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By *ikeEx OP   Man 24 weeks ago

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I've noticed a few guys and some women ask for people to be kind when they are let down by someone that doesn't think they would be the ideal playmates / match / session buddy.

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The thing is... many people use this site to escape the sh** that is in their lives..

An ex that won't let go.

and Ex that did let go (with everyone else).

work, financial matters, stress, strains and mental health issues.

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As a person who relates to one of the above....

May I ask one question please?

Would you please be kind when letting someone down?

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If you are let down, please accept it graciously, because you never know... that person who let you down, may actually have been waiting for the right moment to say "yes". and acting like a spoilt brat may put you on their blocked list forever....

Just a thought.

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By *mf123Man 24 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

The fact i wont give anyone the fuck of there life anymore id say im now naturally cruel for that reason alone but also kind as im too addictive for humans to handle only goddesses have the will power to break the spell so bit of both

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By *ellinever70Woman 24 weeks ago

Ayrshire

May I ask what you would like people to add to a 'no'?

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By *issmorganWoman 24 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

If i get a message from someone I'm not interested in, I usually just say thanks but no thanks and wish them happy swinging.

I wouldn't say anything more unless they asked why not etc.

It's only if they're persistent I'd give a sarky reply.

I'm not sure the be kind applies to everything on here, but we can all try not to be twats,unless others are to us.

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By *agerMorganMan 24 weeks ago

Canvey Island

I sent a message last night to someone and got blocked. I find being blocked easier than a, sometimes, insincere message back.

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By *ikeEx OP   Man 24 weeks ago

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"May I ask what you would like people to add to a 'no'?"

To be honest, I've had a few "sorry not my type" or "read and not replied"

But I've heard some guys are quite nasty to women and also heard some women in their responses are quite cruel.

One response I had was "go and f**k your mother"

which would be difficult, because she's been buried for 26years.

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By *4bimMan 24 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

people are just images and pixels. nothing more.

put everything out of the mind. coversations are with bots, images are on the internet. they dont exist.

the only time you change that way of thought is when you meet and have sex with them.

so they are nothing. zero.

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By *ora the explorerWoman 24 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

A yes or no is kind enough. No need to be nasty though. I have never and will never give reasons. There’s no need.

I’ve never been unkind

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By *a LunaWoman 24 weeks ago

South Wales

There’s never any need for unpleasantness. I’m quite capable of saying no thanks in a polite manner.

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By *icecouple561Couple 24 weeks ago
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East Sussex

Some people are nasty some people aren't. I doubt asking the nasty ones to be kinder will have any impact at all.

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By *andG2024Couple 24 weeks ago

Hurley

We fine until people don’t read our profile correctly and repeat sane question also the one who ask questions about the age of my children not presume the guess with may have them get a polite f&&k off

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By *oxy jWoman 24 weeks ago

somerset

sorry op but no ... if you cant accept how the scene is then maybe you should consider another hobby as this is and alway has been a select / reject scene and on top of that im not going to invest my time in people im not interested in i invest my time in those i am ... if a no upsets you then you really are not going to get to far with a fragile ego ....

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By *oxy jWoman 24 weeks ago

somerset

oh and i agree nobody should get abuse no matter who you are thats just shitty

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