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How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?
Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart! |
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By *vaRose43Woman 11 weeks ago
Forest of Dean |
"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?
Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!"
Doesn’t bother me, can’t appeal to everyone. It’s certainly better than when they send an insult back - although some have been amazing and one is now a nickname my husband calls me   |
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By *wointo1Couple (MM) 11 weeks ago
Manchester |
We don't mind.
It's life. Not everyone you set eyes on you have to fuck!
Attraction needs to be there for everyone  |
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Mostly ghosted anyway so it really doesn't make any difference |
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It's a downer. It's always going to be a downer.
But you get used to it, you expect it. You get the face rejection, it hurts briefly, move on to the next rejection. |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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At first it bothered me but now it doesn’t. Personally I send a message back if someone isn’t for me as manners cost nothing and I feel it’s rude to just ghost or block someone straight away.
It only takes a few seconds to say sorry but not for me. |
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Its almost become the norm - but most will at least say …. Ohhh jesus what happened - was it a fire or chemicals?? |
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"It's a downer. It's always going to be a downer.
But you get used to it, you expect it. You get the face rejection, it hurts briefly, move on to the next rejection. "
Thing is not everyone takes a good picture, we once rejected a couple on here and then met them at a club, and they were much better in real life than on pics, so it's not always true on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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I'm the se as you I don't take it to heart you can't be for everyone |
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By *oveAndBangCouple 11 weeks ago
where the mood takes us |
We have a more of a problem with opposite side. Never know how to tell someone that they not our cup of tea without hurting them  |
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By *r SproutMan 11 weeks ago
the middle somewhere |
"It's a downer. It's always going to be a downer.
But you get used to it, you expect it. You get the face rejection, it hurts briefly, move on to the next rejection.
Thing is not everyone takes a good picture, we once rejected a couple on here and then met them at a club, and they were much better in real life than on pics, so it's not always true on here. "
That’s a good point. So if you did get a face pic that wasn’t great would you give them another chance and ask for a different face pic?
I don’t think I look good on some of mine but others I think I look reasonable |
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"We have a more of a problem with opposite side. Never know how to tell someone that they not our cup of tea without hurting them "
We just say you're a lovely couple but just not quite our types, that way we're not putting one of them down. |
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Personally, it doesn't bother me, so I just go ‘meh’ and move on. If you snooze, you lose  |
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"It's a downer. It's always going to be a downer.
But you get used to it, you expect it. You get the face rejection, it hurts briefly, move on to the next rejection.
Thing is not everyone takes a good picture, we once rejected a couple on here and then met them at a club, and they were much better in real life than on pics, so it's not always true on here.
That’s a good point. So if you did get a face pic that wasn’t great would you give them another chance and ask for a different face pic?
I don’t think I look good on some of mine but others I think I look reasonable "
Yeah we've done that before if we can't quite make our minds up. |
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Don't bother us we just move on but if someone is not for us we just Politely say sorry not for us and then block them saves wasting any time |
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"We have a more of a problem with opposite side. Never know how to tell someone that they not our cup of tea without hurting them
We just say you're a lovely couple but just not quite our types, that way we're not putting one of them down. "
If they send something unsolicited, we won't reply.
If after communication we see a face photo and there is no attraction, we are honest with that. |
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Only ever happened once in the entire time I’ve been on here. Such is life |
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"We have a more of a problem with opposite side. Never know how to tell someone that they not our cup of tea without hurting them
We just say you're a lovely couple but just not quite our types, that way we're not putting one of them down.
If they send something unsolicited, we won't reply.
If after communication we see a face photo and there is no attraction, we are honest with that. "
That's fair  |
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This is why, it doesn’t bother me that I show my face pic and face in everything else, I know that I’m no oil painting and as said, we’re not for everyone |
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To be honest, when I saw the post title, I thought Fab had rejected a face pic for a moment... First reaction was, 'fuck, they accepted mine, how ugly can someone be???' ???? |
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 I guess it just goes to show, even the most beautiful people get knockbacks. |
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I look like if Shrek and Sloth had a love child so I’m used to it. |
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I know my partner was upset and miffed when someone rejected us cos of his face.
Her loss, his pussy eating skills are mind blowing. |
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"I look like if Shrek and Sloth had a love child so I’m used to it."
You don't count! You have a hot wife to fall back on. |
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"You don't count! You have a hot wife to fall back on. "
Or fall forward on. |
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"I look like if Shrek and Sloth had a love child so I’m used to it.
You don't count! You have a hot wife to fall back on. "
The only time the face pic worked. |
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By *rPunxMan 11 weeks ago
Hull |
Seems to be the other way round for me the face pic has been described as ruggedly handsome, its when they see the body I get ghosted  |
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By *eliWoman 11 weeks ago
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Genuinely can't say I've ever experienced that. And the majority of face photos I've sent out are makeupless.
What a win for me. 
(I know, I know, I've read the room beautifully) |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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It quickly made me realise how things work online. |
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Can’t stand photos of myself, so it’s always a pleasant surprise when people say nice things about a face pic. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 11 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
You'll never appeal to everyone so pointless worrying about it.
Likewise not everyone will take your fancy.
If it's got to the point of exchanging face pics then there must have been some interest pre swapping mug shots. That's half the problem when it comes to saying 'no thanks', hence so many will just ghost and/or block.
It's life. Don't sweat it. |
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I don't send messages or face pics so I've never experienced this scenario.
The last time I sent a face pic in an opening message was on my very first face pic Friday thread.
I sent it to the couple who had started the thread and they didn't send one back in the spirit of their own thread but they did reply.
They said I might be hot if I was I wasn't fucking Irish.
That was worse than ghosting and told me a lot about the forums and those using them. |
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"Can’t stand photos of myself, so it’s always a pleasant surprise when people say nice things about a face pic."
This is it really. |
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We always tell them if there’s no attraction and we hope people would tell us - we are all adults and you can’t help who you are attracted to. It’s also going to be a regular occurrence if you are interacting with a number of people.
We have tended to give up on messaging couples now as a 4 way attraction seems that much harder than a 3 way attraction or 2 way if it’s a gent and both guys get on.
K |
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"It's a downer. It's always going to be a downer.
But you get used to it, you expect it. You get the face rejection, it hurts briefly, move on to the next rejection.
Thing is not everyone takes a good picture, we once rejected a couple on here and then met them at a club, and they were much better in real life than on pics, so it's not always true on here. "
I (Steve) once met a lady who offered to scout locations for an organised munch in the West End (London). Her public pics were really frumpy but when she turned up she was stunning in person. So much so that that I was virtually speechless for the first hour or so  |
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"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?
Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!"
Doesn’t sound like it doesn’t bother you. |
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Not everyone's everyone cup of tea... It's life just get on |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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I usually send a face pic to someone if I am chatting - if I am not their type that is fine, but usually we are just chatting and it is nice to know who you are chatting with. |
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By *-man24Man 11 weeks ago
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How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?
Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!
I’m a big boy and take it on the chin
I even say if I’m not for you thanks for your time take care with face pic
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"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?
Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!"
Maybe someone recognised you from your photos and thought it would be better to block you after sending a fake one of themselves. |
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"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?
Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!
Doesn’t sound like it doesn’t bother you. "
Why is that? |
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Been on and off here too long to be bothered one bit. Been rejected and ghosted more than one
It happens move on |
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By *lue RascalMan 11 weeks ago
Cheshire Liverpool Manchester |
I don’t think anyone (off the forums anyway) has ghosted me when exchanging face pics. Have had the odd few off it but it’s not something that bothers me. It’s all been pretty pleasant including some questionable lookalike comparisons |
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It's not happened to me.....yet! |
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"I don’t think anyone (off the forums anyway) has ghosted me when exchanging face pics. Have had the odd few off it but it’s not something that bothers me. It’s all been pretty pleasant including some questionable lookalike comparisons "
He’s a sexy sexy boy ^ |
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By *tzAMan 11 weeks ago
Worcester |
"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?
Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!"
At first you do think like Oh damn! I’m ugly. But it’s fine, you can’t be everyone’s type everyone has different attractions. But I’d prefer to get a reply saying “not for me/not our type” it would be nicer than getting ghosted |
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We always swap pictures before chatting too much so this doesn't happen and it's not a waste of everyones time.
Not bothered about being rejected as you can't be to everyone's fancy.
Miss S x |
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Doesn’t worry us to be honest. |
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"We have a more of a problem with opposite side. Never know how to tell someone that they not our cup of tea without hurting them "
That’s literally the response we use, if they aren’t what gives us goosebumps
“We’re really sorry, you’re not our cup of tea” |
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By *hilloutMan 11 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Doesn't affect me.
I always reciprocate when on the receiving end of one first. |
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A case of “to each their own”, move on and tell yourself it’s their loss anyway.  |
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We're not hugely bothered although it does sting a little BUT it doesn't happen very often to us.
If it was a regular occurrence I imagine it would make us wonder why. |
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Not arsed.
I simply assume they’re not attracted to me. They’re wrong of course, how could anyone not fancy me? But still, I forget about it and go about my day. |
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Doesn’t really bother me, you can’t be everyone cuppa tea and I am confident in the way I look |
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"We're not hugely bothered although it does sting a little BUT it doesn't happen very often to us.
If it was a regular occurrence I imagine it would make us wonder why. "
Pretty much this. I know you can never be everyone's cup of tea, but not a complete rhino hide either. I quite like my face though so can get over any "oh, ok!" pretty quickly. Plenty of fish and all that. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 11 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
I just promise to wear a Maccies bag on any meets if my mug isn't to their liking.
Costs me a fortune in burgers mind.... |
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Totally agree that the face is the most important thing of all and it's hard to describe sometimes what you're looking for and define why someone isn't for you. But I'll never understand why you would ghost someone and make them feel awful like that, how hard is it to say sorry you're a bit young, not my type or whatever?
I think if you've had that you've dodged a bullet xx |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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From people not on the forums, it's happened a few times. From people on the forums, I can't remember it happening. Which makes me question the people on the forums....  |
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It happens & it doesn't bother me at all, everyone is attracted to everyone else and that's absolutely fine.
Mrs |
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By *oxy jWoman 11 weeks ago
somerset |
part of the process and its perfectly fine no one likes every one thats life ... respect it and move on |
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"From people not on the forums, it's happened a few times. From people on the forums, I can't remember it happening. Which makes me question the people on the forums.... "
Pffft. I like your face. |
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I find it funny when saying to someone that I have a beard then send a face pic and get back "Oh not into beards".
Of course, could be a kind way of saying "GAGH NO!"
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By *HUSH-Man 11 weeks ago
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Attraction can be a very odd thing. You can find someone attractive, you know why other people find them attractive but you just don’t think of them that way.
Ariana Grande does this to me. I know she’s beautiful and she has an outrageous face card but sexually she just doesn’t do it for me.
As for me personally on here. I know I’m not everyone’s type and rejection is just part of being on Fab. Best way of looking at it. |
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"From people not on the forums, it's happened a few times. From people on the forums, I can't remember it happening. Which makes me question the people on the forums....
Pffft. I like your face."
Stop proving her point! |
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By *oo..Woman 11 weeks ago
Boo's World |
I've not experienced it at all yet and now I feel left out |
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It is what it is. Can't realistically be everyone's type. I can't remember ever being offended. |
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Been told I’m not for them. No offence taken,I know I’m not a handsome bugger so can’t please everyone. Don’t take it to heart |
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You get used to it after a while |
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By *hilloutMan 11 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I've not experienced it at all yet and now I feel left out "
You're clearly doing something right |
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Unfortunately I suffer from Ed Zachery disease, my face looks ed zachery like my ass, but since I have a sexy face I'm all good! |
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By * D 777Man 11 weeks ago
bathgate |
had it a few times so i know what to expect |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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I think people have so many different likes and dislikes some people like bald others not bald, beard no beard.. etc it takes all sorts so I've learnt not to care I've had loads of compliments and been ghosted as much was even once told ew no ta.. lol hey no drama... lol.. soler fox or old and grey.... who knows |
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It is what it is. I rarely feel attraction so I expected the same where my face is concerned. |
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I have face pic on profile so don't really need to send one |
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It doesn’t bother me at all.
Mainly as it’s gotta be Henriette that puts them off.
Couldn’t possibly be me.
I mean…
As if! |
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All the time, but I totally get it, at least 70% base their attraction to the profile on what pictures are there to look at and judge how attracted they find themselves to the person , this doesn't leave alot of profiles open to find out if they could be more attracted to the person after they meet in person and get the full package to judge on.
I think a room should be made up like (The voice ) set up , and after meeting how many actually didn't mind the set up |
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Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole. |
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"I have face pic on profile so don't really need to send one"
Nobody likes a show off! |
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"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole."
That's why doggy was invented! |
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Nobody likes a face like a bulldog licking piss off a nettle |
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By *HUSH-Man 11 weeks ago
London |
"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole."
Who are you talking to on here? |
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By *ackooMan 11 weeks ago
Dublin |
Feels shit at first, but then you remember the site you’re on and realise who gives a shit |
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If you can’t take rejection then you’re defo on the wrong site |
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By *ackooMan 11 weeks ago
Dublin |
"If you can’t take rejection then you’re defo on the wrong site "
Preach it |
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"If you can’t take rejection then you’re defo on the wrong site
Preach it "
Amen |
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"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole."
Well lemon that's probably close to being the correct answer if the picture was just of anyone, but if you're talking about a picture of you that was sent , I think it would not be the guys desperation that made him respond, but the fact that you are a very attractive woman I bet x |
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"If you can’t take rejection then you’re defo on the wrong site "
FAF? |
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"If you can’t take rejection then you’re defo on the wrong site
FAF? "
You charmer you |
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"If you can’t take rejection then you’re defo on the wrong site
FAF?
You charmer you "
That’s not a rejection |
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"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?
Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!"
When I was younger I'd feel aggrieved but I'm at the stage in life where I've mislaid the remaining fucks I had to give, and can't say I care too much about trying to find them.
If I message and someone immediately deletes, fine, I'll block them so I don't pester them. If they block me, even better, couldn't be clearer.
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"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.
Who are you talking to on here? "
Your mum. |
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By *ackooMan 11 weeks ago
Dublin |
"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.
Who are you talking to on here?
Your mum. "
Ouch |
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"If you can’t take rejection then you’re defo on the wrong site
FAF?
You charmer you
That’s not a rejection "
Never  |
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"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.
Well lemon that's probably close to being the correct answer if the picture was just of anyone, but if you're talking about a picture of you that was sent , I think it would not be the guys desperation that made him respond, but the fact that you are a very attractive woman I bet x"
Does kissing ass actually lead to the real thing on here? (And who the fuck calls someone lemon? ) |
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By *ackooMan 11 weeks ago
Dublin |
"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.
Well lemon that's probably close to being the correct answer if the picture was just of anyone, but if you're talking about a picture of you that was sent , I think it would not be the guys desperation that made him respond, but the fact that you are a very attractive woman I bet x
Does kissing ass actually lead to the real thing on here? (And who the fuck calls someone lemon? )"
lol |
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By *HUSH-Man 11 weeks ago
London |
"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.
Who are you talking to on here?
Your mum. "
She said I can do better, sorry |
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"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.
Well lemon that's probably close to being the correct answer if the picture was just of anyone, but if you're talking about a picture of you that was sent , I think it would not be the guys desperation that made him respond, but the fact that you are a very attractive woman I bet x
Does kissing ass actually lead to the real thing on here? (And who the fuck calls someone lemon? )"
Everyone calls me Lemon. 
And yes it works I'm on my way to his house right now to give him a night he will regret. |
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"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.
Who are you talking to on here?
Your mum.
She said I can do better, sorry"
She said that to me too. |
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By *HUSH-Man 11 weeks ago
London |
"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.
Who are you talking to on here?
Your mum.
She said I can do better, sorry
She said that to me too. "
She was letting you down gently. |
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"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.
Who are you talking to on here?
Your mum.
She said I can do better, sorry
She said that to me too.
She was letting you down gently. "
That's what she said to me but it completely went over my head when my finger was in her pie because I am desperate for anyone who will give me attention and homemade jam. |
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I would massively take it to heart and think how dare they. I would look for any imperfection I could find in them and point out how rich it was of them to reject me for reasons xyz. |
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By *ackooMan 11 weeks ago
Dublin |
"I would massively take it to heart and think how dare they. I would look for any imperfection I could find in them and point out how rich it was of them to reject me for reasons xyz."
Mate you’re overthinking it way too much, it’s really not that deep, try to teach yourself to be okay to take criticism, especially here - that’s bro to bro |
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"I would massively take it to heart and think how dare they. I would look for any imperfection I could find in them and point out how rich it was of them to reject me for reasons xyz.
Mate you’re overthinking it way too much, it’s really not that deep, try to teach yourself to be okay to take criticism, especially here - that’s bro to bro "
Me thinks he’s being sarcastic |
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By *HUSH-Man 11 weeks ago
London |
"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.
Who are you talking to on here?
Your mum.
She said I can do better, sorry
She said that to me too.
She was letting you down gently.
That's what she said to me but it completely went over my head when my finger was in her pie because I am desperate for anyone who will give me attention and homemade jam."
I’m more of a marmalade guy, as for attention best I can do is a half arsed response before I turn in for the night.
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By *HUSH-Man 11 weeks ago
London |
"I would massively take it to heart and think how dare they. I would look for any imperfection I could find in them and point out how rich it was of them to reject me for reasons xyz."
LMAO
How dare you! |
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Im alright with it. Cant be everyone’s cuppa tea can you ?? |
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"I would massively take it to heart and think how dare they. I would look for any imperfection I could find in them and point out how rich it was of them to reject me for reasons xyz.
LMAO
How dare you!"
Fight fire with fire |
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"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?
Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!"
I literally look like a thumb with a face drawn on it, so I take little offence, but I do seriously question women when they say I'm sexy... 1,2,3,4 I declare a thumb war, bitch! |
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"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.
Well lemon that's probably close to being the correct answer if the picture was just of anyone, but if you're talking about a picture of you that was sent , I think it would not be the guys desperation that made him respond, but the fact that you are a very attractive woman I bet x
Does kissing ass actually lead to the real thing on here? (And who the fuck calls someone lemon? )"
Not sure telling someone that they are attractive is kissing ass , I'm happy to compliment anyone I think deserves it . |
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"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.
Well lemon that's probably close to being the correct answer if the picture was just of anyone, but if you're talking about a picture of you that was sent , I think it would not be the guys desperation that made him respond, but the fact that you are a very attractive woman I bet x
Does kissing ass actually lead to the real thing on here? (And who the fuck calls someone lemon? )
Everyone calls me Lemon.
And yes it works I'm on my way to his house right now to give him a night he will regret. "
Mind bring ur jammies |
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Now im intrigued why would they reject you both! Canyou please send me a face pic! |
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Face pics are like Marmite, a lot don't like coz they're up their own a****, those that do like are proper genuine people looking for genuine fun |
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"Now im intrigued why would they reject you both! Canyou please send me a face pic! "
Because we won't be for everyone, that's why. |
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"Now im intrigued why would they reject you both! Canyou please send me a face pic!
Because we won't be for everyone, that's why. "
To be fair, with an ass like that people might forgive the face. |
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By *j74Man 11 weeks ago
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Happens all the time lol |
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Probably be better if they don’t respond to either just delete the message or just say not for them so everyone knows the wavelength more than anything |
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I always refuse face pics, partly because it's rude to judge on appearances alone, but also because I live on an island where privacy is paramount.
I don't go ASKING for face-pics either, as it all comes down to personality - and a good size cock doesn't hinder matters. |
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I feel pretty awesome.
It's quite understandable for people to be intimidated by my beauty. |
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"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?
Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!"
Who in the right mind would ghost you jesus christ |
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"Face pics are like Marmite, a lot don't like coz they're up their own a****, those that do like are proper genuine people looking for genuine fun "
What a strange viewpoint! If I don't find someone's face attractive, is it really because I'm arrogant? |
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By *lfa RomeoMan 11 weeks ago
southeast , Herts, Beds |
I'm gorgeous, so every time I send a face pic I know they are going to fall in love with me. |
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No trouble, as I'm not interested in people without attraction.
The best thingd here are when it's simple.
No reply - which some may want to view as ghosting - = no thanks.
It's unrealistic expectations to have, if you think you will match anything but a very tiny minority of people. Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people. Accept this and you'll be in the real world and free of unnecessary self-imposed stress |
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If it happened I wouldn’t take it personal. Sometimes there isn’t attraction and it’s fine. A polite reply would be the way to go about it. |
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By *ythenMan 11 weeks ago
North Co. Dublin |
"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?
Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!"
A simple reply (sorry not for me / us ( from person/ ppl you describe above would be be simply manners .. not being funny but it’s not only single females / couples who receive a lot of messages on here .. Thankfully I get a few .. always welcome … and yes I absolutely respond to all even when I’ve absolutely zero interest… personally I just think it good manners ..
Ok rant over .. happy fabbing all |
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By *ythenMan 11 weeks ago
North Co. Dublin |
"If it happened I wouldn’t take it personal. Sometimes there isn’t attraction and it’s fine. A polite reply would be the way to go about it."
Well said |
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This happens to me all the time. Chat goes well then as soon as they ask for a face pic….bam I’m blocked. Many times it’s knocked my confidence and made me feel ugly but so use to it now I just makes me think of leaving the site x |
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From the site FAQ
There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!
It's not rude not to reply.
If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested |
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"This happens to me all the time. Chat goes well then as soon as they ask for a face pic….bam I’m blocked. Many times it’s knocked my confidence and made me feel ugly but so use to it now I just makes me think of leaving the site x"
Honestly mate, this site is about enjoying yourself and making connections with people that fit a certain preference. Don’t go beating yourself up. Get amongst it organically and show your charm. If the sites making you beat yourself up. Take a break, it’s not the be all fella. |
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Not bothered. It'd be a fierce boring world if we all liked everyone's looks |
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With a face like mine, if they don’t reject me, I suspect it’s a fake profile. |
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It's not always a rejection based on your face...... sometimes they weren't interested in meeting in the first place.
They are curious and once they've seen your face they move on to the next person.
I've never been rejected but that's cos I don't send face pics
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By *bi HaiveMan 11 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.
Who are you talking to on here?
Your mum.
She said I can do better, sorry
She said that to me too.
She was letting you down gently.
That's what she said to me but it completely went over my head when my finger was in her pie because I am desperate for anyone who will give me attention and homemade jam.
I’m more of a marmalade guy, as for attention best I can do is a half arsed response before I turn in for the night.
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What's the difference between jam and marmalade?
You can't accidentally marmalade your dick in the hoover tube. |
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By *scaMan 11 weeks ago
Herts / London / Beyond |
I’d be lying if I said it didn’t feel bad, momentarily.
But I appreciate the dynamics at play here, the skewed number of women to single men, the understandably bad reputation that we have, rightly or wrongly. I try not to wear it too heavily.
Completely appreciate the reasoning, but it can feel a bit relentless sometimes, especially when you can’t see the face of the person who is rejecting you. |
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By *HUSH-Man 11 weeks ago
London |
"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.
Who are you talking to on here?
Your mum.
She said I can do better, sorry
She said that to me too.
She was letting you down gently.
That's what she said to me but it completely went over my head when my finger was in her pie because I am desperate for anyone who will give me attention and homemade jam.
I’m more of a marmalade guy, as for attention best I can do is a half arsed response before I turn in for the night.
What's the difference between jam and marmalade?
You can't accidentally marmalade your dick in the hoover tube. "
Marmalade has to be made from a citrus fruit otherwise it’s a jam……sometimes I don’t think the forum is ready for reading my absolute smut.
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By *eddesMan 11 weeks ago
Bridge of Weir |
Never happens to Me as nobody ever replies to any message I send anyway so never get to the stage of sending a face photo lol
It wouldn’t bother me though each to their own but common manner would suggest a polite thanks but no thanks would be received |
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"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.
Who are you talking to on here?
Your mum.
She said I can do better, sorry
She said that to me too.
She was letting you down gently.
That's what she said to me but it completely went over my head when my finger was in her pie because I am desperate for anyone who will give me attention and homemade jam.
I’m more of a marmalade guy, as for attention best I can do is a half arsed response before I turn in for the night.
What's the difference between jam and marmalade?
You can't accidentally marmalade your dick in the hoover tube.
Marmalade has to be made from a citrus fruit otherwise it’s a jam……sometimes I don’t think the forum is ready for reading my absolute smut.
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Rubbish, this is the kind of educational content I'm here for. Pointless facts are my thing! |
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If rejection bothers someone, fab isn't the right place for them |
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By *UN4US2!Couple 11 weeks ago
shropshire, West midlands, England |
We all have own tastes and attractions, we understand we are not for everyone one so it does not bother us but some do take it as a pure insult and do get funny with us. I will add, we don't ghost people, we just say "not for us sorry" |
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I’m not in a societal norms of “pretty” so always expect rejection so it’s a nice surprise when someone actually does like my face.
It doesn’t happen often though and it doesn’t bother me much. |
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My face is normally on show
I rarely, if ever, make the first move, so I assume that if I get a message they have already seen my mush |
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Has happened to me once. At first bothered me as they contacted me first but then I’ve got over it. It’s a shame but these things happen. |
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it sometime doesn’t bother us , but at times we worry that it will expose us to catfish. |
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it sometime doesn’t bother us , but at times we worry that it will expose us to catfish. |
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"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?
Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!
Who in the right mind would ghost you jesus christ "
We're just your average couple? We were ghosted a few days ago after face pics exchanged, it's all good though as we're not everyone's cup of tea. |
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By *-man24Man 11 weeks ago
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"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?
Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!
Who in the right mind would ghost you jesus christ
We're just your average couple? We were ghosted a few days ago after face pics exchanged, it's all good though as we're not everyone's cup of tea. "
I was thinking the same he must of needed to go to specsavers .You look stunning , at the end of the day it’s manners and common courtesy to say not for me you dodged one there look as it’s a positive I’m sure you’ll both find the one who deserves to be in your company |
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"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?
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After years of fab, being "ghosted" after sending a face pic is one of the few polites way people have rejected me so far. As a general rule, I don't let it affect me and move on...my sense of self worth is not tied to my popularity on a sex site. |
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This happened to us yesterday. We may not be everyones cup of tea. Others may not be our flavour.
Why be sad about yesterday when you can look forward to tomorrow |
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We've sent face pics as a couple a few times, we've never had a flat out "no" but we've had people not message us back and that's ok, being part of a couple is tricky! |
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We are fine with it. We are honest if a couple don’t tick our boxes so if happy for others to do the same. |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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It's happened a couple of times to me. It honestly doesn't bother me
You can't get offended when someone doesn't find you attractive |
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By *oppet22TV/TS 9 weeks ago
huddersfield |
It happens dont worry me at all |
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By *4bimMan 9 weeks ago
Farnborough Hampshire |
cannot miss what you never had |
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Happens to best of us.
But there’s plenty of fish/fishes in the sea - you just move on and look forward to next conversation. |
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By *ucka39Man 9 weeks ago
Newcastle |
Doesn't bother me as it doesn't make up for those who appreciate it, can't always be compatible with everyone |
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Plenty more to move onto do I don't give it much thought x |
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By *ucka39Man 9 weeks ago
Newcastle |
"Plenty more to move onto do I don't give it much thought x"
There's always masks available so don't see what the fuss is all about x |
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When you have a face like mine, I don't really let it bother me |
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Not had it happen yet but when it does I'm sure I'll get over it 🤣 part of it all I suppose. |
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I live with rejection based on my looks.
I have learned these lessons since I have been here;
You have control over;
Your beliefs
Your attitude
Your thoughts
Your perspective
How honest you are
Who your friends are
What books you read
How often you exercise
How many risks you take
How kind you are to others
How you interpret situations
How kind you are to yourself
How often you say "I love you"
How often you say "thank you"
How you express your feelings
Whether or not you ask for help
How often you practice gratitude
How many times you smile today
The amount of effort you put forth
How much time you spend worrying
Whether or not you judge other people
Whether or not you try again after a setback
How much you appreciate the things you have
Ignore those who ignore you, also finally learn to unlove.
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One door closes and another opens, so it's all good,😁 |
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"Plenty more to move onto do I don't give it much thought x
There's always masks available so don't see what the fuss is all about x"
Or paper bags |
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Used to bother me a bit when I first came here but then realised I'm not everyone's cuppa so I don't let it affect me now |
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Personally I havent experience this myself so I wouldnt know how to take this but then again I havent really interacted with many people in this site |
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Doesn't bother me most of the time. Sometimes it does though if other things have stressed me. It is what it is I guess. |
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Happens to the best of us lol nothing to take personal |
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By *r SproutMan 9 weeks ago
the middle somewhere |
Most of my chats end once i have sent a face pic |
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By *C44Man 9 weeks ago
Newbourne |
I have always been aware I'm not the best looking guy on earth so I just have the face pics out there for all to see from the start. Saves the time |
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