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By (user no longer on site) OP 26 weeks ago
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I've enjoyed the lifestyle with a partner previously and the conversation and subsequent journey was prompted by something on TV. Back then it didn't matter whether she wanted to try or not.
Now, I find myself single and whilst I'm not particularly looking for another LTR, these things creep up out of nowhere.
So how have others broached the subject during dating as if it's to progress, I'd want someone interested in exploring swinging.
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If god forbid I ever had to date again I'd have certain things that I brought up almost as soon as I thought it might progress beyond dinner, drinks and a good evening out and I'd encourage them to do the same.
I don't have time and certainly don't have the inclination to find six months down the line that he doesn't like holidays abroad, wouldn't like the idea of me talking to men on the internet and kept the thermostat at 15°c whatever the weather. |
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"I always confront controversial but non-negotiable topics early on. I'd rather burn bridges than waste time."
Kinda this …. If I click and we are chatting it will always come up or maybe it’s me that brings it up …. But always state what I enjoy and don’t enjoy !
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"If god forbid I ever had to date again I'd have certain things that I brought up almost as soon as I thought it might progress beyond dinner, drinks and a good evening out and I'd encourage them to do the same.
I don't have time and certainly don't have the inclination to find six months down the line that he doesn't like holidays abroad, wouldn't like the idea of me talking to men on the internet and kept the thermostat at 15°c whatever the weather. "
Too right... 15 is way too high... |
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"If god forbid I ever had to date again I'd have certain things that I brought up almost as soon as I thought it might progress beyond dinner, drinks and a good evening out and I'd encourage them to do the same.
I don't have time and certainly don't have the inclination to find six months down the line that he doesn't like holidays abroad, wouldn't like the idea of me talking to men on the internet and kept the thermostat at 15°c whatever the weather.
Too right... 15 is way too high..."
I set my boundaries out early
Don’t touch my ears
Don’t touch the thermostat
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