Alright so I'm debating about posting pics of my body. Now I'm in no way six-pack bod but more with dad body/beer belly.. with loads of freckle spots and honestly I dunno if it would be worth while or not to post. Any advise would be welcome cause I don't want to see myself as turning people off ... if I make sense... |
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Its your profile lovely but I always have this rule of thumb, if your gut is telling you something (which it obviously is or you would just do it) listen to it.
Posting body pics can be liberating but at the same time not so much, angles are a huge factor for a start.
Try taking some and see how you feel but like I say, play about with angles, don't just stand in front of a mirror and hope for the best because I'm sure if 99% of us did that we wouldn't be happy with the results at first. |
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"Its your profile lovely but I always have this rule of thumb, if your gut is telling you something (which it obviously is or you would just do it) listen to it.
Posting body pics can be liberating but at the same time not so much, angles are a huge factor for a start.
Try taking some and see how you feel but like I say, play about with angles, don't just stand in front of a mirror and hope for the best because I'm sure if 99% of us did that we wouldn't be happy with the results at first."
Appreciate it x there should be a bondour shoot for men  |
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By *igR93Man 34 weeks ago
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"Alright so I'm debating about posting pics of my body. Now I'm in no way six-pack bod but more with dad body/beer belly.. with loads of freckle spots and honestly I dunno if it would be worth while or not to post. Any advise would be welcome cause I don't want to see myself as turning people off ... if I make sense..."
Some/most people love dad bods! |
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Lighting and angles my good man. All about the lighting and angles. I'm no Greek adonis either, but I found a few guides to help with "poses" to make you feel more comfortable and confident.
Do people like my pics? Dunno. Stopped caring really. They can always move on to the next washboard with no personality if that's all they're after |
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"Lighting and angles my good man. All about the lighting and angles. I'm no Greek adonis either, but I found a few guides to help with "poses" to make you feel more comfortable and confident.
Do people like my pics? Dunno. Stopped caring really. They can always move on to the next washboard with no personality if that's all they're after "
Haha its ironic I take pictures of fast moving machines for showmen at fairgrounds and I can't even figure out my own body |
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At least give your target audience an idea, as you're hoping to get naked with them, so they will see it anyway. No point in getting (or almost getting) to a meet and them finding you are not for them. Stick with those that like a dad bod. |
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Just do what you want to do and what you feel comfortable with.
I posted a full body pic that shows my imperfections and it was liberating in a way. I chose to do that rather than risk someone being shocked in the flesh
But you can do whatever you want to do on here. |
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"At least give your target audience an idea, as you're hoping to get naked with them, so they will see it anyway. No point in getting (or almost getting) to a meet and them finding you are not for them. Stick with those that like a dad bod."
Verry true
It's inevitable anyway lol |
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"I think everyone feels insecure about body photos, hope you feel happier now you've posted one.
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I do. As I've put in my bio. Mainly socials for me at this stage. Anything else is a.bonus in my eyes. |
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"I think a lot of people put filters on face and body pics on here. A nice face is more important than a good body to me, but everyone is different. Just do what you are comfortable with."
Not a filters person myself. It's untrue. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 34 weeks ago
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The main problem with not posting body photos on your profile is that the majority will, at some point, want to see them. So it's often in your best interest to at least have clothed shots up, even if you keep the nudes hidden.
There's no end of threads seen where someone says 'it was all going well til I sent them a face pic'. Imagine having twice the problem by not having a clear body shot either.
Many go by visuals when browsing. Or will at least want some before any chat moves to a potential meet. Giving yourself a head start can only help you. Even if it's to prevent someone letting you down later after what may have appeared to be encouraging conversations. |
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"The main problem with not posting body photos on your profile is that the majority will, at some point, want to see them. So it's often in your best interest to at least have clothed shots up, even if you keep the nudes hidden.
There's no end of threads seen where someone says 'it was all going well til I sent them a face pic'. Imagine having twice the problem by not having a clear body shot either.
Many go by visuals when browsing. Or will at least want some before any chat moves to a potential meet. Giving yourself a head start can only help you. Even if it's to prevent someone letting you down later after what may have appeared to be encouraging conversations. "
Appreciate the input!!! |
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