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By (user no longer on site) OP 34 weeks ago
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Dose anyone actually have any luck using this site?
It’s pretty dead I’d say use to be more activity and engagement nowadays seems people just use it for attention/validation and there’s barely anyone who’d actually be down to meet at least where I’m from anyway |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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No one has had any person just randomly fall into their laps on Fab. Virtually perhaps but not physically.
To think it’s that easy would be unwise.
Give people a reason to want to connect with you outside of Fab. |
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"Fortune flavours the best soldiers. (Floating cross-legged two feet off the ground).
Wtf  "
I take it that you've never heard that phrase? It basically means that the better you are the luckier you get.
The floating cross legged off the ground is a reference to wisdom. |
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By *ags73Man 34 weeks ago
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"I think relying on luck rather than charisma is probably a bad shout for this sort of thing  "
Yep. To an extent, you have to make an effort and think through what you’re doing.
There’s no wall to wall, floor to ceiling supply of available clunge for anyone and luck isn’t a factor.
It’s the repeated advice, go to organised socials, go to clubs without expectations and use your words. |
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I use sex for validation.
I have so many notches on my bedpost it collapsed and I had to get a new one.
I'm just here for the casual socialising. I'm terrible at maintaining friendships. I tend to only have fairly deep relationships with a few people.
I met someone a while ago from Chester, I think it was from here. |
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"I think relying on luck rather than charisma is probably a bad shout for this sort of thing
This is most certainly true!  "
Exactly that isn’t it. It’s the polar opposite of luck and to be frank thats probably why you aren’t getting the immediate results you expected OP as it’s not like that at all. I’m not saying it’s easy but it’s a lot deeper than saying you’re relying on luck. The genuine people will understand others won’t. |
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Don't think it's really that hard on here tbh. I've been actively swinging again for three weeks tomorrow, I've sent 2 messages and attended one social, I've had 10 meets from 1 couple and 3 women, that's a similar ratio to when I decided I was swinging before. I'm a single guy and deliberately stayed away from people I already know. So it's not impossible. |
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People actively meet, just because they aren’t meeting you doesn’t mean they don’t.
A lot of people go to clubs and don’t use fab to organise meeting others.
People complain about not getting any luck on fab yet rely on it too much. Get yourself to a social or a club. |
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"Dose anyone actually have any luck using this site?
It’s pretty dead I’d say use to be more activity and engagement nowadays seems people just use it for attention/validation and there’s barely anyone who’d actually be down to meet at least where I’m from anyway "
I actively meet. It probably differs a lot from person to person and what they want to get out of the site.
My goal was to engage with swinging as a lifestyle and a community so I worked towards that more so than individual meets. Now I have a good friendship group with a sex positive outlook and an extended network of contacts that host regular private events and parties.
My preference is for FWB style relationships and I have by and large found what I want. |
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"I use sex for validation.
I have so many notches on my bedpost it collapsed and I had to get a new one.
I'm just here for the casual socialising. I'm terrible at maintaining friendships. I tend to only have fairly deep relationships with a few people.
I met someone a while ago from Chester, I think it was from here. "
I have a vision of your bedpost with so many notches that during refractory periods you entertain your bedroom guests by playing it like a guiro. |
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"No one has had any person just randomly fall into their laps on Fab. Virtually perhaps but not physically.
To think it’s that easy would be unwise.
Give people a reason to want to connect with you outside of Fab. "
Tell them you have a 12 inch cock and it comes with a complimentary wagon wheel 
Ok I lied about the wagon wheel. |
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I think it's just me on this thread who isn't taking the OP quite so literally. I would wager that he isn't inferring his (or anyone else's success) is based solely on luck. 
It's just a figure of speech.  |
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"I think it's just me on this thread who isn't taking the OP quite so literally. I would wager that he isn't inferring his (or anyone else's success) is based solely on luck.
It's just a figure of speech. "
I would agree with this |
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"No one has had any person just randomly fall into their laps on Fab. Virtually perhaps but not physically.
To think it’s that easy would be unwise.
Give people a reason to want to connect with you outside of Fab. "
Truth- you make your own luck, if your looking for easy try tinder! Lol |
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By *oxy jWoman 34 weeks ago
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theres no ''luck'' or ''magic'' your either wanted or not ie sexual attraction is key but by no mean the only thing ... its a rejection selection scene and sadly because of the sheer number of men compared to few couples and women thats alot of rejected men just from simple maths ...
put simply the is NOT someone for everyone on this scene and even though there are men a plenty its still hard for women and couples to find that attraction as they wont be interested in 99.99% of men simp;e cause of attraction/ and other stuff too |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Fortune flavours the best soldiers. (Floating cross-legged two feet off the ground).
Wtf
I take it that you've never heard that phrase? It basically means that the better you are the luckier you get.
The floating cross legged off the ground is a reference to wisdom. "
Yea, no, I've never heard that specific reference and have googled too
Suppose I'll give the benefit of the doubt and not think that you're taking the piss out of the OP |
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The male experience is different to the female experience so I can't comment on "luck", but I do know that people have been complaining that the site was better/ easier for all the time I've been here - years and years now. |
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"Fortune flavours the best soldiers. (Floating cross-legged two feet off the ground).
Wtf
I take it that you've never heard that phrase? It basically means that the better you are the luckier you get.
The floating cross legged off the ground is a reference to wisdom. "
I've heard of fortune favours the brave. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Fortune flavours the best soldiers. (Floating cross-legged two feet off the ground).
Wtf
I take it that you've never heard that phrase? It basically means that the better you are the luckier you get.
The floating cross legged off the ground is a reference to wisdom.
I've heard of fortune favours the brave."
Or the foolish  |
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"Fortune flavours the best soldiers. (Floating cross-legged two feet off the ground).
Wtf
I take it that you've never heard that phrase? It basically means that the better you are the luckier you get.
The floating cross legged off the ground is a reference to wisdom.
I've heard of fortune favours the brave.
Or the foolish "
Or maybe "fortune favours the bold"! Jeez |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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Nothing just falls into our lap without putting the effort in to getting it.
It’s about communication, everyone needs that to see if they can see a click with someone.
Good luck though OP |
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"I think it's just me on this thread who isn't taking the OP quite so literally. I would wager that he isn't inferring his (or anyone else's success) is based solely on luck.
It's just a figure of speech.
I would agree with this "
There I was, thinking it was rhyming slang! |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Fortune flavours the best soldiers. (Floating cross-legged two feet off the ground).
Wtf
I take it that you've never heard that phrase? It basically means that the better you are the luckier you get.
The floating cross legged off the ground is a reference to wisdom.
I've heard of fortune favours the brave.
Or the foolish
Or maybe "fortune favours the bold"! Jeez"
We will get there in the end but all work |
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