I'm coming to terms with what I've sacrificed for my kids after 2 years + breakup my house finances totally over her and glad im out of it im doing pretty well and proud atm wouldnt a fb or fwb help the last bit of healing get that spark back its been so long hang in there lads we got this |
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"Hang in there big man 
Nobody knows your circumstances here so be mindful you might inflict the pile on squad.
yea the usual knife in the back squads "
You know what they say pal.
When life gives you a knife in the back…
Make lemonade.
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"the family home my living arrangements time spent with them lots of child support its about them though they deserve the best "
Oh ok, I understand.
Yes, they do deserve the best.
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"I'm coming to terms with what I've sacrificed for my kids after 2 years + breakup my house finances totally over her and glad im out of it im doing pretty well and proud atm wouldnt a fb or fwb help the last bit of healing get that spark back its been so long hang in there lads we got this "
I often see this with guys looking for a FWB or a FB straight away but haven’t you got to built up to this first form a friendship then if you both want more then become a FWB or a FB  |
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"There's a Japanese Legend that says,
"If you feel like you are losing everything, remember, trees lose their leaves every year, yet they stand tall and wait for better days to come.
Chad"
There’s also the spiritual concept of pruning. Hacking of old branches is painful but the growth that comes is worth it |
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"There's a Japanese Legend that says,
"If you feel like you are losing everything, remember, trees lose their leaves every year, yet they stand tall and wait for better days to come.
Chad
There’s also the spiritual concept of pruning. Hacking of old branches is painful but the growth that comes is worth it "
And some just die. |
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"There's a Japanese Legend that says,
"If you feel like you are losing everything, remember, trees lose their leaves every year, yet they stand tall and wait for better days to come.
Chad"
Until the lumberjack comes along and cuts them down, or some mindless vandal takes a chainsaw to them, or lightning strikes, or...
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"There's a Japanese Legend that says,
"If you feel like you are losing everything, remember, trees lose their leaves every year, yet they stand tall and wait for better days to come.
Chad
There’s also the spiritual concept of pruning. Hacking of old branches is painful but the growth that comes is worth it
And some just die."
Had not seen yours before I responded (slow reader here!)
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"And some just die."
Coyote…. Did you not read the memo on this … I’ll get you another copy.
Now shh… (whispers in Coyotes ear) ‘we’re suppose to provide words of encouragement…. Go back and read the memo’ 
"People are often unreasonable and self-centered.
Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives.
Be kind anyway.
If you are honest, people may cheat you.
Be honest anyway.
If you find happiness, people may be jealous.
Be happy anyway.
The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow.
Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough.
Give your best anyway.
For you see, in the end, it is between you and God.
It was never between you and them anyway."
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"There's a Japanese Legend that says,
"If you feel like you are losing everything, remember, trees lose their leaves every year, yet they stand tall and wait for better days to come.
Chad
There’s also the spiritual concept of pruning. Hacking of old branches is painful but the growth that comes is worth it
And some just die."
More likely over watering , it’s really hard to kill a plant by pruning. They can look pretty grim for a while , but eventually they come back stronger & healthier  |
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"I'm coming to terms with what I've sacrificed for my kids after 2 years + breakup my house finances totally over her and glad im out of it im doing pretty well and proud atm wouldnt a fb or fwb help the last bit of healing get that spark back its been so long hang in there lads we got this I often see this with guys looking for a FWB or a FB straight away but haven’t you got to built up to this first form a friendship then if you both want more then become a FWB or a FB "
I'm always polite and never go straight in with sex text infact I dont even mention those things meeting people and getting to know them is what im about and im only just starting to do this again after a few years ive relocated with work and at 45 making the odd friend here and there |
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"I'm coming to terms with what I've sacrificed for my kids after 2 years + breakup my house finances totally over her and glad im out of it im doing pretty well and proud atm wouldnt a fb or fwb help the last bit of healing get that spark back its been so long hang in there lads we got this I often see this with guys looking for a FWB or a FB straight away but haven’t you got to built up to this first form a friendship then if you both want more then become a FWB or a FB
I'm always polite and never go straight in with sex text infact I dont even mention those things meeting people and getting to know them is what im about and im only just starting to do this again after a few years ive relocated with work and at 45 making the odd friend here and there "
My friend you don't have to explain yourself to anyone...everybody gets through a break up in their own ways and their own time frames. If you think a fwb, a fb or just a ONS will help you heal or help rebuild your self esteem, go for it ...as long as their is mutual consent and honesty. All the best to you |
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"the family home my living arrangements time spent with them lots of child support its about them though they deserve the best
Oh ok, I understand.
Yes, they do deserve the best.
How are you going about finding a fwb? "
the dating scene is crap I wont part with my hard earned for a start I go down the pub were ive relocated and ive made a few friends I dont put too much effort into looking apart from the old lerch on here and message but not much luck dont really know how anything works tbh just get on eith my goals if anything wants to tag along whilst im on my way back up it will happen if not its not the end of the world what will be will be |
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"I'm coming to terms with what I've sacrificed for my kids after 2 years + breakup my house finances totally over her and glad im out of it im doing pretty well and proud atm wouldnt a fb or fwb help the last bit of healing get that spark back its been so long hang in there lads we got this I often see this with guys looking for a FWB or a FB straight away but haven’t you got to built up to this first form a friendship then if you both want more then become a FWB or a FB
I'm always polite and never go straight in with sex text infact I dont even mention those things meeting people and getting to know them is what im about and im only just starting to do this again after a few years ive relocated with work and at 45 making the odd friend here and there
My friend you don't have to explain yourself to anyone...everybody gets through a break up in their own ways and their own time frames. If you think a fwb, a fb or just a ONS will help you heal or help rebuild your self esteem, go for it ...as long as their is mutual consent and honesty. All the best to you"
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Isaiah 43:18-19
18 “Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past.
19 See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.
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