I try to avoid discussing blowjobs with a new partner, as I rarely cum from a bj, and if I mention I can't, it's like a challenge to most which leads to disappointment if I have to ask her to move on to something else......  |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Shit at finding the best point to stop foreplay and stick a condom on "
Yeah when ever is that an easy one?
Handjobs and fingering.
Think I’m a bit shit, try cover my faults with oral  |
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I am so not a stunt-cock. It's the demisexual thing. The only time in my youth I could have casual sex, was when I was into the whole house clubbing scene and I was already dopamined up to the eyeballs.
It was a standing joke with my drinking friends they would give me shit all the time  . We were in some proper cattle-market in Essex and they were laying into me saying they've never seen me pull and a I can't do it. I bit and said ok put your money where your mouths are and pick someone on the dancefloor. I had to get a snog was the criteria and they picked a girl out.
I full on pulled her with the Austin powers lasso routine. Snogged her took the £100 from the bet and introduced her to my mate, who took her home and fucked her. They never gave me any shit after that.
I felt nothing. She was very attractive physically, but she was ready to go and I was feeling nothing. I honestly don't think of it in terms of prowess its all a consequence of the connection with the other person. Unless you throw other people into the mix, that can blur the line slightly. |
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"Shit at finding the best point to stop foreplay and stick a condom on
Yeah when ever is that an easy one?
Handjobs and fingering.
Think I’m a bit shit, try cover my faults with oral "
Play to your strengths, always a winner  |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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I love the build up, the chatting, flirting, just getting to the point where you just can't wait to take it further.
It's important to remember we are not pornstars, it's natural and we might not click it happens.
But it's fun finding out!
Been fortunate to meet some wonderful people on here. Hope it continues.  |
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"What would you say is your worst subject when it comes to all the sexual shenanigans"
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That period of uncertainty, bewilderment and doubt when, following a joyous date, I'm still none the wiser on how I broach the subject of "sexual shenanigans". |
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By *sguy2Man 34 weeks ago
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"Feeling self-conscious of all my wobbly bits when he wants to take off my sexy lingerie, so that he can kiss and caress my bare skin  "
Chances are he wouldn’t want to be taking off your clothes if he didn’t find you and all of your wobbly bits attractive and so my advice would be to just relax about that in future. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Feeling self-conscious of all my wobbly bits when he wants to take off my sexy lingerie, so that he can kiss and caress my bare skin
If its blue then leave it on.  "
I don't think that will make a difference CG  He likes to take it off me, whatever the colour |
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69's - I can't multitask
Playing it cool - if I fancy someone I tell them, and if it's reciprocated, suggest getting naked at the soonest possible moment.
Being seductive - lap dances/strip teasing etc.... I'm far too awkward and will suggest getting naked at the soonest possible moment instead.
General flirting - yeah, I dive in with that naked suggestion again.
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"69's - I can't multitask
Playing it cool - if I fancy someone I tell them, and if it's reciprocated, suggest getting naked at the soonest possible moment.
Being seductive - lap dances/strip teasing etc.... I'm far too awkward and will suggest getting naked at the soonest possible moment instead.
General flirting - yeah, I dive in with that naked suggestion again.
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If it's not broken... |
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I’m completely hopeless at picking up sexual signals - at clubs, chatting etc,. I’ve had friends literally hit me over the head - “you idiot, they wanted you to follow them to the jacuzzi” “dude, that woman was flirting so hard, she was practically begging you to take her to a playroom” Husbands after the action… “you should have come over and joined in, she really wanted to suck your dick”. hot Wife.. “ you haven’t taken me to play for ages, don’t you fancy me anymore”
I’m fucking hopeless. So fucking courteous, I need to be hit on the head and dragged away to be forced upon - kinda reverse caveman thing. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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What would you say is your worst subject when it comes to all the sexual shenanigans "
I will discuss anything with somebody I care about or care for I feel that I’m friendly enough that I can have an open discussion.
I won’t have an open discussion on, because there’s always some smart arse that knows better.
…. And they might do.
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"Getting undressed without being clumsy or awkward.
Maybe one day I’ll manage it without a foot getting stuck in my trousers or my top strangling me as I try to take it off  "
Hahaha trust me in that moment us men dont see you as clumsy |
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"I'm with you there, I cant deep throat either, but it always seems to be something you have to do, I swear one day I'm gonna throw up ???????????????"
woukdnt have to do that with me, i prefer giving oral |
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My weakness is going from the usual oral & vaginal sex to anal. I find ladies willing to perform anal but my cock is too thick to slide in.
There's always a downside to everything.
I hope I made all the blokes with small cocks feel a bit better. |
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By *rPunxMan 34 weeks ago
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"I’m completely hopeless at picking up sexual signals - at clubs, chatting etc,. I’ve had friends literally hit me over the head - “you idiot, they wanted you to follow them to the jacuzzi” “dude, that woman was flirting so hard, she was practically begging you to take her to a playroom” Husbands after the action… “you should have come over and joined in, she really wanted to suck your dick”. hot Wife.. “ you haven’t taken me to play for ages, don’t you fancy me anymore”
I’m fucking hopeless. So fucking courteous, I need to be hit on the head and dragged away to be forced upon - kinda reverse caveman thing."
yeah same here.to worried I'm gonna come across as a persistent creep. They literally have to tell me they want to |
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"What would you say is your worst subject when it comes to all the sexual shenanigans
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That period of uncertainty, bewilderment and doubt when, following a joyous date, I'm still none the wiser on how I broach the subject of "sexual shenanigans"."
‘would you like to take things further’ sorted |
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"What would you say is your worst subject when it comes to all the sexual shenanigans
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That period of uncertainty, bewilderment and doubt when, following a joyous date, I'm still none the wiser on how I broach the subject of "sexual shenanigans".
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‘would you like to take things further’ sorted "
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Simplicity is the thief of my joy. Thank you my passionflower.
And the answer is a wholehearted YES! |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"I'm with you there, I cant deep throat either, but it always seems to be something you have to do, I swear one day I'm gonna throw up ???????????????"
Hi lovely, just remember...you never ever "have to do" anything that you don't feel comfortable with. Deep-throating can indeed be a very pleasurable sensation, but make sure he knows that you're the one in control of it.
Everyone will have their own method, but for me it's a normal blow job, with short intermittant spells of deep-throating. I'll lightly put my hand around the base of his cock, to act as a kind of safety guard until I'm comfortable with how much I can take in.
And, if he decides to hold your head and encourage you to go deeper... which again, can be very pleasurable ...but if you feel uncomfortable with it, at anytime, you can either put your hand on top of his and hold it there, indicating to him to stop doing that. Or simply stop what you're doing and honestly tell him. It's about your pleasure and comfort too, not just his.
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