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Who else hates being gone down on until you squirt?
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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I hate someone pretending they are keen to devour my cunt when in actuality they are goal oriented and simply want to pat themselves on the back because they’ve made me orgasm or squirt.
I purposely won’t allow myself to orgasm with someone like that. Instead I’d ask them to stop, pull out a wand and orgasm right next to them, and carry on with something else. |
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"I hate someone pretending they are keen to devour my cunt when in actuality they are goal oriented and simply want to pat themselves on the back because they’ve made me orgasm or squirt.
I purposely won’t allow myself to orgasm with someone like that. Instead I’d ask them to stop, pull out a wand and orgasm right next to them, and carry on with something else. "
I've never squirted and those who have tried tend to result in boredom, pain, and occasionally draw blood. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"I hate someone pretending they are keen to devour my cunt when in actuality they are goal oriented and simply want to pat themselves on the back because they’ve made me orgasm or squirt.
I purposely won’t allow myself to orgasm with someone like that. Instead I’d ask them to stop, pull out a wand and orgasm right next to them, and carry on with something else.
I've never squirted and those who have tried tend to result in boredom, pain, and occasionally draw blood."
Those people who are of the thought that anyone can squirt they just haven’t experienced them are annoying. Sorry you’ve had unpleasant experiences with similar types.
Do you say you have never squirted? Or that you’re bored, experiencing pain? |
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"I hate someone pretending they are keen to devour my cunt when in actuality they are goal oriented and simply want to pat themselves on the back because they’ve made me orgasm or squirt.
I purposely won’t allow myself to orgasm with someone like that. Instead I’d ask them to stop, pull out a wand and orgasm right next to them, and carry on with something else.
I've never squirted and those who have tried tend to result in boredom, pain, and occasionally draw blood.
Those people who are of the thought that anyone can squirt they just haven’t experienced them are annoying. Sorry you’ve had unpleasant experiences with similar types.
Do you say you have never squirted? Or that you’re bored, experiencing pain? "
I've never squirted. I'm not interested in it and people insist that I will.
Sometimes I get bored, sometimes my clit gets intermittent numbness and pain.
Sometimes people finger blast inside me so hard that I bleed.
I rarely if ever let anyone try anymore. |
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"But the current thread titled 'Who else loves going down on women until they squirt' indicates you're all lying. Men know best what women want and need."
Scabs in my vagina are fucking hot. Oh baby. Oh baby. |
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By *xmfrvnMan 34 weeks ago
Stoke-on-Trent |
It has become something of a trend, or challenge, a way of proving prowess when really it only sometimes happens to some vaginas. I'm sure part of it is wanting to have 'evidence' comparable to male ejaculation, in the mistaken belief that squirting is the peak of pleasure that all women can achieve. Boys will be boys i.e. not listen to women about matters they have expertise in. |
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"It has become something of a trend, or challenge, a way of proving prowess when really it only sometimes happens to some vaginas. I'm sure part of it is wanting to have 'evidence' comparable to male ejaculation, in the mistaken belief that squirting is the peak of pleasure that all women can achieve. Boys will be boys i.e. not listen to women about matters they have expertise in. "
I clench when I orgasm, and it's quite obvious |
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By *xmfrvnMan 34 weeks ago
Stoke-on-Trent |
"It has become something of a trend, or challenge, a way of proving prowess when really it only sometimes happens to some vaginas. I'm sure part of it is wanting to have 'evidence' comparable to male ejaculation, in the mistaken belief that squirting is the peak of pleasure that all women can achieve. Boys will be boys i.e. not listen to women about matters they have expertise in.
I clench when I orgasm, and it's quite obvious "
Which should be enough. |
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"It has become something of a trend, or challenge, a way of proving prowess when really it only sometimes happens to some vaginas. I'm sure part of it is wanting to have 'evidence' comparable to male ejaculation, in the mistaken belief that squirting is the peak of pleasure that all women can achieve. Boys will be boys i.e. not listen to women about matters they have expertise in.
I clench when I orgasm, and it's quite obvious
Which should be enough."
It is for anyone I meet. Those who want more, I tend to give short shrift |
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By *hoirCouple 34 weeks ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
"It's my biggest turn off, the threat of being made to squirt. I worry about being forced to lie in bed until my clitoris is numb, until I have pressure sores, until I die of starvation..."
Very Gerald's Game.
I see this as good thing personally...
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"It has become something of a trend, or challenge, a way of proving prowess when really it only sometimes happens to some vaginas. I'm sure part of it is wanting to have 'evidence' comparable to male ejaculation, in the mistaken belief that squirting is the peak of pleasure that all women can achieve. Boys will be boys i.e. not listen to women about matters they have expertise in. "
I don’t think it’s a trend or a challenge, you’re talking about a very small number of immature boys on here keep banging on about it.
Sure there are guys who love giving oral and satisfaction just like there are women love worshipping cock & making you come. That’s perfectly normal. |
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I don't squirt, I gush and I loath men who think "I'm gonna get her to do it" as I don't know how it works for other women but for me, it doesn't happen every time and like someone said further up, I don't think they actually have my pleasure in mind when attempting too, it's definitely a "look what I did!" Moment and the reality is (I did manage it once and it almost drowned said guy because he came up choking) if they did make me gush, especially the volume that can come out of me, they probably would be turned off for life, wouldn't actually be happy at being waterboarded and would probably make their dick limp. |
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By *iverstMan 34 weeks ago
Rossendale |
I love giving oral to a lady and try my best to make sure the lady is enjoying the experience as much or more than me. I constantly listen for feedback so I can adapt my actions for her enjoyment. Everything is delicately enacted because I know I am dealing with a delicate and sensitive part of her. Any more physical aspects are with my hands stroking and caressing her thighs and hips which may increase to stronger movements and embraces to give her feedback from me.
Do some ladies enjoy harder action here? I have never “finger blasted” anyone so the concept of causing soreness or actually drawing blood seems a bit alien to me.
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"I love giving oral to a lady and try my best to make sure the lady is enjoying the experience as much or more than me. I constantly listen for feedback so I can adapt my actions for her enjoyment. Everything is delicately enacted because I know I am dealing with a delicate and sensitive part of her. Any more physical aspects are with my hands stroking and caressing her thighs and hips which may increase to stronger movements and embraces to give her feedback from me.
Do some ladies enjoy harder action here? I have never “finger blasted” anyone so the concept of causing soreness or actually drawing blood seems a bit alien to me.
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Is this a job interview.... |
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The whole finger blasting thing can be quite painful and not particularly enjoyable… I don’t get the fixation on squirting and that some don’t seem to get that if I squirt it doesn’t mean I had a bloody orgasm!
Easy to say tell them… some listen for two seconds and then it’s back to what they want.
That said there are good eggs too who are total givers and pay attention. I just wish they were more common. |
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"The whole finger blasting thing can be quite painful and not particularly enjoyable… I don’t get the fixation on squirting and that some don’t seem to get that if I squirt it doesn’t mean I had a bloody orgasm!
Easy to say tell them… some listen for two seconds and then it’s back to what they want.
That said there are good eggs too who are total givers and pay attention. I just wish they were more common. "
I'll even bring a stethoscope.    |
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Nothing worse than a bloke who’s more focused on an ego boost and doing what he thinks works instead of someone who tunes into your responses and doing more of what actually works.
If anything goes on for hours, I’m not feeling it.
I’ve had men who, when I’ve adjusted my position so they’re maybe actually hitting the right spots… readjust me back. Yes mate, carry on frapping away at random body parts, see where it gets you. |
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I often chat to women on here for weeks and weeks, months perhaps, a year even... before I've met them. When that moment comes the last thing I desire is to spend hours below deck servicing the seepages from her quim when I really should be above deck, focusing on what I've been missing all those weeks, months.
I love (to devour a) pussy like the next man but I don't (necessarily) need to see it gushing like an Icelandic geyser. |
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"They’d best take a book down there as they’d be there forever. Not gonna happen
Can you turn the page for me please. My hands are busy doing other things. "
Least you won’t have to lick your finger to turn the page  |
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"I often chat to women on here for weeks and weeks, months perhaps, a year even... before I've met them. When that moment comes the last thing I desire is to spend hours below deck servicing the seepages from her quim when I really should be above deck, focusing on what I've been missing all those weeks, months.
I love (to devour a) pussy like the next man but I don't (necessarily) need to see it gushing like an Icelandic geyser."
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"It's a total turn off, I don't squirt no matter how many men state "I will" some think they hold some magic key & in reality they can't turn a light switch on never mind anything else.
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I don’t either. I have no desire to really. Seems a bit of a mess and a faff to me |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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Perhaps us guys can just focus on 'pleasing' and/or 'making the girl orgasm'... so in other words, understanding what she wants/likes and listening.
Personally, I love pleasing a woman, and its pretty obvious when she cums. If she just so happens to squirt, then so be it, I wont complain (especially if shes on top )... but I appreciate thats my kink and is totally unrelated to her experience/pleasure.
Aim on pleasing... simple! |
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By *essTTWoman 34 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"It's my biggest turn off, the threat of being made to squirt. I worry about being forced to lie in bed until my clitoris is numb, until I have pressure sores, until I die of starvation..."
I stay clear of anyone who mentions squirting
I'm not a squirter and have no intention of being bullied into trying to do it |
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"I often chat to women on here for weeks and weeks, months perhaps, a year even... before I've met them. When that moment comes the last thing I desire is to spend hours below deck servicing the seepages from her quim when I really should be above deck, focusing on what I've been missing all those weeks, months.
I love (to devour a) pussy like the next man but I don't (necessarily) need to see it gushing like an Icelandic geyser."
We said sir.
And a very balanced point, as of course some women do delight in said experiences too. There's a simple solution - do not presume to know their mind - have the conversation and listen.
I have had experiences where women have squirted. Not one of those experiences came about because of an attempt to achieve that as a goal. Nor do I consider it to have any relation to prowess or sexual aptitude. |
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To much fake porn gives people unrealistic views on sex and what women enjoy.
If men want to pay me thousands then I'll drink a few litres of water, force a fake smile and even throw in a few fake moans.Lay back think of Wales and then put the icing on top of the cake and piss out all the water I've d*unk.
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I can’t even stress how much I hate this whole discussion, and I see it over and over again.
So I’ll put it straight from my perspective: oral and so called “squirting” are two totally different things. One can lead to orgasm, other one DOESN’T. So called “squirting” will most likely happen during certain positions and it’s nothing but loosing control over my bladder because it just only happened since I started perimenopause, not because guy has a special set of skills or magic tool.
Needless to say, it makes me feel extremely uncomfortable and embarrassed when it happens, to the point I stopped having sex because of this. And the most important thing is I DON’T ORGASM when it happens but majority will just assume I did and usually it’s when everything stops and they got their badge.
Again, it’s only from my personal experience and may not be the case for other women. |
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"I can’t even stress how much I hate this whole discussion, and I see it over and over again.
So I’ll put it straight from my perspective: oral and so called “squirting” are two totally different things. One can lead to orgasm, other one DOESN’T. So called “squirting” will most likely happen during certain positions and it’s nothing but loosing control over my bladder because it just only happened since I started perimenopause, not because guy has a special set of skills or magic tool.
Needless to say, it makes me feel extremely uncomfortable and embarrassed when it happens, to the point I stopped having sex because of this. And the most important thing is I DON’T ORGASM when it happens but majority will just assume I did and usually it’s when everything stops and they got their badge.
Again, it’s only from my personal experience and may not be the case for other women."
Exactly this, Mrs x |
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"It's my biggest turn-off, the threat of being made to squirt. I worry about being forced to lie in bed until my clitoris is numb until I have pressure sores until I die of starvation..."
Thank you so much for saying it. What's the hurry? There is a prize involved? I hate it. |
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