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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

its a pity we can not post time wasters then we would know straight away who to block or does this just happen to Tgirls

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No not just you it happens a lot to a lot of folks but yeh we should be abke to name and shame

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By *adybee77Woman  over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

yes, its only Tgirls who ever find timewasters... theres no other threads about it

Sadly everyone finds them - its the nature of life. I think for some people the chat and the chase on here is fun, but when it comes to crunch, they can't do it.

Naming and shaming is playground tit for tat IMHO, and would just be a slanging match.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Happens to all of us at some point I think, but just move on from it and forget them.

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By *pecifically1Woman  over a year ago

Hull


"its a pity we can not post time wasters then we would know straight away who to block or does this just happen to Tgirls"

It has been said before, it depends what you call a timewaster. someone who cancels a meet with plenty warning? someone who doesn't turn up? sometimes life gets in the way...That doesn't necessarily mean they are timewasters..

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire


"No not just you it happens a lot to a lot of folks but yeh we should be abke to name and shame"

yes we agree, that Honeystick and Hubabuba both let us down when we booked a plush hotel room..

bloody wasters..

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire


"No not just you it happens a lot to a lot of folks but yeh we should be abke to name and shame

yes we agree, that Honeystick and Hubabuba both let us down when we booked a plush hotel room..

bloody wasters..

"

now clearly we made that up..

but thats just one reason why it wont work..

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By *ensual temptressWoman  over a year ago

Southampton


"its a pity we can not post time wasters then we would know straight away who to block or does this just happen to Tgirls"

but you never turned up last night and cheek to call others time wasters ...

not true and there you have why name and shaming of no use .

if you find people are regularly not turning up to arranged meets then maybe look at your selection process and what contact you have befor meeting ect . if just happened odd time then put it down as something to learn from to stop similar happening again

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Oh goody, it must be Thursday, which means tomorrow is poets day

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You see now why naming and shaming is not a good idea.....

A plush hotel? Tsk tsk tsk That will learn you.....

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By *xodussxMan  over a year ago

sheffield

One person time waister maybee another person perfect meet

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple  over a year ago

Bolton


"No not just you it happens a lot to a lot of folks but yeh we should be abke to name and shame"

yes- you said you would meet us earlier today - didn't text or call to say you wouldn't be there - just a no show - name and shame? Nope - would never work! Z

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire


"You see now why naming and shaming is not a good idea.....

A plush hotel? Tsk tsk tsk That will learn you..... "

travel lodge really..

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

And report the alleged timewasters to admin.

Only if a firm time and place was agreed with message proof and I wasn't convinced by their reason, would I report.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just block, report and move on!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There is a reason why some people have huge problems with timewasters yet for others it isn't an issue at all.

People that find it a problem to the extent that they neeed to start threads about it need to look at what they are doing and modify their behaviour.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple  over a year ago

Bolton


"There is a reason why some people have huge problems with timewasters yet for others it isn't an issue at all.

People that find it a problem to the extent that they neeed to start threads about it need to look at what they are doing and modify their behaviour."

yep - agree - we've been swinging for about 6 years and never experienced such time wasters - we winkle them out way before any meets are organised! Z

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe an eBay rating system...

With agreement to both remove if mediation needed.

After all, people only ever show good verifications! Like job references..

I'm here all week folks!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe an eBay rating system...

With agreement to both remove if mediation needed.

After all, people only ever show good verifications! Like job references..

I'm here all week folks!"

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple  over a year ago

Bolton


"Maybe an eBay rating system...

With agreement to both remove if mediation needed.

After all, people only ever show good verifications! Like job references..

I'm here all week folks!"

it ain't that important - too open to abuse and too time consuming to police - we all should be responsible for our selection criteria. Z

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I was called a time waster many a time last night because i didn't want the majority of the responding blokes to come join our MMF

You can't fancy everyone

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple  over a year ago

Bolton


"I was called a time waster many a time last night because i didn't want the majority of the responding blokes to come join our MMF

You can't fancy everyone "

so on the ebay type ratings you would have got a right slating - that proves my point perfectly! you aren't a time waster but some have percieved you as such. Z

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was called a time waster many a time last night because i didn't want the majority of the responding blokes to come join our MMF

You can't fancy everyone

so on the ebay type ratings you would have got a right slating - that proves my point perfectly! you aren't a time waster but some have percieved you as such. Z"

Time waster - no

Fussy Bitch - YES

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By *enny PR9TV/TS  over a year ago

Southport

I don't have a problem with timewasters, my profile is designed to then out. I set my stall out, I say what I mean and stick to it.

Jenny.

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