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Hitting the 40s and up.. thoughts
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Sex is better when older - you know what you enjoy and you are open to try different things too.
You also give less of a fuck so you can be more liberated and open minded.
I’ve been having the best sex of my life for the last few years and there’s still more to come… 
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Everyone ages differently.
My 40’s weren’t great taking the decade over the piece.
Past two years, had fun, know what I’m doing, had some nice feedback and happy with that. Things I want to improve on, things I want to do.
Some days my head is 25, some 35. My knees might not agree  |
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The good think about sex at my age? The confidence to say & do what I want. And not giving a shit about my flabby bits.
The bad? Those flabby bits getting flabbier and my face gone to pot. Thanks menopause  |
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By *oddamnCouple 12 weeks ago
leicestershire |
Having just turned fifty you have no problems. 40-50 isn't so different to 30-40, maybe just a few more aches and pains. I noticed my cum doesn't fly as far or is as much as before, but that's just easier to clear up (but not as impressive in a group situation!)
At fifty I still have my alarm cock waking me up every morning, still think about sex at least titty times a day, and still seek new adventures |
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I can almost say I'm mid 40s, I'd say sex is definitely better now, I've accepted what I like and don't like and I don't make apologies for that (quick fucks for example), my body shape has changed quite a bit recently and can find myself being a bit more "adaptable".
Outside of sex though, this year has been a huge year of change, I've decided swinging was doing stuff to my head that wasn't healthy so retired from meeting people with dicks, I'm so much happier without that now (only one for me now), swinging has been a huge part of me for 10 years and I honestly thought I would struggle (hence why I stay on the forums, just to keep my hoof in) but I can honestly say I am happier, plus my dress sense has changed completely, all my boob revealing tops are buried under the bed and if still there in 6 months will be chucked away and my hair...I'm finally embracing natural (I mean, it's still green as that's a bugger to remove lol) but I have no desire to dye it anymore x |
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We’re really enjoying our 40’s so far.
We are both very aware that our target audience has shifted and that is sometimes hard to accept until we remember we’re 40 odd
It’s true, still feels like we’re early twenties but the reflection says different.
So far we’re both having an absolute ball as we grow older together  |
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I've just turned 50. Had I known how I would age I'd have spent my 20s constantly squatting and slut-dropping, enjoying those knees while they still worked properly.
Best thing is that over time the value that I place on my own peace has increased hugely. If I don't want to do something, go somewhere or meet someone then I don't feel obligated to, just to keep someone else happy. My own happiness matters every bit as much as theirs does. It's something that took me a long time to really take to heart. |
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By *hiversMan 12 weeks ago
Dinas Powys |
"I am yet to find a plus sign to ageing. Not saying it's all doom and gloom, but not sure much improves. I'd much rather by 32 again, thanks."
Honestly, I'm the opposite. There have been no negatives to being older. I'm still fit and healthy, have learnt valuable lessons and have a more mature perspective on things. So far, so good for me |
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"I am yet to find a plus sign to ageing. Not saying it's all doom and gloom, but not sure much improves. I'd much rather by 32 again, thanks.
Honestly, I'm the opposite. There have been no negatives to being older. I'm still fit and healthy, have learnt valuable lessons and have a more mature perspective on things. So far, so good for me "
I'm more than 20 years older than you and I agree with you.
It continues to be good. There are downsides to every age ...if you look for them |
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By *8on33Man 12 weeks ago
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"Geez age creeps up.. still feel 18 in my head .. sadly my face isn’t haahah
What would you say is the best and worst thing about getting older ? Especially when it comes to sex …. "
getting it is a pain sex that is and then summoning up the effort to do it . |
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