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Do you notice/look at a man’s bulge in public ?
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By *oxy jWoman 27 weeks ago
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id be lying if i said i didnt but do i look at all men nope if my eyes are to go down to the bulge he has to be a hot guy in the first place and i would not make it obvious unless hes flirting |
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"Weird world
If a man stated to a female co worker that the first thing he checks out on a woman is her vagina to see if it’s noticeable I’m sure there’d be all sorts of HR issues being raised
But if this is true it’s okay for a woman to do it "
Some people talk about harassment only being harassment if the harasser is unattractive. While I don't agree with that, I can see why (some) men would be more ok with it than the same number of women.
Unfortunately there's this idea that women displaying sexuality in public isn't to be taken seriously, because we can't be a threat, while men can. It's sexist and patronising, and means women can get away with a lot that we shouldn't. |
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"Weird world
If a man stated to a female co worker that the first thing he checks out on a woman is her vagina to see if it’s noticeable I’m sure there’d be all sorts of HR issues being raised
But if this is true it’s okay for a woman to do it
Some people talk about harassment only being harassment if the harasser is unattractive. While I don't agree with that, I can see why (some) men would be more ok with it than the same number of women.
Unfortunately there's this idea that women displaying sexuality in public isn't to be taken seriously, because we can't be a threat, while men can. It's sexist and patronising, and means women can get away with a lot that we shouldn't."
I completely agree with you: all of it. As a man who isn't ok with it, because it can be a trigger, it's something very difficult for me to talk about - and my experience is that it isn't usually received well when I try - so thank you for making that point. |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Do I notice every man’s bulge? No.
Have I looked at a random man’s bulge? Yes. Never stare at it though. Usually on the Tube or similar. It’s practically in your face and unavoidable.
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Honestly, it's sometimes hard not to notice when one is seated at wheelchair height and you're at close quarters, e.g. in a lift. I try to avert my eyes because let's face it, 99.9% of the time, it's not something I WANT to see or have near me. Ditto builder's bum situations or anyone's bum in my face. |
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