 🙂 though. |
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"Lately been feeling about a 3. There is so much shit happening in the UK right now it is so depressing all the time. "
The situation right now is pretty shit so that’s understandable. Hopefully things get better and people can start loving again rather than hating. |
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"I'm a 5 lately.
Life feels very challenging...nothing seems to happen easily.
It's frustrating."
I’m sorry you feel that way. Take everything one atep at a time as it comes. Hope things get better |
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"9.5/10; thank you for asking OP.
I had a brilliant night away and now I'm feeling a bit... like I need an early night and a hot chocolate so took off .5. Kind of like a drop but hard to explain. "
We love this! Good vibes always |
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"Thanks for putting this post on here I think we all should ask each other this question today I'm.a 7/10 take care of yourselves and others"
You’re welcome. I think we need a bit of positivity given the current climate |
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"I'm a 5 lately.
Life feels very challenging...nothing seems to happen easily.
It's frustrating.
I’m sorry you feel that way. Take everything one atep at a time as it comes. Hope things get better "
That one step at a time seems like miles sometimes but you have to keep moving |
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"I'm a 5 lately.
Life feels very challenging...nothing seems to happen easily.
It's frustrating.
I’m sorry you feel that way. Take everything one atep at a time as it comes. Hope things get better
That one step at a time seems like miles sometimes but you have to keep moving "
Totally agree with that last statement. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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7-8 a lot going on and a fair few things not ideal, but I’m genuinely impressed with my positive and regulated mindset.
Always available to chat to anyone struggling with anything   |
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Today has been a day of many parts. An early morning foray back into the lands of my youth was actually quite pleasant even though it meant getting up super early and doing things for other people (again). I enjoyed the drive, in the sun, with Mr Blue Sky etc. blasting out. 9/10
Counselling 2/10 - too much brain stuff.
Support group - 5/10 - more brain stuff but less bad because of the earlier counselling.
I've not eaten anything proper today but not hungry. Too much has pinged out of Pandora's box  |
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Today I am a 10 because I spent the morning catching up with a friend and the rest of the day with one of my favourite people.
These last few days have been really stressful, but I've had some highlights. All in all, life is pretty good |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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"Today I am a 10 because I spent the morning catching up with a friend and the rest of the day with one of my favourite people.
These last few days have been really stressful, but I've had some highlights. All in all, life is pretty good "
Good to hear |
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"Today has been a day of many parts. An early morning foray back into the lands of my youth was actually quite pleasant even though it meant getting up super early and doing things for other people (again). I enjoyed the drive, in the sun, with Mr Blue Sky etc. blasting out. 9/10
Counselling 2/10 - too much brain stuff.
Support group - 5/10 - more brain stuff but less bad because of the earlier counselling.
I've not eaten anything proper today but not hungry. Too much has pinged out of Pandora's box "
Every day has its ups and downs. Just remember how good your day started off! Try to eat something too |
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"Today has been a day of many parts. An early morning foray back into the lands of my youth was actually quite pleasant even though it meant getting up super early and doing things for other people (again). I enjoyed the drive, in the sun, with Mr Blue Sky etc. blasting out. 9/10
Counselling 2/10 - too much brain stuff.
Support group - 5/10 - more brain stuff but less bad because of the earlier counselling.
I've not eaten anything proper today but not hungry. Too much has pinged out of Pandora's box
Every day has its ups and downs. Just remember how good your day started off! Try to eat something too "
It's far too late for eating now. There's plenty of me, I won't fade away |
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By *reya73Woman 22 weeks ago
Whitley Bay |
Internally and overall... I'd score myself around 3.
With moments of 6, 7 and even 8 when lifted by my kids, friends, colleagues and nature.
Thanks for asking. It has been a tough year or so for lots of reasons.
I am safe though, I'm grateful for that. I have much to be grateful for.
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11 year relationship, heart surgery for me , then my partner passed away, didn't get to say good bye, but coming out the other side... It's sucks but get through the fog... If know what mean, sorry I'll sod of now.. |
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"How is everyone feeling today from a 0 to a 10?
How can things be improved and made better for you?
Lets all get together and support one another
This is your safe space!"
Even though I am a confident man I do have my down times. Today I am a 3/10 |
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"Loat my dad 2 months ago, still havnt cried, but I think I'm doing ok, I'm definitely better then 2 months ago for sure!"
If you feel like crying, then cry. There's no shame in allowing your emotions to show. Crying is normal, especially around grief.
We're sorry to read about your Dad ♥️ |
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By *ir tootMan 21 weeks ago
Burton-on-Trent |
"Loat my dad 2 months ago, still havnt cried, but I think I'm doing ok, I'm definitely better then 2 months ago for sure!
So sorry for your loss xx"
Thank you, its just one of those things I've got to deal with.
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By *ir tootMan 21 weeks ago
Burton-on-Trent |
"Loat my dad 2 months ago, still havnt cried, but I think I'm doing ok, I'm definitely better then 2 months ago for sure!
If you feel like crying, then cry. There's no shame in allowing your emotions to show. Crying is normal, especially around grief.
We're sorry to read about your Dad ♥️"
I appreciate it thank you, i have attempted to but its one those things that need to happen Naturally, and not be forced. |
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By *ickawitchCouple 21 weeks ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
Sending hugs to all those who need it. My wifey recently had a small stroke but she’s recovering well and will soon be back to her normal horny self. But as you can imagine it had its moments. |
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"Loat my dad 2 months ago, still havnt cried, but I think I'm doing ok, I'm definitely better then 2 months ago for sure!
If you feel like crying, then cry. There's no shame in allowing your emotions to show. Crying is normal, especially around grief.
We're sorry to read about your Dad ♥️
I appreciate it thank you, i have attempted to but its one those things that need to happen Naturally, and not be forced."
Sorry for your loss. Lost mine over a year ago and feel guilty for not grieving properly
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By *ir tootMan 21 weeks ago
Burton-on-Trent |
"Loat my dad 2 months ago, still havnt cried, but I think I'm doing ok, I'm definitely better then 2 months ago for sure!
If you feel like crying, then cry. There's no shame in allowing your emotions to show. Crying is normal, especially around grief.
We're sorry to read about your Dad ♥️
I appreciate it thank you, i have attempted to but its one those things that need to happen Naturally, and not be forced.
Sorry for your loss. Lost mine over a year ago and feel guilty for not grieving properly
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Yeah I feel that mate , don't how many times I've been told I don't care because I havnt been upset.
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By *ir tootMan 21 weeks ago
Burton-on-Trent |
"Sending hugs to all those who need it. My wifey recently had a small stroke but she’s recovering well and will soon be back to her normal horny self. But as you can imagine it had its moments. "
Hugs to you too! |
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By *ir tootMan 21 weeks ago
Burton-on-Trent |
"11 year relationship, heart surgery for me , then my partner passed away, didn't get to say good bye, but coming out the other side... It's sucks but get through the fog... If know what mean, sorry I'll sod of now.. "
I'm sorry you went through that, I do hope life improves for you fellow fabber. |
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I find myself on fab a lot. Not because I’m horny but it distracts me from feeling empty sometimes. I’m in a much better mindset than I used to be. Especially right now as I’m on holiday with all my family and the sun does wonders for my mental health. Pool every day, beach days, visiting family, eating better, it’s all helping. I know my mood will drop once I’m back in Uk but I will have fantastic memories of this trip and the darkness that surrounds me will be might lighter and less dense.
For anyone still suffering depression and bad mental health, it will get better. The first step is admitting you’re struggling. People do want to help. You just have to reach out. |
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