I have been with my wife over 15 years now and I have never cum in her mouth. I come close but never finish and although we do joke about it I would like to be able to cum for her and I know it still irritates her slightly even now
All my girlfriends before her couldn't finish me either
I have met with various sex workers who could finish me in no time and men who had no problem as long as I was watching porn
I don't know if it's a mental block on my side or she just doesn't have the skill set needed for me. She never had this problem before me
I don't think she would take kindly to me watching porn as she blew me
Has anyone else ever encountered this problem and do you have any advice for us?
Thanking you
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"There are certain things sexually I wouldn't do with my OH
Sex with my OH is different than sex with someone who I meet purely to have sex with "
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"I have been with my wife over 15 years now and I have never cum in her mouth. I come close but never finish and although we do joke about it I would like to be able to cum for her and I know it still irritates her slightly even now
All my girlfriends before her couldn't finish me either
I have met with various sex workers who could finish me in no time and men who had no problem as long as I was watching porn
I don't know if it's a mental block on my side or she just doesn't have the skill set needed for me. She never had this problem before me
I don't think she would take kindly to me watching porn as she blew me
Has anyone else ever encountered this problem and do you have any advice for us?
Thanking you
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pretend she a sex worker |
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I've never been able to cum from a blowjob either, you're not alone!
It's a completely different sensation to penetrative sex so it happens and I wouldn't worry about it. Likewise, some women rarely orgasm from oral if at all.
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"I have been with my wife over 15 years now and I have never cum in her mouth. I come close but never finish and although we do joke about it I would like to be able to cum for her and I know it still irritates her slightly even now
All my girlfriends before her couldn't finish me either
I have met with various sex workers who could finish me in no time and men who had no problem as long as I was watching porn
I don't know if it's a mental block on my side or she just doesn't have the skill set needed for me. She never had this problem before me
I don't think she would take kindly to me watching porn as she blew me
Has anyone else ever encountered this problem and do you have any advice for us?
Thanking you
"
Men can develop certain psychologies around sex with their partner which make aspects of sex different with their partner than anyone else.
I’ve no doubt you’re satisfied in every way with each other and have already tried many things, just maybe adopt a different mindset when she wants you to let go?
I don’t know if that helps, but we wish you the best OP.
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"I have been with my wife over 15 years now and I have never cum in her mouth. I come close but never finish and although we do joke about it I would like to be able to cum for her and I know it still irritates her slightly even now
All my girlfriends before her couldn't finish me either
I have met with various sex workers who could finish me in no time and men who had no problem as long as I was watching porn
I don't know if it's a mental block on my side or she just doesn't have the skill set needed for me. She never had this problem before me
I don't think she would take kindly to me watching porn as she blew me
Has anyone else ever encountered this problem and do you have any advice for us?
Thanking you
"
It is not uncommon for our own minds to play these tricks on us. The very first thing you could try is just to get as close to cumming as you possibly can, and then ask her to finish you off with your mouth. This gives your brain the opportunity to learn that you can cum in her mouth.
Something else that's worth exploring is edging, make the focus all about pleasure rather than cumming. |
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"I have been with my wife over 15 years now and I have never cum in her mouth. I come close but never finish and although we do joke about it I would like to be able to cum for her and I know it still irritates her slightly even now
All my girlfriends before her couldn't finish me either
I have met with various sex workers who could finish me in no time and men who had no problem as long as I was watching porn
I don't know if it's a mental block on my side or she just doesn't have the skill set needed for me. She never had this problem before me
I don't think she would take kindly to me watching porn as she blew me
Has anyone else ever encountered this problem and do you have any advice for us?
Thanking you
It is not uncommon for our own minds to play these tricks on us. The very first thing you could try is just to get as close to cumming as you possibly can, and then ask her to finish you off with your mouth. This gives your brain the opportunity to learn that you can cum in her mouth.
Something else that's worth exploring is edging, make the focus all about pleasure rather than cumming. "
I'll try that. Tank you |
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"I have been with my wife over 15 years now and I have never cum in her mouth. I come close but never finish and although we do joke about it I would like to be able to cum for her and I know it still irritates her slightly even now
All my girlfriends before her couldn't finish me either
I have met with various sex workers who could finish me in no time and men who had no problem as long as I was watching porn
I don't know if it's a mental block on my side or she just doesn't have the skill set needed for me. She never had this problem before me
I don't think she would take kindly to me watching porn as she blew me
Has anyone else ever encountered this problem and do you have any advice for us?
Thanking you
Men can develop certain psychologies around sex with their partner which make aspects of sex different with their partner than anyone else.
I’ve no doubt you’re satisfied in every way with each other and have already tried many things, just maybe adopt a different mindset when she wants you to let go?
I don’t know if that helps, but we wish you the best OP.
Hades
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