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By (user no longer on site) OP 15 weeks ago
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How did you get over the ‘one who got away’? The love (or at least lust) of your life?
Does that severed connection sustain suffering every time you think of them/ what might have been?
Any tips for the lovesick/delusional? |
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Lass that I met on here. My partner at the time wasn't very sexually active and I had her permission to swing as long as no drama came home.
Met a couple and formed a good friendship with them both but he went off the rails and they ended up splitting.
Around this time things were getting better with my partner and we gave it a proper go again.
Six months later the swinging lass had found a new bloke and is happily married (and no longer swinging).
Me and my partner split not long after and yeah I always wonder if I should have taken the chance. |
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"How did you get over the ‘one who got away’? The love (or at least lust) of your life?
Does that severed connection sustain suffering every time you think of them/ what might have been?
Any tips for the lovesick/delusional? "
Mate you and me are in the same boat when you get some form of an answer let me know because it makes it so hard to like let alone love anyone else |
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I made the decision that it was over and I was getting them out of my life and mind, come what may. It was very tough but I soldiered on, feeling the sorrow, the losses etc And I gave myself the energy and drive to challenge myself, with new life goals and achievements. Tough graft and a lot of fun, plus the satisfaction of achievements. I turned to helping others |
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I don't care enough about anyone that I meet on here to have that sort of feeling for
There are people I would like to meet again who just disappear, but I certainly don't lie in bed at night thinking 'what could have been' |
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I’ve never really had that. All my relationships have ended for very good reasons and although a bit of a bummer at the time, you do move on.
You live you learn, you love you learn. All part of life’s schooling. |
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More than one that got away. All of them have I guess as I'm painfully single. I just try to feel grateful for the time I had with them and to have be fortunate enough to have loved and been loved. Better that then never to have experienced it at all. Time is a healer. |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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"I shagged a german man for three days solid.
Couldn’t even remember my name let alone my ex’s name after that  "
I claim German ancestory (if you are ever in the same situation)  |
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