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"You didn’t read the original post fully did you? Or do you just think you are a bit clever? " The only issue you mentioned in the OP is that you're not having any luck? There's no need to be rude because people have interpreted something the way you've said it. | |||
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"Hi Please don’t judge, everyone has their reasons. I’ve not had any luck using this site, can anyone recommend a fee free site that connects married people with similar issues? Please feel free not to reply with pointless “it’s not right” replies. Thanks " Have a feeling this is going to escalate, there are those that are set against it, those that don't mind and those that actively look for married, as for the information you ask for, there are no free sites end of story, you pay one way or another, especially if you want the full features of any given site. So sorry mate i think your out of luck. | |||
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"Hi Please don’t judge, everyone has their reasons. I’ve not had any luck using this site, can anyone recommend a fee free site that connects married people with similar issues? Please feel free not to reply with pointless “it’s not right” replies. Thanks Have a feeling this is going to escalate, there are those that are set against it, those that don't mind and those that actively look for married, as for the information you ask for, there are no free sites end of story, you pay one way or another, especially if you want the full features of any given site. So sorry mate i think your out of luck. " Thank you for your sensible reply | |||
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"you'll find swingers in general are split over married or not so you'll find it the same else where ... thier are some affair sites but from what i see all are payed for ... you getting no where might just be because your one of many ie zuillions of guys compared to few couples and women ... and not trying to be funny but you cant write something to the forums and not respect feed back that you dont want to hear ... being married and playing away is like marmite some love married guys/women and some hate .... but i suspect you getting nowhere is down to numbers and no one being interested yet" Thanks x | |||
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"Hi Please don’t judge, everyone has their reasons. I’ve not had any luck using this site, can anyone recommend a fee free site that connects married people with similar issues? Please feel free not to reply with pointless “it’s not right” replies. Thanks Have a feeling this is going to escalate, there are those that are set against it, those that don't mind and those that actively look for married, as for the information you ask for, there are no free sites end of story, you pay one way or another, especially if you want the full features of any given site. So sorry mate i think your out of luck. Thank you for your sensible reply " Hope you don't mind, had a peek and profile seems ok, on here though there is a huge difference in the number of guys to women/couples, and even if you have a stand out profile thats amazing sometimes its just slow, patience is key, people think its a fuckfest on here, its not, far from it, its probably closer to a slightly kinky dating site lol. | |||
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"Hi Please don’t judge, everyone has their reasons. I’ve not had any luck using this site, can anyone recommend a fee free site that connects married people with similar issues? Please feel free not to reply with pointless “it’s not right” replies. Thanks Have a feeling this is going to escalate, there are those that are set against it, those that don't mind and those that actively look for married, as for the information you ask for, there are no free sites end of story, you pay one way or another, especially if you want the full features of any given site. So sorry mate i think your out of luck. Thank you for your sensible reply Hope you don't mind, had a peek and profile seems ok, on here though there is a huge difference in the number of guys to women/couples, and even if you have a stand out profile thats amazing sometimes its just slow, patience is key, people think its a fuckfest on here, its not, far from it, its probably closer to a slightly kinky dating site lol. " Tell me about it! Makes me feel better everyone is just pretending they are meeting up. lol! | |||
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"You didn’t read the original post fully did you? Or do you just think you are a bit clever? " I'm special!  | |||
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"You didn’t read the original post fully did you? Or do you just think you are a bit clever? I'm special! "Clearly ???? | |||
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"What are the 'similar issues'? The only issue you mentioned is not having much luck, so do you mean another site where you'll not have much luck as well?" You replied: "You didn’t read the original post fully did you? Or do you just think you are a bit clever? " But your original post said: "Hi Please don’t judge, everyone has their reasons. I’ve not had any luck using this site, can anyone recommend a fee free site that connects married people with similar issues? Please feel free not to reply with pointless “it’s not right” replies. Thanks" So to repeat, the only issue you raise is that you've "not had any luck using this site." You've not said your partner is not wanting to have sex, or that you want to have threesomes and (s)he is not into that, or that you are just bored with monogamy, or that it's quite exciting conducting extra marital affairs with the sneaking off to a new bed, or a whole host of other things. All you've said is you want an extramarital affair, but you are having no luck on this site. That is the only issue you list. | |||
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"What are the 'similar issues'? The only issue you mentioned is not having much luck, so do you mean another site where you'll not have much luck as well?" I almost spat my brew out then  | |||
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"What are the 'similar issues'? The only issue you mentioned is not having much luck, so do you mean another site where you'll not have much luck as well? I almost spat my brew out then "Did you? Oh that’s soooi funny lols | |||
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"What are the 'similar issues'? The only issue you mentioned is not having much luck, so do you mean another site where you'll not have much luck as well? I almost spat my brew out then "Don't, you'll only encourage me, and the OP is obviously finding it hard to express himself clearly. | |||
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"Should we try that again? I said: What are the 'similar issues'? The only issue you mentioned is not having much luck, so do you mean another site where you'll not have much luck as well? You replied: You didn’t read the original post fully did you? Or do you just think you are a bit clever? But your original post said: Hi Please don’t judge, everyone has their reasons. I’ve not had any luck using this site, can anyone recommend a fee free site that connects married people with similar issues? Please feel free not to reply with pointless “it’s not right” replies. Thanks So to repeat, the only issue you raise is that you've "not had any luck using this site." You've not said your partner is not wanting to have sex, or that you want to have threesomes and (s)he is not into that, or that you are just bored with monogamy, or that it's quite exciting conducting extra marital affairs with the sneaking off to a new bed, or a whole host of other things. All you've said is you want an extramarital affair, but you are having no luck on this site. That is the only issue you list." Thank you for your synopsis. So you do think you are clever and you are trying to now prove it. Great | |||
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"You didn’t read the original post fully did you? Or do you just think you are a bit clever? I'm special!
Clearly ????"Urgh...rude much, I'm sure you can Google for sites to be a deceitful cheat - fab rules state other sites are not to be mentioned so you ain't going to have much luck asking here. I wonder why you are not having much luck on fab  | |||
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"You didn’t read the original post fully did you? Or do you just think you are a bit clever? I'm special!
Clearly ????
Urgh...rude much, I'm sure you can Google for sites to be a deceitful cheat - fab rules state other sites are not to be mentioned so you ain't going to have much luck asking here.
I wonder why you are not having much luck on fab "Remind me never to get on you’re bad side  | |||
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"You didn’t read the original post fully did you? Or do you just think you are a bit clever? I'm special!
Clearly ????
Urgh...rude much, I'm sure you can Google for sites to be a deceitful cheat - fab rules state other sites are not to be mentioned so you ain't going to have much luck asking here.
I wonder why you are not having much luck on fab
Remind me never to get on you’re bad side "Remember - don't get on my bad side | |||
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"Ladies calm down, it’s early and there’s not a strong enough painkiller to deal with these handbags you are both swinging (pun intended) Please just kiss and make up now "It's OK, the nice man blocked me. | |||
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"You didn’t read the original post fully did you? Or do you just think you are a bit clever? I'm special!
Clearly ????
Urgh...rude much, I'm sure you can Google for sites to be a deceitful cheat - fab rules state other sites are not to be mentioned so you ain't going to have much luck asking here.
I wonder why you are not having much luck on fab
Remind me never to get on you’re bad side
Remember - don't get on my bad side "Noted, remind me when I get home to plaster post it notes all around the house to never get on you’re bad side | |||
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"Ladies calm down, it’s early and there’s not a strong enough painkiller to deal with these handbags you are both swinging (pun intended) Please just kiss and make up now
It's OK, the nice man blocked me."Oh the audacity | |||
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"Men are grumpy when they don't get sex." And your excuse? Lack of rum perchance? | |||
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"Men are grumpy when they don't get sex. And your excuse? Lack of rum perchance?" The presence of men makes me grumpy. | |||
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"Men are grumpy when they don't get sex." No I just look like popeye but I ain’t had me spinach | |||
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"Men are grumpy when they don't get sex. And your excuse? Lack of rum perchance? The presence of men makes me grumpy. " Noooo!!! Surely this cannot be true
You come across as all flirty in you’re messages
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"Men are grumpy when they don't get sex. And your excuse? Lack of rum perchance? The presence of men makes me grumpy. " You & me both | |||
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" Alternatively, move to France, where everyone from the President down has a bit on the side." Do you think the OP might have a chance of being the bit on the side to the President of France? I can't see his profile, but maybe that is the extra marital affair he is looking for. | |||
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" Alternatively, move to France, where everyone from the President down has a bit on the side. Do you think the OP might have a chance of being the bit on the side to the President of France? I can't see his profile, but maybe that is the extra marital affair he is looking for." Any holes a goal right!? | |||
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"Can also see why not having much luck so Social, clubs, pay fot it or buy a sex doll. Or divorce wife and go out dating again." I imagine hiding a sex doll from the wife would be difficult, imagine the scare she would get finding that in the cupboard | |||
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"Can also see why not having much luck so Social, clubs, pay fot it or buy a sex doll. Or divorce wife and go out dating again. I imagine hiding a sex doll from the wife would be difficult, imagine the scare she would get finding that in the cupboard" If he bought one that went down they’d charge him extra too | |||
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"Can also see why not having much luck so Social, clubs, pay fot it or buy a sex doll. Or divorce wife and go out dating again. I imagine hiding a sex doll from the wife would be difficult, imagine the scare she would get finding that in the cupboard" Or find it a relief 'no more begging for sex' | |||
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"Ladies calm down, it’s early and there’s not a strong enough painkiller to deal with these handbags you are both swinging (pun intended) Please just kiss and make up now "Good point, well made  | |||
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"OP You have same/separate room swapping listed in your interests. Just curious; how does that work?" The blow up doll goes in the same or separate rooms | |||
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"Have you tried putting an ad in the personal columns? I think you might need a Pina colada." • Pina Coladas get caught in the rain. Perish the thought.  | |||
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"Hi Please don’t judge, everyone has their reasons. I’ve not had any luck using this site, can anyone recommend a fee free site that connects married people with similar issues? Please feel free not to reply with pointless “it’s not right” replies. Thanks " You'll probably do better by just quietly going about your business. Unless you're a 'weel kent' face in the lounge, you'll get short shrift for your circumstances. There are women on the site who will meet guys in your position. Just don't whinge publicly about not getting any sex | |||
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"Hi Please don’t judge, everyone has their reasons. I’ve not had any luck using this site, can anyone recommend a fee free site that connects married people with similar issues? Please feel free not to reply with pointless “it’s not right” replies. Thanks You'll probably do better by just quietly going about your business. Unless you're a 'weel kent' face in the lounge, you'll get short shrift for your circumstances. There are women on the site who will meet guys in your position. Just don't whinge publicly about not getting any sex " Thanks! | |||
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"Don't know why you are not having much luck op,you sound like such a pleasant guy." Thanks! You don’t seem overly sarcastic either? | |||
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"Babe we like married people. Less likely to play unsafe with others. But this exchange has put me off big time. Was that the aim? X" Thanks for your input, super helpful | |||
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"OP You have same/separate room swapping listed in your interests. Just curious; how does that work?" It’s secret | |||
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"Have you tried putting an ad in the personal columns? I think you might need a Pina colada." An ad in the personal columns for a pina colada? | |||
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"Being rude won’t get you anywhere, extramarital or not. Perhaps address that issue first, along with other things and you might get some relief." Rude? | |||
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"Can also see why not having much luck so Social, clubs, pay fot it or buy a sex doll. Or divorce wife and go out dating again. I imagine hiding a sex doll from the wife would be difficult, imagine the scare she would get finding that in the cupboard Or find it a relief 'no more begging for sex'" Thank you for your helpful reply | |||
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"OP You have same/separate room swapping listed in your interests. Just curious; how does that work? The blow up doll goes in the same or separate rooms "Just my luck!! | |||
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"Babe we like married people. Less likely to play unsafe with others. X" Lol, good luck, put your tin hats on, you will still be trying to clear your message box come November. | |||
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"You're 49. Having 'luck' on here isn't going to make you feel much better. It'll be a brief bandaid, at best. If your marriage is sexless now, it's likely to stay that way forever, depending on the reasons. I take it you've tried talking to your wife and not got anywhere? If you have and genuinely believe that your sex life is over, your marriage is likely over, too, and delaying the inevitable breakup is just going to make you both older and more bitter." Thanks, but that wasn’t the advice I was looking for. | |||
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"How does discreet, married and can accommodate work, what if signs are left at home, clothing, an earring a neighbour seeing or hearing you?" He could accommodate at a nearby hotel. | |||
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"He could accommodate at a nearby hotel." I get the feeling he doesn't want to spend any money. | |||
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"He could accommodate at a nearby hotel. I get the feeling he doesn't want to spend any money. " Cash is fine | |||
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"Men are grumpy when they don't get sex." yep! | |||
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"Ladies calm down, it’s early and there’s not a strong enough painkiller to deal with these handbags you are both swinging (pun intended) Please just kiss and make up now "“Ladies” calm down
Classic male chauvinism sentence
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"He could accommodate at a nearby hotel. I get the feeling he doesn't want to spend any money. Cash is fine " There's your answer OP, get yourself down to Holbeck (LS11) and cash is king there - don't have to pay subs for a sex site that way. 
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"He could accommodate at a nearby hotel. I get the feeling he doesn't want to spend any money. Cash is fine There's your answer OP, get yourself down to Holbeck (LS11) and cash is king there - don't have to pay subs for a sex site that way.
You're welcome."You are soooo helpful, do you work in customer service by any chance? | |||
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"He could accommodate at a nearby hotel. I get the feeling he doesn't want to spend any money. Cash is fine There's your answer OP, get yourself down to Holbeck (LS11) and cash is king there - don't have to pay subs for a sex site that way.
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You are soooo helpful, do you work in customer service by any chance?"Close, politics. I advised Rishi Sunak on the Rwanda policy and also not staying for the full D-day ceremonies. I think it is all going pretty smoothly. Anything else I can help you with? | |||
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"He could accommodate at a nearby hotel. I get the feeling he doesn't want to spend any money. Cash is fine There's your answer OP, get yourself down to Holbeck (LS11) and cash is king there - don't have to pay subs for a sex site that way.
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You are soooo helpful, do you work in customer service by any chance?
Close, politics. I advised Rishi Sunak on the Rwanda policy and also not staying for the full D-day ceremonies. I think it is all going pretty smoothly.
Anything else I can help you with?"No that’s great thanks, you’ve done more than enough already | |||
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"Marriage aside it's quite likely your not getting any interest for the same reason most guys don't get interest And most men don't get interest because their profiles a very low effort." What’s a good profile and why? | |||
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"Marriage aside it's quite likely your not getting any interest for the same reason most guys don't get interest And most men don't get interest because their profiles a very low effort. What’s a good profile and why?" You've been on here over a year. I'm sure you can work that out with a bit of effort. | |||
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"Marriage aside it's quite likely your not getting any interest for the same reason most guys don't get interest And most men don't get interest because their profiles a very low effort. What’s a good profile and why? You've been on here over a year. I'm sure you can work that out with a bit of effort." As you took the time to post I thought you’d want say why | |||
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"Nobody can, because recommending other sites isn’t allowed on here. " A few kind people have been in touch x | |||
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"Op, now you can take this the wrong way if you like. What I'll say is, you came across extremely defensive at the start of thr thread, to an understandable question!. So the reason why you don't have any luck on fab is your approach What I'll say is despite people being swingers etc etc, they still have a moral compass... I'm going to work on an assumption here, and guess your Mrs does not know anything about you looking outside the of the relationship.. Maybe the answer doesn't lie outside but within. And maybe you won't find happiness in unfillfilled hookups. Mr " How insightful, thank you | |||
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"Op, now you can take this the wrong way if you like. What I'll say is, you came across extremely defensive at the start of thr thread, to an understandable question!. So the reason why you don't have any luck on fab is your approach What I'll say is despite people being swingers etc etc, they still have a moral compass... I'm going to work on an assumption here, and guess your Mrs does not know anything about you looking outside the of the relationship.. Maybe the answer doesn't lie outside but within. And maybe you won't find happiness in unfillfilled hookups. Mr How insightful, thank you " See the defensive stance is alive and kicking, have fun wanking fleshlights are cheap at the moment too.... Mr | |||
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"Hi Please don’t judge, everyone has their reasons. I’ve not had any luck using this site, can anyone recommend a fee free site that connects married people with similar issues? Please feel free not to reply with pointless “it’s not right” replies. Thanks " There are sites out there available for what you’re looking for, but don’t forget you’re a bloke, so none are free to use | |||
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