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By *ruceyy OP Man 35 weeks ago
London |
Right.
Picture this.
You're on a date, you've already kissed lots. You are sat on a stool, then the other person gets up to go to the bar, and goes in for another kiss and goes to touch waist but accidentally grazes boob.
How do you react?
I ask because a great date turned AWFUL due to said incident despite all the apology |
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By *rRiosMan 35 weeks ago
dublin |
I would normally highlight it and make light of it to try take any potential tension out of the situation. Obviously every situation is different. I’m not sure how I’d react if became an issue tbh, I’d imagine I’d politely finish my drink and we’d part ways. |
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By *nnCeeWoman 35 weeks ago
East of Eden, West of Hell |
As some of the other ladies have said. I've a decent rack on me, they bump into stuff. It wouldn't have bothered me too much, especially if we're an accidental graze.
If you'd gone in for an obvious grope, perhaps I'd have more to say, but otherwise, I wouldn't have an issue.
I guess the lady you were with doesn't quite feel the same. Sorry  |
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I think it really depends on your previous experiences. It’s the kind of thing that could trigger memories of unpleasant experiences and bring up those emotions. For other people, it’s nothing. Like many situations, your intentions can’t control someone’s emotional response to you.
Mrs TMN x |
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By *aptain VMan 35 weeks ago
Birstall, Leicester |
What if you are out with a female friend and you are standing next to each other and her boob grazes your arm....
I've had this happen to me and at work also with a work colleague
Is it intentional or an accident |
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"What if you are out with a female friend and you are standing next to each other and her boob grazes your arm....
I've had this happen to me and at work also with a work colleague
Is it intentional or an accident "
Oh! Trick question. It is always an accident unless she tells you otherwise. |
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By *elloWoman 35 weeks ago
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"What if you are out with a female friend and you are standing next to each other and her boob grazes your arm....
I've had this happen to me and at work also with a work colleague
Is it intentional or an accident "
Did she take her top and bra off before touching your arm with her boob? If not then it probably was an accident |
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By *elloWoman 35 weeks ago
alpha centauri |
"Lazy typing, my bad. I guess they have been whacked off people and have whacked off people so ..."
Is that:
whacked - bounced off
Whacked - wanked off
Whacked - did a job for the mob and they're now 6ft under
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"Right.
Picture this.
You're on a date, you've already kissed lots. You are sat on a stool, then the other person gets up to go to the bar, and goes in for another kiss and goes to touch waist but accidentally grazes boob.
How do you react?
I ask because a great date turned AWFUL due to said incident despite all the apology "
Tell her she should keep her
Boobs under control   |
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By *nnCeeWoman 35 weeks ago
East of Eden, West of Hell |
"Did you make a honk honk sound whilst you touched them  that might have upset her
Oh - you've met my ex-husband then?! 
Is that why he is ex? Haha"
Hmmm... one of the reasons!
Strangely, he didn't like it why I honked his moobs, or his nuts... |
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"Right.
Picture this.
You're on a date, you've already kissed lots. You are sat on a stool, then the other person gets up to go to the bar, and goes in for another kiss and goes to touch waist but accidentally grazes boob.
How do you react?
I ask because a great date turned AWFUL due to said incident despite all the apology
Tell her she should keep her
Boobs under control "
 can just imagine it. Accidentally grazed boob followed by "calm your tits!" |
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"Right.
Picture this.
You're on a date, you've already kissed lots. You are sat on a stool, then the other person gets up to go to the bar, and goes in for another kiss and goes to touch waist but accidentally grazes boob.
How do you react?
I ask because a great date turned AWFUL due to said incident despite all the apology
Tell her she should keep her
Boobs under control
can just imagine it. Accidentally grazed boob followed by "calm your tits!" "
I would probably say that tbh and facepalm |
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"Lazy typing, my bad. I guess they have been whacked off people and have whacked off people so ...
Is that:
whacked - bounced off
Whacked - wanked off
Whacked - did a job for the mob and they're now 6ft under
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Bounced and wanked but no one died |
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By *r TriomanMan 35 weeks ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
I've never accidentally grazed a boob; I'd be horrified if I did. Although, if it was to ever happen, I'd hope that the person would be as understanding as many of the women on this thread, otherwise, it would make me feel even worse. |
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"Right.
Picture this.
You're on a date, you've already kissed lots. You are sat on a stool, then the other person gets up to go to the bar, and goes in for another kiss and goes to touch waist but accidentally grazes boob.
How do you react?
I ask because a great date turned AWFUL due to said incident despite all the apology "
Just count yourself lucky it could’ve been worse
You might have gone to touch her knee and grazed her boob |
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"As some of the other ladies have said. I've a decent rack on me, they bump into stuff. It wouldn't have bothered me too much, especially if we're an accidental graze.
If you'd gone in for an obvious grope, perhaps I'd have more to say, but otherwise, I wouldn't have an issue.
I guess the lady you were with doesn't quite feel the same. Sorry "
This. And I feel like how you react generally says a lot. You can tell if somebody meant to do it or genuinely felt bad based on how they respond and if they were apologetic.
I probably wouldn’t have thought anything of it, especially if you’ve already kissed and you were apologetic. But as the other person said, I’m sorry she didn’t feel the same way. |
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By *ruceyy OP Man 35 weeks ago
London |
"I would normally highlight it and make light of it to try take any potential tension out of the situation. Obviously every situation is different. I’m not sure how I’d react if became an issue tbh, I’d imagine I’d politely finish my drink and we’d part ways. "
This is what we did. I barely touched/noticed it. Seemed like an over reaction on my part. |
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Think it completely depends on your reaction afterwards.
If you’ve gone all horny teenager then she might have thought it was intentional.
If you’ve been apologetic and looked sincere about it then it could have been laughed off…
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Was this one of your ill-fated Manchester dates, Brucey? If so I would give those Mådchester women a wide berth. They are nothing but trouble and the cause of every man's undying grief.
It was clearly a 'grope by misadventure'. If she was a forgiving woman you'd be walking her down the aisle by now. Jettison this foul creature, move back down to London and immerse yourself within the hip City scene. |
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"Was this one of your ill-fated Manchester dates, Brucey? If so I would give those Mådchester women a wide berth. They are nothing but trouble and the cause of every man's undying grief.
It was clearly a 'grope by misadventure'. If she was a forgiving woman you'd be walking her down the aisle by now. Jettison this foul creature, move back down to London and immerse yourself within the hip City scene."
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If the other person is a Fabber (Latina, if I recall from earlier posts?) then do you think she would be happy for this to be posted? I really don't know.
To answer the question about me personally, genuinely accidental boob grazing - tolerable. "Deliberately" accidental - intolerable. Boob owners can usually tell the difference, including if any subsequent apologies are genuine. |
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By *ruceyy OP Man 35 weeks ago
London |
"If the other person is a Fabber (Latina, if I recall from earlier posts?) then do you think she would be happy for this to be posted? I really don't know.
To answer the question about me personally, genuinely accidental boob grazing - tolerable. "Deliberately" accidental - intolerable. Boob owners can usually tell the difference, including if any subsequent apologies are genuine."
She's not a fabber. It's a question on a forum.. |
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By *ruceyy OP Man 35 weeks ago
London |
"Was this one of your ill-fated Manchester dates, Brucey? If so I would give those Mådchester women a wide berth. They are nothing but trouble and the cause of every man's undying grief.
It was clearly a 'grope by misadventure'. If she was a forgiving woman you'd be walking her down the aisle by now. Jettison this foul creature, move back down to London and immerse yourself within the hip City scene."
Honestly the first few were boring, this one was great but a GRAZE (not a grope!) accidentally of a boob and she goes wild.
I literally messaged the scenario to sexy London dates I have had and they all thought it sounded like an overreaction |
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"If the other person is a Fabber (Latina, if I recall from earlier posts?) then do you think she would be happy for this to be posted? I really don't know.
To answer the question about me personally, genuinely accidental boob grazing - tolerable. "Deliberately" accidental - intolerable. Boob owners can usually tell the difference, including if any subsequent apologies are genuine.
She's not a fabber. It's a question on a forum.."
Fair enough. Evidently I've misunderstood/misinterpreted the "it's the fabber I'm borderline in love with again" bit.
I hope you and the lady in question can come to a mutual understanding of what happened. |
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By *ruceyy OP Man 35 weeks ago
London |
"Think it completely depends on your reaction afterwards.
If you’ve gone all horny teenager then she might have thought it was intentional.
If you’ve been apologetic and looked sincere about it then it could have been laughed off…
K"
I apologized instantly sincerely and she said move on - and then I said look if you want to go, go, and she said yeah maybe in a bit.
The date did resume and she was fine chatting wise and laughing again - but there was still an atmosphere and absolutely no physical contact |
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"Was this one of your ill-fated Manchester dates, Brucey? If so I would give those Mådchester women a wide berth. They are nothing but trouble and the cause of every man's undying grief.
It was clearly a 'grope by misadventure'. If she was a forgiving woman you'd be walking her down the aisle by now. Jettison this foul creature, move back down to London and immerse yourself within the hip City scene.
Honestly the first few were boring, this one was great but a GRAZE (not a grope!) accidentally of a boob and she goes wild.
I literally messaged the scenario to sexy London dates I have had and they all thought it sounded like an overreaction "
Why do you think she "went wild"? |
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By *ruceyy OP Man 35 weeks ago
London |
"Brucey, I feel like you just want everyone to tell you she was wrong and you were hard done by. And I’m not saying you weren’t. Maybe consider where she was coming from, though.
Mrs TMN x"
No this is it, hence the post. I want to know if people think it was worthy of a sudden rejection despite clear sexual chemistry.
I don't know her history, maybe it's super sensitive, but ultimately it was clearly a mistake and i apologized genuinely |
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"Brucey, I feel like you just want everyone to tell you she was wrong and you were hard done by. And I’m not saying you weren’t. Maybe consider where she was coming from, though.
Mrs TMN x
No this is it, hence the post. I want to know if people think it was worthy of a sudden rejection despite clear sexual chemistry.
I don't know her history, maybe it's super sensitive, but ultimately it was clearly a mistake and i apologized genuinely "
In which case she's almost certainly just a frigid old northern bint and not a patch on sexy Londoners.
Is that what you want to hear? |
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"Was this one of your ill-fated Manchester dates, Brucey? If so I would give those Mådchester women a wide berth. They are nothing but trouble and the cause of every man's undying grief.
It was clearly a 'grope by misadventure'. If she was a forgiving woman you'd be walking her down the aisle by now. Jettison this foul creature, move back down to London and immerse yourself within the hip City scene.
Honestly the first few were boring, this one was great but a GRAZE (not a grope!) accidentally of a boob and she goes wild.
I literally messaged the scenario to sexy London dates I have had and they all thought it sounded like an overreaction "
Is that like a blog? Or?... Is there a link please? |
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By *ruceyy OP Man 35 weeks ago
London |
"Brucey, I feel like you just want everyone to tell you she was wrong and you were hard done by. And I’m not saying you weren’t. Maybe consider where she was coming from, though.
Mrs TMN x
No this is it, hence the post. I want to know if people think it was worthy of a sudden rejection despite clear sexual chemistry.
I don't know her history, maybe it's super sensitive, but ultimately it was clearly a mistake and i apologized genuinely
In which case she's almost certainly just a frigid old northern bint and not a patch on sexy Londoners.
Is that what you want to hear?"
No but you clearly don't like that I don't like Manchester so, hearing less of that is appreciated! |
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By *ruceyy OP Man 35 weeks ago
London |
"Was this one of your ill-fated Manchester dates, Brucey? If so I would give those Mådchester women a wide berth. They are nothing but trouble and the cause of every man's undying grief.
It was clearly a 'grope by misadventure'. If she was a forgiving woman you'd be walking her down the aisle by now. Jettison this foul creature, move back down to London and immerse yourself within the hip City scene.
Honestly the first few were boring, this one was great but a GRAZE (not a grope!) accidentally of a boob and she goes wild.
I literally messaged the scenario to sexy London dates I have had and they all thought it sounded like an overreaction
Is that like a blog? Or?... Is there a link please? "
Dm for screenshots! |
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"Brucey, I feel like you just want everyone to tell you she was wrong and you were hard done by. And I’m not saying you weren’t. Maybe consider where she was coming from, though.
Mrs TMN x
No this is it, hence the post. I want to know if people think it was worthy of a sudden rejection despite clear sexual chemistry.
I don't know her history, maybe it's super sensitive, but ultimately it was clearly a mistake and i apologized genuinely
In which case she's almost certainly just a frigid old northern bint and not a patch on sexy Londoners.
Is that what you want to hear?"
The link for that will be...
www.donttouchmyboob.com? |
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"Brucey, I feel like you just want everyone to tell you she was wrong and you were hard done by. And I’m not saying you weren’t. Maybe consider where she was coming from, though.
Mrs TMN x
No this is it, hence the post. I want to know if people think it was worthy of a sudden rejection despite clear sexual chemistry.
I don't know her history, maybe it's super sensitive, but ultimately it was clearly a mistake and i apologized genuinely
In which case she's almost certainly just a frigid old northern bint and not a patch on sexy Londoners.
Is that what you want to hear?
No but you clearly don't like that I don't like Manchester so, hearing less of that is appreciated!"
I honestly couldn't give a fig what you think of Manchester. It was you who sent it to your sexy London dates, implying that they were somehow superior to what the provinces have been able to provide to your Big Balls.
In this scenario, to me at least, you sound like quite the nitwit and are not putting yourself forward in the best of lights at all. |
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Does it matter really? None of us were there and know how things were going. None of us are in her headspace. I've been on dates and have used various different excuses not to see someone again. So who knows?? Try to avoid accidental boob touching is all you can really take from this. |
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"Brucey, I feel like you just want everyone to tell you she was wrong and you were hard done by. And I’m not saying you weren’t. Maybe consider where she was coming from, though.
Mrs TMN x
No this is it, hence the post. I want to know if people think it was worthy of a sudden rejection despite clear sexual chemistry.
I don't know her history, maybe it's super sensitive, but ultimately it was clearly a mistake and i apologized genuinely "
Evidently that’s how she felt, no matter your intentions. I don’t think any of us can judge whether it was worthy or not, cos we’re not her. |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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Well I assumed that when young, innocent, naive and pure Brucey said that the date turned AWFUL, he meant that the young lady (who was already sexually aroused by being in the presence of such a fine specimen of a man), took the accidental 'grazing' to be foreplay, and immediately took it up a notch, by jumping on Brucie in order to have her wicked way with him.
For our guileless and sensitive young hero, who had been saving himself for the wedding night, this was all too much, and so was 'awful' for him.
I am sure you lot have been reading it all wrong. |
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"Brucey, I feel like you just want everyone to tell you she was wrong and you were hard done by. And I’m not saying you weren’t. Maybe consider where she was coming from, though.
Mrs TMN x
No this is it, hence the post. I want to know if people think it was worthy of a sudden rejection despite clear sexual chemistry.
I don't know her history, maybe it's super sensitive, but ultimately it was clearly a mistake and i apologized genuinely "
It was obviously worthy of a sudden rejection *to her*.
That should be an end to it. |
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"Well I assumed that when young, innocent, naive and pure Brucey said that the date turned AWFUL, he meant that the young lady (who was already sexually aroused by being in the presence of such a fine specimen of a man), took the accidental 'grazing' to be foreplay, and immediately took it up a notch, by jumping on Brucie in order to have her wicked way with him.
For our guileless and sensitive young hero, who had been saving himself for the wedding night, this was all too much, and so was 'awful' for him.
I am sure you lot have been reading it all wrong."
Can we not?... I'm still waiting on this London Dates thingy link before we run Brucey back to London Tinder, please |
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Even I've accidentally caught boobs, I just apologise and move on....
People have accidentally caught mine, it's quite clear when it's an accidental graze and a gripe.
You did the right thing apologising, she is also valid in however it made her feel though either, we don't know her history.
Just put it down to a date gone wrong & move on.
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By *ealMissShadyWoman 35 weeks ago
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"Brucey, I feel like you just want everyone to tell you she was wrong and you were hard done by. And I’m not saying you weren’t. Maybe consider where she was coming from, though.
Mrs TMN x
No this is it, hence the post. I want to know if people think it was worthy of a sudden rejection despite clear sexual chemistry.
I don't know her history, maybe it's super sensitive, but ultimately it was clearly a mistake and i apologized genuinely "
Doesn't matter what people think really but her feelings are her feelings...And her reaction was right for her
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Tbh if the date turned terrible because of an accidental boobs graze then I think either;
The date wasn't going as well as you perceived it to be going.
The other person is massively overreacting to the situation and you are best out of it.
Or you are slightly misrepresenting the circumstances either consciously or sub consciously.
It's impossible to say having not been there |
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I'd be gutted in this scenario. If he'd gone to touch my waist but accidently touched my boob that must mean my boob's are saggier than I thought.
I hate gravity and getting older. I'm off for a little cry now haha, Mrs x |
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If I was on a date and things were going well and an accidental graze happened then it wouldn't bother me at all, especially if you realised and apologised, however like some have said, are you absolutely sure it was going as well as you say it was and she wasn't just looking for a reason to end it and it was a perfectly timed accident?
It could also be she has some trauma as others have said which would warrant her reaction. It could also be that the graze didn't feel like a graze to her and a full on grope, so many variables here I'm afraid x |
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I wouldn't say a word and it wouldn't register in my head UNLESS it felt deliberate like a sneaky touch or a sly grope.
Then i'd up n leave.
Unless we were handcuffed officer and then i'd just wait till we were back at the station and demand ciggies
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"I wouldn't say a word and it wouldn't register in my head UNLESS it felt deliberate like a sneaky touch or a sly grope.
Then i'd up n leave.
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If there was a tonne of sexual chemistry, would a slight intential graze of the boob of offend you though?
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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I've accidentally done this to my Chiropractir,
She was getting my arms in position to crack my back. My hand knocked into her breasts.
I apologised even though she was moving my hands ( very British of me).
I remember later on she was working on my lower back/hips. Her hand slid down my shorts/boxers to help crack the joints. Felt like it was more of an arse caressing but like most men read too much into things lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"I've accidentally done this to my Chiropractir,
I remember later on she was working on my lower back/hips. Her hand slid down my shorts/boxers to help crack the joints. Felt like it was more of an arse caressing but like most men read too much into things lol"
My male chiropractor did something similar a few months back. He pulled the back of my jeans down a bit more than normal to work on my lower back/hips. It felt inappropriate for some reason. It was nothing he said but I just felt it wasn’t normal. I’ve not gone back to see him since that day. He was a brilliant chiropractor too but the uneasy feeling I had that day isn’t one I want to replicate. Could it have been innocent? Perhaps but I still felt uncomfortable. |
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I was a massage therapist for a few years. Only Swedish relaxation stuff not medical trained. For full body you go pretty much everywhere. 99% of the time if the client was wearing shorts or bottoms I had to lower them to do back properly. Sometimes people reacted badly to that. Some people are just nervous I guess. I touched a fair few side boobs of curvier ladies too. Can’t be helped! |
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"I've accidentally done this to my Chiropractir,
I remember later on she was working on my lower back/hips. Her hand slid down my shorts/boxers to help crack the joints. Felt like it was more of an arse caressing but like most men read too much into things lol
My male chiropractor did something similar a few months back. He pulled the back of my jeans down a bit more than normal to work on my lower back/hips. It felt inappropriate for some reason. It was nothing he said but I just felt it wasn’t normal. I’ve not gone back to see him since that day. He was a brilliant chiropractor too but the uneasy feeling I had that day isn’t one I want to replicate. Could it have been innocent? Perhaps but I still felt uncomfortable. "
Yep, I changed Chiropractors too.
My 1st session was a sports massage.
The female was good but too gentle.
Mentioned she works with alot of Rugby players and said I definitely have the same build.
She went onto say how her job can be lonely at times then later on how people thought she wasn't attractive when she was younger.
I can't half choose them |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"I've accidentally done this to my Chiropractir,
I remember later on she was working on my lower back/hips. Her hand slid down my shorts/boxers to help crack the joints. Felt like it was more of an arse caressing but like most men read too much into things lol
My male chiropractor did something similar a few months back. He pulled the back of my jeans down a bit more than normal to work on my lower back/hips. It felt inappropriate for some reason. It was nothing he said but I just felt it wasn’t normal. I’ve not gone back to see him since that day. He was a brilliant chiropractor too but the uneasy feeling I had that day isn’t one I want to replicate. Could it have been innocent? Perhaps but I still felt uncomfortable. "
My physio pulled the bottom of my top up to work on my lower back and he asked if he was ok to do that, to which I said yes. I'm surprised any professional wouldn't ask the same before they do that |
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"I wouldn't say a word and it wouldn't register in my head UNLESS it felt deliberate like a sneaky touch or a sly grope.
Then i'd up n leave.
If there was a tonne of sexual chemistry, would a slight intential graze of the boob of offend you though?
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God no. I'd grin to myself |
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"I've accidentally done this to my Chiropractir,
I remember later on she was working on my lower back/hips. Her hand slid down my shorts/boxers to help crack the joints. Felt like it was more of an arse caressing but like most men read too much into things lol
My male chiropractor did something similar a few months back. He pulled the back of my jeans down a bit more than normal to work on my lower back/hips. It felt inappropriate for some reason. It was nothing he said but I just felt it wasn’t normal. I’ve not gone back to see him since that day. He was a brilliant chiropractor too but the uneasy feeling I had that day isn’t one I want to replicate. Could it have been innocent? Perhaps but I still felt uncomfortable. "
My chiropractor did the same to me to get at my sacrioiliac ..
I was VERY embarrassed cos it said PRIMARK in my knickers.
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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My physio pulled the bottom of my top up to work on my lower back and he asked if he was ok to do that, to which I said yes. I'm surprised any professional wouldn't ask the same before they do that "
That’s part of the reason it just felt weird. In that moment, it didn’t come across as professional behaviour. |
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If I am into the guy im fine with it. If I am not I would leave as to do anything else would just be wasting both of our time. Often it's our reactions to these sorts of things that are a great signals. |
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"I was a massage therapist for a few years. Only Swedish relaxation stuff not medical trained. For full body you go pretty much everywhere. 99% of the time if the client was wearing shorts or bottoms I had to lower them to do back properly. Sometimes people reacted badly to that. Some people are just nervous I guess. I touched a fair few side boobs of curvier ladies too. Can’t be helped! "
Touching body parts (consensually) in a massage situation is quite a lot different to on a date in a bar or whatever, when there might well be no expectation of physical contact beyond a kiss or holding hands or whatever (or indeed, none at all). |
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"I was a massage therapist for a few years. Only Swedish relaxation stuff not medical trained. For full body you go pretty much everywhere. 99% of the time if the client was wearing shorts or bottoms I had to lower them to do back properly. Sometimes people reacted badly to that. Some people are just nervous I guess. I touched a fair few side boobs of curvier ladies too. Can’t be helped!
Touching body parts (consensually) in a massage situation is quite a lot different to on a date in a bar or whatever, when there might well be no expectation of physical contact beyond a kiss or holding hands or whatever (or indeed, none at all). "
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She was OK with the accidental graze, but a little put-out when she had to walk backwards from the bar dragging me clinging to her nipples.
In hindsight, I should have learned they don't like that from the first occasion. |
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