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The rise in good girls.
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By *ruceyy OP Man 34 weeks ago
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Honestly, most people I have dirty talked to recently have all been about being called a good girl.
Which is good. Very good. Good of the girls to like being called good girls.
This includes women older then me. Now I know previously some people have been outraged at these kind of posts because yes, you're women, and you're awesome. But it's kink isn't it. And no one likes a kink shamer. Horny mode isn't the same as everyday good morning miss mode.
So boys, noticed a rise? Like it? And women - thoughts, I ask hesitantly...  |
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It’s all about context. In the right moment then for me, it’s ok but it doesn’t really do much for me. It is however, better than being called a “dirty slut” or similar which makes me drier than the Sahara  |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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I'm not a fan of a lot of talking during sex, just shut up and get on with it.
But if he's gonna push me against the wall whilst sliding his hand between my legs and whispering such things, I wouldn't complain. |
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I’m not sure about dirty chatting, B. I’m too busy having sex.
I haven’t noticed a difference with people in person though if that helps with your research. I think for me being called a good girl would very much depend on who is saying it and whether they have that thing about them that makes it sexy. Sometimes the wrong person can say it and I shrivel up like a limpet in the sun.
I’m not a fan of saying it to women either. I don’t have that thing about me that would make it sexy it would be weird for both of us. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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For me personally, pretty cringe worthy.
I have no problem saying how I feel or what I want to do to said person but name calling isn’t my thing really.
But each to their own. |
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"For me personally, pretty cringe worthy.
I have no problem saying how I feel or what I want to do to said person but name calling isn’t my thing really.
But each to their own."
It's my kryptonite! |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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I can't say I've ever been in a situation where I've called a woman a bad/good girl depending on their turn on. I feel like my anus would crawl up my throat just asking |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"For me personally, pretty cringe worthy.
I have no problem saying how I feel or what I want to do to said person but name calling isn’t my thing really.
But each to their own.
It's my kryptonite!"
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"For me personally, pretty cringe worthy.
I have no problem saying how I feel or what I want to do to said person but name calling isn’t my thing really.
But each to their own.
It's my kryptonite!"
Its her kryptonite too  |
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"Honestly, most people I have dirty talked to recently have all been about being called a good girl.
Which is good. Very good. Good of the girls to like being called good girls.
This includes women older then me. Now I know previously some people have been outraged at these kind of posts because yes, you're women, and you're awesome. But it's kink isn't it. And no one likes a kink shamer. Horny mode isn't the same as everyday good morning miss mode.
So boys, noticed a rise? Like it? And women - thoughts, I ask hesitantly... "
No it’s just framing bias and only fan models milking a fetish. |
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By *ruceyy OP Man 34 weeks ago
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"It’s all about context. In the right moment then for me, it’s ok but it doesn’t really do much for me. It is however, better than being called a “dirty slut” or similar which makes me drier than the Sahara "
Sorry side note - you're hot! |
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"Why-ever would you want to be a good girl? Being a bad girl is much more fun. 
Some women love the idea of pleasing their guy and being called good girl when they do"
That’s not how that fetish works unless it’s cosplay. |
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"Why-ever would you want to be a good girl? Being a bad girl is much more fun.
Some women love the idea of pleasing their guy and being called good girl when they do
That’s not how that fetish works unless it’s cosplay."
No idea of the fetish or cosplay, just my own experience of women and what they like |
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By *eliWoman 34 weeks ago
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I'm not sure if there's a rise in it, just that it's more openly discussed. More used in raunchy literature, in memes, films etc.
I'm a clichéd millennial overachiever, of course I have a praise kink. And like being called a good girl.
I want it from someone who suits saying it, who I want to hear it from, said like it's really meant. Not in some fake growly sex voice, more a natural thing to say. Say I'm with someone and then I do something that has them thrusting in to me with a need to come. Reach the base of their cock. Clench them as I come around their cock. Or even if it's uttered when their fingers slip between my thighs and they discover how wet I am.
I also don't want it if it's just a standard line said to women during sex. That's dull. I like when there's a possessive thrown in front of it, makes it more personal... intentional.
Like "My good girl" rather than just "good girl".
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There are people who will start a fist fight if you put milk in before the tea, and others who swear it’s the correct way. Others will say milk is wrong and it should be a slice of lemon.
Human nature is all about the quirks and differences we have.
I am not a girl. I am not good. I have been called a good girl a few times and hated it. Precisely once in my life, the right man said it at the right moment & it turned me feral. I have no idea why.
I’ll psychoanalyse it once my hormones settle down. |
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I personally love it but it has to be said at the right time by the right person. There's nothing wrong with having a praise kink, like everything it's each to their own. Unfortunately it's another one of those things that gets people rilled up because they don't like it  |
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"I personally love it but it has to be said at the right time by the right person. There's nothing wrong with having a praise kink, like everything it's each to their own. Unfortunately it's another one of those things that gets people rilled up because they don't like it "
Some people just get it. It must be near impossible to try and understand if you don’t get it. |
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"I personally love it but it has to be said at the right time by the right person. There's nothing wrong with having a praise kink, like everything it's each to their own. Unfortunately it's another one of those things that gets people rilled up because they don't like it
Some people just get it. It must be near impossible to try and understand if you don’t get it."
Thank you for being inciteful. You are spot on. It's a v specific moment that 1 person can say those words and make the other euphoric. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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Being called a good girl is the fastest way to finding yourself thrusting into a dry hole. There’s something associated with little girl aesthetics in my mind around being called a good girl and that just puts me right off.
There are far more things I like being called, by the right person at the right time, that don’t include girl. |
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"Being called a good girl is the fastest way to finding yourself thrusting into a dry hole. There’s something associated with little girl aesthetics in my mind around being called a good girl and that just puts me right off.
There are far more things I like being called, by the right person at the right time, that don’t include girl. "
It’s the same vibe with the whole ‘Daddy’ thing. Proper weird and is a sure fire way to make my dick soft |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Being called a good girl is the fastest way to finding yourself thrusting into a dry hole. There’s something associated with little girl aesthetics in my mind around being called a good girl and that just puts me right off.
There are far more things I like being called, by the right person at the right time, that don’t include girl.
It’s the same vibe with the whole ‘Daddy’ thing. Proper weird and is a sure fire way to make my dick soft "
I don't associate being called a good girl with the whole daddy thing.
Said in the right moment just as a one off though, that can work. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Being called a good girl is the fastest way to finding yourself thrusting into a dry hole. There’s something associated with little girl aesthetics in my mind around being called a good girl and that just puts me right off.
There are far more things I like being called, by the right person at the right time, that don’t include girl.
It’s the same vibe with the whole ‘Daddy’ thing. Proper weird and is a sure fire way to make my dick soft "
I get loads of men assuming I’m into the Spanish version of this simply because I’m a Latina thanks to the influence of urban Latin as a subculture and genre.
This happened to me mid sex once. I never jumped off a dick so fast in my life.
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It’s such a shame that a lot of threads start with an explanation to their kinks for fear of kink shaming on a swingers site. You do you boo! 
I’m partial to being called a good girl now and again, it’s nice. But I prefer to be naughty and mischievous and get a good spanking.  |
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"It’s such a shame that a lot of threads start with an explanation to their kinks for fear of kink shaming on a swingers site. You do you boo!
I’m partial to being called a good girl now and again, it’s nice. But I prefer to be naughty and mischievous and get a good spanking. "
Some may call you a "brat"  |
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I keep writing and not posting bit on my way to pub so
Tie me up plug and spank me then call me good girl I'm in heaven. I'm obviously 50 with a tummy and boob's.
Do it in normal life. I'll punch them.
Can't believe we won |
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By *nnCeeWoman 34 weeks ago
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"I'd feel a bit cringey calling someone a good girl during sex. Feel like I should be patting their head and feeding them a biscuit afterwards "
What type of biscuit? Asking for a friend... |
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I personally love it when my husband says it to me during sex, but it needs to be used correctly. If I'm doing something particularly filthy and he's says it, yes please!. Or if he is being particularly rough with me and I'm taking it like a champ, call me a good girl and it sends me right over the edge!.(I love the rough stuff and face slapping). I think my vagina would shrivel up and fall off though if another man said it to me to be fair. (I don't tend to play with other men so not likely to happen mind you)
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Depends on the context. In between kisses with wandering hands/mouths then yes. It all adds to the build up.
Talking during sex throws my focus a little. I prefer to read their body language and the look in their eyes  |
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By *ags73Man 34 weeks ago
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"Being called a good girl is the fastest way to finding yourself thrusting into a dry hole. There’s something associated with little girl aesthetics in my mind around being called a good girl and that just puts me right off.
There are far more things I like being called, by the right person at the right time, that don’t include girl. "
I’d have to know if she had a thing for praise and even then I’d be a bit reluctant
Feel, eye contact and the motion of it is preferable to the verbal stuff |
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It's not a go to for me, but I've had a few partners who enjoy it in the moment. They are anything but diminutive outside of a sexual context though.
Most people have quirks when it comes to submissiveness I certainly do. |
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