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A world in which pregnancy and STIs weren't a risk from someone having bareback sex with you and finishing inside...
Would you want that all the time? Or are you more than happy with sex with condoms, doesn't affect much for you etc.
This is mainly for the women I guess because I'm gonna assume most men are like DUH. |
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In a perfect world the sense of a guy emptying his spam javelin deep inside my clunge bucket is just the best. The slow oozing of his baby batter out of my wet swollen lips. Yum.
Not a perfect world though. Sadly! But it just makes it even more magic when you get it. |
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"I'd still reserve it for someone I was massively into. Someone who I have a planned future with.
To me it's very personal and intimate. To much for a fwb or ONS situation."
Sticking it in and doing all the motions is fine and casual.
But actually spaffing up her chuff is somehow too intimate?
I don't quite get that line.
Not saying in any way you're wrong to have it. I just can't understand why it exists right there  |
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"I'd still reserve it for someone I was massively into. Someone who I have a planned future with.
To me it's very personal and intimate. To much for a fwb or ONS situation.
Sticking it in and doing all the motions is fine and casual.
But actually spaffing up her chuff is somehow too intimate?
I don't quite get that line.
Not saying in any way you're wrong to have it. I just can't understand why it exists right there "
I believe there are levels to intimacy. I probably view it too deeply, I guess.
Rather than, a simple act of finishing and not being bothered where or who I finish in.
*shrugs* |
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It's a bizarre thing to say, as sex itself is intimate.
But I'm with the people saying only with someone I have the feely feels for! Maybe it's more of a psychology thing for a woman, but it does feel different! |
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"It's a bizarre thing to say, as sex itself is intimate.
But I'm with the people saying only with someone I have the feely feels for! Maybe it's more of a psychology thing for a woman, but it does feel different! "
Maybe I'm a woman   |
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"It's a bizarre thing to say, as sex itself is intimate.
But I'm with the people saying only with someone I have the feely feels for! Maybe it's more of a psychology thing for a woman, but it does feel different! "
I think the issue for me is that I simply wouldn't fuck someone I wasn't happy to finish the job with (if there were no pregnancy or STI risks etc.)
I've got plenty of awesome tentacles if I want to fuck something I'm not actually wanting a real connection with.
However I will happily engage in oral with anyone I find attractive when I'm in a hedonism mood. So maybe I just draw the line earlier but in a no less odd place. |
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"It's a bizarre thing to say, as sex itself is intimate.
But I'm with the people saying only with someone I have the feely feels for! Maybe it's more of a psychology thing for a woman, but it does feel different!
I think the issue for me is that I simply wouldn't fuck someone I wasn't happy to finish the job with (if there were no pregnancy or STI risks etc.)
I've got plenty of awesome tentacles if I want to fuck something I'm not actually wanting a real connection with.
However I will happily engage in oral with anyone I find attractive when I'm in a hedonism mood. So maybe I just draw the line earlier but in a no less odd place."
The difference for me is the depth of connection - all are real connections, I wouldn't be on my knees without a connection, my cunt would be painfully dry without one... you get the idea.
I can enjoy sex with those I have a good friendship with, it's fun, it's hot, it's not a *big* thing.
But when it comes to someone coming deep inside of me, even more so now, I want it with a person who I'd have feelings for. For me it's about the intimate nature of the act, the importance I ascribe to it. I think I'd also like someone even more after they've come inside of me.
Maybe that's social conditioning playing a part in how I view it. It's a bit mushy and daft I know. |
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"It's a bizarre thing to say, as sex itself is intimate.
But I'm with the people saying only with someone I have the feely feels for! Maybe it's more of a psychology thing for a woman, but it does feel different! "
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When I tell partners that I've had a vasectomy it usually delights them, many want bareback to be exclusive to them though, for most that's stis for others it's a fluid-bonding thing.
So it would depend on my partner, what boundaries we establish between us and what is shared. I've had partners who are turned on by me 'finishing inside' another woman and others that would be upset at the idea.
In the simplest terms yes, it feels better and I have never been with a partner who hasn't said the same. |
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"In a perfect world the sense of a guy emptying his spam javelin deep inside my clunge bucket is just the best. The slow oozing of his baby batter out of my wet swollen lips. Yum.
Not a perfect world though. Sadly! But it just makes it even more magic when you get it."
Just spat my tea out reading this  |
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Let's remember, that reserving bareback sex for someone you are deeply intimate with/have feelings for, doesn't guarantee that you won't contract an sti. 30 years ago, while I was pregnant, my partner had unprotected sex with someone else who gave him an sti, who gave it to me, and ultimately risked the health of our unborn child. |
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"In a perfect world the sense of a guy emptying his spam javelin deep inside my clunge bucket is just the best. The slow oozing of his baby batter out of my wet swollen lips. Yum.
Not a perfect world though. Sadly! But it just makes it even more magic when you get it.
Just spat my tea out reading this "
It was a thing of rare beauty, wasn't it  . |
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