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I’m so low maintenance, that it’s almost maintenance free. Just stick a bit of food in me and I’m happy bunny.
What they mean to me…….i have no idea. It’s not really something I consider as a concept. |
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"Are you low maintenance or high maintenance??
Do you think other people would agree with your assessment?
What do those phrases mean to you?? "
I’m low maintenance, I am a competent and capable human being, leading from the front, with high emotional maturity & resilience dealing with some of the worlds toughest challenges, and all in my stride. I’m low effort: low maintenance. |
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I’d not really considered it but oddly a friend told me she hates being in love with me because I’m ‘a high maintenance fucking nightmare ‘ .
I don’t know whether she’s right !
And I don’t know whether to be ecstatic or devastated!
Ps ….. she is most definitely high maintenance!
Pps….. not a fab friend |
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One of my cars is low maintenance. I can rely on it to get me from A to B, whatever the weather. I drive it daily. I respect that car.
One of my cars is extremely high maintenance. It’s a beautiful pain in the arse, and every journey is a high-risk, high-thrill gamble. I love that car fiercely but drive it very rarely.
I’m not sure where I’m going with that metaphor, because it’s the opposite of what low/high maintenance means to me with Fab friends.
A high-maintenance friendship needs nurturing with a lot of attention. Whether that’s forum chat, messages, or even just fabbing their latest photos. Someone who questions themselves (or me) if they don’t hear from me in a couple of days.
A low maintenance friendship, erm, doesn’t. And it’s no less intense or lust-filled because of being more chilled.
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I haven’t answered the questions. D’oh.
I think I’m low maintenance, on here. In person though, when we’re together, I need your full attention. Would people who know me agree? Dunno. I hope so. |
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I don't need maintaining like a household appliance or a car. I want someone to be with me in a way that we mutually enjoy. I don't demand attention, if I have to ask for it i know they don't really want to give it. |
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Not easy to answer as sometimes people confuse maintenance with standards. Some of mine can be considered high and don't mean justvpeople but things. Like for example I much prefer a nice meal out to a quick grab at Greggs if that counts.  |
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In relationships? High maintenance. I like to be and feel adored. It makes me feel cherished. Although I think find the right partner for you and all that it is automatic. But sometimes you occasionally have a relationship with someone and it feels like if there was a house fire they’d prioritise their wallpaper over you.
Otherwise? Pretty low maintenance. I’m generally chilled out and happy. My anxiety is under control so I run on an even keel these days.
To me high maintenance means someone who demands the best and won’t settle for less.
Low maintenance - happy to ride the “see what happens and where it goes” train. |
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I can be low maintenance as in I don’t care about places to go/eat/drink etc- I am just as happy lying on the grass chatting or eating a meal deal- but it has to be the right person.
My skincare routine is reduced to pharmacy/supermarket moisturiser and makeup. I keep my liquids in a Ziploc bag, much to horror of my colleagues. 
I have all sorts of accesories, going from a little £7.99 H&M bag I carry around the world to a Birkin that will never leave my house, haha. I love leggings and trainers.
I am high maintenance as in I know my worth and I want time and effort spent on me. Because I always give my best in time and effort. |
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I'm low maintenance in that the things that ensure I'm enagaged are very easy to do.
In terms of FAB that means keeping in touch - don't disappear for weeks/months, then reappear, expecting things things to remain as they were. |
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Low maintenance. I'm direct about what I want and need, enjoy my own company, feel secure enough in myself to take criticism on board.
The only time I tend to feel needy is if someone starts playing games and I haven't cottoned on.
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I'm pretty low maintenance if we're talking attitude and demands. Before meeting Buff I had very little and managed on little. I still have little but now do get my hair and nails done. I make no demands on him and our first argument was when he wanted to buy me a pair of jeans. I just wanted his love, not his bank balance.
Not much has changed really. |
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By *8on33Man 10 weeks ago
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"Are you low maintenance or high maintenance??
Do you think other people would agree with your assessment?
What do those phrases mean to you?? "
Definitely low maintenance here I don't require anything of anyone except politeness and a happy gorgeous smile . |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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I am perceived as high maintenance by others. Especially in terms of aesthetics and expectations.
I consider myself low maintenance. I know my worth. I make no exceptions for those that don’t see my worth. I am fiercely independent. I am happy in my own company. I don’t depend on others to enjoy experiences, materials possessions, or otherwise live the life I live. I am logical and level headed. |
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"I'm low maintenance in that the things that ensure I'm enagaged are very easy to do.
In terms of FAB that means keeping in touch - don't disappear for weeks/months, then reappear, expecting things things to remain as they were. "
I leave a reasonable amount of time for a response and then block to prevent this. Although it doesn’t stop them coming back on new profiles  |
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I think I'm low to medium.
I use skin/hair products from high street stores.
I enjoy good food and wine, but that can be a hone cooked meal/picnic/ local restaurant. I'm not into fancy restaurants or wines.
Clothes from high street stores including charity shops ( I do like a bargain).
So above I would say low.
Below is my medium.
Nails are done monthly.
Hair is cut regularly.
Do treat myself to beauty treatments.
So I think I'm mix, but I do scrub up very well
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Is there a school of thought that low/high maintenance is to do with how expensive someone’s tastes are?
I see it more as a time/attention thing than a financial thing, personally."
Yes, in some societies. Really beautiful girls are deemed high maintenance as in they will require loads of money to upkeep their hair, nails, makeup, luxurious designer clothing and accessories, meals out, etc. The idea is seen, in such societies, as a woman who a man can only access her pussy by maintaining her level of financial needs to meet her appearance demands. This isn’t a sugar baby/daddy arrangement but an expectation of having the prize of being seen with this beautiful lady on your arm but everyone knowing she’s high maintenance — a high cost to maintain in her beautiful state. |
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I’m fairly high maintenance so I can be low maintenance. I get my nails done every 3 weeks, and brows, lip and chin threaded 4 weekly to save me having to do them weekly. If I’ve got quite a few things on in a row I’ll get my lashes tinted and lifted to save on having to use mascara. |
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By *B69Woman 10 weeks ago
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I’m high maintenance, if you want to be my priority then you need to work at it, I have expensive tastes but I’m not expecting anything like that off you. Your undivided attention would be enough |
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I’m always fixing things - my job, vehicles, house, relationships…
I’d consider this High Maintenance
But me, I don’t need a lot, bring no drama, make no unreasonable demands, happy being me, pretty low maintenance |
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"*goodwondered what goos chese was
You've never milked a goos?
cant say i have, sounds like some exotic cross breed goat variant
A cross between a goat and a goose. Vicious temper! "
And now I know what amimal I am ! Thanks  |
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In terms of relationships, low. I like to be the focus of attention when we're physically together. I want you to be off doing your own thing and occasionally checking in when we're not.
In terms of aesthetics, I probably look otherwise, but also low. I don't do hairdressers, but I fix my roots at home every couple of months. My nails are always done, but I do them myself. My makeup is a simple lipstain. My wardrobe is all easily slipped on or off. I take less time to get ready (including showering) than most men I know. |
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It’s a good question as can be interpreted in different ways, in every day life I’d say I’m low maintenance, in my business I would say that I’m high ish maintenance and as I have a high sex drive would say that part of me would be classed as high maintenance  |
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"Low maintenance in general. I’m quite a simple living gal.
In the bedroom high maintenance. I don’t have an off switch.
But it would be fun looking for it.
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As long as I don’t hide it in an anagram |
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I really couldn't say. I think I like to give off the vibe of being low maintenance but think I have tendancies of being high maintenance, maybe in that I like to feel seen and needed and for people to show they actually care about me. Probably youngest child syndrome  |
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"Low maintenance in general. I’m quite a simple living gal.
In the bedroom high maintenance. I don’t have an off switch.
But it would be fun looking for it.
As long as I don’t hide it in an anagram "
I am wounded by that statement.
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