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By *WANDTGCouple 14 weeks ago
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I've had drinks in the past with office women who have dressed in shirts and suits (obviously cut to a women's figure) also women go into pubs with jeans , trainers and T shirts that are similar to menswear. |
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"Begs the question why is a man in women’s clothes a tv but a woman in man’s clothes is not? "
Vaild point. Theres drag kings and drag queens. Theres transvestites and we always assume its a man in ladies attire. Maybe crossdresser is a more universal term although it still makes one think men in ladies clothes at first thought. |
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"some bi men are happy to meet tvs?, but if its a female wanting to dress in men's clothes to meet a man.why then are the men not so keen to meet.whats the problem?"
I can only infer *some* men might feel "threatened", because of patriarchal "expectations".
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In other words, instead of a TV presenting as "female" (and thus in a traditional typically female "submissive" role (which isn't threatening to the patriarchy), your example of a woman dressing as a man is perceived as "stepping up to meet" another man on equal terms.
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*some* men cannot deal with that and feel threatened for a number of reasons.
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Other men like myself actively encourage and support others to express however they feel comfortable expressing, and do not feel threatened in any way. I'm comfortable in my own skin and sexuality, and enjoy seeing others "empowered" in finding their own selves.
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"some bi men are happy to meet tvs?, but if its a female wanting to dress in men's clothes to meet a man.why then are the men not so keen to meet.whats the problem?"
The thing is that some men, like me, are attracted to femininity so if a man is dressed as a woman and comes across as feminine then that person will be desirable. If a woman is dressed as a man and is acting in a masculine manner then she will not be attractive. |
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I think you have to define men’s clothing?
I love a woman in one of my shirts.
The difference in clothing is normally down to the “cut” rather than the style. Style similarities are huge. Jeans and shirt. Suits. Training gear. All sorts.
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Why can't anyone just wear any clothes there comfortable with without having to label it, I don't see the man's and woman's clothing thing it's just clothes they don't belong to any one gender.
This whole thing confuses me, I wear trousers and a t-shirt - does that mean I'm dressing like a man? |
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Funny thing is, among gay people, if we see someone wearing (insert non gender conforming item of clothing) the reaction is never more than if they look nice or not. We don’t question. Why they’re wearing it. |
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"Funny thing is, among gay people, if we see someone wearing (insert non gender conforming item of clothing) the reaction is never more than if they look nice or not. We don’t question. Why they’re wearing it. "
I do recognise that’s a very sweeping statement and the world is full of examples to disprove me  |
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"Funny thing is, among gay people, if we see someone wearing (insert non gender conforming item of clothing) the reaction is never more than if they look nice or not. We don’t question. Why they’re wearing it.
I do recognise that’s a very sweeping statement and the world is full of examples to disprove me "
This is an Internet forum it's no place for self-awareness |
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"Funny thing is, among gay people, if we see someone wearing (insert non gender conforming item of clothing) the reaction is never more than if they look nice or not. We don’t question. Why they’re wearing it.
I do recognise that’s a very sweeping statement and the world is full of examples to disprove me
This is an Internet forum it's no place for self-awareness "
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