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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, I was thought I'd mention some thoughts running through my head and see if others can give there thoughts.
I have been asked by a lovely lady on a date. She is 5ft 9 and I am 5ft 8, so she is an inch taller than me. She has said she isn't sure how she feels about that, but she has said she really likes me though.
It does bother me a bit, but I think it's more because I am nervous and probably over thinking stuff. For me I am worried that she may see me as less manly and not able to look out for her when needed. And I guess I am a little worried what others may thing.
Any other you guys date smaller guys/taller ladies.
I think this is just pre-date nerves ha!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all, I was thought I'd mention some thoughts running through my head and see if others can give there thoughts.
I have been asked by a lovely lady on a date. She is 5ft 9 and I am 5ft 8, so she is an inch taller than me. She has said she isn't sure how she feels about that, but she has said she really likes me though.
It does bother me a bit, but I think it's more because I am nervous and probably over thinking stuff. For me I am worried that she may see me as less manly and not able to look out for her when needed. And I guess I am a little worried what others may thing.
Any other you guys date smaller guys/taller ladies.
I think this is just pre-date nerves ha!
Thanks"
Remember she asked you 
So she obviously wants to meet you
Enjoy yourself xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're worried about an inch. Thats hardly even noticeable?!
Puff ya hair up Joey Essex style if needs be?!.lol.
If she likes you it should be for who you are inside. Op you definitely in my opinion over thinking it.
Bollox to what others think, why should you!!. |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"just tell her we are all the same size lying down lol  "
Noooo it might irritate her as much as it does me and then she'll punch his nose and they wont get married and itll all be your fault  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"just tell her we are all the same size lying down lol
Noooo it might irritate her as much as it does me and then she'll punch his nose and they wont get married and itll all be your fault "
Haha I don't think I would say that! Not on a first date! |
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"just tell her we are all the same size lying down lol
Noooo it might irritate her as much as it does me and then she'll punch his nose and they wont get married and itll all be your fault "
pmsl...love it!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Another question as well as the original, is we were chatting having a laugh and firing questions at each other. The question came where I was asking ok are you a lady who kisses on first date? She responded with she is shy and old fashioned and likes the guy to lead. his left me confused a bit, I get that when the time arises I make the move then, but does this mean yes she would on a first date or not :/
I haven't been on a date in about 7 yr so kinda rusty! |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"Another question as well as the original, is we were chatting having a laugh and firing questions at each other. The question came where I was asking ok are you a lady who kisses on first date? She responded with she is shy and old fashioned and likes the guy to lead. his left me confused a bit, I get that when the time arises I make the move then, but does this mean yes she would on a first date or not :/
I haven't been on a date in about 7 yr so kinda rusty!"
Look, would it just be easier if we all came with you?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Another question as well as the original, is we were chatting having a laugh and firing questions at each other. The question came where I was asking ok are you a lady who kisses on first date? She responded with she is shy and old fashioned and likes the guy to lead. his left me confused a bit, I get that when the time arises I make the move then, but does this mean yes she would on a first date or not :/
I haven't been on a date in about 7 yr so kinda rusty!
Look, would it just be easier if we all came with you? "
Haha, maybe a wire.. jokes. At least I care and ain't just some player or jerk looking for one thing. I am trying to consider how she feels :P
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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Look, would it just be easier if we all came with you?
Haha, maybe a wire.. jokes. At least I care and ain't just some player or jerk looking for one thing. I am trying to consider how she feels :P
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But its a date not a wedding. I think you might be over-thinking it.
Go, enjoy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just go and enjoy yourself
Sometimes time is really better spent doing than thinking about doing.
If it's meant to be, it will be
Have fun "
... agreed, if it feels natural not forced then do it, go with the flow.
If she does mention sex or kissing on a first date tell her you're Not that kind of guy and want to be respected in the morning.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 5'6..and Ive met 6ft women..if I was in any way concerned about my size in any department I probably wouldnt chance my arm as much.
but Hey each to their own, some women like tall men just as a preference
but it never means that someone taller will give better sex than someone shorter as some would lead u to believe
the difference of 1inch ffs...now that IS just ludicrous in my opinion |
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You're a good looking man and you obviously care about the ladies welfare. I suggest that at the beginning and end of the evening you kiss her on the cheek, its friendly but not pushy.
Good luck, I hope you enjoy your date |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If there is a spark and you get on ... Kiss her
Im sure once your lips are locked you won't be worrying about height "
I like the sound of that thanks x |
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