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By *a LunaWoman 26 weeks ago
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Ooo this is very apt right now Meli!
I’m not currently meeting (for the sex). But I have been invited out for a coffee social meet this week.
It depends on our mutual diaries. Obvs. But I’m open to it!
The not being for sex part is much more appealing to me these days. Just so long as nobody has expectations of anything else, it’s certainly a consideration.
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"Or words to that effect.
Are you "meeting" right now? What's an imaginative way to get that across?
If someone wasn't "meeting", would you still go for coffee with them? "
Im happy with coffee and a chat.
Ive met lovely people from chats. |
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I'm not meeting, I state this several times, but often it's ignored
I'd meet for a coffee with those I've chatted to for a while and built a connection with.
Probably not with new people, as many can't seem to understand not meeting as it is. So they'll chat to me, say they understand I'm not meeting, then try and pressure me to meet. |
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I'd be happy just to meet up for a cuppa, who knows what may come of it but isnt that the way of doing things ? Instead of jumping into bed with someone you just met or is that just old school way of doing things ? |
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I'm not totally closed off to the possibility of meeting new people for sex, but I'm not actively seeking it either. I have that "need" already fulfilled.
I'd meet for a coffee social, most definitely. I like people and I like having a chinwag over coffee. |
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I rarely meet people from Fab, although it has happened and has led to some very nice experiences, sexual and otherwise.
Right now I am open to meeting in a traditional Fab sense, but there are also Fab members I interact with on the forums and in DMs that I would happily meet for a chat even if sex were not on the table (or the chair, or the bed, etc). |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"No I'm not meeting, not even a social meet. It's not imaginative but I've closed my profile down so that should be a hint"
Ah DS fuck the imaginative. A closed profile is signal enough. Hope you're doing well.  |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"Ooo this is very apt right now Meli!
I’m not currently meeting (for the sex). But I have been invited out for a coffee social meet this week.
It depends on our mutual diaries. Obvs. But I’m open to it!
The not being for sex part is much more appealing to me these days. Just so long as nobody has expectations of anything else, it’s certainly a consideration.
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Fingers crossed your diaries align Luna.
Yeah, I think if it's made clear that it's not for the sex and both parties understand... it's fine. |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"We're not currently meeting & I'm not currently meeting anyone new myself.
I'd still go for a coffee with people though as long as they are aware it's just social.
Mrs "
So you're still meeting just... deterring newbies/sex pests? Has it worked? |
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"No I'm not meeting, not even a social meet. It's not imaginative but I've closed my profile down so that should be a hint
Ah DS fuck the imaginative. A closed profile is signal enough. Hope you're doing well. "
Yes I'm fine thankyou xx |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"I'm not meeting at all at the mo health issues, but I am hoping to be back on my feet soon 🤞🤞"
Oh Daizy I hope you are! Even with your dislike of cheese you wouldn't be too bad to "meet". |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"I'm not meeting, I state this several times, but often it's ignored
I'd meet for a coffee with those I've chatted to for a while and built a connection with.
Probably not with new people, as many can't seem to understand not meeting as it is. So they'll chat to me, say they understand I'm not meeting, then try and pressure me to meet."
So it's more a deterrent than a steadfast rule? |
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We would be and are open to meeting. However due to the fact we like to chat on here for a while first, and then prehaps a social first, it then seems to go nowhere. A lot of people do seem to want to meet asap and fuck right then and there. |
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I have what I need, though I guess if the right person turned my head I could be tempted otherwise, so not meeting meeting but I’ll always go for a coffee and a chit chat. But as my profile says not meeting and my filters are all on I guess it’s a moot point anyway!
Mind you I do have a coffee date this week with a Fabber and I’m very much looking forwards to it, socials can be as good as the playtimes
(Note. I don’t actually drink coffee but semantics and all) |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"I'd be happy just to meet up for a cuppa, who knows what may come of it but isnt that the way of doing things ? Instead of jumping into bed with someone you just met or is that just old school way of doing things ? "
Well, nothing is going to come of it. Bar friendship. Let's go with that. Would you be happy to meet for a cuppa then? |
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"I'm not totally closed off to the possibility of meeting new people for sex, but I'm not actively seeking it either. I have that "need" already fulfilled.
I'd meet for a coffee social, most definitely. I like people and I like having a chinwag over coffee. "
This ^100% |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"I'm not totally closed off to the possibility of meeting new people for sex, but I'm not actively seeking it either. I have that "need" already fulfilled.
I'd meet for a coffee social, most definitely. I like people and I like having a chinwag over coffee. "
Now I've got the mental image of you being filled by your fulfiller... it's weird. 
Could we meet for a chinwag over coffee? |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"I'd only meet socially with females...too many men see it as a challenge if you say its just for a drink."
But there are men who understand a coffee is just a coffee. They do exist. Don't they? 😔 |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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I've never gone through phases where I'm not wanting to meet but I wouldn't say I'm actively looking either if that makes sense? It's more about what opportunities arise that suits me |
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By *vaRose43Woman 26 weeks ago
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Yes and no.
Temporary hiatus while some real life stuff takes my free time but I have future plans…
Not actively searching for new playmates but not discouraging ether
This probably makes no sense |
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By *vaRose43Woman 26 weeks ago
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"I'd only meet socially with females...too many men see it as a challenge if you say its just for a drink.
But there are men who understand a coffee is just a coffee. They do exist. Don't they? 😔"
They do for sure |
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"Or words to that effect.
Are you "meeting" right now? What's an imaginative way to get that across?
If someone wasn't "meeting", would you still go for coffee with them? "
No.
I do coffee, lunch with vanilla friends.
Meet up for a social from FAB with a view to taking it further.
Tend not to mix swinging with "normal" life. |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"I'm meeting. But it seems no one else is. Maybe I'm meeting myself?🤔"
I tend to meet myself a couple of times a day if you catch my drift *wink* *wink* *nudge* *nudge* |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"I’d happily meet someone for a brew/lunch for a chinwag and a laugh with nowt else 😁 it’s good to talk 😁"
Aww Fox you cutie! So zero thoughts of more than good lunch and laughter? I like it. |
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"Yes and no.
Temporary hiatus while some real life stuff takes my free time but I have future plans…
Not actively searching for new playmates but not discouraging ether
This probably makes no sense "
This definitely makes no sense not probably 😂 |
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I haven't been currently meeting for more than 4 years due mainly to health issues and other much more important things going on in my life.
I have gone to a few socials and had a couple of coffee meets in that time though with people I've chatted to for years but had never met up to that point. |
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We're here to make friends out of the bedroom as well as in it, so if someone wanted to meet us for a purely social outing we would be happy to. For example, we met a couple on here a while back and had a lot of fun with them at a club, but they are no longer a couple (they stayed friends) but we still meet up with them regularly for geeky (non sexual!) games nights |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"We haven’t been meeting for a while but I (Geordie) would have met someone for a pint before I started this health kick and gave up the beer."
Would you meet someone (other than Brad) for a smoothie and some lifting? Or is it no beer, no Geordie? |
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"I'm meeting. But it seems no one else is. Maybe I'm meeting myself?🤔
I tend to meet myself a couple of times a day if you catch my drift *wink* *wink* *nudge* *nudge*"
Oh I meet myself often too 😂😂 |
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By *aizyWoman 26 weeks ago
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"I'm not meeting at all at the mo health issues, but I am hoping to be back on my feet soon 🤞🤞
Oh Daizy I hope you are! Even with your dislike of cheese you wouldn't be too bad to "meet"."
I'd love to meet you Meli, and I do like mini cheddars so I'd share a bag of them with you 🤗 |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"Willing to meet socially. We have very limited opportunity to meet for anything else. Only exceptional people will get past Go* 
*There is NO £200 option with this!"
Exceptional.... oh dear Mrs KC. You've become an exceptional qualifier. Sad times. Really thought you were different.  |
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"We're not currently meeting & I'm not currently meeting anyone new myself.
I'd still go for a coffee with people though as long as they are aware it's just social.
Mrs
So you're still meeting just... deterring newbies/sex pests? Has it worked?"
ERM... kind of yes, there's someone I'll meet again and I'm looking forward to that but I'm/we're not actively looking.
We've had not meeting on our profile for months and no one takes any notice 😂
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"My diary is full with multiple daily appointments with my hand.
Should anyone wish to put coffee into my hand instead then I’m meeting for coffee 😂"
Why doesn't your hand get put to better use and you arrange coffees with it? It'll be a lot less sticky. |
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"Willing to meet socially. We have very limited opportunity to meet for anything else. Only exceptional people will get past Go*
*There is NO £200 option with this!
Exceptional.... oh dear Mrs KC. You've become an exceptional qualifier. Sad times. Really thought you were different. "
Nah, we're not different. We're the same as everyone else.
(We hope Fab hasn't had a Sense Of Humour Lobotomy? We're professionals  ) |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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I’m not closed off the idea of meeting new people for sex, but I’m not in the mood to entertain meeting new people for sex at the moment. That’s until I wake up tomorrow and have the raging horn for a woman again like I did yesterday. 😜
To be honest, I am far too busy over the next few months that unless someone is willing to meet me in another country meeting anyone for a cuppa would not be possible. Some mad chap did tell me he would traverse the globe for only a tea with me. He didn’t mean teabagging me. |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"We would be and are open to meeting. However due to the fact we like to chat on here for a while first, and then prehaps a social first, it then seems to go nowhere. A lot of people do seem to want to meet asap and fuck right then and there."
Oh so there are some out there who are still... meeting. Phew. You'll find the right people for you, out there somewhere *gestures in the near vicinity*. |
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"My diary is full with multiple daily appointments with my hand.
Should anyone wish to put coffee into my hand instead then I’m meeting for coffee 😂
Why doesn't your hand get put to better use and you arrange coffees with it? It'll be a lot less sticky. "
Baby oil stops the stickiness.
But perhaps I should start arranging some socials instead 🥰 |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"I have what I need, though I guess if the right person turned my head I could be tempted otherwise, so not meeting meeting but I’ll always go for a coffee and a chit chat. But as my profile says not meeting and my filters are all on I guess it’s a moot point anyway!
Mind you I do have a coffee date this week with a Fabber and I’m very much looking forwards to it, socials can be as good as the shenanigans.
(Note. I don’t actually drink coffee but semantics and all) "
Don't mind me, I've edited your post to remove an offensive term.
That makes sense; you're happy and not actively looking but also haven't actively closed off from it.
I hope your coffee date goes well and leaves you smiling.  |
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By *ornycougaWoman 26 weeks ago
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"We're not currently meeting & I'm not currently meeting anyone new myself.
I'd still go for a coffee with people though as long as they are aware it's just social.
Mrs "
Yep. I haven't been meeting for months what with a combination of being out of the UK and health reasons. When I was in London but out of action I have had some great socials but like Mrs KOTCT I made it crystal clear that it was a social only. |
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"I'm meeting. But it seems no one else is. Maybe I'm meeting myself?🤔
I tend to meet myself a couple of times a day if you catch my drift *wink* *wink* *nudge* *nudge*"
I just spat my drink out !! 🤣🤣 |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"I'm not meeting at all at the mo health issues, but I am hoping to be back on my feet soon 🤞🤞
Oh Daizy I hope you are! Even with your dislike of cheese you wouldn't be too bad to "meet".
I'd love to meet you Meli, and I do like mini cheddars so I'd share a bag of them with you 🤗"
I'd love to meet you too! And I don't think we're *too* far from each other. x |
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"Not meeting right now lol no fucker is meeting on here 🤔
They can't really be fuckers if they're not doing the fucking, can they? "
We're fuckers but we mainly just fuck between ourselves. Apart from the exception(s)  |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"I've never gone through phases where I'm not wanting to meet but I wouldn't say I'm actively looking either if that makes sense? It's more about what opportunities arise that suits me"
Well explained, succinct.
It makes perfect sense, gold star for you Joe. ⭐️
(Hope it helps you get more curly fries later)
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Closed my profile currently (Hidden) as I’m seeing someone in my private life, early days. So for obvious reasons I wouldn’t have an intimate meeting with anyone currently.
I may consider a social meeting for a night out with a friend on here. But even that may be difficult with having to visit family and my children staying with me.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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I am meeting for sex which is very exciting...i don't usually do socials - if I'm chatting with you and i like you, that's usually enough, so I'm definitely open to more, but that old chestnut, distance, seems to be a major issue with almost everyone i interact with  |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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Too many health issues.
I'd not been to hospital ever, before the the age of 45.
Then my body just went kaboom..I think I've had 7 surgeries in the last 4 years..there's more to come too.
My medical file is like the yellow pages now.
I even plan short excursions/ vacations around procedures now..and think "ok, let's stay in this town and see what there is to do"..a day or 2 before the operation, somewhere near the specific hospital..
Then the bones set / stitches heal and a few months later, the cycle repeats.. |
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"I am meeting for sex which is very exciting...i don't usually do socials - if I'm chatting with you and i like you, that's usually enough, so I'm definitely open to more, but that old chestnut, distance, seems to be a major issue with almost everyone i interact with "
The Fab curse: I have made several *wonderful* connections with people who are entirely too far away. |
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I'm generally not meeting at the moment because I'm so time poor at this time of year. Trying to make plans is such a nightmare it's easier not to. I've said something to that effect at the start of my profile but it's not very imaginative 😊
That said, I wouldn't be averse to doing something off the cuff if the stars aligned, but it's unlikely to be anything more than a cuppa. |
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"Or words to that effect.
Are you "meeting" right now? What's an imaginative way to get that across?
If someone wasn't "meeting", would you still go for coffee with them? "
I'd love to be meeting right now!
I am talking to a Couple of Ladies who state "They're not meeting" but I'd happily go for a Coffee with them |
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"Or words to that effect.
Are you "meeting" right now? What's an imaginative way to get that across?
If someone wasn't "meeting", would you still go for coffee with them?
I'd love to be meeting right now!
I am talking to a Couple of Ladies who state "They're not meeting" but I'd happily go for a Coffee with them"
See i don't get that.. What's the point?? [genuine Q] |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"I’m not closed off the idea of meeting new people for sex, but I’m not in the mood to entertain meeting new people for sex at the moment. That’s until I wake up tomorrow and have the raging horn for a woman again like I did yesterday. 😜 "
You delightful hussy.
"To be honest, I am far too busy over the next few months that unless someone is willing to meet me in another country meeting anyone for a cuppa would not be possible. Some mad chap did tell me he would traverse the globe for only a tea with me. He didn’t mean teabagging me. "
Yep I get that. When you don't have the time or the headspace it's kind of a non-starter isn't it? You can enjoy talking with others but hope they understand nothing more will come from it at that time. |
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I'd love to be meeting right now!
I am talking to a Couple of Ladies who state "They're not meeting" but I'd happily go for a Coffee with them
See i don't get that.. What's the point?? [genuine Q] "
Because there's a Slim chance that either they'll become Friends (With or without the WB/B addition) or when they do decide to Play, I might get a call |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"Open to meeting when the time is right with a worthy candidate.
Not at right now at ten o clock on a Tuesday morning to cure a hangover horn "
Erm hangover horn being fixed is a very valid reason to "meet" someone. |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"Not meeting right now lol no fucker is meeting on here 🤔
They can't really be fuckers if they're not doing the fucking, can they?
We're fuckers but we mainly just fuck between ourselves. Apart from the exception(s) "
Exceptional exceptions. Yeah, that's fair KC. No point doing a clearance sale when your vagina is happy. |
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"Or words to that effect.
Are you "meeting" right now? What's an imaginative way to get that across?
If someone wasn't "meeting", would you still go for coffee with them? "
Dearest Marvellous Meli,
As I look into your beautiful eyes, I’m entranced and enchanted by the magic in you. I have admired you from afar for many a year, alas, distance has kept us lovers apart.
If the opportunity was to present, my gaze would never leave your majestic mounds, and if fate has conspired to keep us apart….
We can always have a coffee
Yours for a debauchaurous evening
SN
Think, I’ve covered both angles there, but is that what you are after? |
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"I'm not totally closed off to the possibility of meeting new people for sex, but I'm not actively seeking it either. I have that "need" already fulfilled.
I'd meet for a coffee social, most definitely. I like people and I like having a chinwag over coffee.
Now I've got the mental image of you being filled by your fulfiller... it's weird.
Could we meet for a chinwag over coffee? "
Why, Meli? Why would your mind go there?  |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"I'm not totally closed off to the possibility of meeting new people for sex, but I'm not actively seeking it either. I have that "need" already fulfilled.
I'd meet for a coffee social, most definitely. I like people and I like having a chinwag over coffee.
Now I've got the mental image of you being filled by your fulfiller... it's weird.
Could we meet for a chinwag over coffee?
Why, Meli? Why would your mind go there? "
Because I thought we could get along quite well and you'd maybe like to have coffee.
Guess not. |
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"I'm not totally closed off to the possibility of meeting new people for sex, but I'm not actively seeking it either. I have that "need" already fulfilled.
I'd meet for a coffee social, most definitely. I like people and I like having a chinwag over coffee.
Now I've got the mental image of you being filled by your fulfiller... it's weird.
Could we meet for a chinwag over coffee?
Why, Meli? Why would your mind go there?
Because I thought we could get along quite well and you'd maybe like to have coffee.
Guess not. "
I can't possibly look you in the eye over a brew knowing that you have THAT imagery in your head. |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"Not quite in the headspace for the sex. Not feeling very sexy 🤣 but I am socialising and have a few things in the not too distant future for pure laughter. "
Oh I hope the socialising goes well and you're on the road to recovery Saff! x |
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"We haven’t been meeting for a while but I (Geordie) would have met someone for a pint before I started this health kick and gave up the beer.
Would you meet someone (other than Brad) for a smoothie and some lifting? Or is it no beer, no Geordie? "
I’d meet Brad for a fight to the death. I guess I’d meet someone for a gym session and a protein shake. I could do with a good gym buddy. |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"I'm not totally closed off to the possibility of meeting new people for sex, but I'm not actively seeking it either. I have that "need" already fulfilled.
I'd meet for a coffee social, most definitely. I like people and I like having a chinwag over coffee.
Now I've got the mental image of you being filled by your fulfiller... it's weird.
Could we meet for a chinwag over coffee?
Why, Meli? Why would your mind go there?
Because I thought we could get along quite well and you'd maybe like to have coffee.
Guess not.
I can't possibly look you in the eye over a brew knowing that you have THAT imagery in your head."
Want me to put some imagery in your head so it's equal imagery-ing over coffee? It's the least I can do. ❤ |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"Closed my profile currently (Hidden) as I’m seeing someone in my private life, early days. So for obvious reasons I wouldn’t have an intimate meeting with anyone currently.
I may consider a social meeting for a night out with a friend on here. But even that may be difficult with having to visit family and my children staying with me. "
Oh that's wonderful Steph; hope it keeps continuing to go well for you! x |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"I am meeting for sex which is very exciting...i don't usually do socials - if I'm chatting with you and i like you, that's usually enough, so I'm definitely open to more, but that old chestnut, distance, seems to be a major issue with almost everyone i interact with "
Yay Midnight! Love this for you. 🖤
So you wouldn't meet someone socially? Where sex wasn't even a consideration? |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"I've never gone through phases where I'm not wanting to meet but I wouldn't say I'm actively looking either if that makes sense? It's more about what opportunities arise that suits me
Well explained, succinct.
It makes perfect sense, gold star for you Joe. ⭐️
(Hope it helps you get more curly fries later)
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If people were rewarded with curly fries for every good post they make, the forum would be a more peaceful place 😂 |
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"I've never gone through phases where I'm not wanting to meet but I wouldn't say I'm actively looking either if that makes sense? It's more about what opportunities arise that suits me
Well explained, succinct.
It makes perfect sense, gold star for you Joe. ⭐️
(Hope it helps you get more curly fries later)
If people were rewarded with curly fries for every good post they make, the forum would be a more peaceful place 😂"
Curly fries are my favourite |
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We are closed for ladies - unless you can entice us 
We are on the prowl for single gents - it’s proving most difficult.
We’d love to be closed - takes energy looking for that rough diamond.
We’ve never got off the ground with couples - dynamics too hard to get everyone on the same page.
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"I don't have the energy required to shave my toes but always happy to meet for a coffee - especially with PSL season fast approaching 😍"
Oh God, how on Earth has it come around so quickly?  |
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By *edeWoman 26 weeks ago
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"I don't have the energy required to shave my toes but always happy to meet for a coffee - especially with PSL season fast approaching 😍
Oh God, how on Earth has it come around so quickly? "
Time flies when you're having fun Joe 😘 |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"I am meeting for sex which is very exciting...i don't usually do socials - if I'm chatting with you and i like you, that's usually enough, so I'm definitely open to more, but that old chestnut, distance, seems to be a major issue with almost everyone i interact with
Yay Midnight! Love this for you. 🖤
So you wouldn't meet someone socially? Where sex wasn't even a consideration?"
I'm time poor... And i just don't see the point in socials - if we want to have sex, let's just do it.. Unless the intention is to just be friends??!
Maybe I'm weird... Probably just time poor |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"I don't have the energy required to shave my toes but always happy to meet for a coffee - especially with PSL season fast approaching 😍"
Yay Cede! Especially with you being relatively close and us both appreciating PSLs! There's only a month (and probably a week or two because they're proper co...ffee teasers). |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"I don't have the energy required to shave my toes but always happy to meet for a coffee - especially with PSL season fast approaching 😍
Oh God, how on Earth has it come around so quickly?
Time flies when you're having fun Joe 😘"
The UGG boots and PSLs and group photos with Kayleigh, Rayleigh, Ashleigh, and Myleigh are upon us |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"I don't have the energy required to shave my toes but always happy to meet for a coffee - especially with PSL season fast approaching 😍
Oh God, how on Earth has it come around so quickly?
Time flies when you're having fun Joe 😘
The UGG boots and PSLs and group photos with Kayleigh, Rayleigh, Ashleigh, and Myleigh are upon us "
You make it sound like the Leighs are the horsemen of the apocalypse. |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"I don't have the energy required to shave my toes but always happy to meet for a coffee - especially with PSL season fast approaching 😍
Oh God, how on Earth has it come around so quickly?
Time flies when you're having fun Joe 😘
The UGG boots and PSLs and group photos with Kayleigh, Rayleigh, Ashleigh, and Myleigh are upon us
You make it sound like the Leighs are the horsemen of the apocalypse."
That's unironically a TV show I would watch |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"I don't have the energy required to shave my toes but always happy to meet for a coffee - especially with PSL season fast approaching 😍
Oh God, how on Earth has it come around so quickly?
Time flies when you're having fun Joe 😘
The UGG boots and PSLs and group photos with Kayleigh, Rayleigh, Ashleigh, and Myleigh are upon us
You make it sound like the Leighs are the horsemen of the apocalypse.
That's unironically a TV show I would watch "
So would I! As long as they had an entrance as amazing as Death's in that show that doesn't exist past Season 11. |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"I don't have the energy required to shave my toes but always happy to meet for a coffee - especially with PSL season fast approaching 😍
Oh God, how on Earth has it come around so quickly?
Time flies when you're having fun Joe 😘
The UGG boots and PSLs and group photos with Kayleigh, Rayleigh, Ashleigh, and Myleigh are upon us
You make it sound like the Leighs are the horsemen of the apocalypse.
That's unironically a TV show I would watch
So would I! As long as they had an entrance as amazing as Death's in that show that doesn't exist past Season 11."
I love you for that reference, Meli! My favourite introduction of a character to a TV show  |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"I would be, if I could find anyone that tickles my fancy.
I'd probably go for coffee yes, it's just nice to get out."
You can't find anyone to meet?
Your profile is stunning, people in Portsmouth are nuts. |
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I'm not actively looking for anyone new for sex.
If/when my fab man asks to see me I'll be happy to say yes, and my non-fab friend is calling me.
I've been quite unwell recently, with one thing and another, resulting in no seggsy time |
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"Or words to that effect.
Are you "meeting" right now? What's an imaginative way to get that across?
If someone wasn't "meeting", would you still go for coffee with them? "
No I wouldn't go for a coffee with someone that wasn't meeting. I think it's leading them on. |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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Evening gorgeous Meli 😊
I've had a few days off from 'Tiggering' around the forum, I'm reserving my energy for more important upcoming activities  ... but rest assured my 'bounce' is still very much present. So, in answer to your question...I'm definitely not looking to meet anyone for the foreseeable. I have found my person, he has found me, and all is very happy and sexy in our little bubble 🥰 (packing my case for our getaway, as I type) |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"We are closed for ladies - unless you can entice us
We are on the prowl for single gents - it’s proving most difficult.
We’d love to be closed - takes energy looking for that rough diamond.
We’ve never got off the ground with couples - dynamics too hard to get everyone on the same page.
K"
Boob pics and voicenotes? Got it.
Ach, you'd think finding a single gent would be relatively easy... hopefully you and C find that rough diamond soon, x |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"Evening gorgeous Meli 😊
I've had a few days off from 'Tiggering' around the forum, I'm reserving my energy for more important upcoming activities ... but rest assured my 'bounce' is still very much present. So, in answer to your question...I'm definitely not looking to meet anyone for the foreseeable. I have found my person, he has found me, and all is very happy and sexy in our little bubble 🥰 (packing my case for our getaway, as I type) "
Hello Elle you wonderful Tigger-er!
Keep that energy directed - I hope your getaway goes brilliantly and you're full of smiles and joy. Really pleased to read you're not. |
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"Or words to that effect.
Are you "meeting" right now? What's an imaginative way to get that across?
If someone wasn't "meeting", would you still go for coffee with them? "
Yeah if we are freinds. I went to our local swingers club just this weekend gone spesifically to just sit and have a drink and a laugh with my freinds. Might have sqeezed a boob and bum here and there and had a couple of smooches but the clothes stayed on.
And I would go meet someone new for a coffee as a pre cursor to meet (if they are taking a little break) but if they never intend to play, no because what's the point?
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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A coffee is a coffee for me; I professionally have Intent on coffee and conversation with people everyday, I just don’t shag them all. It’s conversation; Friends, colleagues, people from my sports clubs, people from my charities, all not shagged but hours spent drinking coffee.
My profile says ‘I’m not meeting’, but that is in order to with-holding the intent of trying to fuck them.
You know what the men are like on this site. 🤣😂🍻😜 |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"Or words to that effect.
Are you "meeting" right now? What's an imaginative way to get that across?
If someone wasn't "meeting", would you still go for coffee with them?
Yeah if we are freinds. I went to our local swingers club just this weekend gone spesifically to just sit and have a drink and a laugh with my freinds. Might have sqeezed a boob and bum here and there and had a couple of smooches but the clothes stayed on.
And I would go meet someone new for a coffee as a pre cursor to meet (if they are taking a little break) but if they never intend to play, no because what's the point?
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Well... some people like to meet others in terms of friendship. There's not a right or wrong way of doing it - as long as you're compatible and honest, that's what matters. |
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"I'm not actively looking for anyone new for sex.
If/when my fab man asks to see me I'll be happy to say yes, and my non-fab friend is calling me.
I've been quite unwell recently, with one thing and another, resulting in no seggsy time "
Oh Nanna! I really hope you're doing better soon and can resume the seggsy sex times, x
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"Ooo this is very apt right now Meli!
I’m not currently meeting (for the sex). But I have been invited out for a coffee social meet this week.
It depends on our mutual diaries. Obvs. But I’m open to it!
The not being for sex part is much more appealing to me these days. Just so long as nobody has expectations of anything else, it’s certainly a consideration.
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again but that isn't not meeting that's doing social meetz |
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By *hilloutMan 26 weeks ago
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"Or words to that effect.
Are you "meeting" right now? What's an imaginative way to get that across?
If someone wasn't "meeting", would you still go for coffee with them? "
I'd happily meet someone for coffee who had no intention of "meeting", though that's unlikely given my geographical circumstances😅 Still, if the opportunity was there, why not? I enjoy conversing and getting to know others. |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"I'd only meet socially with females...too many men see it as a challenge if you say its just for a drink.
But there are men who understand a coffee is just a coffee. They do exist. Don't they? 😔
They do for sure"
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By *eli OP Woman 26 weeks ago
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"Or words to that effect.
Are you "meeting" right now? What's an imaginative way to get that across?
If someone wasn't "meeting", would you still go for coffee with them?
I'd happily meet someone for coffee who had no intention of "meeting", though that's unlikely given my geographical circumstances😅 Still, if the opportunity was there, why not? I enjoy conversing and getting to know others."
Well if you're over on the mainland and attending a social you could fit in a coffee or two I'm sure. Not with me obviously, troglodytes aren't my thing. |
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Up until recently I wasn’t meeting. I wasn’t meeting for coffee/beer/dinner/long walks on the beach. Certainly not meeting for sex. It was plastered all over my profile. In big horrible shouty capitals. Did it make any difference? Did it bollox!!! “I’ve read your profile. I think I meet your requirements…. Let’s meet”. Erm my requirements are that you bog off.
I slowly adjusted to “might meet” for sociable stuff….
I’m now back to meeting
Might meet**
Meat meet**
Mighty meaty meet**
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Getting less messages oddly 🤦🏼♀️🤣
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"Up until recently I wasn’t meeting. I wasn’t meeting for coffee/beer/dinner/long walks on the beach. Certainly not meeting for sex. It was plastered all over my profile. In big horrible shouty capitals. Did it make any difference? Did it bollox!!! “I’ve read your profile. I think I meet your requirements…. Let’s meet”. Erm my requirements are that you bog off.
I slowly adjusted to “might meet” for sociable stuff….
I’m now back to meeting
Might meet**
Meat meet**
Mighty meaty meet**
🤣🤣🤣
Getting less messages oddly 🤦🏼♀️🤣
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You're starting to sound like a pizza. |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"Currently not meeting...
Are you "meeting" right now? "
I tend to chat mostly, if that leads to meeting then I will be happy.
"What's an imaginative way to get that across? "
Not sure if that means an imaginative way of saying 'not meeting' or an imaginative way of getting around their not meeting.
I have not met in over a year, so probably not the best person to ask.
"If someone wasn't "meeting", would you still go for coffee with them? "
Ah, 'meeting' as in a euphemism for 'the Sex'. I would go for a coffee with someone, and have been known to go for waffles, a picnic, a pub meal, a pint (or two), a coffee and pastries, a walk in the park - I am more than content for that side of a meeting, and probably miss the clues when someone asks if i would like to "come back for a coffee". Maybe I should work on that in the future. |
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"Or words to that effect.
Are you "meeting" right now? What's an imaginative way to get that across?
If someone wasn't "meeting", would you still go for coffee with them? "
Nope. Not “meeting”. Very happy with my person ♥️
I will still be going for coffee with my current friends and socials etc. But my profile is only really here to chat with friends and fuck about on the forum.
Or if I ever manage to find that 99 year old who’s into SM 🤣
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I'm not meeting, and haven't been for a while but I really like the social aspect of this community and made some good friends so I'd be open for coffee and a chat. I've had my profile hidden for a long time but I've just opened it back up again. |
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"I'm not meeting, and haven't been for a while but I really like the social aspect of this community and made some good friends so I'd be open for coffee and a chat. I've had my profile hidden for a long time but I've just opened it back up again."
One of the ladies on here (giggles - local to you) arranges socials. |
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