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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham

Hello lovely fabbers,

Am I the only one thinking that a lot of people here have crazy expectations? That’s not being selective or very picky: some people are just dreaming

Girls & woman on an average of 5/10 looking for “8 inches or more only”

Cuck couples “but the hubby may join and he’s bi, and you’ll meet him alone first and only if he likes you, you have a 9 inches cock, spunk like a horse and you complete the evil dragon quest you may have a chance to meet wifey too”

Gay men messaging straight man, even when it’s clearly specified “not looking for single males”

Women happy for a meet, but “social first, 5 star restaurant with the best wine and if we fuck in hotel I expect you to pay for the room”

Males that present themselves as the new Rocco Siffredi, happy for content creation/to be used by a group of hungry grannies

What the heck is going on here? I used to laugh at some propositions, but the level of entitlement of some users is beyond belief

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 16 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I'm sure when they don't get that they think they'll deserve they'll leave in a huff. Possibly with a bitter little rant about how it's everyone else's expectations that are the problem on the way out.

I wouldn't worry about what other people are doing if they're not your people OP 💜

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago

If you don’t ask, you don’t get!

people can ask for whatever they want. If don’t wanna get on board just don’t get on board with it. 👍🏻🌈

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"I'm sure when they don't get that they think they'll deserve they'll leave in a huff. Possibly with a bitter little rant about how it's everyone else's expectations that are the problem on the way out.

I wouldn't worry about what other people are doing if they're not your people OP 💜"

True, and I actually saw so many profile born and disappeared in the space of days that I wonder if they were fake in the first place

It’s just that the entitlement I see in this place went from amusing to frankly irritating. And trust me, I haven’t seen anyone that had any reason to feel entitled

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By *arlot o scaraWoman 16 weeks ago

Hell

Nothing gets the pussy in faster than a thread like this. You’ll be beating them off with a shitty stick before the sun goes down

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"Nothing gets the pussy in faster than a thread like this. You’ll be beating them off with a shitty stick before the sun goes down "

I wasn’t doing a thread to get pussy in. I’d use a better bait

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By *parkle1974Woman 16 weeks ago

Leeds

I always do a social first but would laugh at a 5 star restaurant.

I'm happy with a cuppa and a packet of crisps

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By *icecouple561Couple 16 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

What if the 8 inchers are only 5/10?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 16 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"True, and I actually saw so many profile born and disappeared in the space of days that I wonder if they were fake in the first place

It’s just that the entitlement I see in this place went from amusing to frankly irritating. And trust me, I haven’t seen anyone that had any reason to feel entitled "

Why is it irritating instead of amusing now?

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By *parkle1974Woman 16 weeks ago

Leeds


"I'm sure when they don't get that they think they'll deserve they'll leave in a huff. Possibly with a bitter little rant about how it's everyone else's expectations that are the problem on the way out.

I wouldn't worry about what other people are doing if they're not your people OP 💜

True, and I actually saw so many profile born and disappeared in the space of days that I wonder if they were fake in the first place

It’s just that the entitlement I see in this place went from amusing to frankly irritating. And trust me, I haven’t seen anyone that had any reason to feel entitled "

And it's not "entitlement"

...its "preferences"

If you come across someone's profile you dont find is compatible with what you are looking for then it's very easy to hit the block button and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago


"Nothing gets the pussy in faster than a thread like this. You’ll be beating them off with a shitty stick before the sun goes down "

I don’t think he’s after pussy at this point. I think most of the guys (or girls) who go out with a blaze of Glory I’ve just got to the point where they couldn’t give a shit about the people on Fab that have pissed them off for whatever reason.

Whether it’s right or wrong, there’s a lot of people on here, that think Fab is shit, and it’s a People on here that make it shit.

And those that have left, I still saying, it’s shit and wouldn’t come back.

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By *affron40Woman 16 weeks ago

manchester

And yet you also appear to have expectations…. 🤣 the irony is real.

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By *oxy jWoman 16 weeks ago

somerset

just be you and let others be themselves that way its easy to filter ...

wanting something is not entitlement ...entitlement is expecting something very different ...

and to be fair on fab women and couples can pretty much get what they want due to the abundance of desperate men ...

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By *B69Woman 16 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Just block me now Op I have preferences and pay for hotels

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 16 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"I'm sure when they don't get that they think they'll deserve they'll leave in a huff. Possibly with a bitter little rant about how it's everyone else's expectations that are the problem on the way out.

I wouldn't worry about what other people are doing if they're not your people OP 💜

True, and I actually saw so many profile born and disappeared in the space of days that I wonder if they were fake in the first place

It’s just that the entitlement I see in this place went from amusing to frankly irritating. And trust me, I haven’t seen anyone that had any reason to feel entitled "

I sniff some rejection Op, have you been rejected.....🤣🤣

Mr

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"What if the 8 inchers are only 5/10?"

They may well be, I’m sure it would be a massive disappointment but what do I know?

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"True, and I actually saw so many profile born and disappeared in the space of days that I wonder if they were fake in the first place

It’s just that the entitlement I see in this place went from amusing to frankly irritating. And trust me, I haven’t seen anyone that had any reason to feel entitled

Why is it irritating instead of amusing now?"

Because of the sheer number of entitled and deluded persons.

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago


".

wanting something is not entitlement ...entitlement is expecting something very different ...

"

I like that. 🌈

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"Nothing gets the pussy in faster than a thread like this. You’ll be beating them off with a shitty stick before the sun goes down

I don’t think he’s after pussy at this point. I think most of the guys (or girls) who go out with a blaze of Glory I’ve just got to the point where they couldn’t give a shit about the people on Fab that have pissed them off for whatever reason.

Whether it’s right or wrong, there’s a lot of people on here, that think Fab is shit, and it’s a People on here that make it shit.

And those that have left, I still saying, it’s shit and wouldn’t come back. "

You don’t think?

Too bad. I AM after the pussy. On my preferences and terms. And I’m not saying that this place is shit, I am complaining that it’s full of entitled, deluded people.

I hope I made it clear

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By *lueeyedchapMan 16 weeks ago

Nottingham


"Women happy for a meet, but “social first, 5 star restaurant with the best wine and if we fuck in hotel I expect you to pay for the room”."

Not gonna lie, I fell for this one. She did pay for the next one though. She was a 8/10, worth the gamble.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 16 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Because of the sheer number of entitled and deluded persons."

But surely the backdrop of a thousand deluded losers makes you shine even brighter to the right people 💜

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"I'm sure when they don't get that they think they'll deserve they'll leave in a huff. Possibly with a bitter little rant about how it's everyone else's expectations that are the problem on the way out.

I wouldn't worry about what other people are doing if they're not your people OP 💜

True, and I actually saw so many profile born and disappeared in the space of days that I wonder if they were fake in the first place

It’s just that the entitlement I see in this place went from amusing to frankly irritating. And trust me, I haven’t seen anyone that had any reason to feel entitled

And it's not "entitlement"

...its "preferences"

If you come across someone's profile you dont find is compatible with what you are looking for then it's very easy to hit the block button and move on."

The issue is, and I thought I explained it clearly, that many preferences are frankly delusional.

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By *parkle1974Woman 16 weeks ago

Leeds


"I'm sure when they don't get that they think they'll deserve they'll leave in a huff. Possibly with a bitter little rant about how it's everyone else's expectations that are the problem on the way out.

I wouldn't worry about what other people are doing if they're not your people OP 💜

True, and I actually saw so many profile born and disappeared in the space of days that I wonder if they were fake in the first place

It’s just that the entitlement I see in this place went from amusing to frankly irritating. And trust me, I haven’t seen anyone that had any reason to feel entitled

And it's not "entitlement"

...its "preferences"

If you come across someone's profile you dont find is compatible with what you are looking for then it's very easy to hit the block button and move on.

The issue is, and I thought I explained it clearly, that many preferences are frankly delusional. "

Does that mean yours are too??

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"And yet you also appear to have expectations…. 🤣 the irony is real."

I HAD expectations. I thought people would be a bit better. But given how casual users are taking a bit of criticism, I’d say I was very wrong.

Ah, the irony

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By *parkle1974Woman 16 weeks ago

Leeds


"I'm sure when they don't get that they think they'll deserve they'll leave in a huff. Possibly with a bitter little rant about how it's everyone else's expectations that are the problem on the way out.

I wouldn't worry about what other people are doing if they're not your people OP 💜

True, and I actually saw so many profile born and disappeared in the space of days that I wonder if they were fake in the first place

It’s just that the entitlement I see in this place went from amusing to frankly irritating. And trust me, I haven’t seen anyone that had any reason to feel entitled

And it's not "entitlement"

...its "preferences"

If you come across someone's profile you dont find is compatible with what you are looking for then it's very easy to hit the block button and move on.

The issue is, and I thought I explained it clearly, that many preferences are frankly delusional. "

Isn't it delusional to think most people will meet you without knowing what you look like??

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 16 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"I'm sure when they don't get that they think they'll deserve they'll leave in a huff. Possibly with a bitter little rant about how it's everyone else's expectations that are the problem on the way out.

I wouldn't worry about what other people are doing if they're not your people OP 💜

True, and I actually saw so many profile born and disappeared in the space of days that I wonder if they were fake in the first place

It’s just that the entitlement I see in this place went from amusing to frankly irritating. And trust me, I haven’t seen anyone that had any reason to feel entitled

And it's not "entitlement"

...its "preferences"

If you come across someone's profile you dont find is compatible with what you are looking for then it's very easy to hit the block button and move on.

The issue is, and I thought I explained it clearly, that many preferences are frankly delusional. "

Maybe some think that your preferences are delusional, that makes you part of the majority...

Mr

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple 16 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

I've missed the evil dragon quests. They sound awesome! ⚔️🏰

J

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By *oo..Woman 16 weeks ago

Boo's World

You have crazy expectations OP

Expecting women to send you pictures of them wearing PJ'S in this weather?

More likely to achieve that after the school holidays have finished.

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"I'm sure when they don't get that they think they'll deserve they'll leave in a huff. Possibly with a bitter little rant about how it's everyone else's expectations that are the problem on the way out.

I wouldn't worry about what other people are doing if they're not your people OP 💜

True, and I actually saw so many profile born and disappeared in the space of days that I wonder if they were fake in the first place

It’s just that the entitlement I see in this place went from amusing to frankly irritating. And trust me, I haven’t seen anyone that had any reason to feel entitled

I sniff some rejection Op, have you been rejected.....🤣🤣

Mr "

Oh yes, but that’s perfectly fine. Being rejected is part of the experience here. It’s normal and as long as one is mature, will get over it. We cannot click with everyone, even for a quick shag.

What is not mature is to avoid the point of my post and suggesting that it’s just a rant secondary to lack of success.

I criticised a few people (without naming and shaming) because in my opinion they are entitled, have excessive expectations and are clearly delusional. And looks like a few of them took the bait already.

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"I'm sure when they don't get that they think they'll deserve they'll leave in a huff. Possibly with a bitter little rant about how it's everyone else's expectations that are the problem on the way out.

I wouldn't worry about what other people are doing if they're not your people OP 💜

True, and I actually saw so many profile born and disappeared in the space of days that I wonder if they were fake in the first place

It’s just that the entitlement I see in this place went from amusing to frankly irritating. And trust me, I haven’t seen anyone that had any reason to feel entitled

And it's not "entitlement"

...its "preferences"

If you come across someone's profile you dont find is compatible with what you are looking for then it's very easy to hit the block button and move on.

The issue is, and I thought I explained it clearly, that many preferences are frankly delusional.

Does that mean yours are too??"

Are they, in your opinion?

I think they’re alright. Not everyone wants to go to the club with the partner, some people are after something else.

Don’t forget that this site had a twin site that was about dogging. Most of the users migrated here, and they’re not clubbers

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 16 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"I'm sure when they don't get that they think they'll deserve they'll leave in a huff. Possibly with a bitter little rant about how it's everyone else's expectations that are the problem on the way out.

I wouldn't worry about what other people are doing if they're not your people OP 💜

True, and I actually saw so many profile born and disappeared in the space of days that I wonder if they were fake in the first place

It’s just that the entitlement I see in this place went from amusing to frankly irritating. And trust me, I haven’t seen anyone that had any reason to feel entitled

I sniff some rejection Op, have you been rejected.....🤣🤣

Mr

Oh yes, but that’s perfectly fine. Being rejected is part of the experience here. It’s normal and as long as one is mature, will get over it. We cannot click with everyone, even for a quick shag.

What is not mature is to avoid the point of my post and suggesting that it’s just a rant secondary to lack of success.

I criticised a few people (without naming and shaming) because in my opinion they are entitled, have excessive expectations and are clearly delusional. And looks like a few of them took the bait already."

You know what they say about opinions.....

They are like arseholes, we all have them, and quite often they stink....🤣🤣

Mr

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"I've missed the evil dragon quests. They sound awesome! ⚔️🏰

J"

Yeah, but without a iron armour +++ and a proper ice build, you will go nowhere

(The nerd in me is strong)

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"You have crazy expectations OP

Expecting women to send you pictures of them wearing PJ'S in this weather?

More likely to achieve that after the school holidays have finished. "

Oi! I wrote that in winter and I’m not expecting anyone to send me pics, I just said I’m partial to PJs

Cut me some slack

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By *asterMeliodasMan 16 weeks ago

Newmill

Where do you draw the line between preferences and entitlement, though?

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman 16 weeks ago

Essex

Oh phew - I’m only looking for 6/7 inches and I’m a strong 4/10 so I should be fine.

I got a bit worried then that I was entitled or something.

And really I’m fine sharing a Gregg’s sausage roll & a fumble in the back of my van.

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By *oo..Woman 16 weeks ago

Boo's World


"You have crazy expectations OP

Expecting women to send you pictures of them wearing PJ'S in this weather?

More likely to achieve that after the school holidays have finished.

Oi! I wrote that in winter and I’m not expecting anyone to send me pics, I just said I’m partial to PJs

Cut me some slack "

Never!

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"I'm sure when they don't get that they think they'll deserve they'll leave in a huff. Possibly with a bitter little rant about how it's everyone else's expectations that are the problem on the way out.

I wouldn't worry about what other people are doing if they're not your people OP 💜

True, and I actually saw so many profile born and disappeared in the space of days that I wonder if they were fake in the first place

It’s just that the entitlement I see in this place went from amusing to frankly irritating. And trust me, I haven’t seen anyone that had any reason to feel entitled

I sniff some rejection Op, have you been rejected.....🤣🤣

Mr

Oh yes, but that’s perfectly fine. Being rejected is part of the experience here. It’s normal and as long as one is mature, will get over it. We cannot click with everyone, even for a quick shag.

What is not mature is to avoid the point of my post and suggesting that it’s just a rant secondary to lack of success.

I criticised a few people (without naming and shaming) because in my opinion they are entitled, have excessive expectations and are clearly delusional. And looks like a few of them took the bait already.

You know what they say about opinions.....

They are like arseholes, we all have them, and quite often they stink....🤣🤣

Mr "

Sure.

Also, missing the point of a discussion to insult and deride the interlocutor is a clear sign of a maturity close to the one of a kindergarten child. Only, that’s a fact and not an opinion.

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"Oh phew - I’m only looking for 6/7 inches and I’m a strong 4/10 so I should be fine.

I got a bit worried then that I was entitled or something.

And really I’m fine sharing a Gregg’s sausage roll & a fumble in the back of my van. "

See? We need to go back to simple things. What’s with those fancy restaurants? A pie in the back of the car will be fine, and if you feel really crazy we can get a Dr Pepper!

Come on , I don’t think you are a 4. But maybe you should lower the expectations to 4-5 inches

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple 16 weeks ago

Cumbria


" Hello lovely fabbers,

Am I the only one thinking that a lot of people here have crazy expectations? That’s not being selective or very picky: some people are just dreaming

Girls & woman on an average of 5/10 looking for “8 inches or more only”

Cuck couples “but the hubby may join and he’s bi, and you’ll meet him alone first and only if he likes you, you have a 9 inches cock, spunk like a horse and you complete the evil dragon quest you may have a chance to meet wifey too”

Gay men messaging straight man, even when it’s clearly specified “not looking for single males”

Women happy for a meet, but “social first, 5 star restaurant with the best wine and if we fuck in hotel I expect you to pay for the room”

Males that present themselves as the new Rocco Siffredi, happy for content creation/to be used by a group of hungry grannies

What the heck is going on here? I used to laugh at some propositions, but the level of entitlement of some users is beyond belief "

It’s a buyer’s market, OP, and you’re selling.

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"Where do you draw the line between preferences and entitlement, though?"

Have you seen the examples I wrote in the first post?

I DID NOT MADE THEM UP

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By *asterMeliodasMan 16 weeks ago

Newmill


"Where do you draw the line between preferences and entitlement, though?

Have you seen the examples I wrote in the first post?

I DID NOT MADE THEM UP"

Can you link me to the profile that said you need to complete a dragon quest to meet them?

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By *asterMeliodasMan 16 weeks ago

Newmill

I never said you made up the examples, btw, I asked which of them you'd consider preferences and which you'd say are entitlement. Or do you consider all of your examples to be entitled ones?

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago


" Hello lovely fabbers,

Am I the only one thinking that a lot of people here have crazy expectations? That’s not being selective or very picky: some people are just dreaming

Girls & woman on an average of 5/10 looking for “8 inches or more only”

Cuck couples “but the hubby may join and he’s bi, and you’ll meet him alone first and only if he likes you, you have a 9 inches cock, spunk like a horse and you complete the evil dragon quest you may have a chance to meet wifey too”

Gay men messaging straight man, even when it’s clearly specified “not looking for single males”

Women happy for a meet, but “social first, 5 star restaurant with the best wine and if we fuck in hotel I expect you to pay for the room”

Males that present themselves as the new Rocco Siffredi, happy for content creation/to be used by a group of hungry grannies

What the heck is going on here? I used to laugh at some propositions, but the level of entitlement of some users is beyond belief "

I feel a lot of what you are saying and agree. Also, kudos for mentioning Rocco Siffredi.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 16 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"

Sure.

Also, missing the point of a discussion to insult and deride the interlocutor is a clear sign of a maturity close to the one of a kindergarten child. Only, that’s a fact and not an opinion."

If the point of conversation was worth engaging in you would hold a point. But since you are deciding other people's preferences, wants, and desires from fab. And being locked in your perspective, and coming from a defensive stance, to each and every point.

Then it is kind of counter productive to engage in any meaningful discourse regarding this.

Plus it's a topic that I have no intrest in, as what others want or desire from fab, is none of my business.

And most certainly would not feel the need to start a thread deciding, them as entitled....

✊️✊️✊️✊️

Mr

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"I'm sure when they don't get that they think they'll deserve they'll leave in a huff. Possibly with a bitter little rant about how it's everyone else's expectations that are the problem on the way out.

I wouldn't worry about what other people are doing if they're not your people OP 💜

True, and I actually saw so many profile born and disappeared in the space of days that I wonder if they were fake in the first place

It’s just that the entitlement I see in this place went from amusing to frankly irritating. And trust me, I haven’t seen anyone that had any reason to feel entitled

And it's not "entitlement"

...its "preferences"

If you come across someone's profile you dont find is compatible with what you are looking for then it's very easy to hit the block button and move on.

The issue is, and I thought I explained it clearly, that many preferences are frankly delusional.

Isn't it delusional to think most people will meet you without knowing what you look like??"

A. It has happened already. Surely we weren’t just meeting in a bedroom, there was a social first

B. I swap pics if, after chatting, I see there is connection.

So all in all, I’d say no. Certainly reduced my chances, but I am aware of it and in accepance

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 16 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"

Sure.

Also, missing the point of a discussion to insult and deride the interlocutor is a clear sign of a maturity close to the one of a kindergarten child. Only, that’s a fact and not an opinion.

If the point of conversation was worth engaging in you would hold a point. But since you are deciding other people's preferences, wants, and desires from fab. And being locked in your perspective, and coming from a defensive stance, to each and every point.

Then it is kind of counter productive to engage in any meaningful discourse regarding this.

Plus it's a topic that I have no intrest in, as what others want or desire from fab, is none of my business.

And most certainly would not feel the need to start a thread deciding, them as entitled....

✊️✊️✊️✊️

Mr "

Deriding* not deciding...

Mr

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By *ayleigh1111Woman 16 weeks ago

Liverpool

What you have stated as entitlement just seems like preferences to me and we all have them.

You think a profile is entitled don't message move on.

What I do think is entitled is to expect someone to meet without showing them a face pic first.

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago


"Oh phew - I’m only looking for 6/7 inches and I’m a strong 4/10 so I should be fine.

I got a bit worried then that I was entitled or something.

And really I’m fine sharing a Gregg’s sausage roll & a fumble in the back of my van. "

Did someone say Greggs

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By *enfleetMaleMan 16 weeks ago

Hadleigh

Mens preferences

1) must have a vagina

2) must be prepared to give it up just because I've messaged and you are online now.

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By *hyguy32Man 16 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Patience is key... everyone on here has a priority. No one should lower there expectations. There will be someone on this site for everyone. Obviously the male to female ratio is a lot. If you can't be understanding and patient, then the site isn't for you. Everyone has a preference. You can't force them to change it. Being on here is for everyone to accept who they are.

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"

Sure.

Also, missing the point of a discussion to insult and deride the interlocutor is a clear sign of a maturity close to the one of a kindergarten child. Only, that’s a fact and not an opinion.

If the point of conversation was worth engaging in you would hold a point. But since you are deciding other people's preferences, wants, and desires from fab. And being locked in your perspective, and coming from a defensive stance, to each and every point.

Then it is kind of counter productive to engage in any meaningful discourse regarding this.

Plus it's a topic that I have no intrest in, as what others want or desire from fab, is none of my business.

And most certainly would not feel the need to start a thread deciding, them as entitled....

✊️✊️✊️✊️

Mr "

Dear mr,

I don’t mind if you think that my post has no point. After all, it’s your opinion and you clearly stated what opinions are like

If you think there’s no point in discussing, nobody chained you here. There are plenty of other forums.

I’d appreciate if you would avoid trolling. There are other people here, we are exchanging opinions and I am not here to have arguments and beefs with anyone, I’m happy to hear different perspectives.

However should you disagree, be aware that I don’t feed trolls.

Bye

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 16 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I never said you made up the examples, btw, I asked which of them you'd consider preferences and which you'd say are entitlement. Or do you consider all of your examples to be entitled ones?"

To be fair to him. I'm aware of a local profile up here that has most of the dragon quest one. First meet will only be with the male half for you to suck him off on an industrial estate. If he likes you you can meet the Mrs.

I'm also highly amused by the amount of verifications saying what a great first meet they had with the mr, and they can't wait to meet the Mrs. There's never a second verification.

So as to who is deluded in that one, debatable 💜

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman 16 weeks ago

Essex

See!!!

Never mind entitlement, preference, compatability and all that nonsense.

Cheap pork (and vegan) products are all we need.

Down with the pineapple. 🍍 it’s sausage we should be using for a symbol 🤣🤣🤣

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By *asterMeliodasMan 16 weeks ago

Newmill


"I never said you made up the examples, btw, I asked which of them you'd consider preferences and which you'd say are entitlement. Or do you consider all of your examples to be entitled ones?

To be fair to him. I'm aware of a local profile up here that has most of the dragon quest one. First meet will only be with the male half for you to suck him off on an industrial estate. If he likes you you can meet the Mrs.

I'm also highly amused by the amount of verifications saying what a great first meet they had with the mr, and they can't wait to meet the Mrs. There's never a second verification.

So as to who is deluded in that one, debatable 💜"

That seems like an oddly specific venue for that. XD

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple 16 weeks ago

Stoke

Ever read a thread and thought, I really need to shush and give this one a miss...... This is that thread!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 16 weeks ago

Central

Preferences are all, so just focus on those that you are compatible with.

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"What you have stated as entitlement just seems like preferences to me and we all have them.

You think a profile is entitled don't message move on.

What I do think is entitled is to expect someone to meet without showing them a face pic first."

Oh dear, another one that missed when I said that I swap pics and I’m happy to have socials, just don’t like putting my pics for everyone to see because I like to chat first.

Sorry, I’m not having a go at you, it’s just that I’m having to repeat the same thing over and over

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By *agondaMan 16 weeks ago

Witterings


"Ever read a thread and thought, I really need to shush and give this one a miss...... This is that thread! "

Exactly.. I just thought “oh dear how sad”…

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"Ever read a thread and thought, I really need to shush and give this one a miss...... This is that thread! "

That’s perfectly fine.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 16 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"

Sure.

Also, missing the point of a discussion to insult and deride the interlocutor is a clear sign of a maturity close to the one of a kindergarten child. Only, that’s a fact and not an opinion.

If the point of conversation was worth engaging in you would hold a point. But since you are deciding other people's preferences, wants, and desires from fab. And being locked in your perspective, and coming from a defensive stance, to each and every point.

Then it is kind of counter productive to engage in any meaningful discourse regarding this.

Plus it's a topic that I have no intrest in, as what others want or desire from fab, is none of my business.

And most certainly would not feel the need to start a thread deciding, them as entitled....

✊️✊️✊️✊️

Mr

Dear mr,

I don’t mind if you think that my post has no point. After all, it’s your opinion and you clearly stated what opinions are like

If you think there’s no point in discussing, nobody chained you here. There are plenty of other forums.

I’d appreciate if you would avoid trolling. There are other people here, we are exchanging opinions and I am not here to have arguments and beefs with anyone, I’m happy to hear different perspectives.

However should you disagree, be aware that I don’t feed trolls.

Bye "

No you'll just troll behind people's backs, at least I do it in public

Mr

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"See!!!

Never mind entitlement, preference, compatability and all that nonsense.

Cheap pork (and vegan) products are all we need.

Down with the pineapple. 🍍 it’s sausage we should be using for a symbol 🤣🤣🤣"

Oi, you’re the one with a pineapple on a nipple!

Does it mean that you’re going to take a pic with a Lincolnshire sausage on it? 🤨

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"I never said you made up the examples, btw, I asked which of them you'd consider preferences and which you'd say are entitlement. Or do you consider all of your examples to be entitled ones?

To be fair to him. I'm aware of a local profile up here that has most of the dragon quest one. First meet will only be with the male half for you to suck him off on an industrial estate. If he likes you you can meet the Mrs.

I'm also highly amused by the amount of verifications saying what a great first meet they had with the mr, and they can't wait to meet the Mrs. There's never a second verification.

So as to who is deluded in that one, debatable 💜"

You are about the second or third one that understood the sense of my post. The others seem people offended by my words. As if their ears were burning.

Either I baited all the entitled people of this site, or I am really bad at explaining myself. As I am not trying to offend anyone, must be the latter

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


" Hello lovely fabbers,

Am I the only one thinking that a lot of people here have crazy expectations? That’s not being selective or very picky: some people are just dreaming

Girls & woman on an average of 5/10 looking for “8 inches or more only”

Cuck couples “but the hubby may join and he’s bi, and you’ll meet him alone first and only if he likes you, you have a 9 inches cock, spunk like a horse and you complete the evil dragon quest you may have a chance to meet wifey too”

Gay men messaging straight man, even when it’s clearly specified “not looking for single males”

Women happy for a meet, but “social first, 5 star restaurant with the best wine and if we fuck in hotel I expect you to pay for the room”

Males that present themselves as the new Rocco Siffredi, happy for content creation/to be used by a group of hungry grannies

What the heck is going on here? I used to laugh at some propositions, but the level of entitlement of some users is beyond belief

I feel a lot of what you are saying and agree. Also, kudos for mentioning Rocco Siffredi. "

Thanks mate. The majority seem to fail to understand though. I must be rubbish at explaining myself

Rocco is a legend. He just need to understand it and retire once and for all

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By *parkle1974Woman 16 weeks ago

Leeds


"What you have stated as entitlement just seems like preferences to me and we all have them.

You think a profile is entitled don't message move on.

What I do think is entitled is to expect someone to meet without showing them a face pic first.

Oh dear, another one that missed when I said that I swap pics and I’m happy to have socials, just don’t like putting my pics for everyone to see because I like to chat first.

Sorry, I’m not having a go at you, it’s just that I’m having to repeat the same thing over and over "

"no face pics - you will see my face if we meet"

Where in that sentence does it say you are happy to swap pics??? Or am I missing something??

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 16 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"You are about the second or third one that understood the sense of my post. The others seem people offended by my words. As if their ears were burning.

Either I baited all the entitled people of this site, or I am really bad at explaining myself. As I am not trying to offend anyone, must be the latter "

I'm not sure I did understand the sense of your post.

My last comment was saying that these 'obviously delusional' people are still managing to get what they want out of the site, even if you don't personally think theyre worth the hoops to jump through. And if it's working for them, is it delusion or unreasonable entitlement?

Why are you letting your own opinions of other people marr your own fab experience by getting annoyed by them?

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By *electableicecreamMan 16 weeks ago

The West


"just be you and let others be themselves that way its easy to filter ...

wanting something is not entitlement ...entitlement is expecting something very different ...

and to be fair on fab women and couples can pretty much get what they want due to the abundance of desperate men ... "

That's especially true if what your looking for is desperate men.

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"I never said you made up the examples, btw, I asked which of them you'd consider preferences and which you'd say are entitlement. Or do you consider all of your examples to be entitled ones?"

I know you never said that. I was just pointing out that they are real. For some I could even point to the specific users.

For me, expecting only 8 inches cocks is delusional. What do you have, a vagina or a cave?

Meeting but fully at your expenses? I thought we were in the age of equal opportunities and that a man offering to pay for a woman is patronising?

Meet with the bi male and sucking him off before even seeing a pic of the wife? You’re dreaming mate!

And I could go on and on. And trust me, if you think these are legitimate preferences I’ll accept it. But I can’t honestly stop cringing at the delusional level some people descended to

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By *asterMeliodasMan 16 weeks ago

Newmill


"I never said you made up the examples, btw, I asked which of them you'd consider preferences and which you'd say are entitlement. Or do you consider all of your examples to be entitled ones?

I know you never said that. I was just pointing out that they are real. For some I could even point to the specific users.

For me, expecting only 8 inches cocks is delusional. What do you have, a vagina or a cave?

Meeting but fully at your expenses? I thought we were in the age of equal opportunities and that a man offering to pay for a woman is patronising?

Meet with the bi male and sucking him off before even seeing a pic of the wife? You’re dreaming mate!

And I could go on and on. And trust me, if you think these are legitimate preferences I’ll accept it. But I can’t honestly stop cringing at the delusional level some people descended to "

I suppose I'm trying to make the same point that Prey is, which is that if they're getting what they're asking for, I'm not sure it could be considered delusional because clearly there are people out there willing to provide those things. I can see the point you're making but I don't know that I agree it's anything to get annoyed about. You're not planning on meeting any of these people, so does it really matter?

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"You are about the second or third one that understood the sense of my post. The others seem people offended by my words. As if their ears were burning.

Either I baited all the entitled people of this site, or I am really bad at explaining myself. As I am not trying to offend anyone, must be the latter

I'm not sure I did understand the sense of your post.

My last comment was saying that these 'obviously delusional' people are still managing to get what they want out of the site, even if you don't personally think theyre worth the hoops to jump through. And if it's working for them, is it delusion or unreasonable entitlement?

Why are you letting your own opinions of other people marr your own fab experience by getting annoyed by them?"

Maybe I misunderstood you, then.

I’m not getting annoyed. It’s more cringey, farcical, exaggerated and as I said, delusional.

Most of these people wouldn’t do for me anyway so my experience is not touched.That doesn’t mean I cannot have an opinion on them.

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"I never said you made up the examples, btw, I asked which of them you'd consider preferences and which you'd say are entitlement. Or do you consider all of your examples to be entitled ones?

I know you never said that. I was just pointing out that they are real. For some I could even point to the specific users.

For me, expecting only 8 inches cocks is delusional. What do you have, a vagina or a cave?

Meeting but fully at your expenses? I thought we were in the age of equal opportunities and that a man offering to pay for a woman is patronising?

Meet with the bi male and sucking him off before even seeing a pic of the wife? You’re dreaming mate!

And I could go on and on. And trust me, if you think these are legitimate preferences I’ll accept it. But I can’t honestly stop cringing at the delusional level some people descended to

I suppose I'm trying to make the same point that Prey is, which is that if they're getting what they're asking for, I'm not sure it could be considered delusional because clearly there are people out there willing to provide those things. I can see the point you're making but I don't know that I agree it's anything to get annoyed about. You're not planning on meeting any of these people, so does it really matter?"

Of course you can never be sure if they’re getting what they want. Judging by the references, a very small amount do but the others basically accept much less than what’s described in their profile.

Again, it doesn’t matter for my experience here. I just formed an opinion on that because I find it frankly cringey.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 16 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Maybe I misunderstood you, then.

I’m not getting annoyed. It’s more cringey, farcical, exaggerated and as I said, delusional.

Most of these people wouldn’t do for me anyway so my experience is not touched.That doesn’t mean I cannot have an opinion on them.

"

They're having fun. I've seen plenty of well verified profiles with similar preferences to the ones you posted.

They're probably even less interested in you than you apparently are in them.

It just seems odd to get wound up about it.

Like I said. If it doesn't work for them they'll leave the site. If you don't want to see then in the meantime you can just block and move on.

Personally I tend to hotlist the biggest lunatics because I enjoy seeing their updates and seeing who does go for that madness 💜

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"What you have stated as entitlement just seems like preferences to me and we all have them.

You think a profile is entitled don't message move on.

What I do think is entitled is to expect someone to meet without showing them a face pic first.

Oh dear, another one that missed when I said that I swap pics and I’m happy to have socials, just don’t like putting my pics for everyone to see because I like to chat first.

Sorry, I’m not having a go at you, it’s just that I’m having to repeat the same thing over and over

"no face pics - you will see my face if we meet"

Where in that sentence does it say you are happy to swap pics??? Or am I missing something??"

Yep, I never swap face pics. But I swap body pics (not talking of cock picks, I’m talking full body pics and not necessarily naked). If you like what you see and we feel a connection in our chats, you may meet me and see the full package.

That’s my preference. Do you find it delusional? Fair enough. Thanks for looking at my profile though, if you wanna see more you’ll have to ask

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By *ansoffateMan 16 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

The universe is filled with mystery.

I met someone once who wanted to fuck without even having a social. 🤯

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"Maybe I misunderstood you, then.

I’m not getting annoyed. It’s more cringey, farcical, exaggerated and as I said, delusional.

Most of these people wouldn’t do for me anyway so my experience is not touched.That doesn’t mean I cannot have an opinion on them.

They're having fun. I've seen plenty of well verified profiles with similar preferences to the ones you posted.

They're probably even less interested in you than you apparently are in them.

It just seems odd to get wound up about it.

Like I said. If it doesn't work for them they'll leave the site. If you don't want to see then in the meantime you can just block and move on.

Personally I tend to hotlist the biggest lunatics because I enjoy seeing their updates and seeing who does go for that madness 💜"

I guess it’s fine if you find their behaviour interesting or funny. That is not something I like to do but each to their own. I don’t want to encourage some lunatics here

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By *electableicecreamMan 16 weeks ago

The West

Posts like this are nearly always an own goal more than anything else.

For me, in terms of expectations to actually meet people, delusional is a single male profile with one veri in a year, one generic photo and no profile pic.

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"The universe is filled with mystery.

I met someone once who wanted to fuck without even having a social. 🤯"

Proof or it never happened.

With proof I mean screenshots of the conversation and a video showing you from the moment you get out of the house to the moment you come back

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"Posts like this are nearly always an own goal more than anything else.

For me, in terms of expectations to actually meet people, delusional is a single male profile with one veri in a year, one generic photo and no profile pic.

"

Own goal? This is not a football game and I am not trying to score.

Also, not everyone likes to have verifications. I don’t like them because they make me feel like a white good on Amazon.

And I wrote about my other pics (which are available to the people I like) but I’d rather not explain that again

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 16 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I guess it’s fine if you find their behaviour interesting or funny. That is not something I like to do but each to their own. I don’t want to encourage some lunatics here "

What encouragement? They don't know they're on my hotlist. I live in ninja mode. And I apparently love watching car crashes 💜

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By *aughtynottsCouple 16 weeks ago

Outside Nottingham

Everyone is entitled to list whatever they want sexually when sharing their body.

Most couples (which I can only speak from) within the lifestyle have an incredible sex life already together and this is an add on to that, not somewhere to arrange to fuck for the sake of it.

We know what we want and there's nothing wrong with that.

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"I guess it’s fine if you find their behaviour interesting or funny. That is not something I like to do but each to their own. I don’t want to encourage some lunatics here

What encouragement? They don't know they're on my hotlist. I live in ninja mode. And I apparently love watching car crashes 💜"

Oh I get it, you must be one of these people watching “fail army” on YouTube!! 😂

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By *parkle1974Woman 16 weeks ago

Leeds


"What you have stated as entitlement just seems like preferences to me and we all have them.

You think a profile is entitled don't message move on.

What I do think is entitled is to expect someone to meet without showing them a face pic first.

Oh dear, another one that missed when I said that I swap pics and I’m happy to have socials, just don’t like putting my pics for everyone to see because I like to chat first.

Sorry, I’m not having a go at you, it’s just that I’m having to repeat the same thing over and over

"no face pics - you will see my face if we meet"

Where in that sentence does it say you are happy to swap pics??? Or am I missing something??

Yep, I never swap face pics. But I swap body pics (not talking of cock picks, I’m talking full body pics and not necessarily naked). If you like what you see and we feel a connection in our chats, you may meet me and see the full package.

That’s my preference. Do you find it delusional? Fair enough. Thanks for looking at my profile though, if you wanna see more you’ll have to ask "

Doesn't say that on your profile though!

I wouldn't say anyone on here are delusional because they have preferences.

Think I've seen enough

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 16 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Oh I get it, you must be one of these people watching “fail army” on YouTube!! 😂"

Nah. People watching is a lot more interesting live.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 16 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

No. There are other negative cynics here too.

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By *he KakapoMan 16 weeks ago

A nice rock

It's been a long day so I didn't get to the end of the OP.

But I'm guessing the answer I'd no..every can ask for what ever they want on their own profiles?

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By *ansoffateMan 16 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"The universe is filled with mystery.

I met someone once who wanted to fuck without even having a social. 🤯

Proof or it never happened.

With proof I mean screenshots of the conversation and a video showing you from the moment you get out of the house to the moment you come back "

Are you suggesting my words were a fabrication? A fab-swinger story?

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"The universe is filled with mystery.

I met someone once who wanted to fuck without even having a social. 🤯

Proof or it never happened.

With proof I mean screenshots of the conversation and a video showing you from the moment you get out of the house to the moment you come back

Are you suggesting my words were a fabrication? A fab-swinger story?"

(In a old man voice) I’ve seen many in my time here, son, I know tosh when I see it!

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"What you have stated as entitlement just seems like preferences to me and we all have them.

You think a profile is entitled don't message move on.

What I do think is entitled is to expect someone to meet without showing them a face pic first.

Oh dear, another one that missed when I said that I swap pics and I’m happy to have socials, just don’t like putting my pics for everyone to see because I like to chat first.

Sorry, I’m not having a go at you, it’s just that I’m having to repeat the same thing over and over

"no face pics - you will see my face if we meet"

Where in that sentence does it say you are happy to swap pics??? Or am I missing something??

Yep, I never swap face pics. But I swap body pics (not talking of cock picks, I’m talking full body pics and not necessarily naked). If you like what you see and we feel a connection in our chats, you may meet me and see the full package.

That’s my preference. Do you find it delusional? Fair enough. Thanks for looking at my profile though, if you wanna see more you’ll have to ask

Doesn't say that on your profile though!

I wouldn't say anyone on here are delusional because they have preferences.

Think I've seen enough"

Pretty sure it does

I didn’t say that. I said some people have delusional preferences. There’s a good difference.

do you need me to send you a “mic drop” gif or are you happy with just “I’ve seen enough”?

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"Oh I get it, you must be one of these people watching “fail army” on YouTube!! 😂

Nah. People watching is a lot more interesting live."

That’s an interesting sport. Do you reckon it will be Olympian in the near future?

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By *ittlebirdWoman 16 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I’ve never seen any of those kind of expectations OP tbh. But if I did I would laugh and move on. Because I have lots of other things to be doing with my time. It’s great. You should try it sometime 👍🏻

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago

Ladies, I can promise you a meal at Berni Inn consisting of a prawn cocktail ( or soup) a steak with all the trimmings and apple crumble and ice cream. A couple of glasses of asti Spumante and coffee with an after eight chocolate.

If that’s your expectation you know where I am babe.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 16 weeks ago

North West

What do you mean by "girls and women of 5/10"?

I hope all people on here are 18+

And what's the 5/10 about?

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago


"What do you mean by "girls and women of 5/10"?

I hope all people on here are 18+

And what's the 5/10 about?"

It’s the op suggesting that the average score for women on Fab, I stress in his opinion, is about five out of ten?

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By *hrista BellendWoman 16 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Fab is a place where fantasy can be lived out into reality

Live and let live and scroll on past, if their fantasy is not for you.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 16 weeks ago

North West


"What do you mean by "girls and women of 5/10"?

I hope all people on here are 18+

And what's the 5/10 about?

It’s the op suggesting that the average score for women on Fab, I stress in his opinion, is about five out of ten?"

Score for what? What's the criteria?

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago


"Fab is a place where fantasy can be lived out into reality

Live and let live and scroll on past, if their fantasy is not for you."

Interesting hypothesis but one that is not one that would suit the Fab sojourn?

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago


"What do you mean by "girls and women of 5/10"?

I hope all people on here are 18+

And what's the 5/10 about?

It’s the op suggesting that the average score for women on Fab, I stress in his opinion, is about five out of ten?

Score for what? What's the criteria?"

That’s a question for the OP.

At my stage in life the criteria is shallow breathing with a faint intermittent pulse but I always have been extremely fussy.

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By *izz70Woman 16 weeks ago

Sheffield


" Hello lovely fabbers,

Am I the only one thinking that a lot of people here have crazy expectations? That’s not being selective or very picky: some people are just dreaming

Girls & woman on an average of 5/10 looking for “8 inches or more only”

Cuck couples “but the hubby may join and he’s bi, and you’ll meet him alone first and only if he likes you, you have a 9 inches cock, spunk like a horse and you complete the evil dragon quest you may have a chance to meet wifey too”

Gay men messaging straight man, even when it’s clearly specified “not looking for single males”

Women happy for a meet, but “social first, 5 star restaurant with the best wine and if we fuck in hotel I expect you to pay for the room”

Males that present themselves as the new Rocco Siffredi, happy for content creation/to be used by a group of hungry grannies

What the heck is going on here? I used to laugh at some propositions, but the level of entitlement of some users is beyond belief "

I'd say just Stay true to yourself and what you desire.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman 16 weeks ago

Sheffield

It really doesn’t bother me one iota what other people have as preferences on here.

Just move along or block them if you don’t like the profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago


" Hello lovely fabbers,

Am I the only one thinking that a lot of people here have crazy expectations? That’s not being selective or very picky: some people are just dreaming

Girls & woman on an average of 5/10 looking for “8 inches or more only”

Cuck couples “but the hubby may join and he’s bi, and you’ll meet him alone first and only if he likes you, you have a 9 inches cock, spunk like a horse and you complete the evil dragon quest you may have a chance to meet wifey too”

Gay men messaging straight man, even when it’s clearly specified “not looking for single males”

Women happy for a meet, but “social first, 5 star restaurant with the best wine and if we fuck in hotel I expect you to pay for the room”

Males that present themselves as the new Rocco Siffredi, happy for content creation/to be used by a group of hungry grannies

What the heck is going on here? I used to laugh at some propositions, but the level of entitlement of some users is beyond belief

I'd say just Stay true to yourself and what you desire."

Truly profound words ...........

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago


"It really doesn’t bother me one iota what other people have as preferences on here.

Just move along or block them if you don’t like the profiles."

Potentially profounder words.

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By *endalshaggersCouple 16 weeks ago

Kendal

End of the day everyone has their likes, dislikes, and what they actually want out of a meet on here. Some may sound ludicrous but each to their own. 🤷

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago


"End of the day everyone has their likes, dislikes, and what they actually want out of a meet on here. Some may sound ludicrous but each to their own. 🤷"

Is anything involving ice cream and Vaseline considered ludicrous?

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By *eroLondonMan 16 weeks ago

Covent Garden


" Hello lovely fabbers... ... ..."

My dear huckleberry, you went south immediately after that, for there are no "lovely fabbers". Not one. Nada. If you come across a lovely Fabber do please let me know for I shall prepare a Mardi Gras and a mile-long conga in celebration of this rare occurrence.

Don't be fooled by this place. It will be your doom.

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By *asterMeliodasMan 16 weeks ago

Newmill


" Hello lovely fabbers... ... ...

My dear huckleberry, you went south immediately after that, for there are no "lovely fabbers". Not one. Nada. If you come across a lovely Fabber do please let me know for I shall prepare a Mardi Gras and a mile-long conga in celebration of this rare occurrence.

Don't be fooled by this place. It will be your doom."

You told me I was lovely, Nero! Was it all a lie? A web of deceit and artifice? A charlatan's ruse designed only to mock this poor, gullible, naive fool?

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By *onkeynutWoman 16 weeks ago

somewhere

I’m just here wondering why only above average looking women are entitled to want big dicks

According to OP of course

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago


"I’m just here wondering why only above average looking women are entitled to want big dicks

According to OP of course"

All women are entitled to meet large knobs surely?

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By *offiaCoolWoman 16 weeks ago

Kidsgrove


"Where do you draw the line between preferences and entitlement, though?

Have you seen the examples I wrote in the first post?

I DID NOT MADE THEM UP"

Oooh, I remember you posting about how lots of people had poor spelling and grammar. The irony

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By *asterMeliodasMan 16 weeks ago

Newmill


"I’m just here wondering why only above average looking women are entitled to want big dicks

According to OP of course

All women are entitled to meet large knobs surely?"

It's not like Fab has any shortage of large knobs. :P

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By *eroLondonMan 16 weeks ago

Covent Garden


" Hello lovely fabbers... ... ...

My dear huckleberry, you went south immediately after that, for there are no "lovely fabbers". Not one. Nada. If you come across a lovely Fabber do please let me know for I shall prepare a Mardi Gras and a mile-long conga in celebration of this rare occurrence.

Don't be fooled by this place. It will be your doom.

·

You told me I was lovely, Nero! Was it all a lie? A web of deceit and artifice? A charlatan's ruse designed only to mock this poor, gullible, naive fool?"

I fear that you have me at a disadvantage having unearthed my machiavellian schemes!

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS 16 weeks ago

Stockport

I have Great Expectations. Mmm, that could make a good book title...

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By *naswingdressWoman 16 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

No.

The choice isn't "I must have a supermodel with a donkey dick riding on a flying pig". It's "I'm looking for something quite specific. If I don't find it, I'll do something else with my time"

No one is owed sex. If two or more people have mutually compatible desires, then happy days. If not, then we read/wank/clean the toilet.

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago


"No.

The choice isn't "I must have a supermodel with a donkey dick riding on a flying pig". It's "I'm looking for something quite specific. If I don't find it, I'll do something else with my time"

No one is owed sex. If two or more people have mutually compatible desires, then happy days. If not, then we read/wank/clean the toilet."

I'll take the reading option if that's ok.

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago


"…..

You don’t think?

Too bad. I AM after the pussy. On my preferences and terms. And I’m not saying that this place is shit, I am complaining that it’s full of entitled, deluded people.

I hope I made it clear "

Well, good luck, I hope you got it off your chest.

But my experiences afte reading outbursts and rants (Because that’s what your opening post sounded like) is people go unlos and leave the site pretty much straight after.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple 16 weeks ago

Southampton


"I’m just here wondering why only above average looking women are entitled to want big dicks

According to OP of course

All women are entitled to meet large knobs surely?"

And their appendages too

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple 16 weeks ago

Cumbria


"No.

The choice isn't "I must have a supermodel with a donkey dick riding on a flying pig". It's "I'm looking for something quite specific. If I don't find it, I'll do something else with my time"

No one is owed sex. If two or more people have mutually compatible desires, then happy days. If not, then we read/wank/clean the toilet."

You mean women can have preferences and bodily autonomy? What is this, the 21st century?

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By *naswingdressWoman 16 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No.

The choice isn't "I must have a supermodel with a donkey dick riding on a flying pig". It's "I'm looking for something quite specific. If I don't find it, I'll do something else with my time"

No one is owed sex. If two or more people have mutually compatible desires, then happy days. If not, then we read/wank/clean the toilet.

You mean women can have preferences and bodily autonomy? What is this, the 21st century?"

Yes

But also we don't have to have sex. No one's going to die from lack of sex, and if you are, you've probably got bigger problems.

Even if my standards are crazy high, I'm not holding that supermodel at gunpoint or threatening people if I don't get what I want.

If I don't get I want, I read a nice novel and get an early night.

Scandalous!

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple 16 weeks ago

Cumbria


"No.

The choice isn't "I must have a supermodel with a donkey dick riding on a flying pig". It's "I'm looking for something quite specific. If I don't find it, I'll do something else with my time"

No one is owed sex. If two or more people have mutually compatible desires, then happy days. If not, then we read/wank/clean the toilet.

You mean women can have preferences and bodily autonomy? What is this, the 21st century?

Yes

But also we don't have to have sex. No one's going to die from lack of sex, and if you are, you've probably got bigger problems.

Even if my standards are crazy high, I'm not holding that supermodel at gunpoint or threatening people if I don't get what I want.

If I don't get I want, I read a nice novel and get an early night.

Scandalous!"

I appreciate your sentiment but I don’t understand why no one told men about this? I mean if it were true surely we would’ve heard something about this women’s lib stuff before now?

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan 16 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

OP. I actually laughed at your post. For all the right reasons. Possibly because it is what I would've (and did) post when I joined. I worded it less diplomatically (standard) and took incoming, was blocked etc etc. I cried into my pillow and questioned my worth.

Great post. Ignore the meanies. I see your intent.

*I never washed my pillow case as a constant reminder to never upset the Fab Illuminati.

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By *ornycougaWoman 16 weeks ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat


"I'm sure when they don't get that they think they'll deserve they'll leave in a huff. Possibly with a bitter little rant about how it's everyone else's expectations that are the problem on the way out.

I wouldn't worry about what other people are doing if they're not your people OP 💜

True, and I actually saw so many profile born and disappeared in the space of days that I wonder if they were fake in the first place

It’s just that the entitlement I see in this place went from amusing to frankly irritating. And trust me, I haven’t seen anyone that had any reason to feel entitled "

Women are entitled on here because they can be. It ain't right or fair but there are just so many men who think they are God's gift and aren't that we can ask for the moon on a stick and usually get it. If I found a place irritating, I don't go there. Simple.

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By *naswingdressWoman 16 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No.

The choice isn't "I must have a supermodel with a donkey dick riding on a flying pig". It's "I'm looking for something quite specific. If I don't find it, I'll do something else with my time"

No one is owed sex. If two or more people have mutually compatible desires, then happy days. If not, then we read/wank/clean the toilet.

You mean women can have preferences and bodily autonomy? What is this, the 21st century?

Yes

But also we don't have to have sex. No one's going to die from lack of sex, and if you are, you've probably got bigger problems.

Even if my standards are crazy high, I'm not holding that supermodel at gunpoint or threatening people if I don't get what I want.

If I don't get I want, I read a nice novel and get an early night.

Scandalous!

I appreciate your sentiment but I don’t understand why no one told men about this? I mean if it were true surely we would’ve heard something about this women’s lib stuff before now?"

Is it misandry to assume that men can figure things out on their own, on account of them being grown ups?

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By *imply DeeWoman 16 weeks ago

Wherever

If someone can point me to the profile that asks to complete the evil dragon quest, please.

I do like a good dragon.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple 16 weeks ago

Cumbria


"No.

The choice isn't "I must have a supermodel with a donkey dick riding on a flying pig". It's "I'm looking for something quite specific. If I don't find it, I'll do something else with my time"

No one is owed sex. If two or more people have mutually compatible desires, then happy days. If not, then we read/wank/clean the toilet.

You mean women can have preferences and bodily autonomy? What is this, the 21st century?

Yes

But also we don't have to have sex. No one's going to die from lack of sex, and if you are, you've probably got bigger problems.

Even if my standards are crazy high, I'm not holding that supermodel at gunpoint or threatening people if I don't get what I want.

If I don't get I want, I read a nice novel and get an early night.

Scandalous!

I appreciate your sentiment but I don’t understand why no one told men about this? I mean if it were true surely we would’ve heard something about this women’s lib stuff before now?

Is it misandry to assume that men can figure things out on their own, on account of them being grown ups?"

I think the problem here is the conflation of adulthood and growing up.

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By *naswingdressWoman 16 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No.

The choice isn't "I must have a supermodel with a donkey dick riding on a flying pig". It's "I'm looking for something quite specific. If I don't find it, I'll do something else with my time"

No one is owed sex. If two or more people have mutually compatible desires, then happy days. If not, then we read/wank/clean the toilet.

You mean women can have preferences and bodily autonomy? What is this, the 21st century?

Yes

But also we don't have to have sex. No one's going to die from lack of sex, and if you are, you've probably got bigger problems.

Even if my standards are crazy high, I'm not holding that supermodel at gunpoint or threatening people if I don't get what I want.

If I don't get I want, I read a nice novel and get an early night.

Scandalous!

I appreciate your sentiment but I don’t understand why no one told men about this? I mean if it were true surely we would’ve heard something about this women’s lib stuff before now?

Is it misandry to assume that men can figure things out on their own, on account of them being grown ups?

I think the problem here is the conflation of adulthood and growing up."

Oh. That's the high standard. I expect adults to be grown up

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple 16 weeks ago

Cumbria


"No.

The choice isn't "I must have a supermodel with a donkey dick riding on a flying pig". It's "I'm looking for something quite specific. If I don't find it, I'll do something else with my time"

No one is owed sex. If two or more people have mutually compatible desires, then happy days. If not, then we read/wank/clean the toilet.

You mean women can have preferences and bodily autonomy? What is this, the 21st century?

Yes

But also we don't have to have sex. No one's going to die from lack of sex, and if you are, you've probably got bigger problems.

Even if my standards are crazy high, I'm not holding that supermodel at gunpoint or threatening people if I don't get what I want.

If I don't get I want, I read a nice novel and get an early night.

Scandalous!

I appreciate your sentiment but I don’t understand why no one told men about this? I mean if it were true surely we would’ve heard something about this women’s lib stuff before now?

Is it misandry to assume that men can figure things out on their own, on account of them being grown ups?

I think the problem here is the conflation of adulthood and growing up.

Oh. That's the high standard. I expect adults to be grown up "

You see, these are the unrealistic expectations that men have no chance of living up to!

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By *anceAloneWoman 16 weeks ago

Adjacent to him


"OP. I actually laughed at your post. For all the right reasons. Possibly because it is what I would've (and did) post when I joined. I worded it less diplomatically (standard) and took incoming, was blocked etc etc. I cried into my pillow and questioned my worth.

Great post. Ignore the meanies. I see your intent.

*I never washed my pillow case as a constant reminder to never upset the Fab Illuminati."

Ah but have you achieved higher than a 5/10 average since 🤔

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By *rpeggioCouple 16 weeks ago

Baughurst

It's a preference, not entitlement. Delusional? Perhaps for some, but you should acknowledge that many people, particularly women and couples would rather not meet at all if their delusional expectations are never met. For them it's a fantasy worth pursuing, and incredibly awesome if it ever happens, or simply talking about it together makes super horny, but they don't need sex below those expectations. They have plenty at home or elsewhere.

Many men here, on the other hand, see Fab as their only chance for sex, and might upload nothing else besides a photo of a grey t-shirt, for example, and expect people will go to a blind date with them.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple 16 weeks ago

Leeds

Always a social 1st if that ain't for people they ain't my people, however I've never seen anyone express they want a 5⭐ restaurant, coffee is good.

If people want an 8" cock and yours isn't they ain't your people move along.

People can ask for whatever they want to ask for.

I ask for small/average so anyone with a 10" cock isn't welcome, that's my preference and strangely enough people don't have an issue with that one 😂

If you don't like someone's profile or requests then your incompatible - move on.

Mrs

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan 16 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"OP. I actually laughed at your post. For all the right reasons. Possibly because it is what I would've (and did) post when I joined. I worded it less diplomatically (standard) and took incoming, was blocked etc etc. I cried into my pillow and questioned my worth.

Great post. Ignore the meanies. I see your intent.

*I never washed my pillow case as a constant reminder to never upset the Fab Illuminati.

Ah but have you achieved higher than a 5/10 average since 🤔"

No. I'm holding steady at 5, but have collected some classic awards along the way:

'irritatingly funny' (Name withheld) Nov '23

'Seriously competitive' - Big Harold May '24

'I thought I had blocked you already?' (multiple users Dec 22- present).

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple 16 weeks ago

Manchester-ish


"If someone can point me to the profile that asks to complete the evil dragon quest, please.

I do like a good dragon."

I asked that too Dee! Can we quest together please? I might get some of that armour that protects nothing but looks hot! 🔥🥵

J

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By *asterMeliodasMan 16 weeks ago

Newmill


"If someone can point me to the profile that asks to complete the evil dragon quest, please.

I do like a good dragon.

I asked that too Dee! Can we quest together please? I might get some of that armour that protects nothing but looks hot! 🔥🥵

J"

There's a funny comic strip about this that I think you'd love. XD

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By *anceAloneWoman 16 weeks ago

Adjacent to him


"OP. I actually laughed at your post. For all the right reasons. Possibly because it is what I would've (and did) post when I joined. I worded it less diplomatically (standard) and took incoming, was blocked etc etc. I cried into my pillow and questioned my worth.

Great post. Ignore the meanies. I see your intent.

*I never washed my pillow case as a constant reminder to never upset the Fab Illuminati.

Ah but have you achieved higher than a 5/10 average since 🤔

No. I'm holding steady at 5, but have collected some classic awards along the way:

'irritatingly funny' (Name withheld) Nov '23

'Seriously competitive' - Big Harold May '24

'I thought I had blocked you already?' (multiple users Dec 22- present).

"

And the classic...i don't want to see a picture of that...read my profile 🫣

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple 16 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

[Removed by poster at 31/07/24 09:34:57]

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan 16 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"OP. I actually laughed at your post. For all the right reasons. Possibly because it is what I would've (and did) post when I joined. I worded it less diplomatically (standard) and took incoming, was blocked etc etc. I cried into my pillow and questioned my worth.

Great post. Ignore the meanies. I see your intent.

*I never washed my pillow case as a constant reminder to never upset the Fab Illuminati.

Ah but have you achieved higher than a 5/10 average since 🤔

No. I'm holding steady at 5, but have collected some classic awards along the way:

'irritatingly funny' (Name withheld) Nov '23

'Seriously competitive' - Big Harold May '24

'I thought I had blocked you already?' (multiple users Dec 22- present).

And the classic...i don't want to see a picture of that...read my profile 🫣"

That was wrapped in with the Big Harold quote. 😂

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By *avinaTVTV/TS 16 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"If someone can point me to the profile that asks to complete the evil dragon quest, please.

I do like a good dragon.

I asked that too Dee! Can we quest together please? I might get some of that armour that protects nothing but looks hot! 🔥🥵

J"

Chainmail bikini? Base Armour Class -1. Works on the basis that male opponents are too busy ogling your ample tits and scantily covered body to effectively hit you. I think there may have been some on sale in the old Aurora's Whole Realms catalogue D&D accessory some years ago...

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By *avinaTVTV/TS 16 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"If someone can point me to the profile that asks to complete the evil dragon quest, please.

I do like a good dragon."

I've got my drag on...

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By *anceAloneWoman 16 weeks ago

Adjacent to him


"OP. I actually laughed at your post. For all the right reasons. Possibly because it is what I would've (and did) post when I joined. I worded it less diplomatically (standard) and took incoming, was blocked etc etc. I cried into my pillow and questioned my worth.

Great post. Ignore the meanies. I see your intent.

*I never washed my pillow case as a constant reminder to never upset the Fab Illuminati.

Ah but have you achieved higher than a 5/10 average since 🤔

No. I'm holding steady at 5, but have collected some classic awards along the way:

'irritatingly funny' (Name withheld) Nov '23

'Seriously competitive' - Big Harold May '24

'I thought I had blocked you already?' (multiple users Dec 22- present).

And the classic...i don't want to see a picture of that...read my profile 🫣

That was wrapped in with the Big Harold quote. 😂"

Ladies who request no dic pics don't search Big Harold 🤞 so I have no idea what you mean😁

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By *imply DeeWoman 16 weeks ago

Wherever


"If someone can point me to the profile that asks to complete the evil dragon quest, please.

I do like a good dragon.

I asked that too Dee! Can we quest together please? I might get some of that armour that protects nothing but looks hot! 🔥🥵

J"

If you put it that way - I think the only option is we definitely should Julie ⛓️🤺🤺🐉

Now what’s the profile username? Anyone? OP?

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By *hipdaleCouple 16 weeks ago

Greenhithe

It's about attraction personality and having z laugh , thats all we look for

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple 16 weeks ago

Manchester-ish


"If someone can point me to the profile that asks to complete the evil dragon quest, please.

I do like a good dragon.

I asked that too Dee! Can we quest together please? I might get some of that armour that protects nothing but looks hot! 🔥🥵

J

If you put it that way - I think the only option is we definitely should Julie ⛓️🤺🤺🐉

Now what’s the profile username? Anyone? OP? "

I've messaged it to you Dee. 😇👌😂

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan 16 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"OP. I actually laughed at your post. For all the right reasons. Possibly because it is what I would've (and did) post when I joined. I worded it less diplomatically (standard) and took incoming, was blocked etc etc. I cried into my pillow and questioned my worth.

Great post. Ignore the meanies. I see your intent.

*I never washed my pillow case as a constant reminder to never upset the Fab Illuminati.

Ah but have you achieved higher than a 5/10 average since 🤔

No. I'm holding steady at 5, but have collected some classic awards along the way:

'irritatingly funny' (Name withheld) Nov '23

'Seriously competitive' - Big Harold May '24

'I thought I had blocked you already?' (multiple users Dec 22- present).

And the classic...i don't want to see a picture of that...read my profile 🫣

That was wrapped in with the Big Harold quote. 😂

Ladies who request no dic pics don't search Big Harold 🤞 so I have no idea what you mean😁"

Well, I don't know if it's due to you bumping this post (subliminal intent on your behalf 😂) or what, but BH has just messaged me to say that he has received a massive inflow of 'people who have viewed you' and reckons they are mostly forumites. I have checked mine and BH's MM profile and oddly enough it remains dormant.

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By *ea monkeyMan 16 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’m seriously wondering what profiles you’re looking at, OP!

I’ve been on here for 12 years and I’ve never had to deal with any of that. Maybe a bit of size queens but I just avoid them

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By *bi HaiveMan 16 weeks ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

Late to the party on this one, but I'm always confused by these posts.

Who gets to decide if someone is a 5/10? Surely that's a personal opinion?

Who gets to decide if someone's preferences are 'delusional'? Surely a preference is personal to the person expressing it? It's not for anyone else to judge whether it's reasonable or not.

Like many I've seen all manner of preferences, requests, firm boundaries and yes, what some might consider 'demands' on profiles over the years. Some made me chuckle but I'd never feel the urge to tell someone that they were being delusional. I'd just let them crack on with their life and move on with mine.

Looks are subjective. Tastes are personal. Desires individual.

If you don't agree with what's written in a profile that's a 'you' problem, not a 'them' problem.

As for the '8 inches' comment? I've never fucked a bucket. Maybe some should study anatomy a little before assuming things........🤔🤦‍♂️🤷‍♂️

If people just let others decide what they were looking for rather than tell them they're wrong or 'delusional then maybe there'd be less ranty posts and updates.

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By *anceAloneWoman 16 weeks ago

Adjacent to him


"OP. I actually laughed at your post. For all the right reasons. Possibly because it is what I would've (and did) post when I joined. I worded it less diplomatically (standard) and took incoming, was blocked etc etc. I cried into my pillow and questioned my worth.

Great post. Ignore the meanies. I see your intent.

*I never washed my pillow case as a constant reminder to never upset the Fab Illuminati.

Ah but have you achieved higher than a 5/10 average since 🤔

No. I'm holding steady at 5, but have collected some classic awards along the way:

'irritatingly funny' (Name withheld) Nov '23

'Seriously competitive' - Big Harold May '24

'I thought I had blocked you already?' (multiple users Dec 22- present).

And the classic...i don't want to see a picture of that...read my profile 🫣

That was wrapped in with the Big Harold quote. 😂

Ladies who request no dic pics don't search Big Harold 🤞 so I have no idea what you mean😁

Well, I don't know if it's due to you bumping this post (subliminal intent on your behalf 😂) or what, but BH has just messaged me to say that he has received a massive inflow of 'people who have viewed you' and reckons they are mostly forumites. I have checked mine and BH's MM profile and oddly enough it remains dormant."

As all the ladies I know operate in Ninja mode I can promise you your MM profile has recieved plenty of attention🤪

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 16 weeks ago

North West

I still want more explanation of the 5/10 thing.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan 16 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"OP. I actually laughed at your post. For all the right reasons. Possibly because it is what I would've (and did) post when I joined. I worded it less diplomatically (standard) and took incoming, was blocked etc etc. I cried into my pillow and questioned my worth.

Great post. Ignore the meanies. I see your intent.

*I never washed my pillow case as a constant reminder to never upset the Fab Illuminati.

Ah but have you achieved higher than a 5/10 average since 🤔

No. I'm holding steady at 5, but have collected some classic awards along the way:

'irritatingly funny' (Name withheld) Nov '23

'Seriously competitive' - Big Harold May '24

'I thought I had blocked you already?' (multiple users Dec 22- present).

And the classic...i don't want to see a picture of that...read my profile 🫣

That was wrapped in with the Big Harold quote. 😂

Ladies who request no dic pics don't search Big Harold 🤞 so I have no idea what you mean😁

Well, I don't know if it's due to you bumping this post (subliminal intent on your behalf 😂) or what, but BH has just messaged me to say that he has received a massive inflow of 'people who have viewed you' and reckons they are mostly forumites. I have checked mine and BH's MM profile and oddly enough it remains dormant.

As all the ladies I know operate in Ninja mode I can promise you your MM profile has recieved plenty of attention🤪"

Couples from the Midlands have never heard of Ninja mode!

Ref MM profile, thanks for the wink 😉.

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By *anceAloneWoman 16 weeks ago

Adjacent to him


"OP. I actually laughed at your post. For all the right reasons. Possibly because it is what I would've (and did) post when I joined. I worded it less diplomatically (standard) and took incoming, was blocked etc etc. I cried into my pillow and questioned my worth.

Great post. Ignore the meanies. I see your intent.

*I never washed my pillow case as a constant reminder to never upset the Fab Illuminati.

Ah but have you achieved higher than a 5/10 average since 🤔

No. I'm holding steady at 5, but have collected some classic awards along the way:

'irritatingly funny' (Name withheld) Nov '23

'Seriously competitive' - Big Harold May '24

'I thought I had blocked you already?' (multiple users Dec 22- present).

And the classic...i don't want to see a picture of that...read my profile 🫣

That was wrapped in with the Big Harold quote. 😂

Ladies who request no dic pics don't search Big Harold 🤞 so I have no idea what you mean😁

Well, I don't know if it's due to you bumping this post (subliminal intent on your behalf 😂) or what, but BH has just messaged me to say that he has received a massive inflow of 'people who have viewed you' and reckons they are mostly forumites. I have checked mine and BH's MM profile and oddly enough it remains dormant.

As all the ladies I know operate in Ninja mode I can promise you your MM profile has recieved plenty of attention🤪

Couples from the Midlands have never heard of Ninja mode!

Ref MM profile, thanks for the wink 😉."

Well even a pity wink is a wink 😘

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan 16 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"OP. I actually laughed at your post. For all the right reasons. Possibly because it is what I would've (and did) post when I joined. I worded it less diplomatically (standard) and took incoming, was blocked etc etc. I cried into my pillow and questioned my worth.

Great post. Ignore the meanies. I see your intent.

*I never washed my pillow case as a constant reminder to never upset the Fab Illuminati.

Ah but have you achieved higher than a 5/10 average since 🤔

No. I'm holding steady at 5, but have collected some classic awards along the way:

'irritatingly funny' (Name withheld) Nov '23

'Seriously competitive' - Big Harold May '24

'I thought I had blocked you already?' (multiple users Dec 22- present).

And the classic...i don't want to see a picture of that...read my profile 🫣

That was wrapped in with the Big Harold quote. 😂

Ladies who request no dic pics don't search Big Harold 🤞 so I have no idea what you mean😁

Well, I don't know if it's due to you bumping this post (subliminal intent on your behalf 😂) or what, but BH has just messaged me to say that he has received a massive inflow of 'people who have viewed you' and reckons they are mostly forumites. I have checked mine and BH's MM profile and oddly enough it remains dormant.

As all the ladies I know operate in Ninja mode I can promise you your MM profile has recieved plenty of attention🤪

Couples from the Midlands have never heard of Ninja mode!

Ref MM profile, thanks for the wink 😉.

Well even a pity wink is a wink 😘"

Think you are having problems with your vowels.

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By *anceAloneWoman 16 weeks ago

Adjacent to him


"OP. I actually laughed at your post. For all the right reasons. Possibly because it is what I would've (and did) post when I joined. I worded it less diplomatically (standard) and took incoming, was blocked etc etc. I cried into my pillow and questioned my worth.

Great post. Ignore the meanies. I see your intent.

*I never washed my pillow case as a constant reminder to never upset the Fab Illuminati.

Ah but have you achieved higher than a 5/10 average since 🤔

No. I'm holding steady at 5, but have collected some classic awards along the way:

'irritatingly funny' (Name withheld) Nov '23

'Seriously competitive' - Big Harold May '24

'I thought I had blocked you already?' (multiple users Dec 22- present).

And the classic...i don't want to see a picture of that...read my profile 🫣

That was wrapped in with the Big Harold quote. 😂

Ladies who request no dic pics don't search Big Harold 🤞 so I have no idea what you mean😁

Well, I don't know if it's due to you bumping this post (subliminal intent on your behalf 😂) or what, but BH has just messaged me to say that he has received a massive inflow of 'people who have viewed you' and reckons they are mostly forumites. I have checked mine and BH's MM profile and oddly enough it remains dormant.

As all the ladies I know operate in Ninja mode I can promise you your MM profile has recieved plenty of attention🤪

Couples from the Midlands have never heard of Ninja mode!

Ref MM profile, thanks for the wink 😉.

Well even a pity wink is a wink 😘

Think you are having problems with your vowels. "

😆😆😆😆

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago


"I still want more explanation of the 5/10 thing."

I think the OP is suggesting that (in his opinion) average Looking people seek those who are (in his opinion) are above average in what generally seen to be a fab attributes. I think it’s called punching above one’s weight in the aesthetics stakes.

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By *asterMeliodasMan 16 weeks ago

Newmill


"Think you are having problems with your vowels. "

Even a pity wonk is a wunk? That doesn't make any sense!

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago

My vowels are in fine fettle as was evidenced at 0630 this morning.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 16 weeks ago

North West


"I still want more explanation of the 5/10 thing.

I think the OP is suggesting that (in his opinion) average Looking people seek those who are (in his opinion) are above average in what generally seen to be a fab attributes. I think it’s called punching above one’s weight in the aesthetics stakes."

But what are these aesthetic criteria? Insufficient information!

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By *asterMeliodasMan 16 weeks ago

Newmill


"I still want more explanation of the 5/10 thing.

I think the OP is suggesting that (in his opinion) average Looking people seek those who are (in his opinion) are above average in what generally seen to be a fab attributes. I think it’s called punching above one’s weight in the aesthetics stakes.

But what are these aesthetic criteria? Insufficient information!"

You have to possess a whimsical face, the regulation number of eyes, and contain exactly zero internal bees.

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By *teveanddebsCouple 16 weeks ago

Norwich


"I always do a social first but would laugh at a 5 star restaurant.

I'm happy with a cuppa and a packet of crisps "

My kinda gal

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By *bi HaiveMan 16 weeks ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I still want more explanation of the 5/10 thing.

I think the OP is suggesting that (in his opinion) average Looking people seek those who are (in his opinion) are above average in what generally seen to be a fab attributes. I think it’s called punching above one’s weight in the aesthetics stakes.

But what are these aesthetic criteria? Insufficient information!"

I struggle to work out how someone decides that a person is a '5/10' based on a self written description and a few photos on a screen. Some post images that give nothing away about how they really look. Most don't have visible face pics.

To make an assessment based on that means either they're psychic or they're looking very superficially at someone and making a decision based on their own tastes and preferences.

Which may of course be delusional.....🤔🤦‍♂️😂

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 16 weeks ago

North West


"I still want more explanation of the 5/10 thing.

I think the OP is suggesting that (in his opinion) average Looking people seek those who are (in his opinion) are above average in what generally seen to be a fab attributes. I think it’s called punching above one’s weight in the aesthetics stakes.

But what are these aesthetic criteria? Insufficient information!

You have to possess a whimsical face, the regulation number of eyes, and contain exactly zero internal bees."

I don't think my face is whimsical, sadly 😭

I'm good on eyes (excellent feedback) and I believe I'm bee-free.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple 16 weeks ago

Manchester-ish


"I still want more explanation of the 5/10 thing.

I think the OP is suggesting that (in his opinion) average Looking people seek those who are (in his opinion) are above average in what generally seen to be a fab attributes. I think it’s called punching above one’s weight in the aesthetics stakes.

But what are these aesthetic criteria? Insufficient information!

You have to possess a whimsical face, the regulation number of eyes, and contain exactly zero internal bees.

I don't think my face is whimsical, sadly 😭

I'm good on eyes (excellent feedback) and I believe I'm bee-free. "

I'm actually an entire hive of bees masquerading as a human. 🐝

J

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By *asterMeliodasMan 16 weeks ago

Newmill


"I'm actually an entire hive of bees masquerading as a human. 🐝

J"

I KNEW IT

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By *naswingdressWoman 16 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I still want more explanation of the 5/10 thing.

I think the OP is suggesting that (in his opinion) average Looking people seek those who are (in his opinion) are above average in what generally seen to be a fab attributes. I think it’s called punching above one’s weight in the aesthetics stakes.

But what are these aesthetic criteria? Insufficient information!

You have to possess a whimsical face, the regulation number of eyes, and contain exactly zero internal bees.

I don't think my face is whimsical, sadly 😭

I'm good on eyes (excellent feedback) and I believe I'm bee-free.

I'm actually an entire hive of bees masquerading as a human. 🐝

J"

And I'm Spartacus and so is my wife

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By *bi HaiveMan 16 weeks ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I still want more explanation of the 5/10 thing.

I think the OP is suggesting that (in his opinion) average Looking people seek those who are (in his opinion) are above average in what generally seen to be a fab attributes. I think it’s called punching above one’s weight in the aesthetics stakes.

But what are these aesthetic criteria? Insufficient information!

You have to possess a whimsical face, the regulation number of eyes, and contain exactly zero internal bees.

I don't think my face is whimsical, sadly 😭

I'm good on eyes (excellent feedback) and I believe I'm bee-free.

I'm actually an entire hive of bees masquerading as a human. 🐝

J"

That would explain the buzzing......🤔😂😂

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago


"I still want more explanation of the 5/10 thing.

I think the OP is suggesting that (in his opinion) average Looking people seek those who are (in his opinion) are above average in what generally seen to be a fab attributes. I think it’s called punching above one’s weight in the aesthetics stakes.

But what are these aesthetic criteria? Insufficient information!"

Only the OP can opine on what he considers to be the criteria for a 6, 7, 8, 9 or even a 10 out of 10.

As I have said recently a faint intermittent pulse and shallow breathing is a strong 8/10 at my stage in life!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 16 weeks ago

North West


"I still want more explanation of the 5/10 thing.

I think the OP is suggesting that (in his opinion) average Looking people seek those who are (in his opinion) are above average in what generally seen to be a fab attributes. I think it’s called punching above one’s weight in the aesthetics stakes.

But what are these aesthetic criteria? Insufficient information!

You have to possess a whimsical face, the regulation number of eyes, and contain exactly zero internal bees.

I don't think my face is whimsical, sadly 😭

I'm good on eyes (excellent feedback) and I believe I'm bee-free.

I'm actually an entire hive of bees masquerading as a human. 🐝

J"

Julie! Is that why you're a sticky mess?

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By *vaRose43Woman 16 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Wait….. nobody has offered a 5* restaurant for a social. I’m clearly doing something wrong 🤣

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 16 weeks ago

North West


"I still want more explanation of the 5/10 thing.

I think the OP is suggesting that (in his opinion) average Looking people seek those who are (in his opinion) are above average in what generally seen to be a fab attributes. I think it’s called punching above one’s weight in the aesthetics stakes.

But what are these aesthetic criteria? Insufficient information!

Only the OP can opine on what he considers to be the criteria for a 6, 7, 8, 9 or even a 10 out of 10.

As I have said recently a faint intermittent pulse and shallow breathing is a strong 8/10 at my stage in life!"

Shit, I might be a 9 on your scale then

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago


"I still want more explanation of the 5/10 thing.

I think the OP is suggesting that (in his opinion) average Looking people seek those who are (in his opinion) are above average in what generally seen to be a fab attributes. I think it’s called punching above one’s weight in the aesthetics stakes.

But what are these aesthetic criteria? Insufficient information!

Only the OP can opine on what he considers to be the criteria for a 6, 7, 8, 9 or even a 10 out of 10.

As I have said recently a faint intermittent pulse and shallow breathing is a strong 8/10 at my stage in life!

Shit, I might be a 9 on your scale then "

Well there you go!

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"Where do you draw the line between preferences and entitlement, though?

Have you seen the examples I wrote in the first post?

I DID NOT MADE THEM UP

Oooh, I remember you posting about how lots of people had poor spelling and grammar. The irony "

Guilty

Can I blame the phone?

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"OP. I actually laughed at your post. For all the right reasons. Possibly because it is what I would've (and did) post when I joined. I worded it less diplomatically (standard) and took incoming, was blocked etc etc. I cried into my pillow and questioned my worth.

Great post. Ignore the meanies. I see your intent.

*I never washed my pillow case as a constant reminder to never upset the Fab Illuminati."

Thanks mate

I’m not in the slightest bothered by the meanies. I was expecting a lot of people would feel slightly offended and come to their own rescue by criticising my opinion, but that’s ok

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 16 weeks ago

North West


"OP. I actually laughed at your post. For all the right reasons. Possibly because it is what I would've (and did) post when I joined. I worded it less diplomatically (standard) and took incoming, was blocked etc etc. I cried into my pillow and questioned my worth.

Great post. Ignore the meanies. I see your intent.

*I never washed my pillow case as a constant reminder to never upset the Fab Illuminati.

Thanks mate

I’m not in the slightest bothered by the meanies. I was expecting a lot of people would feel slightly offended and come to their own rescue by criticising my opinion, but that’s ok "

We're just interested in what you mean by 5/10. We find the idea of the numerical rating of other people quite bizarre, tbh.

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By *electableicecreamMan 16 weeks ago

The West


"OP. I actually laughed at your post. For all the right reasons. Possibly because it is what I would've (and did) post when I joined. I worded it less diplomatically (standard) and took incoming, was blocked etc etc. I cried into my pillow and questioned my worth.

Great post. Ignore the meanies. I see your intent.

*I never washed my pillow case as a constant reminder to never upset the Fab Illuminati.

Thanks mate

I’m not in the slightest bothered by the meanies. I was expecting a lot of people would feel slightly offended and come to their own rescue by criticising my opinion, but that’s ok "

It's always really amusing when someone starts a thread with an obviously provocative subject and then starts calling people mean when they disagree with them.

It's absolutely textbook.

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By *naswingdressWoman 16 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"OP. I actually laughed at your post. For all the right reasons. Possibly because it is what I would've (and did) post when I joined. I worded it less diplomatically (standard) and took incoming, was blocked etc etc. I cried into my pillow and questioned my worth.

Great post. Ignore the meanies. I see your intent.

*I never washed my pillow case as a constant reminder to never upset the Fab Illuminati.

Thanks mate

I’m not in the slightest bothered by the meanies. I was expecting a lot of people would feel slightly offended and come to their own rescue by criticising my opinion, but that’s ok

It's always really amusing when someone starts a thread with an obviously provocative subject and then starts calling people mean when they disagree with them.

It's absolutely textbook."

Or "offended". Nah, just disagreeing

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By *asterMeliodasMan 16 weeks ago

Newmill


"OP. I actually laughed at your post. For all the right reasons. Possibly because it is what I would've (and did) post when I joined. I worded it less diplomatically (standard) and took incoming, was blocked etc etc. I cried into my pillow and questioned my worth.

Great post. Ignore the meanies. I see your intent.

*I never washed my pillow case as a constant reminder to never upset the Fab Illuminati.

Thanks mate

I’m not in the slightest bothered by the meanies. I was expecting a lot of people would feel slightly offended and come to their own rescue by criticising my opinion, but that’s ok

We're just interested in what you mean by 5/10. We find the idea of the numerical rating of other people quite bizarre, tbh. "

I agree, which is why I usually just give everyone a 10 if I ever participate in games that do it. :P

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"OP. I actually laughed at your post. For all the right reasons. Possibly because it is what I would've (and did) post when I joined. I worded it less diplomatically (standard) and took incoming, was blocked etc etc. I cried into my pillow and questioned my worth.

Great post. Ignore the meanies. I see your intent.

*I never washed my pillow case as a constant reminder to never upset the Fab Illuminati.

Thanks mate

I’m not in the slightest bothered by the meanies. I was expecting a lot of people would feel slightly offended and come to their own rescue by criticising my opinion, but that’s ok

We're just interested in what you mean by 5/10. We find the idea of the numerical rating of other people quite bizarre, tbh. "

Really? It’s been around since numbers have been around. And I wasn’t rating anyone, it was a way to say that some people definitely push above their weight.

I think you’re looking at the finger and missing the moon

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"OP. I actually laughed at your post. For all the right reasons. Possibly because it is what I would've (and did) post when I joined. I worded it less diplomatically (standard) and took incoming, was blocked etc etc. I cried into my pillow and questioned my worth.

Great post. Ignore the meanies. I see your intent.

*I never washed my pillow case as a constant reminder to never upset the Fab Illuminati.

Thanks mate

I’m not in the slightest bothered by the meanies. I was expecting a lot of people would feel slightly offended and come to their own rescue by criticising my opinion, but that’s ok

It's always really amusing when someone starts a thread with an obviously provocative subject and then starts calling people mean when they disagree with them.

It's absolutely textbook."

I disagree with you.

If you read all the thread (I know it’s massive) you’ll see that I explained my intent despite a few people taking offence and trying to ridicule my claims.

I am well aware of the phenomenon of trolling, but that wasn’t my intention. Besides, calling troll someone because they have an opinion that may be unpopular (like mine proved to be) without even trying to engage constructively is quite immature.

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By *ondiego85 OP   Man 16 weeks ago

nottingham


"OP. I actually laughed at your post. For all the right reasons. Possibly because it is what I would've (and did) post when I joined. I worded it less diplomatically (standard) and took incoming, was blocked etc etc. I cried into my pillow and questioned my worth.

Great post. Ignore the meanies. I see your intent.

*I never washed my pillow case as a constant reminder to never upset the Fab Illuminati.

Thanks mate

I’m not in the slightest bothered by the meanies. I was expecting a lot of people would feel slightly offended and come to their own rescue by criticising my opinion, but that’s ok

It's always really amusing when someone starts a thread with an obviously provocative subject and then starts calling people mean when they disagree with them.

It's absolutely textbook.

Or "offended". Nah, just disagreeing "

That’s absolutely fine.

I don’t mind people disagreeing with me. I don’t like people who don’t even try to have a discussion and offend the others.

I proved that I am open to different perspectives. I remain convinced that a lot of people here are deluded, but I accept it is just my opinion and many disagree with me.

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago


"OP. I actually laughed at your post. For all the right reasons. Possibly because it is what I would've (and did) post when I joined. I worded it less diplomatically (standard) and took incoming, was blocked etc etc. I cried into my pillow and questioned my worth.

Great post. Ignore the meanies. I see your intent.

*I never washed my pillow case as a constant reminder to never upset the Fab Illuminati.

Thanks mate

I’m not in the slightest bothered by the meanies. I was expecting a lot of people would feel slightly offended and come to their own rescue by criticising my opinion, but that’s ok

It's always really amusing when someone starts a thread with an obviously provocative subject and then starts calling people mean when they disagree with them.

It's absolutely textbook.

I disagree with you.

If you read all the thread (I know it’s massive) you’ll see that I explained my intent despite a few people taking offence and trying to ridicule my claims.

I am well aware of the phenomenon of trolling, but that wasn’t my intention. Besides, calling troll someone because they have an opinion that may be unpopular (like mine proved to be) without even trying to engage constructively is quite immature."

So a 3/10 then?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple 16 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Well done everyone.

Great Expectations!

😎

J

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