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Lots of thoughts on this after the Netflix series Bridgerton cast a couple where the man is perfect weight and the lady he woos is certainly overweight. Talk of Mixed Weight relationships, weight shaming and even toxic fatphobic commentary whatever that is. Is this really an issue. It's all over the news |
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At the time plumpness was a sign of wealth and comfort, and so probably considered more of a positive.
Plus, she does have cracking norks.
People are attracted to different body types to themselves sometimes.
I don't generally find my kind of hourglass on a male torso as attractive as I find it on another woman. When I lost 8 stone I didn't suddenly become more attracted to skinny people  |
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I guess that's just the Internet for you. People will bitch and moan about anything and everything, especially if it doesn't affect them in the slightest.
My opinion, as long as who you're attracted to is of legal age, nothing else matters |
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"I prefer a man taller, fatter and broader than me, I think it's a primative feeling, but one I struggle to let go of  Alas, I have found my audience to be extremely sparse 
Ahem"
Ohhhhh hello... I was referring to the dating world... |
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"I prefer a man taller, fatter and broader than me, I think it's a primative feeling, but one I struggle to let go of Alas, I have found my audience to be extremely sparse
Ahem
Ohhhhh hello... I was referring to the dating world... "
ahhh right.
I get ya now.
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By *ripfillMan 34 weeks ago
Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant |
"At the time plumpness was a sign of wealth and comfort, and so probably considered more of a positive.
Plus, she does have cracking norks.
People are attracted to different body types to themselves sometimes.
I don't generally find my kind of hourglass on a male torso as attractive as I find it on another woman. When I lost 8 stone I didn't suddenly become more attracted to skinny people "
Wow that’s a great achievement … probably one of the hardest things ever to do
Your brain takes over a year to recognise your new weight and shape - thus making it so easy to put it back on again
Big respect |
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By *batMan 34 weeks ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
If I wanted to loose eight stone, I'd probably have to cut some limbs off!
BUT ....
Can I jump on the bandwagon please? I'm working hard at it and I've lost 9.2 kg since March.
For Tom, that'd be 1 and a half stone, a measurement system sometimes referred to as Imperial, because good ol' Blighty once ruled most of the globe and we had the best ever defeat at Dunkirk.
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"If I wanted to loose eight stone, I'd probably have to cut some limbs off!
BUT ....
Can I jump on the bandwagon please? I'm working hard at it and I've lost 9.2 kg since March.
For Tom, that'd be 1 and a half stone, a measurement system sometimes referred to as Imperial, because good ol' Blighty once ruled most of the globe and we had the best ever defeat at Dunkirk.
Gbat "
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By *batMan 34 weeks ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
"Mrs Wick and I are now actual freaks to be commented about? She’s tiny, I’m huge.
Photos or it's not true.
Gbat
What do you need photos for? "
I don't. I just think our styles of humour might be different, sorry.
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"Mrs Wick and I are now actual freaks to be commented about? She’s tiny, I’m huge.
Photos or it's not true.
Gbat
What do you need photos for?
I don't. I just think our styles of humour might be different, sorry.
Gbat"
You have humour Batty ? |
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"Lots of thoughts on this after the Netflix series Bridgerton cast a couple where the man is perfect weight and the lady he woos is certainly overweight. Talk of Mixed Weight relationships, weight shaming and even toxic fatphobic commentary whatever that is. Is this really an issue. It's all over the news"
I was in a relationship that was mixed weight, mixed age, mixed nationality and same sex
There were more people frustrated by the weight difference than anything
It's just a nonsense
The notion that if you are gym fit you can only fancy other gym fit people is ridiculous |
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We couldn't be any different weight-wise, if we tried. 20yrs later and it seems to work pretty well. Now you add "disabled" in with the "fat" label and you get some wonderful insults aimed at Mr KC. |
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By *essTTWoman 34 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"Lots of thoughts on this after the Netflix series Bridgerton cast a couple where the man is perfect weight and the lady he woos is certainly overweight. Talk of Mixed Weight relationships, weight shaming and even toxic fatphobic commentary whatever that is. Is this really an issue. It's all over the news"
Who said the man was the 'perfect weight' did they check his BMI? |
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TV shows mostly make out that no skinny bloke wants to be with a fat bird do they? Unless it's to make fun of and mock, so to see it like it's perfectly normal (which it is!) is refreshing, which reminds me, I need to watch bridgerton lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Lots of thoughts on this after the Netflix series Bridgerton cast a couple where the man is perfect weight and the lady he woos is certainly overweight. Talk of Mixed Weight relationships, weight shaming and even toxic fatphobic commentary whatever that is. Is this really an issue. It's all over the news"
If you look her up, she's far from overweight. She wears a 10/12 and is 5ft1. She just stands next to very thin and taller girls in all her shows |
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"Lots of thoughts on this after the Netflix series Bridgerton cast a couple where the man is perfect weight and the lady he woos is certainly overweight. Talk of Mixed Weight relationships, weight shaming and even toxic fatphobic commentary whatever that is. Is this really an issue. It's all over the news
If you look her up, she's far from overweight. She wears a 10/12 and is 5ft1. She just stands next to very thin and taller girls in all her shows "
And she's the only reason that I would watch that show  |
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