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I generally don’t celebrate birthdays or let people know at work. I was working in Nigeria on my birthday, my ex contacted someone I work with via Facebook and asked them to get me a cake.
Birthday celebrations in Nigeria are huge thing, hundreds of people came into the office and the songs went on for about two hours I had to make a speech, random people that I didn’t even know made speeches, they had got caterers to make cakes and snacks. We lost a whole day |
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All of them. It's the random that does it.
If you want to help me because you see me struggling and actual empathy kicks in, okay.
If I'm just some way to inflate your ego and give yourself a pat on the back for being such a good person, fuck off  |
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I'm trying to recall someone being randomly kind to me ...
My friend was telling me yesterday that she bought a homeless man some food and a drink. I said that was a nice thing to do and asked what food he'd requested, she hadn't asked him what he wanted or even if he was hungry or thirsty or already had four packs of Tesco sandwiches stacked in his back pack that other random kindnessers had randomly kindly given him.
Still as she said at least she didn't give him money to spend on drugs that she didn't know if he was addicted to or nor. |
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"I'm trying to recall someone being randomly kind to me ...
My friend was telling me yesterday that she bought a homeless man some food and a drink. I said that was a nice thing to do and asked what food he'd requested, she hadn't asked him what he wanted or even if he was hungry or thirsty or already had four packs of Tesco sandwiches stacked in his back pack that other random kindnessers had randomly kindly given him.
Still as she said at least she didn't give him money to spend on drugs that she didn't know if he was addicted to or nor. "
Surely it’s a win win for the guy, if he already has a bag full of sarnies he can do a drug swap with a mate who’s hungry.  |
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"I'm trying to recall someone being randomly kind to me ...
My friend was telling me yesterday that she bought a homeless man some food and a drink. I said that was a nice thing to do and asked what food he'd requested, she hadn't asked him what he wanted or even if he was hungry or thirsty or already had four packs of Tesco sandwiches stacked in his back pack that other random kindnessers had randomly kindly given him.
Still as she said at least she didn't give him money to spend on drugs that she didn't know if he was addicted to or nor.
Surely it’s a win win for the guy, if he already has a bag full of sarnies he can do a drug swap with a mate who’s hungry. "
I hadn't thought of that!
I take it all back. The Tesco'tuna n sweetcorn ' on sourdough was a valuable trading token  |
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People who pay for a coffee for the person behind them.
Its just weird.. get a coffee for the homeless person outside or something.
Don't come back to me in 4 years looking for a kidney or some shit |
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People who try to push my wheelchair out and about, usually. I get that they think they're being helpful, but a) it's scary for someone to just shove you from behind at b) I'm perfectly capable myself.
Thanks |
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"People who pay for a coffee for the person behind them.
Its just weird.. get a coffee for the homeless person outside or something.
Don't come back to me in 4 years looking for a kidney or some shit "
Damn! Puts Starbucks loyalty card back in purse and books dialysis in. |
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"When someone ever so helpfully tells me what a word means.
Really so very kind of them. Really not ever needed."
aaaaaaaghhhhhhhh don't. If I need to know i'll ask or look it up!
I get this I get this ,,,,,,, oh do I get this |
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Even against the No thanks, no thanks, NO THANKS! My daughter brings me her cast of clothes or bric a brac or object d'art
I've learned to say thanks, pop them in the car when she's gone and then into the recycle bins or charity bins at the supermarket. |
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"Even against the No thanks, no thanks, NO THANKS! My daughter brings me her cast of clothes or bric a brac or object d'art
I've learned to say thanks, pop them in the car when she's gone and then into the recycle bins or charity bins at the supermarket."
I used to do that with my mum. She has a habit at one time or buying me orange, bri nylon, bell sleeved negligee sets from charity shops |
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"Even against the No thanks, no thanks, NO THANKS! My daughter brings me her cast of clothes or bric a brac or object d'art
I've learned to say thanks, pop them in the car when she's gone and then into the recycle bins or charity bins at the supermarket.
I used to do that with my mum. She has a habit at one time or buying me orange, bri nylon, bell sleeved negligee sets from charity shops"
That's worse than my mum!
C |
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"Even against the No thanks, no thanks, NO THANKS! My daughter brings me her cast of clothes or bric a brac or object d'art
I've learned to say thanks, pop them in the car when she's gone and then into the recycle bins or charity bins at the supermarket.
I used to do that with my mum. She has a habit at one time or buying me orange, bri nylon, bell sleeved negligee sets from charity shops
That's worse than my mum!
C"
I felt like Doris Day in the late fifties |
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People who upon learning English isn’t my first language talk to me really slow and loud.
My hearing is fine thank you, and my brain can process normal speed speech. |
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