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"Hey, so not looking to judge, but I'm keen to understand what makes a woman (or man I guess) cheat? I've always assumed it must be due to lack of sex/play at home, but I'm thinking now that may be over simplified. Anyone got a view on this or happy to share their reasons? (Privatly if you wish). Im intrigues as I've been reading a lot about desire revently, so it just got me thinking... "Cowardess Speaking from experience. I was in a marriage. It wasn't good. I had a MAJOR operation, it got worse. I wanted to leave but was afraid of my ability to work and provide for my kids as a single parent and was concerned for him as I didn't know how he'd do without the family unit. After a bit I felt I needed affection. He was very anti kink and we hadn't had sex for a few years. I explored and was finding myself. Then I strayed. A series of events have occured, I'm now an ex wife (or very soon will be when the paperwork comes through), the work situation is very part time due to consequences of the op, but I am doing it. I should have left earlier, I should have had the guts to do it. Plus he is ok, a couple of weeks after it all exploded he got a new g/f so even he was ready to move on. | |||
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"It's not always a lack of sex. And I don't think it means someone has fallen out of love. I guess sometimes people do shitty things. I think ultimately it boils down to them not being happy and fulfilled in some aspect of their relationship but you could name a thousand different reasons for that." Quite agree with your sentiments N xxx | |||
"There really isn’t a one size fits all answer to this OP. Would be nice if there was and they wore a big red flag out of the top of their head but sadly not 👍🏻" Very much agree with this statement Cheating was the catalyst that brought us to swinging And having just celebrated our 41st anniversary I’d say we are still very much in love N xxxx | |||
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"There really isn’t a one size fits all answer to this OP. Would be nice if there was and they wore a big red flag out of the top of their head but sadly not 👍🏻 Very much agree with this statement Cheating was the catalyst that brought us to swinging And having just celebrated our 41st anniversary I’d say we are still very much in love N xxxx" Glad to hear it ♥️ | |||
"Esther Perel writes really well on this. Jigs x " Is it a book Katie could take on holiday to read??? Just imagining the looks from others around the pool?? | |||
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"Because they have no consideration for others x" Often true, no care for what they might take home just to get their thrills. | |||
"Esther Perel writes really well on this. Jigs x Is it a book Katie could take on holiday to read??? Just imagining the looks from others around the pool??" Absolutely. Shows self awareness and education. Jigs x | |||
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