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How do you like to be approached
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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"How do you like to be approached?"
From in front. If you come up behind me I am likely to jump, or swing round an thump you (nervous disposition or ticklish)  |
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FAF is straight to the point and so is..........
Hello, I'm Tom - I've read your profile and see that we are looking for the same kind of meets in similar areas.
If you read my profile and think that it'd be a good idea to speak further on this get back to me.
Have a great day.
( change the wording of the above according to the perceived personality of individuals )
I just won't do yards and miles and light years of nattering tho ..... |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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"FAF is straight to the point and so is..........
Hello, I'm Tom - I've read your profile and see that we are looking for the same kind of meets in similar areas.
If you read my profile and think that it'd be a good idea to speak further on this get back to me.
Have a great day.
( change the wording of the above according to the perceived personality of individuals )
I just won't do yards and miles and light years of nattering tho ....."
Good start... Think I will copy and paste lol |
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Think how you would approach someone in a pub or at an event and how you strike up a conversation there.
FAF, graphic descriptions, copy and paste and three pics normally gets you a block or delete
Hwuu2 is pretty common however its hit and miss for a reply |
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Normally. No graphic message, no one word messages… just say hi, introduce themselves a little etc.
Oh preferably no dick pic, but I can overlook that if the message contains other pictures.
But if said dick pic is flacid and hairy or inside someone else….yeh that’s a delete. |
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No problem if their profile is larder full of interesting information and reasons why our fantasies or personality match. Then a quick ‘Hi’ message or something along the lines of, let’s talk.
But a Hi with no profile pictures, text or verifications is a tendency in my inbox.  |
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We do like straight to the point but do like a chat first also to make sure we are on the same page. We really don't like long chats for weeks on end and especially dirty text chat... that definitely isn't our thing at all. |
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"How do you expect the first message you receive from another person on fab to be.
Do you like it straight to the point of a meet or would you rather them say 'hi' etc?"
Neither tbh OP.
A conversation is always good |
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I like a message that shows they've read my profile & are what if be looking for.
I don't like crude or graphic 1st messages, it's an instant delete. Same with those asking to meet when we've never spoken before. |
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"How do you expect the first message you receive from another person on fab to be.
Do you like it straight to the point of a meet or would you rather them say 'hi' etc?
More than one word. "
… 2 isn’t much better … just had “hello you” |
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By *otSoPoshWoman 22 weeks ago
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Honestly, it entirely depends on my mood at the moment I open the message (ignoring, for the moment, that I very rarely look in my inbox).
If I like the look of the profile, just a "Hi, how are you?" might spur me to an answer. But if I'm not in the right head space to reply, I won't even if it looks like a well thought out, perfectly matching message from someone who ticks all my boxes.
The best messaging advice anyone can give is to be yourself, and just hope that the person you are sending the message to is in a receptive place and feels you're someone they'd like to talk to.
And don't take a lack of reply personally. Because it can't be... the stranger you sent a message to doesn't know you either. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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I just won't do yards and miles and light years of nattering tho ....."
I received a message once from a person that quoted my profile sentence by sentence with an associated reply. If you’ve read my profile it’s miles and miles. This was doubly so. It was one of the strangest opening messages ever. I didn’t know if it was a critique of my profile in school essay review format or what to make of the approach.
I deleted it without reply in the end. |
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Personality I prefer a norm as l conversation then we would compliment each others pictures etc.
I’ve found there’s no real attraction until meeting for the first time outside, then the flirting can begin naturally |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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"Anything realy, I assume any message in my inbox or face to face is a polite icebreaker. "
Haha. And to follow on, unlike the message I might have recieved a few moments ago.
*if you can read this, you are a complete asshole if you think saying that to me then blocking me before I can deal with a wanker who doesn’t give me a chance to come back at you with my own humourous observation of your looks and build is brave. Act like an adult dickhead this place is normally for grown ups.
I would reply that^IF I recieved a bad icebreaker |
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"How do you expect the first message you receive from another person on fab to be.
Do you like it straight to the point of a meet or would you rather them say 'hi' etc?"
We won’t meet anyone who approaches us. So we like people to read the profile and show respect. |
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99% of the messages I get from women and couples are along the lines of a simple 'hi, how are you' and that's totally fine for me. It's usually clear in about three messages what direction things are going in and I don't over think it.
If I send a message it's usually no more than two lines and probably references the reason I'm messaging. Most of my messages get replies but I don't send many. |
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Yes we just love the 1st message to be,hi,how's yous,what you looking for(hint read our profile)
It actually gives you a good idea what we are looking for.
Then the pics.multible cock shots just from different angles or up against a lynx can or a sky remote.
You then take a look at their profile,and what do you know they are complaining about how hard it is to get a meet on here.
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