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Does anyone else get messages where the guy seems to have read the profile and sends a message that’s the opposite of what profile says I’m looking for I.e. I don’t like family role play so they send a message about that or is it just me ? |
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"Does anyone else get messages where the guy seems to have read the profile and sends a message that’s the opposite of what profile says I’m looking for I.e. I don’t like family role play so they send a message about that or is it just me ?"
Yup. It's clear on my profile that I'm not meeting yet the amount of messages saying "I've read your profile" clearly you haven't lol |
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By *issTightPantsWoman 2 days ago
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Mine is very straightforward and I get the chancers and the ones that ask what the forums are, I used to be polite and answer, then I'd get the 'I got you to message back' proceeded by where do you live? Is your name linda?
So now it's block block block |
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"Don’t even start on how many straight men wanna suck my cock or have it in their arseholes."
I get the same, the normal response when I say you know I'm straight right is either "you can close you're eyes you won't know the difference"
Or
"Well why don't you block single men then?" |
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By *illy IdolMan 2 days ago
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"Don’t even start on how many straight men wanna suck my cock or have it in their arseholes.
I get the same, the normal response when I say you know I'm straight right is either "you can close you're eyes you won't know the difference"
Or
"Well why don't you block single men then?" "
Both are good points |
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"Don’t even start on how many straight men wanna suck my cock or have it in their arseholes.
I get the same, the normal response when I say you know I'm straight right is either "you can close you're eyes you won't know the difference"
Or
"Well why don't you block single men then?" "
Why don't you?
It's like women that put status up saying don't message I'm not replying, put the filters on.
It's not hard. |
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"Don’t even start on how many straight men wanna suck my cock or have it in their arseholes.
I get the same, the normal response when I say you know I'm straight right is either "you can close you're eyes you won't know the difference"
Or
"Well why don't you block single men then?"
Why don't you?
It's like women that put status up saying don't message I'm not replying, put the filters on.
It's not hard."
Because I like seeing the yellow notification that I have a message, and nobody else sends them lol
I've had a few pretty decent conversations with blokes on here tbh |
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Yeah, I get a lot of men asking if I would love to dominate them (no), have sex with their gf (no) or if they have read my profile what SSBBW stands for (google it, I’m not doing your work for you).
I am such a grumpy old woman these days haha |
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By *illy IdolMan 2 days ago
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"Yeah, I get a lot of men asking if I would love to dominate them (no), have sex with their gf (no) or if they have read my profile what SSBBW stands for (google it, I’m not doing your work for you).
I am such a grumpy old woman these days haha "
What does it stand for out of interest? |
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Mine says I’m straight but apparently getting sucked off by a man is something heterosexual guys do according to gay and bi men.
Do women offer guys blow jobs on here?
It would be a great first message!! lol |
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It pisses me off the amount of messages from women that say:
"Fancy joining me and my super hot female mate in a hot tub"
"Would you like a massage?"
"Me and my fellow 3 female air hostess mates are stuck for the night near you and have a hotel. Would you like to join us?"
I'm not a fan of hot tubs, don't like massages and can't be bothered to travel a few miles.
Some people are pretty inconsiderate. |
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By *ythenMan 2 days ago
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"It pisses me off the amount of messages from women that say:
"Fancy joining me and my super hot female mate in a hot tub"
"Would you like a massage?"
"Me and my fellow 3 female air hostess mates are stuck for the night near you and have a hotel. Would you like to join us?"
I'm not a fan of hot tubs, don't like massages and can't be bothered to travel a few miles.
Some people are pretty inconsiderate."
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"Does anyone else get messages where the guy seems to have read the profile and sends a message that’s the opposite of what profile says I’m looking for I.e. I don’t like family role play so they send a message about that or is it just me ?"
Yes
I've had this week
Had a wink and message from a straight bloke looking for women 18-35
I asked if the wink and messages were a mistake
Apparently not
I responded and a quick exchange of messages followed one of which said 'I can never accom, ever'
Profile distintcly writes 'I can accom at mine'
I mean, it's not a problem in itself because I can accom, but the inconsistencies were enough for me to end the exchange |
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"The crazy world of fab - do you delete or block ?"
Usually delete. Its a waste of their time messaging and its a waste of my time reading or replying. Its a silly cycle tbh. I suppose ppl get fed up of not getting replies so just say anything in the hopes you’ll respond to correct them. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 2 days ago
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"Does anyone else get messages where the guy seems to have read the profile and sends a message that’s the opposite of what profile says I’m looking for I.e. I don’t like family role play so they send a message about that or is it just me ?"
It's not just men.
I've had messages this week asking to meet and accomodate. I'm currently 1300 miles away from the UK.
I get messages from people that state 'straight guys only'.
I get messages along the lines of 'tonight?' or 'meet now?' from couples.
I get messages from people where I don't appear to match any of their stated age or gender preferences.
It's not just men that don't appear to read a profile.  |
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"Does anyone else get messages where the guy seems to have read the profile and sends a message that’s the opposite of what profile says I’m looking for I.e. I don’t like family role play so they send a message about that or is it just me ?
It's not just men.
I've had messages this week asking to meet and accomodate. I'm currently 1300 miles away from the UK.
I get messages from people that state 'straight guys only'.
I get messages along the lines of 'tonight?' or 'meet now?' from couples.
I get messages from people where I don't appear to match any of their stated age or gender preferences.
It's not just men that don't appear to read a profile. "
Free tonight? |
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"We are not cuckold but guess how many offers we get from self proclaimed “bulls”
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We get the same,it clearly states in our profile that we are not a cuckold couple or have any interest in so called bulls.
So we just delete.
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By *bi HaiveMan 2 days ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Does anyone else get messages where the guy seems to have read the profile and sends a message that’s the opposite of what profile says I’m looking for I.e. I don’t like family role play so they send a message about that or is it just me ?
It's not just men.
I've had messages this week asking to meet and accomodate. I'm currently 1300 miles away from the UK.
I get messages from people that state 'straight guys only'.
I get messages along the lines of 'tonight?' or 'meet now?' from couples.
I get messages from people where I don't appear to match any of their stated age or gender preferences.
It's not just men that don't appear to read a profile.
Free tonight?"
Grab yourself a cheap flight. There's a sofa in the room. And endless free rum.......   |
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"Does anyone else get messages where the guy seems to have read the profile and sends a message that’s the opposite of what profile says I’m looking for I.e. I don’t like family role play so they send a message about that or is it just me ?
It's not just men.
I've had messages this week asking to meet and accomodate. I'm currently 1300 miles away from the UK.
I get messages from people that state 'straight guys only'.
I get messages along the lines of 'tonight?' or 'meet now?' from couples.
I get messages from people where I don't appear to match any of their stated age or gender preferences.
It's not just men that don't appear to read a profile.
Free tonight?"
You should take them up on their offer, it would be the most expensive night of their lives….as it would cost them their life  |
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"Yeah, I get a lot of men asking if I would love to dominate them (no), have sex with their gf (no) or if they have read my profile what SSBBW stands for (google it, I’m not doing your work for you).
I am such a grumpy old woman these days haha
What does it stand for out of interest?"
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"Not sure why it winds people up so much - just delete if you don’t like it.
Most people on here don’t reply even if you do read their profile - it’s how it is. "
It's a volume thing I think, we've only had one bent out of shape message to date and after about 5 words I deleted it without bothering with the rest. If you got hundreds a day I'm sure it would be tedious. |
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Yes we get loads that say they have read profile and clearly haven't most either have full on bushy beards or moustaches or they want to fistung or do anal I think they think just cause we're a fat couple that will take anything we can which definitely is not the case |
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Yep I get this regularly.
I've read your profile, but still asked to meet now or sent cock pics or offered a massage...
A man the other day said he'd read it and was OK that I wasn't meeting, but called me babe and sent cock pics!.
In most cases when they say they've read it, they haven't. |
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"I’m sure that my profile doesn’t say I’m into men. The amount of messages I get offering me a quick blow or meet now in my glory hole etc"
. You can block men from messaging you, using your filters.
I did the same with couples as they messaged me, despite me saying I'm not interested in them on this profile. |
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"I think a lot of men don't care if we like it or not because talking about it turns them on. It's an instablock from me. "
Exactly this! A lot of people on the site just want to talk and fantasise. They want interactive porn and aren't looking to convert that into meets, so all they're interested in is the pics on a profile. This is why I like going to clubs - everyone has made the effort to turn up! |
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By *illy IdolMan 2 days ago
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"I think a lot of men don't care if we like it or not because talking about it turns them on. It's an instablock from me.
Exactly this! A lot of people on the site just want to talk and fantasise. They want interactive porn and aren't looking to convert that into meets, so all they're interested in is the pics on a profile. This is why I like going to clubs - everyone has made the effort to turn up! "
You like going to clubs because you're a kinky pervert.
Come on, just be honest |
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"I think a lot of men don't care if we like it or not because talking about it turns them on. It's an instablock from me.
Exactly this! A lot of people on the site just want to talk and fantasise. They want interactive porn and aren't looking to convert that into meets, so all they're interested in is the pics on a profile. This is why I like going to clubs - everyone has made the effort to turn up!
You like going to clubs because you're a kinky pervert.
Come on, just be honest "
Yes but the people there have turned up to allow me to be a kinky pervert, so... |
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By *illy IdolMan 2 days ago
~Rear of the Year winner 2024~ |
"I think a lot of men don't care if we like it or not because talking about it turns them on. It's an instablock from me.
Exactly this! A lot of people on the site just want to talk and fantasise. They want interactive porn and aren't looking to convert that into meets, so all they're interested in is the pics on a profile. This is why I like going to clubs - everyone has made the effort to turn up!
You like going to clubs because you're a kinky pervert.
Come on, just be honest
Yes but the people there have turned up to allow me to be a kinky pervert, so..."
So...join me?... |
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"I think a lot of men don't care if we like it or not because talking about it turns them on. It's an instablock from me.
Exactly this! A lot of people on the site just want to talk and fantasise. They want interactive porn and aren't looking to convert that into meets, so all they're interested in is the pics on a profile. This is why I like going to clubs - everyone has made the effort to turn up!
You like going to clubs because you're a kinky pervert.
Come on, just be honest
Yes but the people there have turned up to allow me to be a kinky pervert, so...
So...join me?..."
Only if there's a hot tub! |
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I used to have a whole paragraph (1st Paragraph) saying why I didn’t want to meet straight guys. Even added that I’m not ‘your experiment with your sexuality’ that I’d had a bad experience with a guy once as a reason and Bi Guys are far superior.
Didn’t stop the messages though, so just deleted it and left what’s there at the moment. |
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"It pisses me off the amount of messages from women that say:
"Fancy joining me and my super hot female mate in a hot tub"
"Would you like a massage?"
"Me and my fellow 3 female air hostess mates are stuck for the night near you and have a hotel. Would you like to join us?"
I'm not a fan of hot tubs, don't like massages and can't be bothered to travel a few miles.
Some people are pretty inconsiderate."
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People think "I've read your profile" means they get a gold star. And that they get the gold star from the claim. They might not have read it.
Alternatively, "if you don't ask you don't get" is common around here. "I know you say Scotland only. I live in Brighton but I just had to take a chance because (bullshit flattery)" |
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By *illy IdolMan 2 days ago
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"I think a lot of men don't care if we like it or not because talking about it turns them on. It's an instablock from me.
Exactly this! A lot of people on the site just want to talk and fantasise. They want interactive porn and aren't looking to convert that into meets, so all they're interested in is the pics on a profile. This is why I like going to clubs - everyone has made the effort to turn up!
You like going to clubs because you're a kinky pervert.
Come on, just be honest
Yes but the people there have turned up to allow me to be a kinky pervert, so...
So...join me?...
Only if there's a hot tub!"
I can't swim so I may need to use you as a life jacket |
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