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By *a LunaWoman 34 weeks ago
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Well it’s like buying a used car with no specifications.
How many miles have they done?
How many previous owners?
How many miles left till their next service.
It’s just nice to know you have a reliable runner and nothing overly high maintenance. |
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By *eliWoman 34 weeks ago
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But you've had the penis courtesy of Fab, no?
I like a veri from a social. They're harmless and fun. I'd meet someone without any, have done before. I guess it can prove that the other person does actually meet? Maybe. Fuck knows. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Is a verification to you? Will you not meet someone unverified? What does it actually prove? Is this why I can't get laid!??!?
I need more coffee."
I think the fear of being eaten alive after the sex is your problem, i guess that’s why you have no verifications.
They’re all being digested  |
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You've got to start somewhere right? I'd meet someone with out veris, yes they "prove" the person turns up and is real but even those can be faked!
I'd much rather chat with someone for a bit and get a vibe from them. |
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It's not the end of the world, there's other ways to make sure people are real & (as a couple) we've met people unverified it doesn't put me off unless they've been here yonks and not had one.
Jump on cam Coyote I'll verify you  I don't even expect boobs. |
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Veris are important because they give confidence someone will actually turn up. If I had good reason to believe I wasn’t going to get let down at the last minute then I would meet someone who wasn’t veried - I wouldn’t be spending any money on hotels or too much travel before hand though. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Is a verification to you? Will you not meet someone unverified? What does it actually prove? Is this why I can't get laid!??!?
I need more coffee."
Coffee is good. 
I’m never sure about your post and the things that you write on here most of the things I take as ironically. Haha.
And I’ve learned that verifications mean crap on here for a lot of people, and can ruin or boost your chances with others. (You might prove you turn up! )
It’s a mine field op. You’d get a verification in a heartbeat if you wanted to, that’s if you are serious about this post. Haha.
Or, just go on cam |
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They mean very little to me and veris from the wrong people are more likely to put me off meeting someone than 100 glowing ones.
I haven't used veris on my last 2 profiles here and I've found it doesn't in anyway impact people chatting to me.
Might put off a few people but that's ok.
Plenty technology now to verify someone is who they say they are before a meet |
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I really don’t like veris. I’m pretty much more than capable to make my own mind about a person, either through chatting or meeting socially. I’d rather not see veris as they can put me right off someone and change my mind about that person in a nanosecond.
I have met unverified people before, and was usually right about my perception of them. |
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I like receiving verifications as sometimes it’s a true reflection of what the other party made of you. Some people are too shy to say at the time and open up more when verifying.
Although I am not so bothered if other people read them or not.
The fact you can choose to show them just means you ain’t going to show a bad one anyways lol |
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I think the only time I really notice is when someone that's been on the site over a year with no veris calls me a slut for not wanting to bone them.
I've met people with no verifications. I've met people with literally hundreds. It really doesn't matter  |
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They make interesting reading sometimes, that's it.
Yes, we will meet unverified people.
We've also met people who (go to a lot of group socials and) have racked up the veri's.
Unless there's something really off-putting in a veri or profile, it makes no difference to us.
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By *agic.MMan 34 weeks ago
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I guess verifications make you feel a bit more comfortable meeting someone... I assume for most women it's a safety thing - making sure the guy is not a psycho ( although no amount of veries will confirm that 100%). For most men it's irrelevant...most men will fuck a psycho...just saying  |
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They are only important in so far as they tell me who they've met before and if there is good reason to avoid due to previous history.
Content is irrelevant.
I have met unverified people in the past but won't do it again or even chat to someone who isn't verified since one woman decided to contact a fab friend and tell her to back off and stop holding me back.
Being verified doesn't stop anyone from being a cunt but at least they're a more visible cunt. |
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It's not too important for simple reasons.
Most of the verifications I read border on vulgar cliche and even the good verifications are the opinions of another stranger.
I have great tools available to me e.g. a brain, the ability to make my own decisions, a phone , a computer and a few questions that help .....
To be blunt - a verification isn't a guarantee of anything. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Ironically you could go for a coffee to get veri'd!
What about Woody's MLS in a couple of weeks?? Nice and safe with some pre-tested forumites?
100% "
100% |
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"Is a verification to you? Will you not meet someone unverified? What does it actually prove? Is this why I can't get laid!??!?
I need more coffee."
I think woman dont meet men without a veri, understandable in sone respects but they might not have a veri as new to the etc, not managed to get a meet or even a message |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 34 weeks ago
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"But you've had the penis courtesy of Fab, no?
I like a veri from a social. They're harmless and fun. I'd meet someone without any, have done before. I guess it can prove that the other person does actually meet? Maybe. Fuck knows."
I have never seen a penis in real life...never. |
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For me, I just thought now I actually wanna try on here for the first time so about time I got veried when people here *do* know I'm real!
I was verified on my first ever fab account in a week
So let's see, but I am already noticing I'm getting more profile views |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 34 weeks ago
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"You’d be swimming in sausage if you had a veri. I’d give you one but I’m 99% certain you’re a middle aged bloke named Dave from Rotherham."
Rotherham?
How dare you!!! |
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"Well it’s like buying a used car with no specifications.
How many miles have they done?
How many previous owners?
How many miles left till their next service.
It’s just nice to know you have a reliable runner and nothing overly high maintenance."
what a response, love this |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 34 weeks ago
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"Ironically you could go for a coffee to get veri'd!
What about Woody's MLS in a couple of weeks?? Nice and safe with some pre-tested forumites?"
A room full o forum users, this is what my nightmares are made of.
I'm sure you're all lovely though  |
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"Ironically you could go for a coffee to get veri'd!
What about Woody's MLS in a couple of weeks?? Nice and safe with some pre-tested forumites?
A room full o forum users, this is what my nightmares are made of.
I'm sure you're all lovely though "
Fuck it I left you one xxx |
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By *eliWoman 34 weeks ago
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"Ironically you could go for a coffee to get veri'd!
What about Woody's MLS in a couple of weeks?? Nice and safe with some pre-tested forumites?
A room full o forum users, this is what my nightmares are made of.
I'm sure you're all lovely though
Fuck it I left you one xxx"
 I don't think she wanted one. She's met people before who could have left her one. The fact she now has a green tick is amazing. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"It doesn't prove or disprove if someone is an axe murderer
Oh no ! Midnight I wrote that and then deleted didn't want to scare the sensitive folk ...  "
It doesn’t prove you’re not a dick either. It just says, that person you met thinks you are not a dick. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 34 weeks ago
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"Ironically you could go for a coffee to get veri'd!
What about Woody's MLS in a couple of weeks?? Nice and safe with some pre-tested forumites?
A room full o forum users, this is what my nightmares are made of.
I'm sure you're all lovely though
Fuck it I left you one xxx
I don't think she wanted one. She's met people before who could have left her one. The fact she now has a green tick is amazing."
Unlos pending... |
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"It doesn't prove or disprove if someone is an axe murderer
Oh no ! Midnight I wrote that and then deleted didn't want to scare the sensitive folk ...
It doesn’t prove you’re not a dick either. It just says, that person you met thinks you are not a dick. "
Doesn't prove you are only 5' 3" but gave me the best orgasm ever either ..
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"Ironically you could go for a coffee to get veri'd!
What about Woody's MLS in a couple of weeks?? Nice and safe with some pre-tested forumites?
A room full o forum users, this is what my nightmares are made of.
I'm sure you're all lovely though
Fuck it I left you one xxx
I don't think she wanted one. She's met people before who could have left her one. The fact she now has a green tick is amazing."
I feel sorry for Coyote here - I don’t think she wanted one. |
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"It doesn't prove or disprove if someone is an axe murderer
Oh no ! Midnight I wrote that and then deleted didn't want to scare the sensitive folk ...
It doesn’t prove you’re not a dick either. It just says, that person you met thinks you are not a dick. "
Not even that Woody! Just means they never said you are a dick.......... |
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"Ironically you could go for a coffee to get veri'd!
What about Woody's MLS in a couple of weeks?? Nice and safe with some pre-tested forumites?
A room full o forum users, this is what my nightmares are made of.
I'm sure you're all lovely though
Fuck it I left you one xxx
I don't think she wanted one. She's met people before who could have left her one. The fact she now has a green tick is amazing."
Oh did she have that before? Haha |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"It doesn't prove or disprove if someone is an axe murderer
Oh no ! Midnight I wrote that and then deleted didn't want to scare the sensitive folk ...
It doesn’t prove you’re not a dick either. It just says, that person you met thinks you are not a dick.
Doesn't prove you are only 5' 3" but gave me the best orgasm ever either ..
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I identify as 5 foot eight thank you very much  |
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I look for veris if someone contacts me out of the blue and talks about meeting up. With someone I’ve actually been talking with though (either on the forums or messaging) I couldn’t care less about them.
I do leave (and receive) veris after meets though. It’s a nice little ritual, even if you don’t display them. |
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By *eliWoman 34 weeks ago
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"Ironically you could go for a coffee to get veri'd!
What about Woody's MLS in a couple of weeks?? Nice and safe with some pre-tested forumites?
A room full o forum users, this is what my nightmares are made of.
I'm sure you're all lovely though
Fuck it I left you one xxx
I don't think she wanted one. She's met people before who could have left her one. The fact she now has a green tick is amazing.
I feel sorry for Coyote here - I don’t think she wanted one. "
No, I don't think she did either. Her previous profile was verified by still active forum users. If she wanted a green tick, she'd have it by now.
Brucey. Sigh. |
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"Ironically you could go for a coffee to get veri'd!
What about Woody's MLS in a couple of weeks?? Nice and safe with some pre-tested forumites?
A room full o forum users, this is what my nightmares are made of.
I'm sure you're all lovely though
Fuck it I left you one xxx
I don't think she wanted one. She's met people before who could have left her one. The fact she now has a green tick is amazing.
I feel sorry for Coyote here - I don’t think she wanted one.
No, I don't think she did either. Her previous profile was verified by still active forum users. If she wanted a green tick, she'd have it by now.
Brucey. Sigh. "
Oh well it's nice to see on there isn't it? |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"If a female profile messaged me without a verification, I'd be very sceptical of whether it was a genuine profile or not."
But if the op messaged you?
That’s the thing of replying to a forum user to somebody I don’t already know. It’s a different answer for a different person.
but thats only from my perception.
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"If a female profile messaged me without a verification, I'd be very sceptical of whether it was a genuine profile or not.
But if the op messaged you?
That’s the thing of replying to a forum user to somebody I don’t already know. It’s a different answer for a different person.
but thats only from my perception.
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Agreed. As long as there's a pic or a presence in the forums, I'll reply. But I am a man and we can't afford to be as fussy let's face it! |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"If a female profile messaged me without a verification, I'd be very sceptical of whether it was a genuine profile or not.
But if the op messaged you?
That’s the thing of replying to a forum user to somebody I don’t already know. It’s a different answer for a different person.
but thats only from my perception.
Agreed. As long as there's a pic or a presence in the forums, I'll reply. But I am a man and we can't afford to be as fussy let's face it!"
really? I’m not fussy, I’m just not in complete desperation…. Yet.
There’s many profiles I’ve seen where I wouldn’t imagine it working out (possibly a guy/time waster/scammer) you know. |
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By *eah BabyCouple 34 weeks ago
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Wouldn’t arrange to meet anyone who hasn’t got a verification, we like to know someone’s who they say they are and not a fake profile and that they are not a time waster who won’t show, we don’t meet often these days and wouldn’t want our time wasted with a no show or like GeordieJeans said the person could be Dave from Rotherham (whoever he is ) and not Mr & Mrs Hotstuff from Right up our street |
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We would be extremely cautious about meeting someone that isn't verified. We like to know people will at least turn up and are genuinely interested in the scene.
There are people who have been on here months, even years who aren't verified. That is a huge no for us. |
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"If a female profile messaged me without a verification, I'd be very sceptical of whether it was a genuine profile or not.
But if the op messaged you?
That’s the thing of replying to a forum user to somebody I don’t already know. It’s a different answer for a different person.
but thats only from my perception.
Agreed. As long as there's a pic or a presence in the forums, I'll reply. But I am a man and we can't afford to be as fussy let's face it!
really? I’m not fussy, I’m just not in complete desperation…. Yet.
There’s many profiles I’ve seen where I wouldn’t imagine it working out (possibly a guy/time waster/scammer) you know. "
Meh, I'm friendly |
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"If a female profile messaged me without a verification, I'd be very sceptical of whether it was a genuine profile or not.
But if the op messaged you?
That’s the thing of replying to a forum user to somebody I don’t already know. It’s a different answer for a different person.
but thats only from my perception.
Agreed. As long as there's a pic or a presence in the forums, I'll reply. But I am a man and we can't afford to be as fussy let's face it!"
She's definitely not a dude, she's too frosty with me |
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I like a veri or 2.
Just to see the people they meet and that they've turned up and are who they're claiming to be
I've met unverified men in the past though, after all we all had to start without them. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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I have no veris as not met anyone... but doesn't mean I'm not a genuine/decent guy. The fact is, everyone had no veris at some point... so I dont think it should be a big deal, there's other ways of feeling safe/secure etc. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Is a verification to you? Will you not meet someone unverified? What does it actually prove? Is this why I can't get laid!??!?
I need more coffee."
I dont believe you cant get laid haha You come accross really nice on the forum, I'd have messaged but I'm not tall enough haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 34 weeks ago
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"Is a verification to you? Will you not meet someone unverified? What does it actually prove? Is this why I can't get laid!??!?
I need more coffee.
I dont believe you cant get laid haha You come accross really nice on the forum, I'd have messaged but I'm not tall enough haha"
I come across nice? Today is not a good day so far.
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"Is a verification to you? Will you not meet someone unverified? What does it actually prove? Is this why I can't get laid!??!?
I need more coffee.
I dont believe you cant get laid haha You come accross really nice on the forum, I'd have messaged but I'm not tall enough haha
I come across nice? Today is not a good day so far.
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Put some rum on your coffee |
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"Is a verification to you? Will you not meet someone unverified? What does it actually prove? Is this why I can't get laid!??!?
I need more coffee.
I dont believe you cant get laid haha You come accross really nice on the forum, I'd have messaged but I'm not tall enough haha
I come across nice? Today is not a good day so far.
Put some rum on your coffee "
Or in it even... |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Is a verification to you? Will you not meet someone unverified? What does it actually prove? Is this why I can't get laid!??!?
I need more coffee.
I dont believe you cant get laid haha You come accross really nice on the forum, I'd have messaged but I'm not tall enough haha
I come across nice? Today is not a good day so far.
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Haha whys today not a good day? That was a compliment... im so confused haha |
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I generally only meet people who I have met at social events so they are largely irrelevant.
As above sometimes veri's are likely to put me off depending on who a person has met previously. Mostly I don't bother reading them though.
I've been verified by a woman who said hi to me when we passed in a corridor. One word, hi.
I've been verified by people at the same event who I never spoke to at all.
So yes I would meet someone with no verifications if I got the feeling the were legit. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Is a verification to you? Will you not meet someone unverified? What does it actually prove? Is this why I can't get laid!??!?
I need more coffee."
I find people are happy to meet for sex but too lazy to do a verification.Obviously not a problem for other people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 34 weeks ago
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"Is a verification to you? Will you not meet someone unverified? What does it actually prove? Is this why I can't get laid!??!?
I need more coffee.
I find people are happy to meet for sex but too lazy to do a verification.Obviously not a problem for other people."
Too lazy? Or maybe just don't need the whole world to know who they are seeing? |
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verifications dont really prove anything, i have had guys not turn up who are verified.
i do have a few, but mine are social events and I like them because it shows that the social events are fun and well might encourage others to join in |
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Not important in the slightest , never show them publicly and never read others .
I’d meet someone I liked irrespective of verified or not .
Not getting laid is probably through choice
You can never over coffee’fy |
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By *rispyDuckMan 34 weeks ago
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I won’t meet someone without veris
Im skeptical planning a meet with ‘cam only veris’
To me veris confirm they probably are 90% who they say they are. Probably are reliable to meet when we say we’ll meet & are not genuine swingers not just ‘keyboard swingers’ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 34 weeks ago
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"If a woman doesn’t have a verification after a certain period of time, I do wonder if they’re actually real or not. Especially if they’re expressing interest in me, that’s a red flag right there"
How long a time is acceptable? |
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"If a woman doesn’t have a verification after a certain period of time, I do wonder if they’re actually real or not. Especially if they’re expressing interest in me, that’s a red flag right there
How long a time is acceptable?"
5 months |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Is a verification to you? Will you not meet someone unverified? What does it actually prove? Is this why I can't get laid!??!?
I need more coffee.
I find people are happy to meet for sex but too lazy to do a verification.Obviously not a problem for other people.
Too lazy? Or maybe just don't need the whole world to know who they are seeing?"
I don’t want Hotel to know anything anymore. Because I found if you keep some things private, there’s less chance of someone trying to fuck it up. |
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"If a woman doesn’t have a verification after a certain period of time, I do wonder if they’re actually real or not. Especially if they’re expressing interest in me, that’s a red flag right there
How long a time is acceptable?"
Moot point now with all those ticks you got. Bahahaha!
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By (user no longer on site) OP 34 weeks ago
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Personally, I just don't get them. (Yeah thanks you for the verification... )
They prove they'll meet? No. They prove they've met, doesn't mean they'll meet you.
They prove they're male/female? I mean, that isn't hard to decipher yourself.
I wouldn't ever trust a strangers opinion on someone here.
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"If a woman doesn’t have a verification after a certain period of time, I do wonder if they’re actually real. Especially if they’re not expressing interest in me, that’s a red flag right there"
Too right..... that's unbelievable |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 34 weeks ago
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"If a woman doesn’t have a verification after a certain period of time, I do wonder if they’re actually real or not. Especially if they’re expressing interest in me, that’s a red flag right there
How long a time is acceptable?
Moot point now with all those ticks you got. Bahahaha!
J"
I'm going unlos soon.
Thanks brucey! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 34 weeks ago
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"I wouldn't ever trust a strangers opinion on someone here.
They’re not all strangers though. I know quite a lot people around here now. Some of them I even like."
You're all strangers to me! |
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"Personally, I just don't get them. (Yeah thanks you for the verification... )
They prove they'll meet? No. They prove they've met, doesn't mean they'll meet you.
They prove they're male/female? I mean, that isn't hard to decipher yourself.
I wouldn't ever trust a strangers opinion on someone here.
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Same. I like a lot of ours because they bring back memories. I like people saying nice things about me - external validation ftw. But at the same time I don't really give a shit about what other people read into them.
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"Personally, I just don't get them. (Yeah thanks you for the verification... )
They prove they'll meet? No. They prove they've met, doesn't mean they'll meet you.
They prove they're male/female? I mean, that isn't hard to decipher yourself.
I wouldn't ever trust a strangers opinion on someone here.
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Just do what's right for you.
Personally, I don't give a shit if people know who I've met. We're all here for our own enjoyment. What others think is irrelevant |
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I guess you have to start somewhere. Varis can be helpful when looking at a profile. If I go on a profile and find that she has a number from gym fit six packs then I bypass that particular one. I don’t have any for the simple reason I have yet to meet someone. Although I am considering clubs ( there are 2 near me) and hopefully get some social ones. I don’t attach much importance to them-other than the type of guy they go for. I like to chat for a while-then face time-hopefully that will tell me what I need to know. This is also why I won’t go miles away from home. |
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"Is a verification to you? Will you not meet someone unverified? What does it actually prove? Is this why I can't get laid!??!?
I need more coffee."
we have met people with no verifications but do like to read them. I actually met Mr after reading his verifications , although not the only reason.
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"I mean, I'd still do you. Stranger sex is hot."
I was about to say that over in the faking orgasms thread. Some people enjoy fucking strangers. Can’t rely on all that open communication stuff if you’re fucking randoms. Say in a club situation or something. |
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It's not without any value, but it's a bit like going off what people write here too.
Until I actually meet someone all I really have is an idea of them, not a real experience of them. How it feels to be around them.
It's too easy to keep things in our heads these days and forget it's just pictures and words. |
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I wouldn't ever trust a strangers opinion on someone here.
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Well, you do have to take them with a grain of salt. After all, no one would publish a bad verification. |
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