What are you recommendations for getting involved as a single guy? I've been to a social and I have a few veris but still no fun meets
I will be attending Cupid's, quest or pandoras at some point so it's not like I'm not getting involved |
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By *P994Man 19 weeks ago
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Go to clubs on specific nights depending on what kind of meets you’re looking for, like greedy girls or something like that. Try and build a rapport with a woman or couple outside of clubs and socials to, don’t expect bedroom activities instantly though. It’ll take socials to warm up to people and then you can go from there if theres good vibes. |
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"I don’t know if anyone else thinks like me but I don’t meet people who can’t accommodate
Whys that?
I thought that could be the issue "
Two reasons
1) someone at home doesn’t know they’re on fab
2) they just assume they can come to mine |
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Can’t accommodate can be loads of reasons but many think it’s because they are cheating
It can be because they have their kids, house share, security reasons, nosey neighbours etc
I can accommodate but there’s no chance I would until I knew the person well enough for them to know where I live exactly |
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"What are you recommendations for getting involved as a single guy? I've been to a social and I have a few veris but still no fun meets
I will be attending Cupid's, quest or pandoras at some point so it's not like I'm not getting involved "
Why do you think it is?
What's running through your head? |
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"Can’t accommodate can be loads of reasons but many think it’s because they are cheating
It can be because they have their kids, house share, security reasons, nosey neighbours etc
I can accommodate but there’s no chance I would until I knew the person well enough for them to know where I live exactly "
I have nosy neighbours but nothing to hide so they can nose all they like |
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"Can’t accommodate can be loads of reasons but many think it’s because they are cheating
It can be because they have their kids, house share, security reasons, nosey neighbours etc
I can accommodate but there’s no chance I would until I knew the person well enough for them to know where I live exactly "
I agree. Not a chance in hell I’d accommodate. I prefer the people who don’t. Makes me think they’re more wary and careful. |
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"I don’t know if anyone else thinks like me but I don’t meet people who can’t accommodate
Whys that?
I thought that could be the issue
Two reasons
1) someone at home doesn’t know they’re on fab
2) they just assume they can come to mine "
I don't accommodate because I live at home. Long story short... Was at uni and mum got sick.
Looking to move out by beginning of next year |
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"What are you recommendations for getting involved as a single guy? I've been to a social and I have a few veris but still no fun meets
I will be attending Cupid's, quest or pandoras at some point so it's not like I'm not getting involved
Why do you think it is?
What's running through your head? "
Not being able to accommodate
Single guys are everywhere on this app
Shorter than a lot veris seem to mostly have 6ft guys from what I see
Location maybe? |
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"What are you recommendations for getting involved as a single guy? I've been to a social and I have a few veris but still no fun meets
I will be attending Cupid's, quest or pandoras at some point so it's not like I'm not getting involved
Why do you think it is?
What's running through your head?
Not being able to accommodate
Single guys are everywhere on this app
Shorter than a lot veris seem to mostly have 6ft guys from what I see
Location maybe?"
So then...
If you listen to a lot of women and couples, they prefer to meet in clubs or hotels, so I think the not being able to accom can be overcome
Single guys are not a problem as long as YOU shine through
Height - there are as many without a height preference as there are with
Location - you are mid way between the two biggest cities in the North
You know what I reckon, you are obsessing about things you can't change
Your height isn't going to change
Single guys aren't going to go away
You being able to accom may change in time, but I guess your location may not whilst your have family ties nearby
I think, to a degree, you're become frustrated by not getting the meets you thought you might and that is breeding impatience
FWIW, I think you're making the right moves. Stick with it.
Be honest with yourself, be honest with those you hope to meet and your time will come
When it does, you'll wonder what you were bothered about |
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"I don’t know if anyone else thinks like me but I don’t meet people who can’t accommodate
Whys that?
I thought that could be the issue
Two reasons
1) someone at home doesn’t know they’re on fab
2) they just assume they can come to mine
I don't accommodate because I live at home. Long story short... Was at uni and mum got sick.
Looking to move out by beginning of next year "
So do you get a hotel or would you just assume you were going to their place?
I’m not trying to be harsh, I’m just letting you know what puts me off profiles personally, a lot of single women are the same.
I have a guy who messages me once a day asking to come to my house and has done for the 8 months I’ve been back on fab. It’s cheeky. But I’ve got good money on how long it’ll take him to give up |
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"I don’t know if anyone else thinks like me but I don’t meet people who can’t accommodate
Whys that?
I thought that could be the issue
Two reasons
1) someone at home doesn’t know they’re on fab
2) they just assume they can come to mine
I don't accommodate because I live at home. Long story short... Was at uni and mum got sick.
Looking to move out by beginning of next year
So do you get a hotel or would you just assume you were going to their place?
I’m not trying to be harsh, I’m just letting you know what puts me off profiles personally, a lot of single women are the same.
I have a guy who messages me once a day asking to come to my house and has done for the 8 months I’ve been back on fab. It’s cheeky. But I’ve got good money on how long it’ll take him to give up "
The guy is very persistent. Whats your bet on how long it’ll go on for? I’m curious |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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"You seem to be doing the right things.
Invest in your profile, attend socials and clubs. Eventually some success will come your way  "
Pretty much this, OP. Make your profile the best it can be and the forums are good for visibility too! There's no set formula and if there was, I'd patent it and sell it to lonely guys and make millions  |
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"What are you recommendations for getting involved as a single guy? I've been to a social and I have a few veris but still no fun meets
I will be attending Cupid's, quest or pandoras at some point so it's not like I'm not getting involved
Why do you think it is?
What's running through your head?
Not being able to accommodate
Single guys are everywhere on this app
Shorter than a lot veris seem to mostly have 6ft guys from what I see
Location maybe?
So then...
If you listen to a lot of women and couples, they prefer to meet in clubs or hotels, so I think the not being able to accom can be overcome
Single guys are not a problem as long as YOU shine through
Height - there are as many without a height preference as there are with
Location - you are mid way between the two biggest cities in the North
You know what I reckon, you are obsessing about things you can't change
Your height isn't going to change
Single guys aren't going to go away
You being able to accom may change in time, but I guess your location may not whilst your have family ties nearby
I think, to a degree, you're become frustrated by not getting the meets you thought you might and that is breeding impatience
FWIW, I think you're making the right moves. Stick with it.
Be honest with yourself, be honest with those you hope to meet and your time will come
When it does, you'll wonder what you were bothered about "
I don't care about my height tbf. I did once upon a time but as you said I can't change it so why obsess over it.
I am yes but it does seem like I get zero attention at all. I post decent pics (at least I think they are).
I wouldn't say I'm getting impatient though as this site isn't really something I obsess over.
What makes a single guy shine through though? |
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"I don’t know if anyone else thinks like me but I don’t meet people who can’t accommodate
Whys that?
I thought that could be the issue
Two reasons
1) someone at home doesn’t know they’re on fab
2) they just assume they can come to mine
I don't accommodate because I live at home. Long story short... Was at uni and mum got sick.
Looking to move out by beginning of next year
So do you get a hotel or would you just assume you were going to their place?
I’m not trying to be harsh, I’m just letting you know what puts me off profiles personally, a lot of single women are the same.
I have a guy who messages me once a day asking to come to my house and has done for the 8 months I’ve been back on fab. It’s cheeky. But I’ve got good money on how long it’ll take him to give up "
I don't expect to have that person accommodate. I am willing to meet in clubs and maybe hotels.
You're not harsh in the slightest |
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"I don't think you're doing a lot wrong socially and don't worry about the fact you can't accommodate.
This place is a slower burner so be patient.
Would you like some profile advice?"
If you have some |
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"What are you recommendations for getting involved as a single guy? I've been to a social and I have a few veris but still no fun meets
I will be attending Cupid's, quest or pandoras at some point so it's not like I'm not getting involved
Why do you think it is?
What's running through your head?
Not being able to accommodate
Single guys are everywhere on this app
Shorter than a lot veris seem to mostly have 6ft guys from what I see
Location maybe?
So then...
If you listen to a lot of women and couples, they prefer to meet in clubs or hotels, so I think the not being able to accom can be overcome
Single guys are not a problem as long as YOU shine through
Height - there are as many without a height preference as there are with
Location - you are mid way between the two biggest cities in the North
You know what I reckon, you are obsessing about things you can't change
Your height isn't going to change
Single guys aren't going to go away
You being able to accom may change in time, but I guess your location may not whilst your have family ties nearby
I think, to a degree, you're become frustrated by not getting the meets you thought you might and that is breeding impatience
FWIW, I think you're making the right moves. Stick with it.
Be honest with yourself, be honest with those you hope to meet and your time will come
When it does, you'll wonder what you were bothered about
I don't care about my height tbf. I did once upon a time but as you said I can't change it so why obsess over it.
I am yes but it does seem like I get zero attention at all. I post decent pics (at least I think they are).
I wouldn't say I'm getting impatient though as this site isn't really something I obsess over.
What makes a single guy shine through though?"
IMO - being himself, being honest, knowing what he wants, being definite of what he wants and accepting that it won't be for all others.
Presentation is important, but...
Photos and words will only get you so far. The ability to back them up is where the success lies. |
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IMO - being himself, being honest, knowing what he wants, being definite of what he wants and accepting that it won't be for all others.
Presentation is important, but...
Photos and words will only get you so far. The ability to back them up is where the success lies. "
I get where you're coming from. But don't you need people to actually reply or reach out first though?
I think my profile and pics is pretty decent |
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"I don’t know if anyone else thinks like me but I don’t meet people who can’t accommodate
Whys that?
I thought that could be the issue
Two reasons
1) someone at home doesn’t know they’re on fab
2) they just assume they can come to mine "
Often seems to be two schools of thought on here - in some ways hypocritical.
If a woman doesn't it's assumed it's for safety/security/privacy/having kids, but often it's assumed a man is 'playing away' or dishonest. Doesn't make a lot of sense really, although I'm sure there are some where it's just down to dishonesty.
I accommodated for a long time - and occasionally still do - but now have my Daughter living with me post Uni. so it's an 'as and when' situation.
Think it's only fair for everyone to be open-minded, (but cautious), rather than simply accusatory.  |
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Agree with most comments here
people rarely can couple accommodate as they generally have children or in our case young adults at home and we certainly wouldn't want them knowing what we get up to so we openly look fir people that can accommodate or when on holiday we are happy to have people come to us |
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Put some black and white photos on your profile.
Pretend you’re Bi, the birds love that.
Any man bashing thread jump straight into and ALWAYS side with the women
Berate cock pics cause they’re just the worst.
And finally never post what you’re thinking only what a women expects you to post.
You’ll be swimming in physco juice in no time OP |
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By *HUSH-Man 19 weeks ago
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"I don't get the accommodating thing. No way I'm going to a guy's house, I want a hotel. "
Hotel is definitely where I’d want to meet. Don’t have to worry about ruining my bed linen, nosy neighbours and we can order snacks. |
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"I don't get the accommodating thing. No way I'm going to a guy's house, I want a hotel.
Hotel is definitely where I’d want to meet. Don’t have to worry about ruining my bed linen, nosy neighbours and we can order snacks. "
And weird patterned bedding. |
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By *HUSH-Man 19 weeks ago
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"I don't get the accommodating thing. No way I'm going to a guy's house, I want a hotel.
Hotel is definitely where I’d want to meet. Don’t have to worry about ruining my bed linen, nosy neighbours and we can order snacks.
And weird patterned bedding. "
We might even get a towel shaped like a swan left on the bed.
Do they do that in premier inn? |
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