Most of them I'm friendly with, and have zero thoughts of in particular.
I'm also usually dead to the world when out and about with headphones and focus on where I'm going, so I often don't clock people. |
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By *lakeyMan 20 weeks ago
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A Ex works around the corner from were I live but not ever bumped into her she is a bit of a fruitcake only in recent years she sent me a message (not been together for 20+yrs) so we had a bit of banter next minute she’s going all mental asking if I want to fuck her or not or have I thought about fucking her I ended the conversation then. |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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I'm on decent terms so doesn't really put me up nor down. I normally end up thinking...yes his face is still tripping him and it reminds me I did the right thing by leaving |
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A real genuine missed opportunity for the both of us!
And that makes me feel really sad.
I’ve only seen her once out and about since, and am unlikely to see her out and about again as she’s originally from Pwllheli, was living just outside Aberystwyth when we met in early 2019, and she moved to Shrewsbury sometime after we stopped seeing each other. Where she is now, who knows, but she’ll forever be in my heart.
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"Id seriously shite myself - she’s dead!!  "
No .. she’s not - she’s not with me so i guess she feels dead inside.. empty.. loveless…
Ok she’s fine and we still chat xx we’re great mates but awful partners  |
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On good terms with Ex - I’d think she’s looking good, appears happy, I’d remember the good times we had and that we did a pretty good job bringing up our children. No sexual desire for her at all though and I’d still think that the divorce was the right thing to do |
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"Do you think thoughts when you do, what are they? Please no violence "
Utter disgust and repulsion (Tony). She was an abusive narcissistic psychopath who damaged our children and tried to poison everyone around us, sickeningly handed everything on a plate by the highly gender biased and utterly corrupt 'family' courts.... Cherry ?, the complete opposite  . If only we'd met much sooner than we did. |
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I see my ex a couple of times a year now as obviously we have kids.
I honestly look at him and think "how was I married to him for so long and I can't believe we ever had sex". I never look at him and think he is a handsome man anymore and usually I can't believe a word that comes out of his mouth. |
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By *alcon77Man 20 weeks ago
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Most I'm quite civil with.
One I'm still friends with.
Another one I occasionally see pop up on youtube giving Ted talks. She seems to be getting very successful in her academic field..and I think good for her..and it gives me positive vibes.
There's only one i can think of that I would avoid. That whole relationship was short and volatile. I still don't wish any ill on that person though. |
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I regularly think about many of mine. I’m terminally single despite my best efforts and sometimes I daydream about past relationships.
I know I shouldn’t, but I begin to think “Was it really so bad? Maybe not, perhaps I should contact her.” I don’t, because I always remember the reasons we separated and I tend to think with my head and not my heart. Which is probably why I’m terminally single! 🤦♂️😆
I tend not to see exes out and about. I believe I would walk away from most of them and avoid confrontation or them making me feel bad about myself. |
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