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Can a narcissist forget you?
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By *hagTonight OP Man 23 weeks ago
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I was reading an interesting article about whether an narcissist can forget you?
She mentioned different points about how a narcesist is and acts, like how many people discarded by a narcissist continue to hope for their return, often thinking they have lost the love of their life.
She added that how narcissists lack 2 essential things which is the essential things "whole object relations and object constancy" also how narcessists often reply memories and feelings when they are in a low mood or have had a conflict with a new partner.
She concluded by saying that while a narcissist might remember you, they wont hold onto the memory with any real significance, they will continue their pattern of manipulation and move on to their next target.
What is your view about it, do you think that a narcessist can forget you? I agree that they might rememeber you, but never really trufully forget you, because their disorder causes them to view love in an unhealthy way  |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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"I think as long as you can move on, how the narcissist feels about it is their own problem, and you shouldn't let it be yours 💜"
Exactly that. Their loss is yours and someone else’s gain. You do you for you and let them deal with that must unwelcome of traits |
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Im very curious as to why you have read another article on narcissists Shag.
I don't view narcs as manufactured in the same factory and acting identically and robotically.
They have other aspects to their personalities |
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"It’s just another buzzword that has lost all meaning. Yes, there are narcissists out there but every man and their dog describes their ex as one when they were both guilty of shitty behaviour."
PLUSSSSSSSSS ..... my little sconeless amigo ...
There are narcissists functioning perfectly well and living happy fulfilled lives in just about every organisation you can mention ...... and they've never broken a heart nor murdered anyone!
Unless of course you can't keep your head out of pop psychology self help magazines |
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"It’s just another buzzword that has lost all meaning. Yes, there are narcissists out there but every man and their dog describes their ex as one when they were both guilty of shitty behaviour.
PLUSSSSSSSSS ..... my little sconeless amigo ...
There are narcissists functioning perfectly well and living happy fulfilled lives in just about every organisation you can mention ...... and they've never broken a heart nor murdered anyone!
Unless of course you can't keep your head out of pop psychology self help magazines"
I still want that scone  |
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By *agic.MMan 23 weeks ago
Orpington |
"I think as long as you can move on, how the narcissist feels about it is their own problem, and you shouldn't let it be yours 💜
Ever watched Baby Reindeer? 👀
She was misunderstood. "
Aren't we all  |
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"Im very curious as to why you have read another article on narcissists Shag.
I don't view narcs as manufactured in the same factory and acting identically and robotically.
They have other aspects to their personalities "
Exactly this. Every one now remove their labels and replace them with little scales and the good news is you can make up the names & have as many as you want.
I’m diagnosed as below and living a perfectly normal life…
Male Man 10/10
Awesome 8/10
Nutter 1/10
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By *mmaleiaWoman 23 weeks ago
Trowbridge |
I split from a narcissist 8 years ago, to this day he still tries to access my email & get a confirmation sent knowing I’d know at least once every 2 weeks, and only 3 months ago he liked 1 of my child’s post on Instagram, he’s not even following her!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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Shag, that’s some weekend reading!
I read a back issue of gardening monthly which was full of hints on what to do with narcissus perennials.
I am humbled shag truly humbled. |
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By *inx000Couple 23 weeks ago
Manchester |
When you break free from living with a narcissist you still haven't completely gained your freedom back as a narcissist will do whatever they can to still try and manipulate you,find out what your upto or use other sources to do so if they can't themselves.They feel like they have the need to control every part of your life and when your no longer with them they have lost all control so then look for other ways to feel like they have still got a say in what you do with your life.They leave behind emotional scars..the damage has already been done but once your brave enough to get yourself out of that situation it's a powerful feeling..you are free to be who you want to be. |
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"It’s just another buzzword that has lost all meaning. Yes, there are narcissists out there but every man and their dog describes their ex as one when they were both guilty of shitty behaviour."
Perfect reply regarding an overused word!
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By *hagTonight OP Man 23 weeks ago
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"I think as long as you can move on, how the narcissist feels about it is their own problem, and you shouldn't let it be yours 💜"
Yes, you are right there, as long as you can move on, is the most important thing too |
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By *hagTonight OP Man 23 weeks ago
From the land of haribos. |
"Im very curious as to why you have read another article on narcissists Shag.
I don't view narcs as manufactured in the same factory and acting identically and robotically.
They have other aspects to their personalities "
Hi, because it is an interesting topic too |
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By *hagTonight OP Man 23 weeks ago
From the land of haribos. |
"When you break free from living with a narcissist you still haven't completely gained your freedom back as a narcissist will do whatever they can to still try and manipulate you,find out what your upto or use other sources to do so if they can't themselves.They feel like they have the need to control every part of your life and when your no longer with them they have lost all control so then look for other ways to feel like they have still got a say in what you do with your life.They leave behind emotional scars..the damage has already been done but once your brave enough to get yourself out of that situation it's a powerful feeling..you are free to be who you want to be."
Hi minx, yes, you are right there, as they will do whatever they can to still try and manipulate you too.
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