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Not at all. Orgasms are great, but they're never the be-all-end-all goal of the experience. I enjoy the journey, regardless of what destination it leads to. As long as everyone is having fun, that's what matters. As soon as the fun stops for any participant, so should the sex, IMO, but that's not quite the same thing as you've asked. |
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I've had sex and not been able to cum, doesn't mean I didn't enjoy it or get bored. Other times I've cum quickly and then gone on and cum a few times moreand the guy has cum more than once.
It's the person whom you are having pleasure with and not the length of time.
So no I don't get bored.
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Mia doesn't rush with foreplay, she will let herself stay on the edge for a very long time.
We have come across guys who mistake that for her being less interested in the climax for herself, and who have stopped what they are doing and moved onto penetration. |
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"If it takes a woman ages to cum?
And girls in general how long does it take you to cum?
Just curious really  "
Not at all...the build up to the orgasm is just as important as the orgasm for me...the more build up, the more intense the orgasm |
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Bored no. Frustrated and worrying somethings wrong maybe.
This morning being a prime example.
C just couldnt get there. Nearly an hour of foreplay and sex and she said to me 'its one of those days, im just not gojng to cum'.
It happens from time to time. |
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Are we talking about during penetration only?
I can be turned on from kissing and have an orgasm pretty quickly when he penetrates me, or strokes my clit.
If someone goes in without much foreplay it can take a lot longer.
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By *apkingMan 11 weeks ago
Stockport |
"If it takes a woman ages to cum?
And girls in general how long does it take you to cum?
Just curious really "
The longer it takes for both of you to cum the naughtier the sex gets, so definitely do not get bored  |
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By *idsAndyMan 11 weeks ago
Worcestershire |
"Sometimes especially new meets I won't cum at all, if they get bored then tough 
In all seriousness it's not all about cumming and the ones that make it so are usually the least enjoyable."
Soooo if not cumming what do you get from it? X |
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"Sometimes especially new meets I won't cum at all, if they get bored then tough
In all seriousness it's not all about cumming and the ones that make it so are usually the least enjoyable.
Soooo if not cumming what do you get from it? X"
Cumming is such a small fraction of the pleasure in sharing intimacy with others. |
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"Sometimes especially new meets I won't cum at all, if they get bored then tough
In all seriousness it's not all about cumming and the ones that make it so are usually the least enjoyable.
Soooo if not cumming what do you get from it? X
Cumming is such a small fraction of the pleasure in sharing intimacy with others. "
Get ya coat luv, you've pulled |
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"Sometimes especially new meets I won't cum at all, if they get bored then tough
In all seriousness it's not all about cumming and the ones that make it so are usually the least enjoyable.
Soooo if not cumming what do you get from it? X"
Just because I don't cum doesn't at all mean the sex is rubbish, the feeling of sex itself is very enjoyable I don't need to cum to have fun, some blokes don't get this, hence why so many fake it.
Do you not enjoy the sex before you cum? |
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"Sometimes especially new meets I won't cum at all, if they get bored then tough
In all seriousness it's not all about cumming and the ones that make it so are usually the least enjoyable.
Soooo if not cumming what do you get from it? X
Cumming is such a small fraction of the pleasure in sharing intimacy with others. "
Yes someone gets it, obviously a woman |
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"Sometimes especially new meets I won't cum at all, if they get bored then tough
In all seriousness it's not all about cumming and the ones that make it so are usually the least enjoyable.
Soooo if not cumming what do you get from it? X
Just because I don't cum doesn't at all mean the sex is rubbish, the feeling of sex itself is very enjoyable I don't need to cum to have fun, some blokes don't get this, hence why so many fake it.
Do you not enjoy the sex before you cum? "
Absolutely this!!
I rarely cum from sex, but I enjoy every moment of it.
If the aim of the guy I'm with is for both of us to cum, and not to just have a really good time and good fun regardless, then I'd rather not bother. I'm not a challenge, thanks very much |
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"Sometimes especially new meets I won't cum at all, if they get bored then tough
In all seriousness it's not all about cumming and the ones that make it so are usually the least enjoyable.
Soooo if not cumming what do you get from it? X
Just because I don't cum doesn't at all mean the sex is rubbish, the feeling of sex itself is very enjoyable I don't need to cum to have fun, some blokes don't get this, hence why so many fake it.
Do you not enjoy the sex before you cum? "
Exactly this. There does seem to sometimes be a pressure. Why didn’t you come oh I must be shit never mind I’ve had a fantastic time regardless |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"Sometimes especially new meets I won't cum at all, if they get bored then tough
In all seriousness it's not all about cumming and the ones that make it so are usually the least enjoyable.
Soooo if not cumming what do you get from it? X
Just because I don't cum doesn't at all mean the sex is rubbish, the feeling of sex itself is very enjoyable I don't need to cum to have fun, some blokes don't get this, hence why so many fake it.
Do you not enjoy the sex before you cum? "
Very true, love the sensual touching, the warm soft feel of a woman and just being with them intimately is a very enjoyable feeling |
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By *4bimMan 11 weeks ago
Farnborough Hampshire |
yes i do get bored. mainly of other people.
they take up too much time if you let them and getting nowhere.
time is in short supply. mine could end tomorrow why let people dominate it who frankly couldnt give a toss about you!
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"If it takes a woman ages to cum?
And girls in general how long does it take you to cum?
Just curious really "
Never get bored
In fact it makes me think of ways to get her there, ask what she was or is enjoying then focus on that.
However I've never had an issue as i read the body when Im doing things. |
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By *idsAndyMan 11 weeks ago
Worcestershire |
"Sometimes especially new meets I won't cum at all, if they get bored then tough
In all seriousness it's not all about cumming and the ones that make it so are usually the least enjoyable.
Soooo if not cumming what do you get from it? X
Just because I don't cum doesn't at all mean the sex is rubbish, the feeling of sex itself is very enjoyable I don't need to cum to have fun, some blokes don't get this, hence why so many fake it.
Do you not enjoy the sex before you cum? "
Yes absolutely and I do get that cumming isn't the be all and end all. |
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By *eliWoman 11 weeks ago
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It doesn't take me long at all to come. Nor does it take much. And I can come multiple times.
Buuut... there are varying degrees of intensity. It's rare that I'll have multiple explosive, all over orgasms with someone. I can also be quite easily... out of that mindset and find my mind wandering. Or find the other person exhausted whilst my body is aching for more release.
I think sometimes people think multi-orgasms are wonderful things. They can be but quite often I'm left not fully sated. Trying to not wank whilst the other is sleeping. I worry that the other person gets bored of giving me pleasure.
I also don't think orgasms are the most important part of sex. Which sounds a bit odd coming from me but they're not. |
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