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By *ruceyy OP Man 13 weeks ago
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Anyone else have a super low success rate once face pics are exchanged here?!
I mean I don't let it get me down because on dating apps I do just fine. Also I am handsome God damn it!
But are you kinky ladies looking for a particular look most of the time? That classic what many men go for look? Cause the contrast with me is staggering on here to dating apps! |
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By *ruceyy OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"Face pic in first message. That scares them off 
We have 90% of chats end there so we always ask early.
No face pics. No chat. "
Oh damn that face is hard to compete with though! You're stunning! |
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"Anyone else have a super low success rate once face pics are exchanged here?!
I mean I don't let it get me down because on dating apps I do just fine. Also I am handsome God damn it!
But are you kinky ladies looking for a particular look most of the time? That classic what many men go for look? Cause the contrast with me is staggering on here to dating apps!"
We go attitude over face pic generally.
If you have a good attitude, face isn’t really that important to us when we meet men.
Saphi is blindfolded for mmf and mmmf meets so looks are inconsequential. |
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"Face pic in first message. That scares them off
We have 90% of chats end there so we always ask early.
No face pics. No chat.
Oh damn that face is hard to compete with though! You're stunning! "
That’s the wife. Not me.
We aren’t looking for guys but thanks for the kind comment either way.
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By *ruceyy OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"Face pic in first message. That scares them off
We have 90% of chats end there so we always ask early.
No face pics. No chat.
Oh damn that face is hard to compete with though! You're stunning!
That’s the wife. Not me.
We aren’t looking for guys but thanks for the kind comment either way.
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Oh I wasn't expecting to bang you don't worry  |
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"Face pic in first message. That scares them off
We have 90% of chats end there so we always ask early.
No face pics. No chat.
Oh damn that face is hard to compete with though! You're stunning!
That’s the wife. Not me.
We aren’t looking for guys but thanks for the kind comment either way.
Oh I wasn't expecting to bang you don't worry "
We are not worried |
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By *ruceyy OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"Anyone else have a super low success rate once face pics are exchanged here?!
I mean I don't let it get me down because on dating apps I do just fine. Also I am handsome God damn it!
But are you kinky ladies looking for a particular look most of the time? That classic what many men go for look? Cause the contrast with me is staggering on here to dating apps!
We go attitude over face pic generally.
If you have a good attitude, face isn’t really that important to us when we meet men.
Saphi is blindfolded for mmf and mmmf meets so looks are inconsequential."
This is it, I think for me personality and good chat (and a hot body) prevails in this situation. Faces are more intimate to me anyway and unless we are planning on snogging each other's faces off for hours, it's not a problem for me so much!
But again this is more about the difference between sexy vanilla women on apps I'm finding (date today I have is smoking and kinky!) and THIS place! |
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By *ruceyy OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"Face pic in first message. That scares them off
We have 90% of chats end there so we always ask early.
No face pics. No chat.
Oh damn that face is hard to compete with though! You're stunning!
That’s the wife. Not me.
We aren’t looking for guys but thanks for the kind comment either way.
Oh I wasn't expecting to bang you don't worry
We are not worried "
Good chat |
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A face pic definitely helps connect more but what’s appealing to some, isn’t to others.
Some try too hard to act natural, sexy, alluring and that shows.
We have a decent success rate from sending face pics.
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"Anyone else have a super low success rate once face pics are exchanged here?!
I mean I don't let it get me down because on dating apps I do just fine. Also I am handsome God damn it!
But are you kinky ladies looking for a particular look most of the time? That classic what many men go for look? Cause the contrast with me is staggering on here to dating apps!"
yes massively and then it dents the confidence hugely  |
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I've got my face all over my profile, so I suppose this means all that recoil from it in horror don't even message me in the first place (or don't reply to my initial message), so I am blissfully unaware of the volume of this occuring |
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"Anyone else have a super low success rate once face pics are exchanged here?!!
No 
Thanks bird you like my face, right?! Haha"
Yes Brucey. I like your face and your cock. Not your dressing gown though |
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By *ruceyy OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"Anyone else have a super low success rate once face pics are exchanged here?!!
No
Thanks bird you like my face, right?! Haha
Yes Brucey. I like your face and your cock. Not your dressing gown though "
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By *ruceyy OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"RIGHT I have 3 face pics, who wants to see them and critique?
Yes we are going there people.
Sexy women only! Haha
You have three faces? Jesus man, you're pushing your luck  "
I fucking wish. Would change it for the brute man looks 46 and 34 on here if I could |
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By *ruceyy OP Man 13 weeks ago
London |
"We can swipe through alot more faces on an app than we'll ever get to see on fab. The odds are way higher to get a match and the effort minimal."
That is true. I wonder if fab introduced a feature like that if it would bring alot more sex to this place? |
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I don't think it's my face that lets me down
Being 50+, being chubby and being a shortarse dictates that I wouldn't even bother messaging a lot of people I find attractive
But my face is OK I think
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"We can swipe through alot more faces on an app than we'll ever get to see on fab. The odds are way higher to get a match and the effort minimal.
That is true. I wonder if fab introduced a feature like that if it would bring alot more sex to this place?"
I hope they don't. Some of us really struggle on those awful swipey sites. A snap judgement made on how someone looks isn't my idea of a good way of finding potential partners. Imo. |
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"Face pic in first message. That scares them off
We have 90% of chats end there so we always ask early.
No face pics. No chat.
Oh damn that face is hard to compete with though! You're stunning!
That’s the wife. Not me.
We aren’t looking for guys but thanks for the kind comment either way.
Oh I wasn't expecting to bang you don't worry "
Hahahaha |
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By *ruceyy OP Man 13 weeks ago
London |
"I think the question is
To smile or not to smile?
No teeth. Most people look like a serial killer  "
Fair, I had teeth before!
Anyway fuck it I've uploaded a masked one on public now. Fuck the haters! |
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By *eliWoman 13 weeks ago
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Nope. And I wouldn't say my face is particularly attractive but I've never had a no reply once I've sent one.
I'm not looking for a particular face style, just someone I want to kiss. Who gives me a feeling that sex would be mutually enjoyable. |
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By *ruceyy OP Man 13 weeks ago
London |
"RIGHT I have 3 face pics, who wants to see them and critique?
Yes we are going there people.
Sexy women only! Haha
Hell yes
I’m a woman… "
There's one masked on my public now anyway, figured I'd just do that in future! Have great eyes too! 2 of them! |
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I hit post too soon above! I think most people look better smiling. But don't stare down the camera like a clown.
I do ok with the face, apart from the schnoz, but people don't seem to mind as much as I think they will!
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In general I get a good reaction to my face and if my face pic is public I get more messages than if not.
I do prefer it if a face pic is sent early, though what types of face I find attractive varies. |
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By *ruceyy OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"In general I get a good reaction to my face and if my face pic is public I get more messages than if not.
I do prefer it if a face pic is sent early, though what types of face I find attractive varies."
You are cute to be fair! |
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"RIGHT I have 3 face pics, who wants to see them and critique?
Yes we are going there people.
Sexy women only! Haha
Hell yes
I’m a woman…
There's one masked on my public now anyway, figured I'd just do that in future! Have great eyes too! 2 of them!"
You're James Blunt, aren't you? |
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By *ruceyy OP Man 13 weeks ago
London |
"RIGHT I have 3 face pics, who wants to see them and critique?
Yes we are going there people.
Sexy women only! Haha
Hell yes
I’m a woman…
There's one masked on my public now anyway, figured I'd just do that in future! Have great eyes too! 2 of them!
You're James Blunt, aren't you? "
....now I don't know what to do... |
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"RIGHT I have 3 face pics, who wants to see them and critique?
Yes we are going there people.
Sexy women only! Haha
I'll critique
You have literally seen my face! Haha"
But I've not seen the 3 pics. What you're sending out might not be a good representation of your actual face. |
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By *ruceyy OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"RIGHT I have 3 face pics, who wants to see them and critique?
Yes we are going there people.
Sexy women only! Haha
I'll critique
You have literally seen my face! Haha
But I've not seen the 3 pics. What you're sending out might not be a good representation of your actual face. "
I have a masked one on my profile now!
But I'll send you the 3 I had xx |
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"RIGHT I have 3 face pics, who wants to see them and critique?
Yes we are going there people.
Sexy women only! Haha
I'll critique
You have literally seen my face! Haha
But I've not seen the 3 pics. What you're sending out might not be a good representation of your actual face.
I have a masked one on my profile now!
But I'll send you the 3 I had xx"
That's the shittest mask ever |
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"RIGHT I have 3 face pics, who wants to see them and critique?
Yes we are going there people.
Sexy women only! Haha
Hell yes
I’m a woman…
There's one masked on my public now anyway, figured I'd just do that in future! Have great eyes too! 2 of them!"
What if I want to see the eyes?
Or the other face pictures.
Must I stamp my feet and be a brat? |
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I send a face pic with first message every time, face pic and short message, saying something about their bio that may make us compatible. I don't send many really and get replies to 70% ISH and really positive response to maybe 35%. |
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"I’ve done alright so far but most of my meets have been in person in a club
Yeah when I'm back in London I'm gonna go club social mad I think. Tried cupids Friday and didn't vibe!"
Cupids is the worst club I've been too...I'd recommend club play as a first for newbies ... although townhouse is my favourite |
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It’s just part of the process Brucey.
We want to see faces early before any wasted time is spent getting to know someone we just don’t fancy.
We need them to fancy us in return for everything to work so we put ours out there immediately too.
Just go again.
And again if needs be.
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By *ornycougaWoman 13 weeks ago
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I've seen your boat race Brucey and I'm surprised tbh - you'll hate me for saying this but you are a cutie. I have once had someone say respectfully thanks but no tbanks" after sending a face pic. I'm amazed it doesn't happen more often as I'm no oil painting and my RBF is epic |
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Oh my success rate is ridiculously low. I always try to get it out the way early so I'm not too invested while we're chatting but it's definitely more of a surprise if they're still interested after I send a face pic. |
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I need to see a face pic before I'll chat. I cant say what I'm looking for other than his face needs to appeal to me. A beautiful body is not enough.
On the other hand, I have a body like Mr Blobby but folk seem to like my face (only ever had one disappear after i sent my face pic) |
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"I look like a serial killer and I do just fine. I don’t really look for traditionally attractive faces. But i absolutely know it when I see it. "
If tv had taught me anything it's serial killers are usually super hot |
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"I look like a serial killer and I do just fine. I don’t really look for traditionally attractive faces. But i absolutely know it when I see it.
If tv had taught me anything it's serial killers are usually super hot"
She IS hot. She also has a axe.... |
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The mask! That's off putting.  Sunglasses would be better if you want to hide your eyes.
Send me the three pics and I'll let you know which I think is the best.
To answer your question, people seem to like my face. It hasn't put anyone off so far. Or maybe they just see the boobs and are happy to not look at the face.
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"I look like a serial killer and I do just fine. I don’t really look for traditionally attractive faces. But i absolutely know it when I see it.
If tv had taught me anything it's serial killers are usually super hot
She IS hot. She also has a axe.... "
A meets a meet |
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Oh the general public are so fickle when it comes to faces. It's extremely subjective. But yes, faces are the convo killer more than anything else.
I've had people stop contact after seeing my face despite them having clear interest in those that are not as "attractive" as me (in my opinion).
And some people find me attractive even though others they meet and are attracted to are much better looking than I am (in my opinion).
Its just the law of the universe. |
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By *ruceyy OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"Oh the general public are so fickle when it comes to faces. It's extremely subjective. But yes, faces are the convo killer more than anything else.
I've had people stop contact after seeing my face despite them having clear interest in those that are not as "attractive" as me (in my opinion).
And some people find me attractive even though others they meet and are attracted to are much better looking than I am (in my opinion).
Its just the law of the universe. "
Absolutely this and good to see you again!
For the most part, it does fine. But I do look young for my age I guess which is just one of those things. If people like a middle aged face, this ain't it |
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By *HUSH-Man 13 weeks ago
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You’re just someone’s type or you’re not. There might be some faces that are considered more “attractive” because of features and symmetry but there’s also a lot of sex symbols who don’t fit the conventional narrative. Benedict Cumberbatch for example.
For me personally. I’ve never been told I have an ugly face (I know that sounds conceited)but I’ve been rejected plenty of times because I’m not what they like….as well as being rejected for other things too lol |
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however I have ended many chats upon recieving face pictures, I suppose I'm fussy 