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By *hillout OP Man 24 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Another survey this time not so lopsided (I think?)
Please state Yes or No if you've ever attended a swingers club
If the reply is No, please state if you intend to at some point.
Yes from me. Multiple occasions.
Over to you 😁 |
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By *mmaleiaWoman 24 weeks ago
Trowbridge |
Yes, Jaydees twice
Want to go to Chams soon |
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Yes and I’m off to one again tonight , exciting !! |
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By *AYENCouple 24 weeks ago
Lincolnshire |
No
We probably will at some point. |
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By *hillout OP Man 24 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Yes, Jaydees twice
Want to go to Chams soon"
Jaydees has been on my list for ages 😁 |
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By *eliWoman 24 weeks ago
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I'm going to say no only because I want to even out your survey a bit more. Having one drink doesn't make you an alcoholic.  |
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By *hillout OP Man 24 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I'm going to say no only because I want to even out your survey a bit more. Having one drink doesn't make you an alcoholic. "
No but it means you've sampled alcohol 😁 |
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Yes - about 20 times - maybe 7/8 clubs
Played in them with others - 3
K |
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Yes. Though for bdsm events rather than swinging.  |
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Oh yes, many many times ...
And in fact, when abroad and English is not widely spoken, I learn in the local lingo "yes or no?" So I just point to my arse and say that ...
So recently in Norwegian ... "Ya aller Nie?"... |
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By *rsPricklePantsWoman 24 weeks ago
Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk |
Yes but not really my thing so very doubtful I will again |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS 24 weeks ago
About 3 feet away from the fence |
Literally was at one last night |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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Yes. A few times. Celebrated my 50th birthday at one. But haven't been for a while now. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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Yes |
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By *bi HaiveMan 24 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Yes. Lots.
Many long since closed down. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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Yes
3 or 4 different locations and all enjoyable for different reasons |
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By *eyeYCouple 24 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
Yes. Only 3 so far, but more than once to each..
Intending to visit more that we've been invited to by friends |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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Yes
I am in one of pic's on Naked Occasions profile on here.
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By *hillout OP Man 24 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Yes, but I doubt I will again."
Just not your thing or unpleasant experience?
I've been to CJ's and loved it 😁 |
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Yes multiple and more times than we can remember |
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"Yes. Lots.
Many long since closed down. "
Stunners... RIP x |
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Nø.
I have no intention to whatsoever. |
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"Yes. Once. Not for me "
Yes xx |
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No but I would love to. Just need someone to come with me 😂 |
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By *hillout OP Man 24 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"No but I would love to. Just need someone to come with me 😂"
Clever 😁😉 |
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Yes, once. I went as the guest of a lady. Couples have invited me to clubs to play with them both, but everytime I have tried, the club would not let me in as their single guy quota had been reached. |
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"No but I would love to. Just need someone to come with me 😂
Clever 😁😉"
Are you volunteering? |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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Yes |
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Yes, Xstasia, Gatehouse and Townhouse. All were great nights, plan to visit more local clubs over the next year! |
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Yes, In Sydney decades ago though |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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No. Highly unlikely to. |
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By *hillout OP Man 24 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"No
Been invited, but hesitant."
Do it my man! 😁 |
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No, and probably not because there are none over here. |
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Yes in Australia UK and ireland. Clubs n parties best |
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No but Mrs Bang Bang is keen so at some stage we definitely will
Mr |
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By *_Mr.K_xMan 24 weeks ago
North Worcestershire |
No, not yet.
Hopefully, Chams on the 14th Aug if anyone is gonna be there? |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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I have been to swingers club once, it was alright although I didn't get laid but good vibes overall however I don't think I go to another one again since they charge single men the most to enter one |
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"Another survey this time not so lopsided (I think?)
Please state Yes or No if you've ever attended a swingers club
If the reply is No, please state if you intend to at some point.
Yes from me. Multiple occasions.
Over to you 😁"
Yes
Once for a swingers night
Twice for kink events.
They were all different places and am now in a position with a partner where I can do more 
Let the fun begin |
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By *lex46TV/TS 24 weeks ago
Near Wells |
Yes, quite a few times. The price of staying overnight in hotels is now starting to put me off. |
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By *hillout OP Man 24 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
54:12 in favour of YES
4 of the 12 No replies manifest interest in eventually popping their club cherry. |
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By *ags73Man 24 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
YES I started only at start 2024, lots to learn. |
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By *hillout OP Man 24 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"YES I started only at start 2024, lots to learn."
Here's to a wild and wonderful ride 😁 |
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By *ags73Man 24 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
"YES I started only at start 2024, lots to learn.
Here's to a wild and wonderful ride 😁"
Only Scotland so far, i think clubs northern England would be an eye opener but would need pals to go with sort of thing |
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"No
Been invited, but hesitant.
Do it my man! 😁"
I'm more of a 'spoons type guy, looking at some of the crazies in there from the comfort of my watered down pint, desperate not to have to trek to the toilet.
I don't know if I want to become one of the wanking dead. What's in it for me as a single guy?
*In amongst that bollocks is a little bit of a serious question 😂 |
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Yes.
I've been to a few, as a couple. We were never regulars though. It wasn't top of our agenda and more a niché desire that occasionally took us.
I've never been as a single guy, I don't think it would offer much to me, more than any other location - unless I was meeting someone I knew there. |
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Hell yes, numerous times. Looking to branch out to Amsterdam for our next adventure |
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By *HUSH-Man 24 weeks ago
London |
No.
It’s not on my bucket list so it’s unlikely too. |
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By *B69Woman 24 weeks ago
Wiltshire |
No, just dosnt appeal, im not good at sharing |
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By *rispyDuckMan 24 weeks ago
Chinese Takeaway near you |
Not yet
Reason: comes across as extortion the prices most clubs charge single guys 
Get reasons why but it’s still exploitation in my eyes  |
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Yea
Many from the age of 26 to 34 |
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No.
It’s something I’ve been keen to try but the nearest to me is roughly 114 miles away. |
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By *ags73Man 24 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
"Not yet
Reason: comes across as extortion the prices most clubs charge single guys
Get reasons why but it’s still exploitation in my eyes "
It is what it is and it’s not gonna change |
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Many times - so much more successful than the soul-destroying wasteland of Fab as a single guy. Once you find your place and your people there aren't too many negatives. |
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"Yes, but I doubt I will again."
"Just not your thing or unpleasant experience? I've been to CJ's and loved it 😁"
I’ve enjoyed clubs when I’ve been with other people. Not when I’ve gone along on my own. I think they’re just not for me. I don’t find them sexy places. |
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By *hillout OP Man 24 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Yes, but I doubt I will again.
Just not your thing or unpleasant experience? I've been to CJ's and loved it 😁
I’ve enjoyed clubs when I’ve been with other people. Not when I’ve gone along on my own. I think they’re just not for me. I don’t find them sexy places."
I completely get that. If you attend on your own and don't know people there it can be intimidating. The evening can either go well if you're lucky or be completely forgettable. |
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Yes love it, but as a single guy can be hard work! X |
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Yes. Numerous times. Several different clubs and we work at one |
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No |
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By *elly61TV/TS 24 weeks ago
Burnham on Sea |
Yes, Many many times, fair few different clubs/venues |
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"I completely get that. If you attend on your own and don't know people there it can be intimidating. The evening can either go well if you're lucky or be completely forgettable. "
It’s not that, for me. I really don’t have a problem socialising solo. I just don’t find them nice places. Rubber sheets ain’t sexy. I’ve only enjoyed clubs with other people because I enjoyed being with those people - not the place. |
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Yes, we've been to our local club several times and keen to try some more as well! A few in the north of England are definitely on the hitlist!
C x |
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No,
It's something I would like to do but the nerves have got the better of me currently. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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Yes once and it was great but it closed down and there’s nothing near enough now for a cheeky visit 😢 |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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Yes once - Penthouse (Newbie night). It was good |
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Yes. Would like to attend again, given the chance. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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No. But we definitely intend to go as soon as we can get of this rock. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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Yes 1 time and planning more |
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By *errocaWoman 24 weeks ago
Shropshire |
Yes
And tonight going to a venue not been to before.  |
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We've attended loads, we love em! |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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Yes, cupids this Wednesday too |
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Yes... very recently though for the first time. |
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By *hillout OP Man 23 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"No.
It’s something I’ve been keen to try but the nearest to me is roughly 114 miles away. "
Plan a weekend away and get that first experience 😁 |
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Yes cupids quite a few times but not recently, need to go again |
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No, but intend to visit the history d'O in Narbonne as my first. |
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I found the Sydney University guy! |
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By *hillout OP Man 23 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
94:25 in favour of YES
11 No replies have as a goal eventually visiting one😁 |
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Yes but rare. Private parties many times |
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By *vaRose43Woman 23 weeks ago
Forest of Dean |
No, but I have been to kink clubs many years ago
Not sure, not ready for that step yet |
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By *afkaMan 23 weeks ago
Nottingham (ish) |
Yes.
Been a few times, always find it thoroughly entertaining. |
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It's a yes from me, the number is growing pretty rapidly atm. |
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Yes and yes hope to go to more in future. |
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No but hope to or hope a more local one opens up x |
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Yes and we will continue to visit them.
Nutty  |
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Yes. Popped our cherry in PDI and have visited a couple in the UK now as well |
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By *ucka39Man 23 weeks ago
Newcastle |
Nope, always a possibility one day |
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Yes several times tried 3 clubs now. Kestrels is still my favourite. |
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By *DcbCouple 23 weeks ago
Leeds |
Yes, Pandoras, Quest, Cupids so far and soon to be Club Play.
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Yes, a variety of clubs and events  |
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By *layfulGentMan 23 weeks ago
Doncaster South Yorkshire |
No however wanting to, being a single gent and the place I’m from the logistics would be truly costly as one would have to fork out for a hotel also. I hear there is one opening up in Sheffield which is closer to me so once the place opens I shall be diving into the world of a club. Fingers crossed it all goes well with the one in Sheffield and they open one in Doncaster 🤟🏻 |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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Yes |
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Yes. Out of curiosity.
Won't go again.
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Yes.
Jaydees a few times. I want to try somewhere new possibly. |
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By *C44Man 23 weeks ago
Ipswich |
No, want to but not keen on going alone |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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Yessss…. Mostly WWW at VA, but also been to Libs, a few Killing Kittens events and Fox & Badge. Love it, but don’t usually play as I’m more of a private kinda guy. |
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By *hillout OP Man 23 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Final tally
121:36 in favor of YES
15 NO replies have as a goal eventually visiting one😁
It would seem a clear majority of forum users have either been to, or seek to attend a club for the first time in the future. Again, I expected numbers more evenly split and not so lopsided. Interesting!😁
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