I think most of is are here for some great sexual experiences and encounters.
But I find that transition from polite chat to sexual “offering” can be difficult and cringeworthy.
Share your experiences and advice please.
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"That's what socials are for, if there's a connection things happen naturally. K."
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Yeah do like a social. But even then you could be having a good conversation. Then you still have to turn it around to where you ask if they would like to move to a room.
That point where you need to change a normal conversation to a seductive or sexual one.
AWKWARD!!
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By *eliWoman 27 weeks ago
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If the chemistry is right there might be a fleeting second of awkwardness but it's soon forgotten and more than worth it. Dialling up the intensity of kissing is a less verbal, more physical cue to move elsewhere. Or you could take their hand and move to the room? I don't know OP, normally when it's *that* kind of time it doesn't feel awkward at all for me. |
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It just happens surely, the situation will only get awkward if you make it awkward, can't say I've ever had to think about it.
We've chatted on here, we've met up for a drink, the most awkward thing is going to be said is shall we go up to the room and that's not even awkward for us. Your going to know if the others are going to want to by the conversation you have been having prior to that moment. |
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"If the chemistry is right there might be a fleeting second of awkwardness but it's soon forgotten and more than worth it. Dialling up the intensity of kissing is a less verbal, more physical cue to move elsewhere. Or you could take their hand and move to the room? I don't know OP, normally when it's *that* kind of time it doesn't feel awkward at all for me."
Yeah I so miss cues. Usually clock them 3 days later as I stir out of my sleep and give a Homer Simpson DOH!! lol
But I like that advice. THANKS!! xx
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I find it more awkward in a club, I think because it feels kind of expected and I don’t like that. I prefer a more natural transition.
With people I meet on here it’s always a social first and hopefully that’s got a bit hot and steamy so if we’re meeting again we both know what will happen. We’ve already had that build up so when we next get together it’s ripping your clothes off time, no words needed.
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"It just happens surely, the situation will only get awkward if you make it awkward, can't say I've ever had to think about it.
We've chatted on here, we've met up for a drink, the most awkward thing is going to be said is shall we go up to the room and that's not even awkward for us. Your going to know if the others are going to want to by the conversation you have been having prior to that moment."
As a couple or single woman it is so much easier.
As a couple you got each other to back you up and you have to beat people off with a stick.
It’s a whole different ballgame if I’m at a social with a woman friend. We can more or less pick and chose decide how little or much we wish to engage in conversation and the transition there is as blunt or exquisite as we decide to make it.
For those approaching us now it’s a totally different matter and my lady friend will often make comments about the ones she rejected on our way home.
It’s a totally different dynamic. |
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"It just happens surely, the situation will only get awkward if you make it awkward, can't say I've ever had to think about it.
We've chatted on here, we've met up for a drink, the most awkward thing is going to be said is shall we go up to the room and that's not even awkward for us. Your going to know if the others are going to want to by the conversation you have been having prior to that moment.
As a couple or single woman it is so much easier.
As a couple you got each other to back you up and you have to beat people off with a stick.
It’s a whole different ballgame if I’m at a social with a woman friend. We can more or less pick and chose decide how little or much we wish to engage in conversation and the transition there is as blunt or exquisite as we decide to make it.
For those approaching us now it’s a totally different matter and my lady friend will often make comments about the ones she rejected on our way home.
It’s a totally different dynamic. "
Yes I understand what you are trying to say but I would play it exactly the same if I was on my own, I just wouldn't feel awkward in the situation. |
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