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By *gent Coulson OP   Man 29 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

After several conversations on here with regard to being tied up/restrained /restricted in rope.

So in the interests of Sydney University please answer the following questions.

Have you ever been tied/restrained/restricted in rope?

If yes, how did it make you feel?

If no is it something you have an interest in trying?

Please submit your answers and the reasons why.

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple 29 weeks ago

Debauchery

Yes.

Vulnerable.

Because... I don't really know 🤔😏 It gives me clit twitch, it ties in with my fantasies, it stops me from pulling out of an orgasm, it keeps me in one place, it makes me grrrrrowl

Cherry x

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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago


"After several conversations on here with regard to being tied up/restrained /restricted in rope.

So in the interests of Sydney University please answer the following questions.

Have you ever been tied/restrained/restricted in rope?

If yes, how did it make you feel?

If no is it something you have an interest in trying?

Please submit your answers and the reasons why."

I’ve always been the one to do the restraining, I adore doing it, and teasing every inch of her beautiful skin.

Would I let her restrain me?

Yes completely because I think it would be beautiful to let her do what ever she wishes too

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 29 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Yes. I have. Rope bunnying is something I'd actually like to do more of, but I've yet to get to know anyone particularly into rope that I'd trust enough to do that with and wanted to do it with me on an ongoing basis.

It's not something I'd consider doing with just anyone though 💜

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By *rimson_RoseWoman 29 weeks ago

Tamworth

Yes.

Great.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman 29 weeks ago

Wherever

Yes.

Felt amazing as at the end of the day I knew I am the one in the ultimate control.

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By *bi HaiveMan 29 weeks ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

Yes. Loved it. Will do again. 👌

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman 29 weeks ago

your head


"After several conversations on here with regard to being tied up/restrained /restricted in rope.

So in the interests of Sydney University please answer the following questions.

Have you ever been tied/restrained/restricted in rope?

If yes, how did it make you feel?

If no is it something you have an interest in trying?

Please submit your answers and the reasons why."

Yes

I loved it and definitely something I'd like to try more of.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan 29 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Cuffed behind my back and blindfolded. Broke the cuffs because she went near my neck. No I'm not superhuman, I think they were Toys R Us specials.

Like to use restraint with someone I know. Hot and cold play too. It heightens the senses beautifully

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By *vaRose43Woman 29 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I enjoy restraint from both sides.

A man giving me their trust to take control and be vulnerable is fucking hot. On the flip side giving over that control and freedom flips the switch in my brain to just enjoy whatever is coming next as I can’t escape . Both are delicious

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman 29 weeks ago

Wherever


"I enjoy restraint from both sides.

A man giving me their trust to take control and be vulnerable is fucking hot. On the flip side giving over that control and freedom flips the switch in my brain to just enjoy whatever is coming next as I can’t escape . Both are delicious"

This ^

For me as well.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple 29 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Yes. I very much enjoy being a bunny with someone I trust. The sensation against my skin and power exchange involved is a big turn for me. I get into subspace very quickly with rope.

J

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By *ittlebirdWoman 29 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Yes. And it makes me feel like me ♥️

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By *ou only live onceMan 29 weeks ago

London

I've tied (in a casual kind of way - I'm not some kind of shibari master).

Never been tied, but it's high on the to do list in a couple of scenarios.

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By *_Mr.K_xMan 29 weeks ago

North Worcestershire

Pleasure Dom and Shibari practioner here at heart

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By *_rosesCouple 29 weeks ago

Bolton

We use ropes and spreader bars and the like sometimes on each other and have added a second lady to the fun from time to time

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By *arkSovereignMan 29 weeks ago

Lancashire

I’ve been handcuffed to a bed frame and blindfolded before. 10/10 experience, would recommend.

Other than that, I tend to be the one doing all the tying up, rather than the one that is tied up

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 29 weeks ago

North West

I enjoy being tied up/restrained yes. We play with rope sometimes when we have enough time to ourselves. I enjoy being "restrained" in other ways too, e.g. gagged, nipples clamped and pulled. That kinda thing. It makes my clit twitch

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By *rimson_RoseWoman 29 weeks ago

Tamworth

I have more time now to reply properly.

I have a bar with collar and cuffs attached which I’ve not been able to use yet because it needs to right person 😞

So yes, I love to be restrained.

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By *r.SJMan 29 weeks ago

Wellingborough

Yep, just the once at a club...

I found the feeling of hands wandering my body as the rope was intricately woven around my torso and thighs and then entwining my balls, electrifying and sensual and the feeling of mercy and being beholden to the pleasure of our playmates (had gone as a couple and were both tied separately by a couple) especially as they used the rope to lead us to a playroom and then tugging on it as more intimate fun ensued... only heightened the sensations and pleasure.

Given the opportunity, yes please, would definitely try it again.

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By *rolicUsCouple 29 weeks ago

Alluringly mysterious

Could not adore it more. 🪢 or other means. Helps my busy feral brain and body still and focus on the absolute anticipation of what’s to come. Some of my hottest times have arisen while I’ve been restrained by one or more delicious, respectful deviants.

Absolutely planning to explore more, including suspension hopefully.

Mrs F

😊

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple 29 weeks ago

Leeds

The Mr enjoys being tied up, me not so much, but I do enjoy tying him up and doing as I please!

I'd love to tie him up and have another woman with me while we get it on and tease him 🥵

Mrs

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By *C44Man 29 weeks ago

Ipswich

Love tying, learning shibari but unfortunately lost my partner. Intrigued about having it done to me as well

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 29 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

No. I don't trust ANYONE.

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By *avexxMan 29 weeks ago

cheshire


"No. I don't trust ANYONE. "
... im with you on this granny

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 29 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"No. I don't trust ANYONE. ... im with you on this granny"

Okay Dave. Me n you then. What will our safe word be ?

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By *ustamanMan 29 weeks ago

weymouth

Not experienced and yes I'd like along with blindfold

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By *avexxMan 29 weeks ago

cheshire


"No. I don't trust ANYONE. ... im with you on this granny

Okay Dave. Me n you then. What will our safe word be ?"

,, granny knot

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By *rHotNottsMan 29 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

No & no. I love restraining & dominating but no interest in being on the other side.

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By *akedMMan 29 weeks ago

Witney

I like to restrain ladies to my bed blindfolded. I like to tease using my toys on them .Sadly it’s been a very long time since I’ve done this

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 29 weeks ago

North West


"No. I don't trust ANYONE. "

I trust Mr KC but no-one else so far unless he's been there too.

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By *ansexualPandaMan 29 weeks ago

cumallover

I enjoy the tied up dynamic

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By *reachersdaughterWoman 29 weeks ago

Someplace

Yes. Don't really do a thing for me tbh

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By *iker JackMan 29 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I used to teach shibari

It’s an art and there are some amazing designs

All I would say is learn your craft. Learn from an experienced rigger

Set any/all limits before any session and safe words

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By *rBobbMan 29 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Yes. And it makes me feel like me ♥️"

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By *ir-March-a-lotMan 29 weeks ago

london

I’ve had the experience of once being restrained by the wrists and ankles and intensely pleasured. I loved every minute of it. It helped that she knew exactly what she was doing and could read my reactions to her actions. I definitely would try it again.

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By *viatrixWoman 29 weeks ago

Redhill

I’d love to watch someone be tied, but I’d never want to have it done to me.

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By *C44Man 29 weeks ago

Ipswich


"I used to teach shibari

It’s an art and there are some amazing designs

All I would say is learn your craft. Learn from an experienced rigger

Set any/all limits before any session and safe words "

I'm still looking for a teacher, so few people about locally

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS 29 weeks ago

Truro

Yes, many times & I love the feeling of being restricted & controlled x

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By *allerthanaverage79Man 29 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Try it!

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By *ipstick KissesWoman 29 weeks ago

There and Here

Yes. Tied and blindfolded.

It went on too long - I felt frustrated and bored and it definitely put me off being restrained ever again.

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman 27 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

Sometimes I worry the fantasy would be better than the reality.

Like, I can cum really quickly to the idea of being blindfolded, gagged and tied to a bench whilst Hubby invites his mates over - the thought of not being able to say no and being relentlessly used as a fuck hole is hot as an idea (I could trust him not to allow anything I wasn't happy with), but something tells me the reality wouldn't live up to expectations.

I do get wet from being restrained though. I guess it's the anticipation...

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By *ust JuicyWoman 27 weeks ago

east london

In the past loved being restrained strangely it quietened the squirrels that are normally running around my head …. Improved concentration and focus

No idea why

But not with rope and not sure I have the time or inclination to build that level of trust again

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By *agatoXXXMan 27 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

Tied up and teased, yes.

Tied up and pain, no.

Tied up and blindfolded, hard no.

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By *viatrixWoman 27 weeks ago

Redhill

Nope, not interested at all.

I have very sensitive skin and the idea of the rope scratching it makes me all anxious 😰 and it doesn’t do anything for me to arouse me etc.

However, I am a voyeuse and wouls love to watch someone being tied up sometime 👀

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

Nope.

But would I let someone tie me up? Maybe with trust and depending who, I might let them.

But until then, I’ll continue to practice my own knots. 😏

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By *hePleasurerMan 27 weeks ago

Cheshire

I've been tied in various ways, many times, mostly by women but occasionally by men. It ranged from basic stuff (such as wrists tied behind my back) to move complicated and intense (secured to a frame, for example). Sometimes just tied, sometimes sex qas also involved.

How did I feel? Nervous, excited, aroused. It's a big turn-on for me, and I'm definitely up for more!

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple 27 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

I enjoy being tied up.as long as I'm not made into a pretzel 🤣🤣

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By *heonixrising500Man 27 weeks ago

Barnsley

Did it years ago in a ffm situation loved it

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By *hePleasurerMan 27 weeks ago

Cheshire

Ask nicely and you could get a photo or two.

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

No, this is my worse nightmare and I'd freak out if I couldn't move.

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By *asha86Couple 27 weeks ago

walsall

I love been restrained (when with someone I trust). I enjoy the feeling of restriction xT

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By *oldyoudown41Man 27 weeks ago

caledonian

With trust, anything is game ahahhaha don’t quote me

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago


"After several conversations on here with regard to being tied up/restrained /restricted in rope.

So in the interests of Sydney University please answer the following questions.

Have you ever been tied/restrained/restricted in rope?

If yes, how did it make you feel?

If no is it something you have an interest in trying?

Please submit your answers and the reasons why."

Yes. Made me feel brilliant and always will do with someone I trust. With a stranger....not sure I'd feel comfortable

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By *avid 50Man 27 weeks ago

kendal

It is all down to trust and when me and my partner have done it although we are restrained we can both get out should we need to but the blindfold add another dimension and there is always a safe word to stop whatever is going on. Would not feel safe doing it with people I don’t know and I would never put her through that, scenario

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By *uckurcumMan 27 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

I've been roped in the past and enjoyed it ... You need a safe word should things get beyond what you wished for ...trust is paramount.

Do like to tie a guys hands behind his back whilst sitting him on a chair naked and hood him and get to work on him till he cums..really horny watching their reactions

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By *olfandtazCouple 27 weeks ago

Bristol

We have a picture on our profile of some of the fun we had this weekend.

Taz enjoys the freedom of being restrained and the submission that she does comes with it.

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By *atexbound_scotMan 27 weeks ago

Livingston

Love being restrained. Giving up control, being at the mercy of (a trusted) someone

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By *istressSubCuckMan 27 weeks ago

Winchester

Tying and being tied are both excellent when done well.

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By *acDreamyMan 27 weeks ago

Wirral

I have been tied but I love tying both for the aesthetic and for kinky restraints.

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By *emdomCouple2024Couple 27 weeks ago

dudley

Yes for us both, myself is more of a once I know/trust you more, Mr is happy to be tied anytime xx

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago


"

Have you ever been tied/restrained/restricted in rope?

If yes, how did it make you feel?

If no is it something you have an interest in trying?

"

Yes... I like the bite of the rope against my skin and the way that small adjustments speak.. Its my happy place and I wish I could do more of it...

I would love to do suspended rope, but worry about my weight and also whether my body could cope with the various pressure points

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By *atnip make me purrWoman 27 weeks ago

Reading

Yes and I really enjoy it. But i wouldn't have the patience for shibari.

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By *hunky GentMan 27 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"

Have you ever been tied/restrained/restricted in rope?

If yes, how did it make you feel?

If no is it something you have an interest in trying?

Yes... I like the bite of the rope against my skin and the way that small adjustments speak.. Its my happy place and I wish I could do more of it...

I would love to do suspended rope, but worry about my weight and also whether my body could cope with the various pressure points "

Using straps instead of rope would help.

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By *ubmissive guyMan 27 weeks ago

Liverpool

I remember doing this years ago ,my GF at the time tying my hands behind my back, using a stocking I loved it. Right up to her trying to undo the knot. In the end, she had to use a knife and I was terrified she would cut my wrist. Kind of put me off doing it again .

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By *acDreamyMan 27 weeks ago

Wirral


"

Have you ever been tied/restrained/restricted in rope?

If yes, how did it make you feel?

If no is it something you have an interest in trying?

Yes... I like the bite of the rope against my skin and the way that small adjustments speak.. Its my happy place and I wish I could do more of it...

I would love to do suspended rope, but worry about my weight and also whether my body could cope with the various pressure points "

You could definitely do suspension! You just need an experienced rigger to ensure no pressure points and that you are safe.

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By *eart31Couple 27 weeks ago

Broxburn

Love being tied up!

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman 27 weeks ago

Next Door

It is something that I can do with people who has gained my trust.

That's not happened often and it's been 8yrs since the last time I was tied up with someone who I trusted.

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

Or should that've read ‘To be tied up or knot?’

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By *olfandtazCouple 27 weeks ago

Bristol


"

Have you ever been tied/restrained/restricted in rope?

If yes, how did it make you feel?

If no is it something you have an interest in trying?

Yes... I like the bite of the rope against my skin and the way that small adjustments speak.. Its my happy place and I wish I could do more of it...

I would love to do suspended rope, but worry about my weight and also whether my body could cope with the various pressure points "

It's a shame you won't meet smokers, we have ceiling hooks which we use for suspension, taz loves it

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By *idssissyTV/TS 27 weeks ago

Birmingham

Bondage is one of my passions and the thing that started my kink journey.

Not done much rope as there are few female riggers and most men won't tie other men.

One of the best experiences was being trampled on while suspended off the ground.

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By *ir tootMan 27 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

only thing I'd like to try is being restrained from touching myself, nothing to hardcore mind you

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