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I did. It sucks as a single. What shocked me the most is guys seemed so much more respectful when I was part of a couple. Might just be my attitude changed but I don't think that is entirely on me. *shrugs* |
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"I did. It sucks as a single. What shocked me the most is guys seemed so much more respectful when I was part of a couple. Might just be my attitude changed but I don't think that is entirely on me. *shrugs*"
Totally get this when my Mrs run our account she used to get shit of people (she was probably too nice and seemed vulnerable I suppose) now that it's stated that I run the account absolutely no shit whatsoever. |
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"As part of a couple if something unforeseen happened would you join fab as a single person or would you call it a day?"
I did this myself. I didn't rejoin straight away - nor did we fall out - but after a couple of years of going life solo I dipped a tentative toe back in the water. While Fab itself has been spectacularly unsuccessful I've made some true friends, male and female, singles and couples, in a couple of classy clubs. Go for it and don't hesitate!  |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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"I first joined with my husband and when we separated I made a single profile.
After all I wanted NSA sex.
but how do you trust the men you meet? "
Very easy i have been swinging for 12 on my own I would say I have had a fab meet on average ones a week and never had any problems.
Not going to say it's never going something bad won't happen.
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"I first joined with my husband and when we separated I made a single profile.
After all I wanted NSA sex.
but how do you trust the men you meet?
Very easy i have been swinging for 12 on my own I would say I have had a fab meet on average ones a week and never had any problems.
Not going to say it's never going something bad won't happen.
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long may it continue cherry x |
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I'm a couple weeks have our profile, I also have my own, nothing unforeseen about it though.
As long as both parties are aware and it's all done with mutual support then it's all good.
Behind their back hell no. |
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"I first joined with my husband and when we separated I made a single profile.
After all I wanted NSA sex.
but how do you trust the men you meet? "
That's like suggesting a woman needs a man to make her decisions for her  |
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"I'd call it a day.
It's always a shame but I definitely wouldn't want to be a single man on here."
Why not? You’re down as bi-curious (the male half) on your profile, so would have a ball in here! I’m as straight as straight can be, yet receive offers from guys pretty much daily! It frustrates the life out of me; all these offers of blowjobs, yet never from a woman……  |
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By *andT2023Couple 33 weeks ago
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We have both as thats the way we both like it. There is a clear difference in the way you are treated ..particularly my other half on his solo profile. People can be so cutting. I dont really get that on the couples profile or mine.
I know some people dont understand our choices ..thats on them .we are happy with the way we approach this.
As a solo female i have met some amazing people ..but i do due diligence before meeting. |
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"I'd call it a day.
It's always a shame but I definitely wouldn't want to be a single man on here.
Why not? You’re down as bi-curious (the male half) on your profile, so would have a ball in here! I’m as straight as straight can be, yet receive offers from guys pretty much daily! It frustrates the life out of me; all these offers of blowjobs, yet never from a woman…… "
It just wouldn't be for me it's something we do and enjoy as a couple, it's not just the sex it's the whole experience we share as a couple, the weekends away, the socials etc just wouldn't be the same on my own. |
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Mrs here, I think i would go it alone but with some unicorn friends in tow. We've been lucky enough to make some very good single bi lady friends so I'd probably have them with me, safety in numbers and all that x. |
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"As part of a couple if something unforeseen happened would you join fab as a single person or would you call it a day?"
I did after my separation and divorce we were a couple and I've been a single guy profile on and off for four years. |
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"I'd call it a day.
It's always a shame but I definitely wouldn't want to be a single man on here.
Why not? You’re down as bi-curious (the male half) on your profile, so would have a ball in here! I’m as straight as straight can be, yet receive offers from guys pretty much daily! It frustrates the life out of me; all these offers of blowjobs, yet never from a woman……
It just wouldn't be for me it's something we do and enjoy as a couple, it's not just the sex it's the whole experience we share as a couple, the weekends away, the socials etc just wouldn't be the same on my own."
Ahh, that’s fair enough. It’s a very different side of the fence so to speak, from my 11 years in here as a solo guy, I don’t know it any other way. Geography means it’s always a trek for me to get to a social gathering, or a club, and generally, you’re never well received as a solo guy, so better for me to do my searching in here   |
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By *4bimMan 33 weeks ago
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"I did. It sucks as a single. What shocked me the most is guys seemed so much more respectful when I was part of a couple. Might just be my attitude changed but I don't think that is entirely on me. *shrugs*"
I've always thought you spoke your mind when needed. Not an attitude problem at all. |
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