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Have you thought about an age limit
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I think about this a lot as currently I don’t have the freedom to do as much as I would like and I’m worried that when I/we do there won’t be much time left before I’m either undesired or not up to it 
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"I’m sure I’ll just know at the time when the time to stop is right. Like always, there’s times where I’m more immersed in it than other times, quite fluid"
Yes I find my interest wains after being messed about with fake profiles, then a nice social or intellectual meeting draws me back in again |
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"No.
Swinging has a habit of giving you up if you don't adjust your expectations accordingly.
A very perceptive comment. Can you elaborate?"
I think that if you don't realise that things change in terms of who's attracted to you, what you can achieve and what you can realistically do you're not going to enjoy swinging too much as you get older.
If you adjust your expectations, remain involved and interested in various possibly different ways I don't see why you can't continue in the swinging world in some capacity until you're ready to give up. |
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"of when you are going to give up this lifestyle?
Yes. The day I need help getting out of bed and washing myself. Lol
 oh dear! ?? I stand no chance then    "
We all know you're here for the forums only, ninja  |
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Think we are pretty close to that age limit. Primarily we would like to meet couples but we find we’re getting very little interest from them. We do meet guys too and that’s easier but not easy.
Feels like we’re definitely running out of steam. |
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"of when you are going to give up this lifestyle?
Yes. The day I need help getting out of bed and washing myself. Lol
oh dear! ?? I stand no chance then
We all know you're here for the forums only, ninja "
but I like being helped in the shower    |
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"When i stop getting offers i guess... but i will still come back for the forums
I think there's a way for everyone to be involved in swinging to some degree "
Love ur pics nicecouple wish we was closer 
The Mr xx |
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By *dqsyMan 18 weeks ago
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was on fab 16+ years ago and was much more active meeting folks etc.
But then life came first and left it till fairly recently.
This time its much harder to get something sorted. Attitudes and folks wants have changed.
Not having a partner who is into the same things doesn't help but its life and that's it.
When I leave fab for me this last time etc |
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"When i stop getting offers i guess... but i will still come back for the forums
I think there's a way for everyone to be involved in swinging to some degree
Love ur pics nicecouple wish we was closer
The Mr xx"
Thanks. |
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