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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

Please don’t judge, everyone has their reasons. I’ve not had any luck using this site, can anyone recommend a fee free site that connects married people with similar issues?

Please feel free not to reply with pointless “it’s not right” replies.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago

What are the 'similar issues'? The only issue you mentioned is not having much luck, so do you mean another site where you'll not have much luck as well?

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

You didn’t read the original post fully did you? Or do you just think you are a bit clever?

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By *oxy jWoman 12 weeks ago

somerset

you'll find swingers in general are split over married or not so you'll find it the same else where ... thier are some affair sites but from what i see all are payed for ...

you getting no where might just be because your one of many ie zuillions of guys compared to few couples and women ... and not trying to be funny but you cant write something to the forums and not respect feed back that you dont want to hear ...

being married and playing away is like marmite some love married guys/women and some hate .... but i suspect you getting nowhere is down to numbers and no one being interested yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

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By *essTTWoman 12 weeks ago

Birmingham

"You didn’t read the original post fully did you? Or do you just think you are a bit clever? "

The only issue you mentioned in the OP is that you're not having any luck?

There's no need to be rude because people have interpreted something the way you've said it.

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple 12 weeks ago

Middle England

Have you been to clubs or socials; that's the usual stock answer.

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By *onnyJohnMan 12 weeks ago

Doncaster

"Hi

Please don’t judge, everyone has their reasons. I’ve not had any luck using this site, can anyone recommend a fee free site that connects married people with similar issues?

Please feel free not to reply with pointless “it’s not right” replies.

Thanks "

Have a feeling this is going to escalate, there are those that are set against it, those that don't mind and those that actively look for married, as for the information you ask for, there are no free sites end of story, you pay one way or another, especially if you want the full features of any given site. So sorry mate i think your out of luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

"Hi

Please don’t judge, everyone has their reasons. I’ve not had any luck using this site, can anyone recommend a fee free site that connects married people with similar issues?

Please feel free not to reply with pointless “it’s not right” replies.

Thanks

Thank you for your sensible reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

"you'll find swingers in general are split over married or not so you'll find it the same else where ... thier are some affair sites but from what i see all are payed for ...

being married and playing away is like marmite some love married guys/women and some hate .... but i suspect you getting nowhere is down to numbers and no one being interested yet"

Thanks x

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By *onnyJohnMan 12 weeks ago

Doncaster

"Hi

Please don’t judge, everyone has their reasons. I’ve not had any luck using this site, can anyone recommend a fee free site that connects married people with similar issues?

Please feel free not to reply with pointless “it’s not right” replies.

Thanks

Thank you for your sensible reply "

Hope you don't mind, had a peek and profile seems ok, on here though there is a huge difference in the number of guys to women/couples, and even if you have a stand out profile thats amazing sometimes its just slow, patience is key, people think its a fuckfest on here, its not, far from it, its probably closer to a slightly kinky dating site lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

"Hi

Please don’t judge, everyone has their reasons. I’ve not had any luck using this site, can anyone recommend a fee free site that connects married people with similar issues?

Please feel free not to reply with pointless “it’s not right” replies.

Thanks

Thank you for your sensible reply

Tell me about it! Makes me feel better everyone is just pretending they are meeting up. lol!

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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago

"You didn’t read the original post fully did you? Or do you just think you are a bit clever? "

I'm special!

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

"You didn’t read the original post fully did you? Or do you just think you are a bit clever?

I'm special!

Clearly ????

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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago

Should we try that again? I said:

"What are the 'similar issues'? The only issue you mentioned is not having much luck, so do you mean another site where you'll not have much luck as well?"

You replied:

"You didn’t read the original post fully did you? Or do you just think you are a bit clever? "

But your original post said:

"Hi

Please don’t judge, everyone has their reasons. I’ve not had any luck using this site, can anyone recommend a fee free site that connects married people with similar issues?

Please feel free not to reply with pointless “it’s not right” replies.

Thanks"

So to repeat, the only issue you raise is that you've "not had any luck using this site."

You've not said your partner is not wanting to have sex, or that you want to have threesomes and (s)he is not into that, or that you are just bored with monogamy, or that it's quite exciting conducting extra marital affairs with the sneaking off to a new bed, or a whole host of other things.

All you've said is you want an extramarital affair, but you are having no luck on this site. That is the only issue you list.

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By *restonguy1981Man 12 weeks ago

preston

"What are the 'similar issues'? The only issue you mentioned is not having much luck, so do you mean another site where you'll not have much luck as well?"

I almost spat my brew out then

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

"What are the 'similar issues'? The only issue you mentioned is not having much luck, so do you mean another site where you'll not have much luck as well?

I almost spat my brew out then

Did you? Oh that’s soooi funny lols

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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago

"What are the 'similar issues'? The only issue you mentioned is not having much luck, so do you mean another site where you'll not have much luck as well?

I almost spat my brew out then

Don't, you'll only encourage me, and the OP is obviously finding it hard to express himself clearly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

"Should we try that again? I said:

What are the 'similar issues'? The only issue you mentioned is not having much luck, so do you mean another site where you'll not have much luck as well?

You replied:

You didn’t read the original post fully did you? Or do you just think you are a bit clever?

But your original post said:

Please don’t judge, everyone has their reasons. I’ve not had any luck using this site, can anyone recommend a fee free site that connects married people with similar issues?

Please feel free not to reply with pointless “it’s not right” replies.

Thanks

So to repeat, the only issue you raise is that you've "not had any luck using this site."

All you've said is you want an extramarital affair, but you are having no luck on this site. That is the only issue you list."

Thank you for your synopsis. So you do think you are clever and you are trying to now prove it. Great

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By *restonguy1981Man 12 weeks ago

preston

Ladies calm down, it’s early and there’s not a strong enough painkiller to deal with these handbags you are both swinging (pun intended)

Please just kiss and make up now

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By *rsKOTCTWoman 12 weeks ago

Leeds

"You didn’t read the original post fully did you? Or do you just think you are a bit clever?

I'm special!

Clearly ????"

Urgh...rude much, I'm sure you can Google for sites to be a deceitful cheat - fab rules state other sites are not to be mentioned so you ain't going to have much luck asking here.

I wonder why you are not having much luck on fab

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By *restonguy1981Man 12 weeks ago

preston

"You didn’t read the original post fully did you? Or do you just think you are a bit clever?

I'm special!

Clearly ????

Urgh...rude much, I'm sure you can Google for sites to be a deceitful cheat - fab rules state other sites are not to be mentioned so you ain't going to have much luck asking here.

I wonder why you are not having much luck on fab

Remind me never to get on you’re bad side

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By *rsKOTCTWoman 12 weeks ago

Leeds

"You didn’t read the original post fully did you? Or do you just think you are a bit clever?

I'm special!

Clearly ????

Urgh...rude much, I'm sure you can Google for sites to be a deceitful cheat - fab rules state other sites are not to be mentioned so you ain't going to have much luck asking here.

I wonder why you are not having much luck on fab

Remind me never to get on you’re bad side

Remember - don't get on my bad side

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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago

Men are grumpy when they don't get sex.

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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago

"Ladies calm down, it’s early and there’s not a strong enough painkiller to deal with these handbags you are both swinging (pun intended)

Please just kiss and make up now

It's OK, the nice man blocked me.

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By *restonguy1981Man 12 weeks ago

preston

"You didn’t read the original post fully did you? Or do you just think you are a bit clever?

I'm special!

Clearly ????

Urgh...rude much, I'm sure you can Google for sites to be a deceitful cheat - fab rules state other sites are not to be mentioned so you ain't going to have much luck asking here.

I wonder why you are not having much luck on fab

Remind me never to get on you’re bad side

Remember - don't get on my bad side

Noted, remind me when I get home to plaster post it notes all around the house to never get on you’re bad side

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By *restonguy1981Man 12 weeks ago

preston

"Ladies calm down, it’s early and there’s not a strong enough painkiller to deal with these handbags you are both swinging (pun intended)

Please just kiss and make up now

It's OK, the nice man blocked me."

Oh the audacity

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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago

"Men are grumpy when they don't get sex."

And your excuse? Lack of rum perchance?

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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago

"Men are grumpy when they don't get sex.

And your excuse? Lack of rum perchance?"

The presence of men makes me grumpy.

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By *restonguy1981Man 12 weeks ago

preston

"Men are grumpy when they don't get sex."

No I just look like popeye but I ain’t had me spinach

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple 12 weeks ago

Birmingham

Can also see why not having much luck so

Social, clubs, pay fot it or buy a sex doll.

Or divorce wife and go out dating again.

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By *restonguy1981Man 12 weeks ago

preston

"Men are grumpy when they don't get sex.

And your excuse? Lack of rum perchance?

The presence of men makes me grumpy. "

Noooo!!! Surely this cannot be true

You come across as all flirty in you’re messages

Are you trying to trick us here

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By *rsKOTCTWoman 12 weeks ago

Leeds

"Men are grumpy when they don't get sex.

And your excuse? Lack of rum perchance?

The presence of men makes me grumpy. "

You & me both

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By *hePleasurerMan 12 weeks ago

Cheshire

Not aware of any other free sites.

Being free is a big benefit for Fab but also a big drawback, as witness the large number of fake accounts and the quality of many others. If you pay for a site you at least filter out much of the unwanted stuff.

Alternatively, move to France, where everyone from the President down has a bit on the side.

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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago

Alternatively, move to France, where everyone from the President down has a bit on the side."

Do you think the OP might have a chance of being the bit on the side to the President of France? I can't see his profile, but maybe that is the extra marital affair he is looking for.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman 12 weeks ago

Leeds

Alternatively, move to France, where everyone from the President down has a bit on the side.

Do you think the OP might have a chance of being the bit on the side to the President of France? I can't see his profile, but maybe that is the extra marital affair he is looking for."

Any holes a goal right!?

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By *ablo minibar123Woman 12 weeks ago

"Can also see why not having much luck so

Social, clubs, pay fot it or buy a sex doll.

Or divorce wife and go out dating again."

I imagine hiding a sex doll from the wife would be difficult, imagine the scare she would get finding that in the cupboard

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By *restonguy1981Man 12 weeks ago

preston

"Can also see why not having much luck so

Social, clubs, pay fot it or buy a sex doll.

Or divorce wife and go out dating again.

I imagine hiding a sex doll from the wife would be difficult, imagine the scare she would get finding that in the cupboard"

If he bought one that went down they’d charge him extra too

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple 12 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Can also see why not having much luck so

Social, clubs, pay fot it or buy a sex doll.

Or divorce wife and go out dating again.

I imagine hiding a sex doll from the wife would be difficult, imagine the scare she would get finding that in the cupboard"

Or find it a relief 'no more begging for sex'

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By *rancois Du BoisMan 12 weeks ago

Down the back of the sofa.

Cheating is not part of swinging

Swinging is part of Ethical Non Monogamy (ENM)

The non monogamy part refers to having sex and intimacy outside a ‘normal’ relationship

The ethical part means that everyone, including your partner/wife knows about it.

Don’t go to clubs or socials and involve others unknowingly in your cheating.

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By *onnyJohnMan 12 weeks ago

Doncaster

"Ladies calm down, it’s early and there’s not a strong enough painkiller to deal with these handbags you are both swinging (pun intended)

Please just kiss and make up now

Good point, well made

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman 12 weeks ago

somewhere

Have you tried putting an ad in the personal columns? I think you might need a Pina colada.

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By *aTina HeadTurnerWoman 12 weeks ago

Newham

Being rude won’t get you anywhere, extramarital or not.

Perhaps address that issue first, along with other things and you might get some relief.

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple 12 weeks ago

Middle England

You have same/separate room swapping listed in your interests. Just curious; how does that work?

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By *rsKOTCTWoman 12 weeks ago

Leeds

"OP

You have same/separate room swapping listed in your interests. Just curious; how does that work?"

The blow up doll goes in the same or separate rooms

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By *achig11Man 12 weeks ago

Manchester

Don’t ??????

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By *eroLondonMan 12 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Have you tried putting an ad in the personal columns? I think you might need a Pina colada."

•

Pina Coladas get caught in the rain. Perish the thought.

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By *iker JackMan 12 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

The issue is many.

Firstly people are told to interact in the forums but that can be positive and also negative in replies people give and can actually put some people off each other. Many use it as a filter

For me the big thing here is that people forget the name of the site. It has swingers in it. The genuine swingers won’t be necessarily attracted to those that are married and their partners unaware they are here.

If you’re purely looking for sex or socials with potential some of the internet dating sites are as good, that said to access most areas you have to pay, or to send more than a few messages or see who has liked you, you have to pay.

The problem is on any internet platform it is hard to get your personality across, both in a positive or humourous and sadly sometimes negative way.

I hope this helps

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By *iker JackMan 12 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

How does discreet, married and can accommodate work, what if signs are left at home, clothing, an earring a neighbour seeing or hearing you?

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By *heSchwingersCouple 12 weeks ago

Essex

Babe we like married people. Less likely to play unsafe with others.

But this exchange has put me off big time. Was that the aim? X

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By *ark n kimCouple 12 weeks ago

Durham

Don't know why you are not having much luck op,you sound like such a pleasant guy.

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By *etropolitainMan 12 weeks ago

Redworth Co Durham

Go to socials and clubs

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By *ellinever70Woman 12 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"Hi

Please don’t judge, everyone has their reasons. I’ve not had any luck using this site, can anyone recommend a fee free site that connects married people with similar issues?

Please feel free not to reply with pointless “it’s not right” replies.

Thanks "

You'll probably do better by just quietly going about your business.

Unless you're a 'weel kent' face in the lounge, you'll get short shrift for your circumstances.

There are women on the site who will meet guys in your position.

Just don't whinge publicly about not getting any sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

"Hi

Please don’t judge, everyone has their reasons. I’ve not had any luck using this site, can anyone recommend a fee free site that connects married people with similar issues?

Please feel free not to reply with pointless “it’s not right” replies.

Thanks

You'll probably do better by just quietly going about your business.

Unless you're a 'weel kent' face in the lounge, you'll get short shrift for your circumstances.

There are women on the site who will meet guys in your position.

Just don't whinge publicly about not getting any sex "

Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

"Don't know why you are not having much luck op,you sound like such a pleasant guy."

Thanks! You don’t seem overly sarcastic either?

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

"Babe we like married people. Less likely to play unsafe with others.

But this exchange has put me off big time. Was that the aim? X"

Thanks for your input, super helpful

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

"OP

You have same/separate room swapping listed in your interests. Just curious; how does that work?"

It’s secret

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

"Have you tried putting an ad in the personal columns? I think you might need a Pina colada."

An ad in the personal columns for a pina colada?

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

"Being rude won’t get you anywhere, extramarital or not.

Perhaps address that issue first, along with other things and you might get some relief."

Rude?

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

"Can also see why not having much luck so

Social, clubs, pay fot it or buy a sex doll.

Or divorce wife and go out dating again.

I imagine hiding a sex doll from the wife would be difficult, imagine the scare she would get finding that in the cupboard

Or find it a relief 'no more begging for sex'"

Thank you for your helpful reply

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple 12 weeks ago

Middle England

"OP

You have same/separate room swapping listed in your interests. Just curious; how does that work?

The blow up doll goes in the same or separate rooms

Just my luck!!

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By *anddXXXCouple 12 weeks ago

London

"Babe we like married people. Less likely to play unsafe with others.

Lol, good luck, put your tin hats on, you will still be trying to clear your message box come November.

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By *ot-buttered-toastMan 12 weeks ago

Stepney

You're 49. Having 'luck' on here isn't going to make you feel much better. It'll be a brief bandaid, at best. If your marriage is sexless now, it's likely to stay that way forever, depending on the reasons. I take it you've tried talking to your wife and not got anywhere? If you have and genuinely believe that your sex life is over, your marriage is likely over, too, and delaying the inevitable breakup is just going to make you both older and more bitter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

"You're 49. Having 'luck' on here isn't going to make you feel much better. It'll be a brief bandaid, at best. If your marriage is sexless now, it's likely to stay that way forever, depending on the reasons. I take it you've tried talking to your wife and not got anywhere? If you have and genuinely believe that your sex life is over, your marriage is likely over, too, and delaying the inevitable breakup is just going to make you both older and more bitter."

Thanks, but that wasn’t the advice I was looking for.

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By *lynJMan 12 weeks ago

Morden

"How does discreet, married and can accommodate work, what if signs are left at home, clothing, an earring a neighbour seeing or hearing you?"

He could accommodate at a nearby hotel.

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple 12 weeks ago

Middle England

"He could accommodate at a nearby hotel."

I get the feeling he doesn't want to spend any money.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

"He could accommodate at a nearby hotel.

I get the feeling he doesn't want to spend any money. "

Cash is fine

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By *maginitivemindMan 12 weeks ago

East Mids

"Men are grumpy when they don't get sex."

yep!

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman 12 weeks ago

London

"Ladies calm down, it’s early and there’s not a strong enough painkiller to deal with these handbags you are both swinging (pun intended)

Please just kiss and make up now

“Ladies” calm down

Classic male chauvinism sentence

This whole thread is hideous

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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago

"He could accommodate at a nearby hotel.

I get the feeling he doesn't want to spend any money.

Cash is fine "

There's your answer OP, get yourself down to Holbeck (LS11) and cash is king there - don't have to pay subs for a sex site that way.

You're welcome.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

"He could accommodate at a nearby hotel.

I get the feeling he doesn't want to spend any money.

Cash is fine

There's your answer OP, get yourself down to Holbeck (LS11) and cash is king there - don't have to pay subs for a sex site that way.

You're welcome."

You are soooo helpful, do you work in customer service by any chance?

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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago

"He could accommodate at a nearby hotel.

I get the feeling he doesn't want to spend any money.

Cash is fine

There's your answer OP, get yourself down to Holbeck (LS11) and cash is king there - don't have to pay subs for a sex site that way.

You're welcome.

You are soooo helpful, do you work in customer service by any chance?"

Close, politics. I advised Rishi Sunak on the Rwanda policy and also not staying for the full D-day ceremonies. I think it is all going pretty smoothly.

Anything else I can help you with?

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

"He could accommodate at a nearby hotel.

I get the feeling he doesn't want to spend any money.

Cash is fine

There's your answer OP, get yourself down to Holbeck (LS11) and cash is king there - don't have to pay subs for a sex site that way.

You're welcome.

You are soooo helpful, do you work in customer service by any chance?

Close, politics. I advised Rishi Sunak on the Rwanda policy and also not staying for the full D-day ceremonies. I think it is all going pretty smoothly.

Anything else I can help you with?

No that’s great thanks, you’ve done more than enough already

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By *electableicecreamMan 12 weeks ago

The West

Marriage aside it's quite likely your not getting any interest for the same reason most guys don't get interest

And most men don't get interest because their profiles a very low effort.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

"Marriage aside it's quite likely your not getting any interest for the same reason most guys don't get interest

And most men don't get interest because their profiles a very low effort."

What’s a good profile and why?

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By *electableicecreamMan 12 weeks ago

The West

"Marriage aside it's quite likely your not getting any interest for the same reason most guys don't get interest

And most men don't get interest because their profiles a very low effort.

What’s a good profile and why?"

You've been on here over a year. I'm sure you can work that out with a bit of effort.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

"Marriage aside it's quite likely your not getting any interest for the same reason most guys don't get interest

And most men don't get interest because their profiles a very low effort.

What’s a good profile and why?

You've been on here over a year. I'm sure you can work that out with a bit of effort."

As you took the time to post I thought you’d want say why

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By *wist my nipplesCouple 12 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Nobody can, because recommending other sites isn’t allowed on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

"Nobody can, because recommending other sites isn’t allowed on here.

A few kind people have been in touch x

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 12 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Op, now you can take this the wrong way if you like.

What I'll say is, you came across extremely defensive at the start of thr thread, to an understandable question!. So the reason why you don't have any luck on fab is your approach

What I'll say is despite people being swingers etc etc, they still have a moral compass...

I'm going to work on an assumption here, and guess your Mrs does not know anything about you looking outside the of the relationship..

Maybe the answer doesn't lie outside but within. And maybe you won't find happiness in unfillfilled hookups.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago

"Op, now you can take this the wrong way if you like.

What I'll say is, you came across extremely defensive at the start of thr thread, to an understandable question!. So the reason why you don't have any luck on fab is your approach

What I'll say is despite people being swingers etc etc, they still have a moral compass...

I'm going to work on an assumption here, and guess your Mrs does not know anything about you looking outside the of the relationship..

Maybe the answer doesn't lie outside but within. And maybe you won't find happiness in unfillfilled hookups.

Mr "

How insightful, thank you

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 12 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

"Op, now you can take this the wrong way if you like.

What I'll say is, you came across extremely defensive at the start of thr thread, to an understandable question!. So the reason why you don't have any luck on fab is your approach

What I'll say is despite people being swingers etc etc, they still have a moral compass...

I'm going to work on an assumption here, and guess your Mrs does not know anything about you looking outside the of the relationship..

Maybe the answer doesn't lie outside but within. And maybe you won't find happiness in unfillfilled hookups.

How insightful, thank you "

See the defensive stance is alive and kicking, have fun wanking fleshlights are cheap at the moment too....

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By *oiluvfunMan 12 weeks ago

Mauchline

"Hi

Please don’t judge, everyone has their reasons. I’ve not had any luck using this site, can anyone recommend a fee free site that connects married people with similar issues?

Please feel free not to reply with pointless “it’s not right” replies.

Thanks "

There are sites out there available for what you’re looking for, but don’t forget you’re a bloke, so none are free to use

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By *icecouple561Couple 12 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Op I don't know of any free sites for extra marital hook up. It's against forum rules to mention other sites anyway so you won't get the answers you require here. The only suggestion I can make is that you do an internet search but I guess you will have already done that.

In the meantime I'm going to close this.

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