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By *elta12 OP Man 14 weeks ago
Ayrshire |
I've been with my wife for over 7 years now and our sex life is going good. But wanting to spice things up a bit. I've been asking her about her past sex experiences with her ex who she was with for about 10 years. at first she didn't want to say anything as she hated her ex but he was so controlling and manipulative that she only had sex with him to shut him up. Only recently she has loosened up a bit cause I told her it turns me on about what she got up to. Some of the things she said she has done is having sex in the sea surrounded by people, sex in the dunes at irvin beach giving roadhead. Now I'd love to do all this and more with her but she said that she was young and dumb back then.
Anyone got any ideas of what more mischief we can get up to? I like the idea of getting caught or someone secretly watching us. And ones that don't involve other people as she only has eyes for me and she won't allow me to play with others either sorry that's her preference and better stick to it.
Sorry for the long post and look forward to the replies. |
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By *elta12 OP Man 14 weeks ago
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"If your sex life is going good, why isn't that good enough for you?"
Cause now I know what she has done in the past I'd like to be more adventurous want to do stuff outside of the bedroom as I've held back in case she thought I was a sex pest or something. We have sex once a week we happy with that and we make it count just want to spice things up a bit. |
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"If your sex life is going good, why isn't that good enough for you?
Cause now I know what she has done in the past I'd like to be more adventurous want to do stuff outside of the bedroom as I've held back in case she thought I was a sex pest or something. We have sex once a week we happy with that and we make it count just want to spice things up a bit."
As I said what kind of things does she like? When you discuss it what does she say she'd like to try? We might be able to come up with some more ideas that would work for both of you |
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Would watching some different types of porn together work? You could each choose a genre and see how you felt about it.
How about some good old fashioned porn magazines (do they still exist)?
Things like that can get a conversation going or make it easier for someone to say they would like to try something |
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"Why ask her about her ex if he was controlling and manipulative and only had sex with him to shut him up?
Ever thought she wants to totally forget about it and you're making her relive it.
Jeez"
Glad I wasn't the only 1 thinking that! |
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By *elta12 OP Man 14 weeks ago
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She said she likes getting tied up touched and tickled I need to do more on this I know. I'm thinking of more of when we are out and about as I like the thought of getting caught but not wanting to if you know what I mean I like the thrill. |
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