"So I’m 47 and been seeing a 20 year old she wants to go public is this wrong ?? Please genuine answers to help "
does she have daddy or even grandpa issues? Irrelevant if she does, this was just our dark humour creeping in, apologies in advance if any offence was caused!
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"So I’m 47 and been seeing a 20 year old she wants to go public is this wrong ?? Please genuine answers to help "
Is it wrong to go public or wrong that there's 27 years between you?
I'd say whichever it is discuss your concerns with her but if I was seeing someone and they were reluctant to go public I'd be hurt. |
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"She wants to go public I’m just worried at the reaction "
People will gossip, they always do.
I've known several very successful age gap relationships, people soon find something else to gossip about.
What in particular are you concerned about? |
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I think the fact that you’re asking for opinions on this tells me you think it’s wrong. For me, as long as you’re both consenting adults and there’s no power dynamic going on the fuck what everyone else thinks. |
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How long have you been together? What’s making you worried over going public? Is she hoping something about your relationship will change in some way by going public? What are her intentions behind it and why have you not gone public before now?
I’d ask myself and her all those questions to determine if it’s the right thing for you. No one else will know but the two of you. |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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Don’t let societal values/ pressures dictate your actions and feelings for her.
She clearly doesn’t have concerns about your relationship, but it would be healthy to discuss your reservations with her, it might alleviate your worries.
I can appreciate the age gap is a stigma in society, but you’re both consenting adults. Rich Hollywood aging actors seem to be able to date and impregnate women younger than their children/grandchildren with impunity. |
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