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being to nice is seen as a weakness with woman?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have always been "Mr nice guy " ! ,im very clean and always pleasant and lisen to people ,im not forceful but filthy and rude when needed!,so why do people think this is a weakness ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have always been "Mr nice guy " ! ,im very clean and always pleasant and lisen to people ,im not forceful but filthy and rude when needed!,so why do people think this is a weakness ? "
I hate rude and filthy, forceful men and I bet a lot here are like me .... Mr nice win s hands down ....... rest can take a run and jump.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on the level of niceness.
Personally I like strong respectful men. I can't be doing with men who are so 'nice' that they want to do everything for me bar wiping my Arse though. And I don't like men who don't know what they're doing in the bedroom, to the extent of constantly asking me 'is this ok' every few minutes 
So respect me, pay me compliments every now and then and take control of me in the bedroom and I'm happy 
...... Oh and flowers, buy me flowers lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"treat em mean, keep em keen
and boot there bum out the door , lol
I didn't say they get in the door...
I do dogging in my drive"
you all in them animal masks , lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have always been "Mr nice guy " ! ,im very clean and always pleasant and lisen to people ,im not forceful but filthy and rude when needed!,so why do people think this is a weakness ? "
It's not a weakness your just not talking to the right people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They is a very fine balance.
Too nice and you're in the friend zone.
Too far the other way and you're a knob. (Even though women seem to love a knob)
You've got to be nice plus confident plus have a bit of edge.
I was always too nice and eager to please, I'm a lot more successful with women now I ain't afraid to have a laugh and take the pee out of them a lot more. And not really care what they are thinking all the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i like men who are nice, some men just say they are nice, they arent realy that nice though, bit like men who keep telling you how honest they are, they are the exact opposite.
if your too nice then some people will take advantage of you.
i like a man to be assertive, its not good to be too nice. |
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"i like men who are nice, some men just say they are nice, they arent realy that nice though, bit like men who keep telling you how honest they are, they are the exact opposite.
if your too nice then some people will take advantage of you.
i like a man to be assertive, its not good to be too nice."
I'm nice. Honest! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know what he means I have been told I am too nice and ppl walk over me because I bend over backwards for ppl and go out my way for them because they know I will |
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"It depends on the level of niceness.
Personally I like strong respectful men. I can't be doing with men who are so 'nice' that they want to do everything for me bar wiping my Arse though. And I don't like men who don't know what they're doing in the bedroom, to the extent of constantly asking me 'is this ok' every few minutes
So respect me, pay me compliments every now and then and take control of me in the bedroom and I'm happy
...... Oh and flowers, buy me flowers lol "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't!!
My Dad's favourite quote, which he must've said at least twice a day while I was growing up.lol
IT'S NICE TO BE IMPORTANT, BUT IT'S MORE IMPORTANT TO BE NICE!!
Reckon you just fine as you are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know what he means I have been told I am too nice and ppl walk over me because I bend over backwards for ppl and go out my way for them because they know I will "
Hmmm..........yes! Sometimes wonder if I have M U G written on my forehead!!
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"I have always been "Mr nice guy " ! ,im very clean and always pleasant and lisen to people ,im not forceful but filthy and rude when needed!,so why do people think this is a weakness ? "
initially,being nice is seen as a good thing,eventually,it's seen as a weakness,to be taken advantage of.
usually my reply to the nice guy post is.
many females claim to want a nice guy,but after while they just think,this guys a wank.
then i get pure pelters from irate females,so i'm happy i didn't give my usual reply.  |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Theres being nice, and theres being a doormat.
I like nice manners, and a nice clean guy or lady... but I do not like someone who agrees with every word I say, just because they think its the polite thing to do.
I want someone who is honest, and straightforward, and sometimes that means saying things I might not want to hear, but if its done in the right manner, with respect, then thats way better than being nice. |
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