"Im a guy whose trying find the courage to go to my first club event has anyone got any advice "
Yup.
Suck it up 
But actually. Look on the forums here to see what's on near you. You can ask to be put on the guestlist so there's no issues getting in, or if there would be for whatever reason then at least you're informed before turning up and being turned away disappointed and not wanting to try again.
Let them know it's your first time when you get there. Most clubs have buddies or hosts to give tours and explain the etiquette for newbies who might not know. All clubs are different so it's always worth mentioning when somewhere new. Some places have very different rules and etiquette for different events, so make sure you pick a night that feels right for you.
Take ID. Some clubs require membership which usually means a photo ID and recent bill.
No means no. Don't be a dick. And go with the expectation of just a less clothed social event where you might get to see some live porn. Anything more than that is a bonus, not an expectation |
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If there are threads or group chats for events , they are useful ways to make connections and people to look out for on the night.
On the night, my suggestion is to turn up with no expectations other than to be social and get to know people. Play is a bonus. Be respectful - don’t get in close or touch without being invited. |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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Have a good read of tbe club website.
Make sure the night is the right night for you (not much point going to a bi night if you're not bi)
Bring condoms, some provide them for free, others charge and some don't do either. Best to be prepared.
Make sure you are dressed appropriately (Some clubs have dress codes) and are well groomed- you'd be surprised at how many soap/deodorant dodgers there are.
Check and see if the club has a dress down policy.
Try to get involved with conversations and be yourself.
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